The best age for having kids ?

**IPK** · 03-01-2004, 11:34 AM

the best age? how about never, those things will suck you dry!

**69pornlinks** · 03-01-2004, 11:34 AM

to be honest..DON'T i mean that in the best possible way

**esluts** · 03-01-2004, 11:35 AM

Not sure about the rest of you, But I wouldnt mind having one when I'm 25 or 26. I'm almost 21 now.

**UK1** · 03-01-2004, 11:36 AM

25 is a perfect age i would say to start a family.

**polish_aristocrat** · 03-01-2004, 11:37 AM

this thread was inspired by Tofu who said he's not getting kids until he's 50 and life's over

**VeriSexy** · 03-01-2004, 11:37 AM

Better to have kids when your still young. Less of a age gap and you can keep up with them easier

**polish_aristocrat** · 03-01-2004, 11:37 AM

Originally posted by UK1
25 is a perfect age i would say to start a family.

to marry or to get the 1st kid - it's a difference

**adamneve** · 03-01-2004, 11:39 AM

there is no such thing like best, when ever you are ready then do it

**LOK** · 03-01-2004, 11:40 AM

Not sure about best age for kids. Don't waste your time. Doing kids =P

**Doctor Dre** · 03-01-2004, 11:44 AM

Depends how much money you make and how you can take your responsabilities .

You have to be over the party period
You have to have enough money and stability

I'd say 22-23 if you have been thru enough experiences

**polish_aristocrat** · 03-01-2004, 11:46 AM

Originally posted by Doctor Dre

You have to be over the party period

I'd say 22-23 if you have been thru enough experiences

I thought true partying start in the US from 21

**cool1** · 03-01-2004, 11:47 AM

I had my first kid at 24 and my last at 44

first one was way to early and the last one was way to late.

**zentz** · 03-01-2004, 11:51 AM

middle 30th

**detoxed** · 03-01-2004, 11:51 AM

Originally posted by polish_aristocrat

I thought true partying start in the US from 21

Started at 15 for me

**scoreman** · 03-01-2004, 11:54 AM

Raising kids is for young people. Having had two kids when I was 34 and 37 I can honestly say if I could do it over again I would have had kids at 27 or 28.

**mardigras** · 03-01-2004, 11:54 AM

100. If I reach it, I'm havin' em!

**NinjaSteve** · 03-01-2004, 11:55 AM

My vote goes for age 28-30

**polish_aristocrat** · 03-01-2004, 11:56 AM

Originally posted by mardigras
100. If I reach it, I'm havin' em!

come to daddy

**stephanie m.** · 03-01-2004, 11:57 AM

I'm 23. I think the best age for me will be 29. But, I'm not having any until I have a nice car and house paid for. And plenty of money in the bank. And a husband that I've been married to for a few years.

**Kicker** · 03-01-2004, 11:59 AM

30

**samlowry** · 03-01-2004, 12:00 PM

I think 29-32

**zzgundamnzz** · 03-01-2004, 12:01 PM

18, when there 18 your only 36. When they finish college you can retire at 40 worry free...

No but seriously its the earliest time you can afford it.

**strats** · 03-01-2004, 12:04 PM

best age for kids?

ide say when shes 14 and hes 15. but nooo, not this fucked up country,.. they have to at least eat a lifetime worth of shit food and lead a crappy lifestyle to ruin their genes before they shit out a fetus.

**Jer** · 03-01-2004, 12:07 PM

I'm 22, married 8 months ago and I don't know when we'll have kids. Having enought money saved and stability is the 1st thing I think about. We need to have fun together yet.

**punker barbie** · 03-01-2004, 12:11 PM

the best time to have kids is NEVER.

**kenny** · 03-01-2004, 12:13 PM

When you are mature/responsible enough. To many kids having kids these days

**axelcat** · 03-01-2004, 12:14 PM

about 30 to 35

**keha** · 03-01-2004, 01:12 PM

16 - funny
50 - stupidity

**Ic3m4nZ** · 03-01-2004, 01:14 PM

30 is the perfect age I'd say ..

**nathan_f** · 03-01-2004, 01:17 PM

Originally posted by punker barbie
the best time to have kids is NEVER.

I agree, however the wife doesnt.

I cant see us adopting in our late 30's early 40's. There's no point ruining the wifes body.

