Amen to that!

That's not what I meant though, I didn't agree with the same thing your wrote. I am talking about hot people who are SO insecure that they can't even socialize or talk to ANYBODY, hot people who are SO unsociable they NEVER go clubbing or out... It's hard to believe... but there are hot people who are EXTREMELY unsociable and just like to hide out at home because they have issues. What I mean is that THOSE hot people will NEVER cheat. Even though they are hot, they won't cheat because they are so weird they can't talk to members of the opposite sex in order to meet them in the first place.

It's hard to meet hot people like this though, you usually have to meet them through a friend or their relative. Because they are so hot, if you saw them you would never imagine they could be so anti-social.. but they are out there...

There are a lot of hot people who won't cheat because they are so weirded out that they can't even talk to and meet new people. But there are a lot of ugly people who cheat because they have good attitudes and are sociable.

I was just fucking around. I was laughing because his summation was almost identical to mine. :1orglaugh

I think if u r really hot and have an ugly mate they will cheat on u because they cant believe someone wants them and they r insecure, if they r hot they might cheat only if they r insecure but Id say less likely because its no big to deal to get someone. So date someone hot an ugly person will cheat will cheat just as fast if not faster...

Sorry, didn't mean to bring back any painful memories.

This thread is confusing... insecurity means they're more likely to cheat but also less likely because they're shy.

I hate having to figure this stuff out.

LOL. Funny Stu... I think it all boils down to self esteem and and integrity (which is formed by life experiences)

A person with low self esteem will enjoy it when someone compliements, pays attention to them, etc. and will enjoy the extra attentiveness if they feel they're not getting that from their husband/wife.

A hot person might be jaded from ppl trying to hit on them cuz they're "hot."

Integrity is a result of all the crap you've experienced since you can remember.

So the answer is " no one really knows"

my :2 cents:

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

um..........i dont know

absolutely. obviously different people will be different but if u put everyone together hot people get more advances on them and more will simply buckle and go for it.

thats a tough one. i'm gonna have to say absofuckinglutely

50 cheaters :)

doesnt matter if they are hot or not, you gotta get the ones with low self esteem..they'll be by your side for life like a stray dog to its owner :glugglug

no hard feelings bro......just makes me mad that people stoop so low as to what i mentioned before

sort of a shame......but this seems to be true in some cases

Are you asking this because you'd feel insecure if you were dating a hot person?? and you want justification that it'd be not worth your time because you'd just be worried that they'd cheat on you??
That would be your own insecurities.

So then to date someone based on physical attributes is total discrimination!!

Heh, did you see my other thread? insecurity is my middle name, which is why I don't see myself dating any person.. hot or not.

It's just a hypothetical question.

I think the officer in Night Patrol put it best "if you're going to get married, marry a fat ugly cow... because there's no way in the world she'd ever screw around on you... and if she does, who the hell cares?"

I'd have to say it truly has nothing to do with looks. 95% of affairs start way before the sex happens. When your spouse/gf/bf is confiding in another person instead of you, that's cheating because they are building a rapport that shouldn't be in the equation. So that's where the problem starts. Looks may play into it, but aren't the deciding factor. I've seen the hottest women with so-so husbands finding out that their man has cheated on them or hot men being cheated on by their 'so-so' wives. If we are talking about one night stands, I think your looks have nothing to do with it - it all matters on the signals you give - if you are dedicated to your significant other, people may be very attracted to you but will stay away cuz you're not giving them the 'hit on me' signal. If you're giving the 'Available' signal even the ugliest woman will still walk out with a man from a club at night. A man will go for whatever seems easy (although he looks out for the bestlooking one) a woman will go for the guy that flashes the most.

That's my 2cents