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GTS Mark · 12-14-2003, 03:59 PM

You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.

No love not even at Christmas time.

DH

johnbosh · 12-14-2003, 04:00 PM

taht sucks

Digipimp · 12-14-2003, 04:00 PM

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Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.

No love not even at Christmas time.

DH

I don't hate it, I almost expect it. Do something nice because you want to do something nice and leave it at that if you can't feel good in doing that then don't do it.

69pornlinks · 12-14-2003, 04:01 PM

That's why when you do something for someone do it because you want to and this way When These Ungrateful Bastards Dont Appreciate It,you don't sweat it

Amputate Your Head · 12-14-2003, 04:02 PM

take it in stride brah... better to let it go than start dropping hints to solicit a thanks....

GTS Mark · 12-14-2003, 04:02 PM

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Originally posted by johnbosh
taht sucks

Yes it really does considering how much money I have made this guy.

DH

Sly_RJ · 12-14-2003, 04:02 PM

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Originally posted by Digipimp

I don't hate it, I almost expect it. Do something nice because you want to do something nice and leave it at that if you can't feel good in doing that then don't do it.

Bingo!

GTS Mark · 12-14-2003, 04:03 PM

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Originally posted by Amputate Your Head
take it in stride brah... better to let it go than start dropping hints to solicit a thanks....

Actually that is a good point., you live and learn right.

DH

Digipimp · 12-14-2003, 04:04 PM

I do something nice, give advice and ideas or help nearly every day I'm at this computer and I'll bet you I get fucked on it and not thanks at least 90% of the time but I'm not sweating it yet. It shows me someones character and I feel good that I was able to give. And I move on and do it again without hesitation.

Raven · 12-14-2003, 04:05 PM

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Originally posted by Digipimp

I don't hate it, I almost expect it. Do something nice because you want to do something nice and leave it at that if you can't feel good in doing that then don't do it.

But what about manners?

Didn't we all get it drummed into our heads to say thank you?

It's two words.....

Digipimp · 12-14-2003, 04:07 PM

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Originally posted by Raven

But what about manners?

Didn't we all get it drummed into our heads to say thank you?

It's two words.....

Well I don't have expectations of people so I'm either delighted or not disappointed. It's much easier that way, give because you want to give and that makes you feel good, I don't even wait for a thank you or anything, and if i don't get it then I don't help that person again because I've seen their character, but I'll never stop helping or giving to people until I stop living.

Raven · 12-14-2003, 04:10 PM

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Originally posted by Digipimp

Well I don't have expectations of people so I'm either delighted or not disappointed. It's much easier that way, give because you want to give and that makes you feel good, I don't even wait for a thank you or anything, and if i don't get it then I don't help that person again because I've seen their character, but I'll never stop helping or giving to people until I stop living.

I don't disagree with your philosophy. The point of giving is simple....you do it just because....

Saying thank you is just good manners....it's not for reasons of gratitude or anything like that...

Just two words which acknowledge the giver. Nothing more. Nothing less.

GTS Mark · 12-14-2003, 04:12 PM

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Originally posted by Raven

But what about manners?

Didn't we all get it drummed into our heads to say thank you?

It's two words.....

I agree, I ALWAYS make a point of thanking people for anything they ever do for me. I guess that is just the way I was raised.

DH

Digipimp · 12-14-2003, 04:12 PM

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Originally posted by Raven

I don't disagree with your philosophy. The point of giving is simple....you do it just because....

Saying thank you is just good manners....it's not for reasons of gratitude or anything like that...

Just two words which acknowledge the giver. Nothing more. Nothing less.

Well in my book words don't mean shit and I could care less about a thank you just because someone has good manners. If you appreciate me giving then give to me or others because you appreciate it being done for you.

Cheers hun

Rawz · 12-14-2003, 04:16 PM

If a person doesn't show appreciation for something in some appropriate way i just look at it as that's one less person i will ever have to do something for again , makes life alot easier in the long run ...... but yeah it sux too
Then again some people just have a hard time saying, thanks .

MrIzzz · 12-14-2003, 04:18 PM

i dont do shit for anyone anymore unless its cash upfront

Raven · 12-14-2003, 04:20 PM

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Originally posted by Digipimp

Well in my book words don't mean shit and I could care less about a thank you just because someone has good manners. If you appreciate me giving then give to me or others because you appreciate it being done for you.

Cheers hun

Cheers back, sweets...

In all reality, why would you want to be a giver to someone who is a taker?

If someone can't take the two seconds it takes to acknowledge your effort.....what does that say about them?

There are such things as loving obligations....and the word obligation is not a dirty word...it's just two words which convey a feeling from the heart...that the receiver is saying thank you for thinking of me ...or thank you for doing this for me....

If I appreciate you, I will thank you and most likely give something back at some point....or maybe I won't be in a position to give back...but, shitheads who take what you've given and never say thank you tells me alot about the person.

Digipimp · 12-14-2003, 04:23 PM

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Originally posted by Raven

Cheers back, sweets...

In all reality, why would you want to be a giver to someone who is a taker?

If someone can't take the two seconds it takes to acknowledge your effort.....what does that say about them?

There are such things as loving obligations....and the word obligation is not a dirty word...it's just two words which convey a feeling from the heart...that the receiver is saying thank you for thinking of me ...or thank you for doing this for me....

