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strongdong · 03-05-2004, 04:01 AM

has abused drugs, spent 5 months in rehab and keeps referring to herself as 'an addict' .

jasonir · 03-05-2004, 04:01 AM

strongdong · 03-05-2004, 04:03 AM

it's my ex wife, thinking of dating her again....she abused coke for a while, fucked herself up good.

broke · 03-05-2004, 04:06 AM

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Originally posted by strongdong
it's my ex wife, thinking of dating her again....she abused coke for a while, fucked herself up good.

I wouldn't touch her with a 10' pole.

strongdong · 03-05-2004, 04:07 AM

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Originally posted by broke

I wouldn't touch her with a 10' pole.

why not?

Diabolical Cord · 03-05-2004, 04:17 AM

No one here is going to know if it's right for you or not.

broke · 03-05-2004, 04:19 AM

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Originally posted by strongdong

why not?

Are you really asking me why I would not date my drug addicted <b>ex-wife</b>?

strongdong · 03-05-2004, 04:21 AM

once an addict always an addict or what?

broke · 03-05-2004, 04:26 AM

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Originally posted by strongdong
once an addict always an addict or what?

It appears you want to date her and are looking for validation... so here you go:

Go ahead -- date her and have fun!

Hopefully she's cleaned up and that was the only reason for the divorce, but I suspect it wasn't. If that is the case and you want to make a run at it go ahead.

I personally wouldn't consider dating an ex-wife, so the addict part is just the icing on the cake.

SomeCreep · 03-05-2004, 04:28 AM

only for sex

xxxoutsourcing · 03-05-2004, 04:29 AM

hova · 03-05-2004, 04:35 AM

dont think so, or she has to be really hot and do anal

macker · 03-05-2004, 04:43 AM

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Originally posted by strongdong
has abused drugs, spent 5 months in rehab and keeps referring to herself as 'an addict' .

Once you've been hooked on hard substances, you will always remain a potential addict for the rest of your life.

If she is serious about quitting and making the changes in her life, this maybe the ideal opportunity to restart a relationship that would probably exceed the positives that the first one offered.

Being with somebody who is self developing and reinventing can be pretty exciting stuff

Illicit · 03-05-2004, 05:50 AM

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Originally posted by strongdong
has abused drugs, spent 5 months in rehab and keeps referring to herself as 'an addict' .

no thanks

Nicky · 03-05-2004, 06:00 AM

depends, do you like her? is she off the drugs? can she keep of them for real? also does she give you great sex?, if yes then go along and see what happens

TiGrrPrr · 03-05-2004, 06:01 AM

Strongdong, how long have you and your ex been apart?

Paul Markham · 03-05-2004, 06:09 AM

IF YOU HAVE TO ASK THIS QUESTION HERE YOU REALLY SHOULD NOT BE DATING ANYONE.

=^..^= · 03-05-2004, 06:11 AM

Anyone who has spent 5 months in rehab and still rfers to themselves as an addict is subliminaly telling themselves that they haven't changed at all.

It s probably only subcoincious and im sure she doesnt realise it - but at the end of the day she is giving herself a green light to go straight back to drugs.

Psych 101.

I wouldn't do it if I were you - but I'm not . so it's your choice,
but thats what I think.

sexsup · 03-05-2004, 06:23 AM

She will create problems if she keeps referring to herself as 'an addict'

TiGrrPrr · 03-05-2004, 06:28 AM

If you met her today as if it were the first time, (exclude past history) is she somone you would want to date?
Would you date a person with the same past as your ex?

Love screws with everything.
Everyone has their limits, keep true to what yours are.
Are you going to be happy to be with her, or feel better without having her in your life?

Eventually you will talk your self into doing what you want which is always the best course, cause at least then you will know who to blame or thank for the decision ;). My only advice would be to go to where she had rehab, and see what they say you are in for...

TiGrrPrr · 03-05-2004, 06:35 AM

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Originally posted by =^..^=
Anyone who has spent 5 months in rehab and still rfers to themselves as an addict is subliminaly telling themselves that they haven't changed at all.
It s probably only subcoincious and im sure she doesnt realise it - but at the end of the day she is giving herself a green light to go straight back to drugs.
Psych 101.
I wouldn't do it if I were you - but I'm not . so it's your choice,
but thats what I think.

Subliminally telling? It's blantantly saying what they are. I'm sure youve heard this somewhere before in some movie-"Hi i'm John and I'm and alcoholic" Admitting the prob is the way to accepting themselves, then choosing to act otherwise.

