This is funny, tained by life?

I see many true monogomous relationships out there that have lasted the tides of life, I guess each person experiences life differently. :2 cents:

to quote jerry springer ...

"Multiple partners doesnt multiply the pleasure, only the pain"

- Seth

i am really surprised by the outcome of the responses to this thread..everyday all i see from the people on this board is how they want to fuck this and fuck that and now everyone is playing it off like all they need is one women to keep them happy...
the hypocracy is amazing...

This isn't a question of being faithful or questioning a couples love. I dont see why "monoghamy" = true love. I am not dilusioned babe i just think that there are healthy alternatives to a traditional relationships.

i would never have an open realationship, wtf is with that, u want ur lady to be sucking on another guys' dong then come home to kiss you? that shit is fucking nasty.

unless she were to bring in her girlfriend and i was there watching or participating.

NO DONGS ALLOWED!

I guess you could get as many different answers as there are people to answer Whit ;)

I love what I have and I couldn't imagine that I'd jeopardize it for anything. Actually I know I wouldn't.

I also think that people grow and change as time goes by and what might seem like a good idea right now becomes a tired idea without so much promise, and vice versa.

Most important thing in any relationship is communication. If you can't talk to your significant other about things, openly and candidly, then you have a problem that adding someone else into the mix sexually isn't going to fix, but will probably make worse.

I also know that most guys fantasize about seeing their girl with another chick, or doing another chick with their girl, but couldn't, wouldn't, ain't even going to contemplate their girl being with another guy, with or without them participating. And that's fine, it's just good to remember that sometimes a fantasy is best kept just that. I don't think it would be fair in a relationship for the guy to get to fuck around with another chick but not for his girl to be able to do the same.

I think it's great that people who swing are happy with it, and I respect their lifestyle choice. It's not something I find exciting, thus it's not for me.

But I will give Sherie and Tera half my sammich and some fries@!!!

Hundreds of years ago people screwed around and it's no different today.

Many do - Many don't.

I choose not to - I have a wonderful wife and I have been faithful to her 100's of times.

I do believe in monogamy, but at some point I do agree with you

its hard enough to make a relationship with only 2 ppl work. sure open relationships work for some ppl but i think more often than not it only brings added troubles. there is nothing wrong with fucking around but if i was with a girl i really loved and wanted to be with for a long time, i wouldn't want to be with anyone else and i'd hope she'd feel the same. if she was into girls that might be ok tho.

Awwwe, Kimmy! I would share my sammich fries and soda with you any day!! =)

Glad things are going well for you and your other half :winkwink:

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I would think it still depends on the person/persons who are in the relationship. I know several couples that are open, and several that are very monogomous.

I guess Im one of the few, although I am single and not having sex sucks! Guess I will find the right man someday.

post your ICQ and I can flirt with you baby

I won't date a girl seriously unless:

1. She is Hot, Model material. Call it superficial, beauty is on the inside, whatever... I have found that hot girls are just as nice as ugly ones, so why not date a hot one.

2. She has to like other girls, and actively bring other hot girls into our bedroom.

3. She has to understand that I am a man, and I am going to bang some other chick at some point. I agree to not throw it in her face, (ie: her friends or picking up another girl in front of her)

4. She has to stay monogamous to me. It is much easier for girls to only fuck one person than guys.

I am currently enjoying a relationship like this now. We are both very, very happy.

:thumbsup

Wow well at leat you are honesty and it sounds as tho both you and your partner benefit from your guidlines.

I think for most people these days, monogamy is no longer essential.

But for me, I am very much in love with my man and have no problem being faithful.

And hell no, I would not share him with anyone.

:thumbsup

Just in case you haven't heard, man stands upright now and doesn't carry around a club to beat down its enemies.
Male chauvanism at its worst. I know this industry tends to warp a few minds but wow.:winkwink:
BTW, glad you and your mate are happy. I guess that's all that matters. To each its own.

Number 4 is a fucking joke. Glad to see you have found an idiot to accommodate that one LOL ;)

same here:thumbsup

Hey Amelia~

Hahahah i look evil in that picture.... my eyes r always so red.

Hit me up on ICQ any time.

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Whitney

I have never brought a girl into a relationship of mine with a guy so i do not have any opinions on that subject...

i do have a close friend that has been with his girl for about 9 years and they have an open relationship and they are very honest with each other, they are best friends. If the husband happens to kiss some girl at a club he runs home to tell his wife. His wife is not bisexual and they are both deeply in love. His sex drive is much more then her sex drive and she doesn't think that she should regulate him and has no problem with this open relationship. He never has to lie to her or be sneaky. I respect that.

My whole life i didn't believe in any other kinds of relationships other then Monogomous ones... i did not believe in dating or one night stands and I have had probably every guy cheat on me. I even had bf's try to screw my gf's while i was dating them. (like my gf's are not going to tell me)
Girls know when their man is fucking around whether they say something to him or not, they know.

Being cheated on is not what hurts for me, I think being lied to when you thought this person was your best friend is what hurts.



:2 cents:

The sexual morays of today?s society are a lot more open than they used to be. Unfortunately, especially here in the United States, the religious right holds sexual freedoms in the church?s stained glass prisons. The importance of one man / one woman family unit is rammed down people?s throats my the media, government, and schools from an early age ? your average person considers anything else weird or perverted.

With that all being said -- men and women that have these feelings outside of society?s norms must lie to their partner, family, and just about everyone in order live a double life just -- instead of being honest about what they really want. Being dishonest is a lot worse than being sexually open.

Plus, you also can?t forget how jealous, petty, and insecure both men and women get. I think one man / one woman is here to stay, but that?s just my opinion.

Honesty is the most important part to a relationship.

Im poly. I have a poly family, consisting of a girl that I sleep with and her husband that I dont sleep with. I date other guys and girls, they know about everything.

I dont think that there is one guy or girl out there for me. I envision a close family type unit of a few people, with occasional diversions. I dont think that sex outside of the relationship hurts a solid relationship.

Definatly, dont get into swinging or outside relationships if yours is on the rocks. I have found that open couples tend to have more solid relationships, because they are completly honest with each other. The lack of honesty leads to many more problems than sleeping with other people.

What an interesting read. You really hit home Rocki that's what I want with my girlfriend.

I need to work on getting laid before anything esle LOL

Swinging and a open marriage are two different beasts. I considering a open relationship a path to pain. Swinging is shared for the most part, where open in going on dates and such. I think if you are only seeing a person to go to dinner and fuck its all happy and very hard not to get attached. Where swinging is we all get together get crazy and then everybody goes home, its pure physical.

Honesty is key in any relationship or friendship. No one likes being decieved and lied to.
Especially if the partner is doing it to save face in the name of their sexual "deviences".

I dont think sex is the only way to share your most intimate motments.

"it doesnt matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home"

guess im just old fashioned.. but more harm than good seems to come of 3somes etc if anyone has serious feelings for the other..

Does anyone here think this thread would have gotten so long if it wasn't a cute girl like Whitney that started it?

:)

i think it would have done well becuase it's a great topic but def helps with a sexy ass female starting the thread! heheh

You think? lol, you are a sexy ass female as well. Hot group here. I think I'll hang around and see what happens.

I gotta agree with that.

why thank you *batting eyes*

call me 602.230.4210


hehe

Cutness def does have its perks!


:Graucho

I'd love to hear your view on the subject Richard ... :2 cents: