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Is this your main purpose in life?

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/search...r&userid=12451

Some people literally have no life.

you're very lucky man!!!
you will not support them?

They IGNORED the tape, the protection order, the contempt of court, EVERYTHING! They wanted to give the child to the mother regardless...family court services already recommended that in their report to the judge...they also recommended that I only get once a week on the phone and every other weekend...Plus the child support was a killer...they said since she now lives with her mother, that she is "getting her life together"...So I was already fighting an uphill battle...

So until YOU show up in court and get reamed even though you're a good father, then you might have a clue what the fuck you're talking about... :321GFY

SLY, sweetie, they must have taught a different kind of math, where you're from, lol. Her- 9 mos., him- 3 mos. That's not shared custody. She has them 6 mos. more than he does. He owes her child support for 6 months out of the year, plain and simple. And the argument about women taking child support money and using it for drugs, boyfriends, or whatever, matters nata, unless she's doing that. It's his responsibility to pay it, for his *kids*, and if she's not taking care of them properly with it, then he needs to take her back to court. But I'm assuming the quality of their care is not an issue, since he willingly agreed for her to have them 3/4 of the year.

And yes, she may be sitting around in the PK shirt, and things are hunky dory right now, but chances are that's not gonna hold up. I'm sure he'll support his kids and do for them, but they both need to have a court ordered child support and visitation schedule to help keep things good between them. Trying to do the "we'll just work it out amongst ourselves" thing, is the single worst way to guarantee nothing but headaches. It may sound good now, but as soon as one has a new bf/gf the other doesn't like, or she decides she wants money for something that he doesn't think is necessary, etc, then the whole thing will blow up and they'll be at each other's throats again. Court orders spell everything out nice and neat and keep both of them from holding money, time with the kids, or anything else, over each other's heads when things get tense between mommy and daddy. It's sort of like lending money to a family member or friend- you still better have a signed agreement. :)

For the record- this is not against BVF, or even a mother/father thing. I believe he takes care of his kids. The person(s) who has the kids the most deserves support, weather it's the mother, father, g'parent, relative, or friend.

I'm glad the two of you are getting along again. I know your kids must be happy about it. :)

Usually the X will have a new purse the next day, that was the same amount as the check he wrote.
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congrats bvf. looks like the best outcome for everyone :0

Well, okay then. :1orglaugh Didn't see any of that tape business before I posted.

Ummm...I think I have no comment. :1orglaugh

the people jumping on bvf's ass haven't been following the saga over the last few months. his post has to be read in context you sanctimonious assholes.

and you people call yourselves board whores.. pffft.

congrats

9 months here 3 there is great for kids.

i dont know if i agree with you on that. for 9 months out of the year those kids are away from him which means they have to learn him and he has to learn them all over again everytime they see each other. that is tough on kids and god only knows what kind of shit their heads will be filled with. women are very vindictive and i can say that....

I think the person that gets the kids should be the one to pay for the kids.

Holly, darling, I had straight A's in math. I'm a product of a divorced couple with split custody over 3 children, I know how split custody works. For 12 years I lived with my dad during the school year, during the summer I spent one night a week and 3 weekends of a month with him. My mom had custody in the summer, and during the winter I spent one night a week and 3 weekends of a month with her. My mom usually had custody of us on holidays as well.

It was awarded as split custody, that's how it works. Split custody isn't just 50/50, it can be a variety of equations. It's weird, but that's how it works best to fit in with the school schedule.

If this is your subtle way of asking me if I'll have kids with you, the answer is, "no". I might be down for a little cyber, though. :girl

Pic?

Sure. I'd love to see a pic of you. ICQ # is in sig. :thumbsup

I think this is a matter of semantics. In my state it's called "joint custody". Either way, her supporting the kids for 9 months out of the year, and him doing it for 3, is not equal. I realize she "agreed" to no support. That doesn't mean she's not entitled to it those other six months, or wouldn't have been awarded it if they had gone before the judge. I bet you a million bucks she would have gotten it. If I understood him right, though, he's still gonna pay her during those months, it will just be something they agree upon themselves. I was simply pointing out that they'd both probably be better off to have it put in writing and not leave it "open". That's setting them up for a world of shit, on down the line. They have many, many years ahead to deal with one another, and you never know what will happen down the road.

Now that's enough. I'm tired of talking about someone else's divorce. Just hush and send me naked pictures of you with that headset thing on.

Yeah I knew it was your ex..I think too many judge from the picture in your sig :1orglaugh

..you're clean in my book and congrats :thumbsup

sarcasm....


besides your above mentioned, it disrupts their lifelong friendships, and plenty more.


but hey, divorce sucks. toughest on the kiddies. want a sure future, become a shrink.

you're his ex? :eek7

Yes. I thought everyone knew that by now.

your happy you don't have to pay support? your a dickhead.

maybe she will use some of the money for things she needs. ie. her hair. but ultimately it is coming out of her pocket for the kids.

if she is not taking care of the kids at all, your an even bigger dick head for not wanting full custody.

why so he can buy that bitch a fucking Escalade?

Tuck it away as they get older, and kick em what they need throughout the year but dont just hand over wads of bucks to the mom.

Congrats

What the fuck can't you idiots understand? I WILL BE AROUND ALL OF THE FUCKING TIME!! That means that my wallet will be constantly open to buy shit for them....I'll be in her state every other week...I'm going to maintain TWO HOMES just so that I can be around my mom and see my children on the regular....I'm paying for most shit now anyway.....What in the fuck is the problem with not wanting to have an exorbitant abount of money taken out of my check when i'm WILLINGLY taking care of most of the financial responsibility of my kids now?

Jesus you assmunches can't read worth a shit!!

congrats! glad it worked out for ya and the courts didn't rape you! :thumbsup

If it bothers you so damn much why don't you send her some cash?

Ooo... I love when you talk dirty to me. My place or yours? :Graucho

hahah.

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child support dodging, wife beating, oxygen theif

U STOLE MY TROLL!:1orglaugh