If I appreciate you, I will thank you and most likely give something back at some point....or maybe I won't be in a position to give back...but, shitheads who take what you've given and never say thank you tells me alot about the person.

Well we're not disagreeing, I just don't feel as though I'm going to give anyone a signifigant enough role in my life so as to change me being who I am and how I live. So I'll be me that's something I'm good at.

Head · 12-14-2003, 04:25 PM

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Originally posted by DrinkingHard

Yes it really does considering how much money I have made this guy.

DH

Too bad but i'll tell u what; Make me some $$$ and i'll not only appreciate it i'll kiss your Harry Ass!

AmeliaG · 12-14-2003, 04:28 PM

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Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.

No love not even at Christmas time.

DH

OMFG, this is my biggest pet peeve in the world. I really *ENJOY* doing nice things for people I like. But it slays me when it is unappreciated. I don't expect everyone I do something nice for to do something exactly equal to what I did for them or anything. Often someone I do a favor for would almost by definition be in a different position from the one I am in.

But I hate feeling chumped and, if someone can not be bothered to say thanks and show appreciation, I feel like they think they were taking advantage, instead of me just being nice. So I might have done something just in the spirit of giving, but a lack of a simple genuine thank you makes me sort of retroactively feel differently from how I did at the time.

Raven · 12-14-2003, 04:29 PM

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Originally posted by DrinkingHard

I agree, I ALWAYS make a point of thanking people for anything they ever do for me. I guess that is just the way I was raised.

DH

You are a great guy, DH...

I think it's just nice, besides being good manners......

Then, everyone wins and we all feel good.....

GTS Mark · 12-14-2003, 06:06 PM

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Originally posted by Raven

You are a great guy, DH...

Awwww shucks thanks!

DH

Digipimp · 12-14-2003, 06:10 PM

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Originally posted by Raven

You are a great guy, DH...

I think it's just nice, besides being good manners......

Then, everyone wins and we all feel good.....

Wow I didn't even get called a great guy and now I'm reduced to fishing for compliments.

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 12-14-2003, 06:11 PM

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Originally posted by Digipimp
I do something nice, give advice and ideas or help nearly every day I'm at this computer and I'll bet you I get fucked on it and not thanks at least 90% of the time but I'm not sweating it yet. It shows me someones character and I feel good that I was able to give. And I move on and do it again without hesitation.

rip raster · 12-14-2003, 06:15 PM

Not everyone has the class that you do bro, just keep doing what your doing and you'll be fine

Ya big Tranny lover

Rip

Raven · 12-14-2003, 06:25 PM

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Originally posted by Digipimp

Wow I didn't even get called a great guy and now I'm reduced to fishing for compliments.

Aw..you know you're one of the good guys.....but, just in case you didn't...

You're one of the good guys...

Tala · 12-14-2003, 06:27 PM

DH

Did I tell you how much I really appreciate everything you've done for me? If not, I'm so sorry. I have never been so amazed by such generosity and care that you and GFY showed me.

Thank you a million times over. All of you.

AmeliaG · 12-14-2003, 06:27 PM

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Originally posted by Digipimp

Wow I didn't even get called a great guy and now I'm reduced to fishing for compliments.

You're a great guy

Digipimp · 12-14-2003, 06:28 PM

YAY ME, nothing like having a few hotties that like me.

Thank you kind ladies.

WiredGuy · 12-14-2003, 06:36 PM

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Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.

No love not even at Christmas time.

DH

I know the feeling... give it a few more days and hopefully they'll realize they forgot about you and make up for it in a great big gift just in time for xmas.

Or, just to cheer you up, picture us three dancing in LA

WG

- AFN - · 12-14-2003, 06:44 PM

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Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.

No love not even at Christmas time.

DH

Yeah........ WHERE IS THE LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!???

myjah · 12-14-2003, 08:25 PM

actually i've gotten pretty used to it. seems like people take advantage of almost everything nowadays

ElvisManson · 12-14-2003, 08:27 PM

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Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.

No love not even at Christmas time.

DH

no referral fee?

Nice title btw.

JDog · 12-14-2003, 08:31 PM

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Originally posted by DrinkingHard
You do something REALLY nice for someone and then you are not only not thanked but ignored.

No love not even at Christmas time.

DH

Yea, I fucking hate it, that's why I don't do shit, unless their really good friends of mine!

jDoG

GTS Mark · 12-14-2003, 08:31 PM

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Originally posted by rip raster
Not everyone has the class that you do bro, just keep doing what your doing and you'll be fine
Ya big Tranny lover

Rip

Rip you are the tranny lover that lights up my life!

DH

GTS Mark · 12-14-2003, 08:33 PM

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Originally posted by Tala
DH

Did I tell you how much I really appreciate everything you've done for me? If not, I'm so sorry. I have never been so amazed by such generosity and care that you and GFY showed me.

Thank you a million times over. All of you.

Tala,

Just for the record you were not the person I was referring about. LOL!

I hope you recover soon and have a wonderful Christmas.

DH

GTS Mark · 12-14-2003, 08:35 PM

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Originally posted by WiredGuy

Or, just to cheer you up, picture us three dancing in LA
WG

LOL! That image of us in that taco parlor will stay with me the rest of my life. God damn that was funny!

DH

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