P.S. For anyone that might fall off the wagon, please don't flush or pour anything down the drain, i will provide you with an address to send it to :wink (GFY is not good for personal advice)

born4porn · 03-05-2004, 06:48 AM

it would depend on the girl and you never know until you start that journey!

maxdaname · 03-05-2004, 06:50 AM

NO!
"Drugs are Bad Mmmkay!"
"Smokers are Jokers"
"Users Are Losers!"

robin r · 03-05-2004, 06:52 AM

Depends on the girl - at least she sounds like she's trying to deal with it...

Up to you mate, might be high maintenance in the future...

Monique Niccole · 03-05-2004, 07:01 AM

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Originally posted by =^..^=
Anyone who has spent 5 months in rehab and still rfers to themselves as an addict is subliminaly telling themselves that they haven't changed at all.

According to most 12 step programs, you're always an 'addict' or an 'alcoholic' or whatever. The person going through the program will always refer to themselves as such as a reminder of their problem so that they don't slip back into it.

Slinx · 03-05-2004, 07:05 AM

I would never meet such a girl.
She would only makes trouble.

Kicker · 03-05-2004, 07:14 AM

No way

TweetyBird · 03-05-2004, 07:14 AM

don't think so...

init · 03-05-2004, 07:27 AM

i wouldn't, personally i don't date people who do drugs

Pornopat · 03-05-2004, 07:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by strongdong
has abused drugs, spent 5 months in rehab and keeps referring to herself as 'an addict' .

Depends on the sort of realtionship you want.
If you an addict yourself...go for it....

Hard to tell not knowing anything about you....

VeriSexy · 03-05-2004, 08:12 AM

Hell no.... He will most likely steal from you to feed her addiction

Joesho · 03-05-2004, 08:14 AM

I agree with a big HELL NO get the fuck out of there as fast as you can man.....

eiht_98 · 03-05-2004, 09:19 AM

It's your choice man. I wouldn't.

aflex · 03-05-2004, 09:20 AM

hide your good china and cash cuz she'll get an urge one day and need some loot.

uvort · 03-05-2004, 09:22 AM

heeeeelll no

Adultnet · 03-05-2004, 10:01 AM

your choice but i would not date /

VicMartin · 03-05-2004, 11:53 AM

Yeah right... imagine that!

Sosa · 03-05-2004, 11:54 AM

nope, wouldn't touch it

strongdong · 03-05-2004, 12:42 PM

The only 'addiction' i have is to work (webmastering is

) ....I do not consider myself an addict and can't really understand how someone can become one. I don't really know what to think....the only thing that comes to mind right now is the first time I saw her after her 5 month rehad and she told me ' i am an addict ' it made me uneasy. Oh, and she was and still is looking hot...

Steve · 03-05-2004, 12:43 PM

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Originally posted by strongdong
has abused drugs, spent 5 months in rehab and keeps referring to herself as 'an addict' .

no

KMR Stitch · 03-05-2004, 12:44 PM

No, well is she hott? like SUPER hott?

if drugs are used then end if
if girl is super hott then end with orgasim endif

Juke · 03-05-2004, 12:46 PM

What kind of drugs? Heroine or marihuana?

loverboy · 03-05-2004, 12:49 PM

not even a thought

strongdong · 03-05-2004, 12:51 PM

cocaine, and crack cocaine

WicKed NinJas · 03-05-2004, 12:53 PM

would really depend on if she had turned her life around or not...or if she would share....lolol

Brat · 03-05-2004, 12:59 PM

think of why you're not with her in the first place

if it's because of the drugs and you are positive she's clean. go for it.

if you're not sure. dont.

Lykos · 03-05-2004, 03:22 PM

Never

Ic3m4nZ · 03-05-2004, 03:23 PM

i'd give drugs to her and rape her after only so she couldn't remember..

Ironhorse · 03-05-2004, 03:25 PM

Everyone deserves a second chance

angeleyes · 03-05-2004, 03:26 PM

Addicts can clean up their acts and live productive lives. It sounds like you still care for her. (You married her for a reason). I don't see the harm in dating. There is still a bond there and I'm assuming you already have the friendship part down (?)

Everyone deserves a second chance.

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strongdong Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 191	it's my ex wife, thinking of dating her again....she abused coke for a while, fucked herself up good.

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TiGrrPrr Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Penix Posts: 562	If you met her today as if it were the first time, (exclude past history) is she somone you would want to date? Would you date a person with the same past as your ex? Love screws with everything. Everyone has their limits, keep true to what yours are. Are you going to be happy to be with her, or feel better without having her in your life? Eventually you will talk your self into doing what you want which is always the best course, cause at least then you will know who to blame or thank for the decision ;). My only advice would be to go to where she had rehab, and see what they say you are in for...

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