50 thai girls :)

I'l probably miss it ... fucking 45 second rule

i kinda agree. it sounds like she is sick of your ass.

I was thinking the same thing.. of course shes got another guy... hoping if your fucking your present.. that will give her time to be with her man.. or tape you and use it for evidence at the divorce trial to prove you cheated.

shes probably testing to see how faithful your being.

Maybe women should control their jealousy and nesting? A man can fuck a hundred girls and still feel love and connection to one woman.

I know i was never happier with my gf , and ironically she was never happier in our relationship than when i was getting some on the side. It kept us both sane. Then she found out and i had to swear it off, things went downhill after that. things got uhm, ... tense?

- Seth

I know what you mean :winkwink:

Um.... ok.... Well in that case you should find someone who condones you getting "some on the side". If you find someone who agrees to that, then more power to you. But if they aren't, well I guess you have different perspectives and aren't compatible then.

So just answer this, if your girlfriend wanted to get some on the side would you let her as well? Perhaps the other men would be able to satisfy her more than you can and that would enhance your relationship even MORE. Does that sound good to you? I'm not being sarcastic, I really would like to know how you feel about this.

its complicated, if i thought she worked the same as i did -- then no i wouldnt have a problem with it.. but in my situation, she is a woman (such are most) that associates sex with love and emotions, so if SHE were to go out and fuck other guys, that would be a sign of something deeper wrong in the relationship that shes lashing out over.. where as *I* dont have those same sexual connotations. *I* can go fuck a girl and be home for dinner and not feel any different towards her. Its almost like its just mastubation with someone else there with me. Even if its a female friend or someone i like and respect, we can fool around and it doesnt affect the love i have for my "main squeeze" if that makes sense.

i honestly dont think my gf is capable of the same seperation.

Also, on a chauvanistic stereotype, women are inherently weak and vulnerable. I would be worried about guys taking advantage in some way. unless she was fucking people she was well aquainted with shes putting herself at risk for things like daterape or worse. And as well i know how psycho female flings can be for me, I would still worry about her.

the main conflict was that me being with other girls, even in the most superficial of senses, hurt her. thats the only reason i stopped. i dont want to hurt people i love.

so i guess to condense a clear answer, if my gf was fucking other guys, i'd talk to her about it and see why she was doing it. if she was doing it to get off and was being safe about it, more power to her... if shes doing it to get the attention she feels shes lacking from me, then we have to work on that. its all about motives.

- Seth

If the thia girl is cooking, cleaning, servicing you as a fuck toy, why do you even bother with your wife? If thia girl is cheaper to keep then your wife, kick your wife to the curb. It's just good economics :Graucho

Girl, men piss me off on a daily basis! :1orglaugh

It's great that you stopped for her, but why start in the first place? If you're happy with what's at home, why stray?

Regardless of motives, that is fucked up in my opinion. Is monogamy becoming obsolete?

Yup

Maybe your wife wants to do the thai girl on a nightly basis. :Graucho

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