This is just my opinion but you can't love someone after 5 months :2 cents: Really what can you know about the person?
Be with someone for 5+ years and THEN tell me what love is. Go through hard time, good times etc.. then you'll really understand what love is.

Can you understand my state of mind now sweety?
btw you still have not answered how old you are.

If I told you my age, all this thread had gone wrong...

Well I'm fuckin' 18 now bitch :Graucho

But okay, I understand your state of mind.. But I think that you can get LOVE after 5 months, and NO, it is not the same love as after 5 years, that's for sure.. But I don't understand why you don't call it LOVE after 5 months? How do you call it?

Should I stay friend with her? Or only fuckfriend?

18 and in love lol :)
I don't call it love because imo its not love. Maybe puppy love or lust... but not love thats for sure.

Okay okay, LOVE is the only word I know for that in english (cause I'm french). So I'll say that I was LOVING HER :D WASSSSSSS :D hehe

Please when you are 18, or at least for me, what I felt was love. Yeah it isn't the same as it is now at 30, but that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt, or doesn't feel good. Your first broken heart usually sucks the most because you don't understand it yet. You are learning. So appreciate what you are going through and get everything you can out of it. When you get older it gets more complicated, if you let it.

I would take what she said and go with that. She broke up with you, and then she came forward and told you she is with someone else now. Leave it be and move on. Don't hate her and not trust her based on an assumption. Remember it's you that has to carry the hate.

There are soooooooo many hot girls in this world. You have way too much learning to do with sex and relationships to get caught up with one girl you cared or "loved" for about for 5 months.

Now go out have some fun. Trust me, if she sees you moving on, and acting like nothing happen, including being polite to her when and if you bump into her, that will be the best revenge for anything you "think" might have happened while she was dating you. Some women when they see their ex acting in a positive manner after a break up will take as they meant nothing to you.

You have so much fun heading you way. Cry a river for an hour, stand up take a shower and go out with some friends.

I didn't mean it didn't or doesn't hurt. I've been there done that. Imo girls fall the hardest well at least I did.

I don't really think you decide whether it gets complicated or not.
It just happens.

Nice to get some advice from a woman :)

Well, I think you're right, I must carry that pain, the pain that she seems to be good without me, with someone else.. and I'm sitting alone in a corner wondering why. I feel pain, because she probably don't feel so bad about what she did. I have now 1 complete month of vacancy (yeah, school rock for this). So I'll get myself on everything I can do, snowboard, friends, theaters, ect! Hope to see her at the movies theater (she's working there) when I'll go see a movie with another girl! Hahahaha

The thing that make me laugh, is that when we went to the shoppping center together yesterday, and I saw an old friend of mine (a cute girl), she seemed to be jealous after we left the other girl !!!

So fuckin' funny shit, BITCH! (not you Loryn! haha)

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Im truly sorry to hear that dude :(
it is VERY possible for someone to be in love with another person within 5 months, so leave the poor dude alone!

best of luck getting over this, I know it's extremely difficult... :(

50 hits!

is format c: an option?

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Nop, but perm delete her folder is my head is fuckin' hard, I'm always finding new files everywhere in my head!

I'm the other guy!

we were having sex before she broke up with you!
move on!

No really move on!

corbu

Girls that cheat or guys for that matter are petty and weak. Go fuck one of her friends and see how she likes it.

First, I am really sorry to hear that man. I can understand what it feels like. I wanted to take this time to tell you what I have gathering from similar experiences in that past.

1. Forget about her. I know this is damn near impossible, but forget it. Once she does something like that, you'll never be happy even if you do get back together.

2. You'll never trust her again. Even if you are together, you will turn into a paranoid android. You'll wonder where she is when she is not with you. You'll suspect she's meeting, talking to, or fucking another guy anytime you are seperate. You'll always be a little angry at her for doing this.

3. Don't be friends with her. You might as well pour acid on your nuts over hanging out with her. Being friends with someone you love who rejected you is like having to visit someone in a house you used to live in and got kicked out of.

4. There are people out there who won't do this to you. Hard to belive, but there are women that will be loyal and never do things like this to you. You'll be much more stable and happy when you get over this one and find a decent one for yourself.

Good luck. Deal with it how you choose. These are just my experiences from a past relationship. I say that nobody deserves to go through this kind of madness... Find a better woman who won't do shit like this.

Any woman that cheats, or guy for that matter, doesn't deserve a second thought if they break up with you. Just remember, they're doing it because they feel useless... Or so I've heard. That or your penis is just to damned small..

What the hell, you are posting this on GFY!
99.9% of the people here havent had a relationship and the ones who do usually pay the female.

You have a better chance to get a good answer by searching someone random on whitepages on icq....

How can you still love somebody that did that to you? She has no idea what love is and there is no way you will teach her. If she's smart enough, she'll learn herself ... if even possible.

Unforgivable in my book.

You only want her more now because you can't have her. It will take some time and it hurts, but your better off without her.

Easier said then done, I know.

FUCK HER.

lots of beauties in montreal, even these days, in spite of the wind and all the jackets and toques, still the best place to live.
my advice is to forget about her, if she thought about sex with someone else and did not think you were more important than her urges or whatever then she is not worth your time.
i am sure you can find much better, i respect your right to love after 5 months, shit after 2 weeks it might be infatuation but after a while you know it's real.
so i would get drunk and move on
and not stay friends with her.
sounds like you have enough female friends to fill the temporary void.
belle chance, ne pense pas a cette poutin,
sorry for my bad french, i am a montreal anglo

I stole a girl from a guy who had been going out with her for 2 years, and I'am telling you now, I regret doing it everyday, as I was one of those people I hate, just being friendly and she cheated with me...

So like a dumbass I go out with this girl for 2 years, and what do you think happens? haha, I can never prove she cheated with her new boyfriend who used the friendship route in, but I'am pretty positive..


Some girls just arent worth it, move on!

Very Good Advice

Definitely dont try to be friends, that was my mistake, you just get more pissed off in the long run.

Okay, some words of wisdom from someone who's been there...5 months ago, could you have lived without her? Did you know her? Did you care who she was sleeping with?

What changed?

Some people cheat once and never again. Everyone makes mistakes. Considering the crazy shit atleast half of you have posted in this thread have said in previous posts, you are a bunch of hypocrites. I would say something about glass houses, but fuck it, it's wasted on you all.

Yeah, maybe she'll never do it again.. but chances that she will probably do it again are much more bigger than the one that she don't do it anymore!

I think that it's better for me to stand with the idea that she will probably do it again! I'll not break my heart again for sure!

Well, I think that all those post helped me more than anything else on my real life (except for friend's advice for sure)!!

The more advice I get, the better I can get my mind set right!