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mrthumbs · 10-09-2003, 08:16 AM

Just imagine, cute looking, great personality but no arms
or a leg missing.. whatever..

Consider me shallow but i dont think i could get over it.

And dont give me 'its all about the inside' crap if you dont really mean it.

So, would that be a problem for you?

grumpy · 10-09-2003, 08:21 AM

Nope wouldnt be a problem. Depending on the handicap.

swedguy · 10-09-2003, 08:24 AM

Mentally handicapped?
No

Lost an arm or a leg in a car crash?
I wouldn't have a problem with that.

It's not as attractive to look at a wooden leg. But there's more to a person than that

roly · 10-09-2003, 08:27 AM

the girl paul mcartney married only has one leg, and i'd do her

grumpy · 10-09-2003, 08:29 AM

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the girl paul mcartney married only has one leg, and i'd do her

dont like her...but yes why not. One leg missing isnt the worst.

Furious_Female · 10-09-2003, 08:31 AM

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Originally posted by mrthumbs
Just imagine, cute looking, great personality but no arms
or a leg missing.. whatever..

Consider me shallow but i dont think i could get over it.

And dont give me 'its all about the inside' crap if you dont really mean it.

So, would that be a problem for you?

My ex was retarded does that count?

It all boils down to what's on the inside unless you are disgustingly shallow. I'd be with someone that was handicapped... personality and intelligence are most important to me... looks and dick size are never an issue. Personal hygiene is a must though

Unfortunately most people are only initially interested people they are most attracted to physically, hence "love at first sight"... that's what makes the new concept of meeting people on the net so interesting. Regardless of pics, your personality has to speak volumes.

I don't know... it's been fuckin years since I've started a new relationship... I was foolishly committed from age 17-22 ...Ugh

basschick · 10-09-2003, 08:32 AM

it would depend on the handicap.

i went to place an ad at a small newspaper a while back, and this gorgeous guy with long hair answered the door in a wheelchair. i had never really thought about it either way, and i wasn't looking for a boyfriend, but i really thought about it after meeting him. he was nice, he was cute, he was thin (i like thin a lot),he was smart, he played and sang and he had a dry sense of humor.

i felt bad about myself that i had to think about it, but i did. the conclusion i came to? sure, if i was single and looking. absolutely yes.

Furious_Male · 10-09-2003, 08:34 AM

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Originally posted by Furious_Female

My ex was retarded does that count?

It all boils down to what's on the inside unless you are disgustingly shallow. I'd be with someone that was handicapped... personality and intelligence are most important to me... looks and dick size are never an issue. Personal hygiene is a must though

Unfortunately most people are only initially interested people they are most attracted to physically, hence "love at first sight"... that's what makes the new concept of meeting people on the net so interesting. Regardless of pics, your personality has to speak volumes.

I don't know... it's been fuckin years since I've started a new relationship... I was foolishly committed from age 17-22 ...Ugh

Which ex? At last count you rolling through men faster then a porn store on meth.

chowda · 10-09-2003, 08:35 AM

dating a gimp is liek shaving ur shoulders. u just dont need to.

Furious_Female · 10-09-2003, 08:38 AM

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Which ex? At last count you rolling through men faster then a porn store on meth.

THAT IS SOOOOO NOT TRUE

I only had one guy since 1996 so

puresexnow · 10-09-2003, 08:46 AM

I wouldn't...

Gots to look out for number one... and a lady with a missing limb is going to cause a degree of stress/effort on my part...

I might consider dating one if the remaining socket was fuckable.

Markit · 10-09-2003, 09:04 AM

Paul Maccartney married a former model who lost a leg in a motorcycle accident

but I dont think i would

Rochard · 10-09-2003, 09:08 AM

Been there - done that.

Many years ago - when I was a young pup - I dated a girl named Michelle. She was cute, hot, and dressed like a tramp. I had seen her before in the bar I worked at night, and she got a day job working across the hall from me.

When I first met her I had no idea she had lost the use of her legs from a car accident when she was younger.

We dated for nearly six months. She had a special car that enabled her to drive, and she walked around on crutches. She had a great outlook on life. And the sex was great.

StacyCat · 10-09-2003, 09:42 AM

I wouldnt have a problem with it, as long as it was something that still enabled them to interact with the real world.

My photographer is an amputee. I have seen several guys in wheelchairs that I would date. I feel physical attraction to faces rather than bodies.

