Reg...I was not referring to you. I'm talking about the guys that refer to all women as bitches, brand any person with a girlfriend as a loser, and just assume that every woman is evil.

Girls play games sometimes, as do men. Each person is allowed to have their own thoughts on the subject, but the answer for everything is not to just quit and throw people out the window everytime they fuck up. If any relationship is worth having, you'll just have to accept the occasional fuck ups and chalk it up to an occasional annoying trait that is outweighed by the good qualities...Sex, looks, personality, etc.

I didn't mean to attack anybody. I just find it funny that so many guys are so bitter.

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90% at least of the replies in this thread are from guys with no g/f i guarantee it.

why in the hell would they be posting advice here otherwise?

do both yourselves a favor, treat each other with respect, thats the key to a successful relationship :2 cents:

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What she heard:

"Chuck: Anything besides talking to you right now would be more interesting"
"Chuck: You're bothering me"
"Chuck: I don't (like or love) you enough to think of new things to talk to you about"
"Chuck: I don't want to spend every waking minute with you"
"Chuck: I can't multi-task"
"Chuck: Talking to you now is excruiatingly painful :Oh crap"

Personally I'd be offended if I were her too. Even if you don't have anything to say to your girlfriend, you never actually come out and say it. You save that for after you're married! lol ...But seriously, wouldn't you be a bit insulted if she said that to you? Even if you don't have anything news worthy to speak to her about... don't you know how to make small talk? Like "Ouch I just stubbed my toe" and shit like that. Not every convo has to be in depth or meaningful... I'm sure she'd be happy just hanging out, chit chatting back and forth while you do whatever you're doing. But putting limitations on conversations with her, is VERY 8th grade. If you ever married her or anyone else, what would you do if you didn't have anything else to say? "Well I don't have anything to say to you today, be back tomorrow"

WTF... Rule #1... Women are sensitive to everything. We need CONSTANT attention. Blatantly telling us you don't want to put effort into doing so, is grounds for a break up. :1orglaugh

she just has her period man...

Also, being it's a long distance relationship, she probably feels a little extra insecure because she doesn't see you as often as she would if she wasn't 100 miles away. So being she can't see what you are doing, it makes her feel comforted to get play by play details, to fill in the gaps of what she can't see or feel for herself. Even if it's petty and boring everyday life things, they can still be interesting to someone who can't see it for themselves.

It's your responsibility (if you care) to make her feel secure and wanted in the relationship. Of course, she should return the same to you... but keep in mind, long distance strain puts thoughts into people's heads they wouldn't normally have and being she's a woman, she's extra sensitive to these emotions and insecurities. :2 cents:

BTW, at this point she was expecting you to say something along the lines of "I'm sorry I said that, I didn't mean it like it sounded. I love talking to you all I can, I'm an asshole and a little cranky today, must be the weather... forgive me :)?" then at that point is when she would have told you what was bothering her, but when you said 'what did I do', that's like telling her, you don't care as much as she does.

The solution to every problem :thumbsup

RULE #1

NEVER TALK TO YOUR GF OVER THE INTERNET


RULE #2

THERE'S NO RULE #2

Exactly! Problem-solving over ICQ - forget it!

She sounds kind of shallow if you ask me. But that's just my opinion. Maybe she's upset about something else, and all kinds of smaller percieved things are making her more upset than she would normally be.

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hey, maybe he's shallow, too ;-)

i've been with my person 5 years and we always have things to talk about. if you have nothing to talk about after 6 months, perhaps next time around you should find a gf you have things in common with.

btw, nobody - women or men - like to feel that someone thinks they're boring. the guys here can pretend that their feelings wouldn't be hurt, but i've never known a single soul who wouldn't be. some would respond by going and fucking someone else, some by pouting, and some in other ways.

isn't there something you can talk to her about that keeps you both interested - her school, your work, music, sex?

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PUSSY WHIPPED or your gay