when to cut ties with a broad if she isnt putting out? - Page 2 - GoFuckYourself.com

TurboAngel · 01-21-2004, 08:21 AM

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Originally posted by juicylinks

Women can be deceivingie:

The innocent ones turn out to be big sluts and vice versa sometimes

LOL

fyrflygrl · 01-21-2004, 08:24 AM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
First date , second date or shall i even bother saying a third date?

Note: the term "putting out" shall mean a blowjob, sex, anal sex , or handjob.

Uh... if you're only in it for what she's 'putting out' and she's not 'putting out' anything ... then dump her after the first date.... (then maybe she won't have time to figure out what a dick you are)

Fyrflygrl

myjah · 01-21-2004, 08:24 AM

she's just got to put out

mistersoft · 01-21-2004, 08:27 AM

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Originally posted by StacyCat

what if its, "fine, I want to fuck you, but I also want a long term relationship and dont want to fuck it up by sleeping with you too early?"

This means the lady wants to fuck you up bad. It does not mean she wants to have sex with you.

Listen - it is quite simple: she wants to have sex - she will find a way to make it happen. She doesnät want to have sex - she will make plenty of excuses.

mistersoft · 01-21-2004, 08:29 AM

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Originally posted by Trixie Racer

Giving up after two weeks could make you lose out on a total freak. My boyfriend had to wait. But on the first night we had sex, I'm the one who suggested anal.

Sounds nice - but why did you let him wait?

Joesho · 01-21-2004, 08:33 AM

WHO could dare rsist someone so JUUICCYYY as yourself?

beergood · 01-21-2004, 08:41 AM

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Originally posted by fyrflygrl

Uh... if you're only in it for what she's 'putting out' and she's not 'putting out' anything ... then dump her after the first date.... (then maybe she won't have time to figure out what a dick you are)

Fyrflygrl

gotta go with this one

Trixie Racer · 01-21-2004, 10:43 AM

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Originally posted by mistersoft

Sounds nice - but why did you let him wait?

When sex is really good I have a tendency to overlook that person's flaws. I made my boyfriend wait to make sure I liked him for HIM, and not for his magical dick. I know lots of women who wait for the same reason.

(On a side note, until I start sleeping with someone, I totally expect they have a screw buddy on the side, (I will), so waiting shouldn't be a problem.)

mistersoft · 01-21-2004, 11:36 AM

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Originally posted by Trixie Racer

When sex is really good I have a tendency to overlook that person's flaws. I made my boyfriend wait to make sure I liked him for HIM, and not for his magical dick. I know lots of women who wait for the same reason.

I have to admit that that IS a good reason. Heh - maybe I shouldn't be so fast putting out in the future. I know for sure that sometimes the nice pussy has made me forget whom it was attached to.

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Originally posted by Trixie Racer

(On a side note, until I start sleeping with someone, I totally expect they have a screw buddy on the side, (I will), so waiting shouldn't be a problem.)

This is of course a personal choice. I see it differently - if a girl has a fuckbuddy on the side she is no potential for me. Of course we could be good friends or something, but that's it.

beemk · 01-21-2004, 11:41 AM

depends on if this girl is girlfriend material or not. if shes girlfriend material i would be happy if she ddint put out on the third date. if shes just for a fuck i expect to get something on the first or second.

Oracle Porn · 01-21-2004, 11:48 AM

Am I the only one who don't like sluts?
If I can fuck that chick after 2-3 times that I go out her, how the fuck do I know that every fucking guy in America didn't fuck her after 2-3 times that he went out with her.

jimthefiend · 01-21-2004, 11:49 AM

if shes not letting me feel her tittys halfway through dinner there will BE NO second date

BoobKrew · 01-21-2004, 12:28 PM

A girl who will make you wait and string you along is the same kind of girl who after you been with her awhile will tell you she doesn't feel like putting out anymore. Sex will decrease from 3-4 times a day, when she is trying to dig her nails into your wallet. Then after she has you pussywhipped, will be 1-2 times a year.
For men sex is like taking a piss....no matter how long you prolong it and you still have to do it. For women, after awhile they would rather do without it....after they have your checkbook, credit cards, your house, and your kids.....
Three dates or see you later..............don't waste your time....you WILL regret it, LATER

LYKIS RULES

AmeliaG · 01-21-2004, 01:53 PM

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Originally posted by juicylinks

This question is just generalized .... not related to my situation at this time cause I aint gotten any in awhile

You are a hottie, Juicy, so you should be getting vibed noticeably on the first date if the girl is thinking about it.

Most chicks I know tend not to get naked the first night if they even vaguely like the person.

All the guys on gfy who go on and on about what to say in order to get some the first night are guaranteeing they get waaaaaaaay less sex than they otherwise could.