Mr Pheer · 10-09-2003, 09:44 AM

I've only got the use of one leg.... who wants to fuck?

Tofu · 10-09-2003, 09:48 AM

yesh. imagine all the possibilties without all those extremities getting in the way

Odie · 10-09-2003, 09:50 AM

no, not an issue for me...I broke my back when I was 13 and they told me that I'd never be able to walk again....Thankfully they were wrong but had it not gone my way then I'd hope that Someone would love me...

StacyCat · 10-09-2003, 09:55 AM

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yesh. imagine all the possibilties without all those extremities getting in the way

LOL Thats why my photographer and his wife say, less of him getting in the way.

Raven · 10-09-2003, 10:01 AM

I think there would be difficulties, with, let's say a quadriplegic or paraplegic....because of the care involved....the physical care..is enormous and takes a very strong person....

We're all handicapped in some way...whether it be visible or under the surface....

I'd rather date someone with no leg than someone who is cruel or carries alot of baggage.

Tofu · 10-09-2003, 10:04 AM

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We're all handicapped in some way...whether it be visible or under the surface....

RedShoe · 10-09-2003, 10:06 AM

they're not handicapped.... they're handicapable.

stevecore · 10-09-2003, 10:06 AM

i dated a deaf girl on and off for 8 years, lived with her for 2.5 years... had no problem with it. only complaint is that she used it to become the "hapless victim" all the time. like it was some sort of scapegoat.

i would never date another handicapped person, i've actually made it one of my pre-requisites in dating.

1) No handicapped girls
2) No Jewish girls
3) No White girls
4) No born & raised California girls
5) No Bisexual girls

Say what you want about my requirements, after years in the dating field you start to know what you want after you've tried everything.... luckily i have found a fantastic girl that fills all of these requirements and i couldn't be happier.

Katlicious72 · 10-09-2003, 10:10 AM

I would date a handicapped, especially if he was in a wheelchair and still had feeling in his genital region. No need to go to bed when we can fuck in his chair.

stevecore · 10-09-2003, 10:15 AM

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Originally posted by Katlicious72
I would date a handicapped, especially if he was in a wheelchair and still had feeling in his genital region. No need to go to bed when we can fuck in his chair.

Hey girl! Where you been hiding?

Katlicious72 · 10-09-2003, 10:17 AM

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Originally posted by stevecore

Hey girl! Where you been hiding?

Hey you! I've been busy as a Mofo hunting for crack in a trash can in alley at night.

stevecore · 10-09-2003, 10:18 AM

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Originally posted by Katlicious72

Hey you! I've been busy as a Mofo hunting for crack in a trash can in alley at night.

same here! you comin' up to LA anytime soon?

Katlicious72 · 10-09-2003, 10:25 AM

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Originally posted by stevecore

same here! you comin' up to LA anytime soon?

You guys tell me when and I'll be there.

Nydahl · 10-09-2003, 10:28 AM

I am sorry I can hardly care about myself so none could ask me to help other people.I support hadnicaped people sending some money time after time but nothing else.

Marcus · 10-09-2003, 10:28 AM

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Originally posted by mrthumbs
Just imagine, cute looking, great personality but no arms
or a leg missing.. whatever..

Consider me shallow but i dont think i could get over it.

I can't even have a relationship with someone who snores in bed.

Fletch XXX · 10-09-2003, 10:29 AM

I have a friend who lost his legs in a drive by, while our relationship wasnt exactly the same afterwards, and obviously it wasnt a sexual one he was a friend, but i would never treat them any different than anyone else.

He lost his younger brother, and I lost 2 additional friends that night.

irishfury · 10-09-2003, 10:43 AM

Drive bys suck man I got show twice. Most painful shit I have ever felt....

millionaire · 10-09-2003, 10:49 AM

Ooooooooooooooooo .....

Too deep

10-09-2003, 08:16 AM	#1
mrthumbs salad tossing sig guy Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: mrthumbs*gmail.com Posts: 11,702	could you have a relationship with a handicapped? Just imagine, cute looking, great personality but no arms or a leg missing.. whatever.. Consider me shallow but i dont think i could get over it. And dont give me 'its all about the inside' crap if you dont really mean it. So, would that be a problem for you?

