I am tired of the idiots that go to conventions

I cannot even believe you're apologizing...it was a pleasure dancing near you. I was tempted to lick your lipstick off of aly...but I figured I'd get hit with a barstool.

All in all I think the night at gotham hall was the best...although I'm still uncertain of Eric's sexual orientation, but he can dry hump my leg anytime.

In short you're welcome in whatever circle I can muster ANYTIME. As long as you promise to revoke your "Won't happen again" statement.

Well we know it's not Turds hairs on the brush ;)

It's fair to say that I'm not a kid lover, Aaron...other than my own.

And, I would never ever take a child to a five star restaurant until they're old enough to sit still for three hours.

I figure mine will be ready when he's 25. LOL

Interesting but I was always under the impression that at least 90% of the people in this biz were just assclown fuckups so it doesn't seem like much of a surprise to me.

I skip shows and read about all the stuff that goes on every time theres another show and it's the same thing. Like I said this biz is full of fuckups and it's no real surprise that when you bring fuckups together that they fuck shit up. Keep it simple, beat their ass, throw them out or have them arrested and move on.

Aaron, you take yourself entirely to seriously. If I remember correctly I called you a kid hater to your face. I would never dream of saying anything behind your back that I wouldn't say to your face. I was joking and I think you know it. I think I have the balls to say whatever I feel like to you.

You want to be the center of attention and this is a lame way to do it. If you have a problem with me - call me don't post it on a board. Step up and address the problem if you really think there is one.

Of course there isn't a playland area at El Gaucho. It isn't a McDonalds. On the other hand they have a kids menu and bend over backwards to accomadate kids. We go there all the time. They know me really well. I didn't think of it as a big deal.

Honestly I take my kids to great restaurans all the time. I like eating out and I love spending time with my family. I never thought of El Gaucho as somehow to high class for my kids. I would never think twice about taking them there. I think the management there agrees with me.

If you don't want to hang with me I can deal with that - but do me a favor and don't tell me where I can and can't take my kids.

A few industry friends and I have a inside joke about one marketing person in our industry. He's changed jobs so often that no one can keep track, and every time we see him at shows he's too fucked up to remember who he's working for. I find this horrible, but rather funny at the same time.

The problem with this industry is that not everyone is a professional. I've seen twenty-one year olds making $200k a year; They don't give a shit about what people think about them at a party at 3AM. Then there are other people who are just begging to get their foot in the door...... At the very same time you have people who have so much money they don't give a rats ass about anything.

As this industry grows up, the people that are here to stay will remain. The people who are constantly fucked up and doing God knows what will be out of jobs.

I could be wrong on this but i dont think it was so much the dining there that is the problem as much as it is the people who were there. I know i cant speak for others and i wasnt there but i'm pretty sure it wouldnt have been a good place for kids to have been around at at that time (at the same table as all these porn ppl talking about porn and everything else)

Was it an industry dinner comprised mostly of industry people? Obviously it doesn't bother you any, but talking shop around a couple of kids doesn't exactly thrill me. In fact, I would feel very uncomfortable and question the judgment of the "responsible" parent.

well said

I thought of it more of an informal dinner with friends. I wasn't thinking of it as a "porn"party. Most of us have other things to talk about besides porn. Other people I work with were going and my kids are around them all the time. We have fun together. My bad.

I have only a few personal pet-peeves for business-related functions I've attended in the past:

- No kids.
There are too many reasons why no kids. This is business... children are usually a distraction that is unnessessary. Toddlers & infants particularly do not belong at business functions. Get a freaking babysitter, and take the kids out on a non-business night. Honestly, the last thing I would do, if I had kids, would be to have them anywhere NEAR anyone from the adult industry during any sort of show or convention. One visit to the FUBAR website should be enough reason.

- Cellphones:
Especially when there is a speaker or presentation of any kind, turn your damned cell phone OFF. Few things are more annoying than some idiot's cell ringing during a seminar.


Carry on.

This is why i dont go to the shows, webaccess in Feb will be our first. Why there is a need to get trashed what are people 18? Also having any illegal drugs at a hotel is fucking crazy. In Atlanta if they find drugs they will arrest us all.

It was a dinner for Why, who was supposed to be coming in from Texas. We also had people drive down from Canada and people drive up from Portland.

All of us are in the adult industry. Most of the evening was spent discussing various aspects of porn.

While my son knew about what I did from the time he was 14, I was never comfortable talking industry talk in front of him, nor was he keen on hearing his mother utter words like 'blow job', 'cock', and other descriptive phrases.

Ian was more than welcome to come. I voted 'no' on bringing children to an adult dinner. My kid is grown. I'm ready to have dinner without children.

Nothing personal.

That is a whole other affair. If you plan on sitting with a more close-knit group, and you are sure that everyone in that group is fine and compfy with having your kids present, then far be it for anyone to crap on that. Those that were uncomfortable could sit at some other table, yes?

all that little Ian/WHY does is talk shit behind peoples backs are you kidding. Infact every chance little ian had to talk shit behind a anon he did. but now I know who it is. LOL.

Don't know the beef between you and Pornkings Ian but you know how we are and we don't talk shit behind anybodies back.

the last thing we are is Pussy's at Pornkings.