If a girl doesn't kiss you probably the first night and definitely the second, I would certainly recommend not taking her any place expensive after that. After the third date of no sex, if the girl is not already picking up the tab sometimes or paying her half (I know Long Island), then I'd suggest it, unless you are getting some awesome making out time. If you are just enduring dinner in the hopes of sex, I'd skip it after the third date with no action. If the girl is fun or interesting or you like her for any reason besides hotness, then no reason not to keep hanging out after the third evening. But it is reasonable to expect her to pay her own way, and maybe yours, sometimes after that

Juicy D. Links · 01-21-2004, 03:04 PM

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Originally posted by AmeliaG

You are a hottie, Juicy, so you should be getting vibed noticeably on the first date if the girl is thinking about it.

Most chicks I know tend not to get naked the first night if they even vaguely like the person.

All the guys on gfy who go on and on about what to say in order to get some the first night are guaranteeing they get waaaaaaaay less sex than they otherwise could.

If a girl doesn't kiss you probably the first night and definitely the second, I would certainly recommend not taking her any place expensive after that. After the third date of no sex, if the girl is not already picking up the tab sometimes or paying her half (I know Long Island), then I'd suggest it, unless you are getting some awesome making out time. If you are just enduring dinner in the hopes of sex, I'd skip it after the third date with no action. If the girl is fun or interesting or you like her for any reason besides hotness, then no reason not to keep hanging out after the third evening. But it is reasonable to expect her to pay her own way, and maybe yours, sometimes after that

Its not so much the issue of money and such , its just amatter of wasting my time tbh. I dont follow that rule where "you order the lobster , I better be getting blown " theory. Its a matter really of if i ask you out on a date that means that i am looking for some romance and such , I am not looking for a friend that will call me at 2 am and tell me stories of how she got played by a guy. I really dont have time or patience for that stuff. I am pretty much straight forward with women or anyone in general . I have sexual needs and so do many women. If i am looking for only a "good time" with a girl then if she isnt down for that mutually then we really should not be wasting each others time.....btw I am so sexy.

Herb Kornfield · 01-21-2004, 03:31 PM

3rd date for action of some kind however minimal to establish that we arent just "friends".

You have to take the upper hand to get the results you want, this shit dont happen magically. You gotta have Skills man, dig this.

Offer a romantic weekend getaway for the two of you. If she says yes, lets go, prolly land the deal.

If she says no or maybe later to the offer, then I would take it for what it is, a polite way of rejecting your dick being inside her in one of 3 various holes.

If you dont ask the questions the way you want them answered you will never get the results you want.

Women know what you are there for man, they get off on how silly we act when we think as men that we got game when we are totally dependant on them accpeting us or rejecting us for sex.

Good luck bro.

vegas2003 · 01-21-2004, 04:19 PM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
First date , second date or shall i even bother saying a third date?

Note: the term "putting out" shall mean a blowjob, sex, anal sex , or handjob.

according to tom leykis-3 dates

Ross · 01-21-2004, 04:23 PM

I didn't get laid from my girlfriend for 7 months. 4 years on and I'm still going out with her. We were 16 when we started dating

cold_ice · 01-21-2004, 04:27 PM

Well I don't know if this has been said but if she is not putting out very quickly thats a good thing. You should stop dating her only if you find out the reason she wasn't putting out was because she had a bigger cock than you

AmeliaG · 01-21-2004, 04:32 PM

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Originally posted by juicylinks

Its not so much the issue of money and such , its just amatter of wasting my time tbh. I dont follow that rule where "you order the lobster , I better be getting blown " theory. Its a matter really of if i ask you out on a date that means that i am looking for some romance and such , I am not looking for a friend that will call me at 2 am and tell me stories of how she got played by a guy. I really dont have time or patience for that stuff. I am pretty much straight forward with women or anyone in general . I have sexual needs and so do many women. If i am looking for only a "good time" with a girl then if she isnt down for that mutually then we really should not be wasting each others time.....btw I am so sexy.

I know you can afford the dough, but the issue is to make sure the chick is not there for the free lobster. If she is there because she wants to spend time with you, then the only issue is if you both want the same thing. Having friends is good too, but it sucks if you aren't both on the same page.

PS you are so sexy

myjah · 01-21-2004, 04:33 PM

that's a hard one. With my first serious relationship it was almost a year before i gave it up. But when I met my hubby it was a all a matter of getting some alone time so i could jump his bones.

angeleyes · 01-21-2004, 04:39 PM

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Originally posted by juicylinks

This question is just generalized .... not related to my situation at this time cause I aint gotten any in awhile

You don't remember our night of passion?