10-09-2003, 08:21 AM	#2
grumpy Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Holland Posts: 9,870	Nope wouldnt be a problem. Depending on the handicap. __________________ Don't let greediness blur your vision \| You gotta let some shit slide icq - 441-456-888

10-09-2003, 08:32 AM	#7
basschick Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: el lay, ca usa Posts: 2,540	it would depend on the handicap. i went to place an ad at a small newspaper a while back, and this gorgeous guy with long hair answered the door in a wheelchair. i had never really thought about it either way, and i wasn't looking for a boyfriend, but i really thought about it after meeting him. he was nice, he was cute, he was thin (i like thin a lot),he was smart, he played and sang and he had a dry sense of humor. i felt bad about myself that i had to think about it, but i did. the conclusion i came to? sure, if i was single and looking. absolutely yes. __________________ Got Gay and For Women Traffic?

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swedguy Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 7,981	Mentally handicapped? No Lost an arm or a leg in a car crash? I wouldn't have a problem with that. It's not as attractive to look at a wooden leg. But there's more to a person than that

10-09-2003, 08:27 AM	#4
roly Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 1,844	the girl paul mcartney married only has one leg, and i'd do her

10-09-2003, 08:46 AM	#11
puresexnow Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 300	I wouldn't... Gots to look out for number one... and a lady with a missing limb is going to cause a degree of stress/effort on my part... I might consider dating one if the remaining socket was fuckable.

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Rochard Jägermeister Test Pilot Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: NORCAL Posts: 74,324	Been there - done that. Many years ago - when I was a young pup - I dated a girl named Michelle. She was cute, hot, and dressed like a tramp. I had seen her before in the bar I worked at night, and she got a day job working across the hall from me. When I first met her I had no idea she had lost the use of her legs from a car accident when she was younger. We dated for nearly six months. She had a special car that enabled her to drive, and she walked around on crutches. She had a great outlook on life. And the sex was great. __________________ “The choice is no longer between right or left. The choice is between normal and crazy.” - Sarah Huckabee Sanders YNOT MAIL \| THE BEST ADULT MAILING SOLUTION

10-09-2003, 09:42 AM	#14
StacyCat Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Texas Posts: 1,167	I wouldnt have a problem with it, as long as it was something that still enabled them to interact with the real world. My photographer is an amputee. I have seen several guys in wheelchairs that I would date. I feel physical attraction to faces rather than bodies.

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Mr Pheer Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 21,483	I've only got the use of one leg.... who wants to fuck?

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Tofu The Video Specialist Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: California Posts: 5,615	yesh. imagine all the possibilties without all those extremities getting in the way __________________ tofu916 video services - tofu916.com twitter: tofu916 \| skype: tofu916 \| tel: 916-672-TOFU \| e: tofu # tofu916.com

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Odie Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: The WATER BABY! Posts: 7,040	no, not an issue for me...I broke my back when I was 13 and they told me that I'd never be able to walk again....Thankfully they were wrong but had it not gone my way then I'd hope that Someone would love me... __________________ Odie [email protected] Are you Mobile???? MMACanada ICQ # 166208354 See Who I Am At AdultWhosWho.com!

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Raven Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 6,874	I think there would be difficulties, with, let's say a quadriplegic or paraplegic....because of the care involved....the physical care..is enormous and takes a very strong person.... We're all handicapped in some way...whether it be visible or under the surface.... I'd rather date someone with no leg than someone who is cruel or carries alot of baggage. __________________ Raven ~RETIRED~

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stevecore Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 6,130	i dated a deaf girl on and off for 8 years, lived with her for 2.5 years... had no problem with it. only complaint is that she used it to become the "hapless victim" all the time. like it was some sort of scapegoat. i would never date another handicapped person, i've actually made it one of my pre-requisites in dating. 1) No handicapped girls 2) No Jewish girls 3) No White girls 4) No born & raised California girls 5) No Bisexual girls Say what you want about my requirements, after years in the dating field you start to know what you want after you've tried everything.... luckily i have found a fantastic girl that fills all of these requirements and i couldn't be happier.

10-09-2003, 10:10 AM	#23
Katlicious72 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Californicating in San Diego Posts: 1,665	I would date a handicapped, especially if he was in a wheelchair and still had feeling in his genital region. No need to go to bed when we can fuck in his chair. __________________ Fetish Preview....Coming Soon! ICQ# 308-229-815

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Nydahl Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: closer then it appears Posts: 6,655	I am sorry I can hardly care about myself so none could ask me to help other people.I support hadnicaped people sending some money time after time but nothing else. __________________ www.garciniatrio.com www.acaitrio.com www.greencoffeetrio.com ICQ 153918034 email [email protected]

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10-09-2003, 10:49 AM	#32
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