My Father-in-law called my 3 year old a ******!

throw a new years party in their house, and bring all the homies

Nevermind getting violent, that solves nothing. I would confront him and point-blank ask him what happened and what his deal is. If I didn't like the answer, I would tell him in no uncertain terms that he will never see his grandkids again in this lifetime should he ever open his racist hole like that. Then walk away.


If you do allow further visits, make sure you are there at all times. Leaving your kids with this kind of moron is not a wise idea anymore.

Well, if it was my kid, I would have busted his nose, then made sure he never saw any of my kids again. But I am a vindictive evil bastard. If you are going to insult my family you had better be speaking the truth ie. call my mother a drunk. If not, then you had best be prepared to die. At three she isn't old enough to be getting called that.

crack him in the head with the butt end of a pistol.

if my daugher married a black guy, id just disown her and never see her and then this type of problem woudlnt come up.


It sounds as this guy has actually been tollernt of this relationship, but saying that to the kid was a big slip up and not right. Not the kids fault.

Yeah, what he said

hate and ignorance suck........

Folks like that are always tryin to keep the black man down!



Just tell them "Fool, you best recognize a brotha and show some respect!"

Man, it's just sad to see people still focus on the color of someone's skin rather than what's inside the person.

I wasn't there. I get woken up by my 3 year old asking me what a ****** is?? I ask her where she got that from and she says Paw Paw called her that. I asked her why he called her that. She said she was playing in the house and he told her to stop that you little ******. Then, she asks me again what a ****** is? I told her that I would explain it later. At 3, SHE WON'T FORGET HER QUESTION! So, later on today, she'll ask me again and I need to have an answer for her. I can't go with the traditional "It's someone stupid and ignorant." b/c then her little feelings will be hurt and she'll start thinking she's stupid and ignorant. As most of you know that have been around on this board very much, I have a short temper. I feel like drop kicking him or something like that but the dude is in his 60s and I would probably end up killing him if I did that. Any suggestions on what I should tell her to explain what a ****** is?

You have 6 kids so your respectivly older than 21 and have a bit more brain.. and are a bit mature,, here is what I would do
But than of course you could also do what every other looney toon just told you.

First talk to your daughter, she is 3 so she propably doesn't understand half of it. Explain her that in the 1950's when pop pop was growing up it was common to call people of brown skin niger - nigra - negro - ****** - etc.. That he still loves her and that he was propably mad about something. That some african american's will call each other ****** as a act of brother hood, but when a white person calls an african american that word its bad. Tell her that you will ask Grandpa why he said that

And leave it at that - Within 2 short hours your kid will forget it ever happend.

Than call your father in law - calmly -
Tell him - Dad, we need to talk in person - Don't do it over the phone.

When you get together with him, ask him why he said it, tell him you had to sit down and explain her the history of the word ****** and that you and his daughter are hurt by the fact he would call his grand daughter a ******.

Let him explain it. Always keep in mind that you have 6 kids, you have one grandpa. He might not be perfect, he might grew up in a different time and it might slipped out by accident. It's not an excuse, but going on the board and screaming about it is no answer.

We are not living your life, you only can. You have to deal with him every day, so you need to be mature enough to talk to him calmly.

Thats what I would do, however I am quite a bit older and I also have 6 kids, so my patience is a lot bigger than other peoples and a lot more forgiving when it comes to certain things

damn..racism is everywhere it is really sad to see people carry that much hatred around with them anywhere.

Advice? couldnt really say never been in those shoes..not really...well...my girls parents would die if they found out she was dating a white guy...but that doesn't really bother me.

I think ya, a private calm conversation with him. And yeah i think you'd need to keep an eye on him around your kids for sure.

Never know what he would be telling them out of ear shot.

Hmmmmmm on a light note.. teach her to call him granpa honky cracker

still fucked up.. would have kicked his ass for sure

He called his grandson a ******?

Thats gotta be one of the most fucked up things I have heard.

thats fucking stupid even as a joke