Doctor Dre · 01-21-2004, 04:42 PM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
maybe she wants something "serious"

Yeah right . here comes the bullshit

Doctor Dre · 01-21-2004, 04:43 PM

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Originally posted by Raf1
Depends on the chick. If she's worth the wait then I'm able to wait even a few weeks, if she isn't woth it and doesn't put out after the third date, I stop seeing her... Pretty simple

Nah if the chick makes you wait a few weeks that mean she dosen't like sex enough . You can have something serious AND fuck on the first date.

Doctor Dre · 01-21-2004, 04:44 PM

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Originally posted by juicylinks

few weeks?

LMAO juicylinks style ! so nice :P

Juicy D. Links · 01-21-2004, 04:45 PM

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Originally posted by angeleyes

You don't remember our night of passion?

prob wasnt that good if i cant remember

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 01-21-2004, 04:49 PM

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Originally posted by AmeliaG
AlienQ - If the girl will always do it for $$$, then you ought to know in less than ten minutes whether there is anything in your wallet. I don't think you actually believe that, but . . .

I am always mindful of whats in my Wallet

But I don't pay for sex, I earn it!

By the 3rd date however...
I have spent to much and I would feel taken of advantage of!

Doctor Dre · 01-21-2004, 04:52 PM

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Originally posted by AlienQ
My point is its just Sex...

If chicks didnt play the card like its somthing special there really would not be problem. Personally I liked to know within 10 minutes of meeting a girl whether or not she would fuck me...

Cut the shit.
Fuck or No fuck.
Be honest cuz both parties know within the first 10 minutes if Sex is a plausible option be it casual or long term.

Platonic is cool and that works for friends category...
But damn be honest girls.

If ya would fuck a dude let em know in 10 minutes please.
Give a Yes or a blatent No, its being honest and both parties would save alot of time and effort.

Unless your just looking for a free meal and wanna string the poor bastard along.

I'm sure there are a lot of suckers out there that pay meals everyday to a new girl just to look good . I never went out on a date and paid meal to a girl like that so I don't know . When I go out we both pay our own shit . If I feal like paying her a drink or whatever then I'l do it .

Trixie Racer · 01-21-2004, 06:20 PM

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Originally posted by mistersoft

This is of course a personal choice. I see it differently - if a girl has a fuckbuddy on the side she is no potential for me. Of course we could be good friends or something, but that's it.

Why should I tell a new boyfriend that I have a fuck buddy? There's no reason too. Until we are intimiate, it's not his business!

I am monogamous when it comes to men. After I have sex with a new boyfriend, he will be the only guy I have sex with as long as we're together--unless, of course, we have an open relationship.

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01-21-2004, 12:28 PM	#63
BoobKrew Registered User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: WA Posts: 2	A girl who will make you wait and string you along is the same kind of girl who after you been with her awhile will tell you she doesn't feel like putting out anymore. Sex will decrease from 3-4 times a day, when she is trying to dig her nails into your wallet. Then after she has you pussywhipped, will be 1-2 times a year. For men sex is like taking a piss....no matter how long you prolong it and you still have to do it. For women, after awhile they would rather do without it....after they have your checkbook, credit cards, your house, and your kids..... Three dates or see you later..............don't waste your time....you WILL regret it, LATER LYKIS RULES Last edited by BoobKrew; 01-21-2004 at 12:30 PM..

01-21-2004, 11:49 AM	#62
jimthefiend So Fucking Banned Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: icq: 121189 Posts: 18,889	if shes not letting me feel her tittys halfway through dinner there will BE NO second date

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Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	3rd date for action of some kind however minimal to establish that we arent just "friends". You have to take the upper hand to get the results you want, this shit dont happen magically. You gotta have Skills man, dig this. Offer a romantic weekend getaway for the two of you. If she says yes, lets go, prolly land the deal. If she says no or maybe later to the offer, then I would take it for what it is, a polite way of rejecting your dick being inside her in one of 3 various holes. If you dont ask the questions the way you want them answered you will never get the results you want. Women know what you are there for man, they get off on how silly we act when we think as men that we got game when we are totally dependant on them accpeting us or rejecting us for sex. Good luck bro.

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Ross Ik ben een aap Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Traffic Force Towers, Canada! Posts: 18,874	I didn't get laid from my girlfriend for 7 months. 4 years on and I'm still going out with her. We were 16 when we started dating

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cold_ice Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: cali Posts: 3,027	Well I don't know if this has been said but if she is not putting out very quickly thats a good thing. You should stop dating her only if you find out the reason she wasn't putting out was because she had a bigger cock than you

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myjah Back in the harbor Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 11,482	that's a hard one. With my first serious relationship it was almost a year before i gave it up. But when I met my hubby it was a all a matter of getting some alone time so i could jump his bones. __________________ VP of Marketing AVN Media Network Skype: AVNJill [email protected]