I liked your idea about going to see her at work for lunch and bringing it up while you're there. But yeah, no need to get angry about it. Just let her know that it doesn't matter if she got you a present or not, and that she doesn't have to lie about it. No point in getting critical, 'cause it'll just mess things up.

Be nice about it, and you'll cop a shag.

Well, I just got home from the office. Gonna take a little nap and hopefully get a chance to see her tonight. As per a1ka1ine's request, I may post the results here. :)

Have a good day!

Give her 5 across the eyes, and demand a present...

j/k - You need to have a conversation with her. Don't tell GFY about this and how it made you feel, tell her about it.

Well, anyways... here's a little update:

I went down to her work that day and caught her just at the end of her break. We just had a smoke together and told her I had to talk to her later, and to call me. So she did. I didn't want to do this over the phone, so I just got things rolling by talking about having more open communication and changed the subject.

I made a date with her Friday (tommorow) to talk about all the specifics and to just totally be blunt with everything. Hope she takes it well...

I'll report back tommorow if anyone gives a crap, lol.

fuck its not a big deal, get her in private, be sweet and just fucking tell her flat out, babe its ok if you didnt get me a present you know? i know what you feel blah blah, i dont need no stickin present im a man... blah blah..... and then rub her cheeks, kiss her and thats that.


damn its not that big of a fucking deal

I'd say that it seems like a harmless lie. You know why she lied (or you think she did) and it sounds like she had good intentions.

I'd let it go.

Yes, I realize the actual thing lied about is not that big a deal. It's the fact that she may do this to cover up much bigger things in the future that has me on my toes, or if in fact there is anything else even now that's being covered up.

Serious question, how old are each of you?

Fire that bitch! :thumbsup

Here is how i would see it.
FUCK ME.... NO NO FUCK YOU...
Fuck em, don't need people like that.

i think that would be a good way to corner her in a lie, presents arent the point, you dont fucking lie about anything but especially stupid shit like a present

How long have you been dating? The first Christmas can be hard to shop for. Although I agree that lying isn't okay, I suspect that you caught her off guard and she planned to get you a gift. It's wonderful that you are not material and don't care about gifts. A lot of guys are not that way. She was probably a little embarrassed and scared when you had a gift for her and she didn't have one in return. When you approach her, be gentle. She'll probably realise that you're a special guy and she should be honest from now on. If not, you're better off without her.

:glugglug Just dump her and find a new one,or get a goat

How 'bout I keep her... and my goat. :Graucho

So does the story about the gift go on?

lol... man, it now feels like half the online adult industry knows about this, lol.

Anyways, I'm gonna take a smoke break and get back to work. It's gonna be a late night. I'll be back on GFY Saturday. Good night everyone :)

For those of you who are interested in my GFY reality show about my g/f, lol... here's an update...

We got together Friday night, to have that little talk. She did end up getting a gift, so I felt kinda wierd talking about it, but I did it anyways. She gave me an other story about how she bought the gift before (cologne), but didn't give it to me cuz I already got cologne from someone else and she felt wierd doing so but now decided to give it to me anyways. I'm just gonna let this go, but it still irritates the hell out of me. Fuck...

bahh im not satisfied by this resolution!

i read this whole thread thinking you would get her to admit her lies!

:winkwink:

if thats all shes lying about, and make sure it is... she just feels bad that you got her a gift and she didn't or couldnt afford one for you. all in all this is really nothing.

:2 cents:

I wanted her to just admit it too, so we could just forget about it. Oh well, better luck next time I suppose, lol.