Plus...we can help someone already in this fucked up world, who otherwise might not get a good upbringing.

**RedShoe** · 03-01-2004, 01:36 PM

Age has nothing to do with it. It should be based on maturity level.

**slackologist** · 03-01-2004, 01:40 PM

25-35. My first was born when i was 28 :-)

**slackologist** · 03-01-2004, 01:40 PM

Originally posted by RedShoe
Age has nothing to do with it. It should be based on maturity level.

i agree on a mental level.. but not physical, it can be much harder for older people to bring a child into the world and once there, the energy required to raise a child may be beyond the parents capability.

**phogirl69** · 03-01-2004, 01:43 PM

Prolly 30 . As for me I don't want to have kids. Just thinking about childbirth scares me. Waaaay to much pain to endure even with epidural, and if you're unlucky you might STILL have to give birth
naturally in the 21st century with all its medical advances , like my roommate did.

That would scare me enough to not EVER have children EVER. She bled for almost a MONTH after childbirth, and sometimes the doctors have to cut open your vagina for you to give birth and sew it back up, I think they cut hers open. I would not want to endure that for anyone.

**Penrod** · 03-01-2004, 01:47 PM

I am 32 and had my first last Monday. I think 32 is the perfect age.

**slackologist** · 03-01-2004, 01:49 PM

Originally posted by phogirl69
Prolly 30 . As for me I don't want to have kids. Just thinking about childbirth scares me. Waaaay to much pain to endure even with epidural, and if you're unlucky you might STILL have to give birth
naturally in the 21st century with all its medical advances , like my roommate did.

That would scare me enough to not EVER have children EVER. She bled for almost a MONTH after childbirth, and sometimes the doctors have to cut open your vagina for you to give birth and sew it back up, I think they cut hers open. I would not want to endure that for anyone.

yeah, women sure have the raw end of the deal in this life.. but i'm damn glad my mother went through it all to bring me into the world.. despite the pain involved.. it's a truly selfless act.

**uvort** · 03-01-2004, 01:49 PM

Originally posted by IPK
the best age? how about never, those things will suck you dry!

**Doc911** · 03-01-2004, 01:53 PM

The best age for having kids is 18

they should be born 18 years old so you can kick their ass out of the house the next day!

D.I.N.K for Life~

**slackologist** · 03-01-2004, 01:53 PM

Originally posted by Penrod
I am 32 and had my first last Monday. I think 32 is the perfect age.

congrats!

**slackologist** · 03-01-2004, 01:55 PM

Originally posted by Doc911
The best age for having kids is 18

they should be born 18 years old so you can kick their ass out of the house the next day!

D.I.N.K for Life~

hahahah.. in a perfect world..

**polish_aristocrat** · 03-01-2004, 01:56 PM

Originally posted by Penrod
I am 32 and had my first last Monday. I think 32 is the perfect age.

congratulations

pics.. ?

**wanderingbear** · 03-01-2004, 01:58 PM

i am a firm believer in living your life to the fullest... anything younger then 30 to me just doesnt sound right... your life should be about you as well.. that is just how i feel

**Living For Today** · 03-01-2004, 01:59 PM

30 sounds like the magical number to me.

**sperbonzo** · 03-01-2004, 02:01 PM

For guys.....40
for women.....28 to 30

Earlier and you miss out on too much fun....plus you really haven't learned/earned/traveled/done enough.

(and this is from someone who was traveling and doing lots of different things from age 10 onwards.)

Getting married and having kids prior to 27 or 28 years old is just crazy. You will go through SO MANY changes up to about 30 years old.....you'll hardly recognize yourself.

**xl11** · 03-01-2004, 02:05 PM

The bronze age was the best

**C-Bass** · 03-01-2004, 02:05 PM

Whenever you mature enough not to ask people on GFY when to have em

**BRISK** · 03-01-2004, 02:10 PM

Somewhere between 28-40 years old

**Rorschach** · 03-01-2004, 02:10 PM

Originally posted by punker barbie
the best time to have kids is NEVER.

I definitely agree... I can't imagine anything worse. I don't think that bodes well for my future relationship prospects though.

**phpslave** · 03-01-2004, 02:18 PM

No such thing as the best age or the right time. I have 2 kids, just glad I had em before I was old, like 30 or something eww, I don't think I could make it then.

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