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calm · 10-05-2003, 04:07 AM

Guys? Girls? What's the cutoff point? At what point does it just become disgusting/comical?

Reak · 10-05-2003, 04:09 AM

Libertine · 10-05-2003, 04:12 AM

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Originally posted by Reak
10 ?

Actually, I'm sad to say I have double standards for men vs women with this issue. I wouldn't even touch a woman who had been with as many people as I have... well, ofcourse unless they were all women

EvilToyBoy · 10-05-2003, 04:13 AM

I reached ridiculous a LONG time ago.

And I wonder why I can't maintain anything even closely RESEMBLING a normal relationship.

Maybe doing porn doesn't help either, but I've been in and out of the sex industry for 19 years now.

ToyBoy is FUBAR.

calm · 10-05-2003, 04:15 AM

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Originally posted by punkworld

Actually, I'm sad to say I have double standards for men vs women with this issue. I wouldn't even touch a woman who had been with as many people as I have... well, ofcourse unless they were all women

I think most men have double standards... let's hear a number though. What would you hear and go "damn girl, you're a ho!"

Libertine · 10-05-2003, 04:17 AM

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Originally posted by calm

I think most men have double standards... let's hear a number though. What would you hear and go "damn girl, you're a ho!"

Ho? That would start at like 400 or something.
However, I wouldn't marry a girl who wasn't either a virgin or very close (3 people tops).

EvilToyBoy · 10-05-2003, 04:19 AM

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Originally posted by calm
I think most men have double standards... let's hear a number though. What would you hear and go "damn girl, you're a ho!"

The logic of mainstream society seems to dictate that:

A guy sleeps with 2 girls in a week and he is a legend.

A girl sleeps with 2 guys in a year and she's a slut.

What that fucked up logic fails to take into account is that without those alleged "sluts" NO guy could ever become a legend.

My #'s?

You wouldn't believe me if I told you, so I won't, and as for my partners... well, I don't have double standards, so go hard!!

Libertine · 10-05-2003, 04:20 AM

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Originally posted by EvilToyBoy
I reached ridiculous a LONG time ago.

And I wonder why I can't maintain anything even closely RESEMBLING a normal relationship.

Maybe doing porn doesn't help either, but I've been in and out of the sex industry for 19 years now.

ToyBoy is FUBAR.

I think the "ridiculous" level for gay guys is a lot higher than it is for straight guys. Gay guys get laid a lot easier, so it is only natural if they have a lot more sexual partners.

Libertine · 10-05-2003, 04:21 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by EvilToyBoy

The logic of mainstream society seems to dictate that:

A guy sleeps with 2 girls in a week and he is a legend.

A girl sleeps with 2 guys in a year and she's a slut.

What that fucked up logic fails to take into account is that without those alleged "sluts" NO guy could ever become a legend.

That's simply not true. Guys are considered sluts as well, believe me.

EvilToyBoy · 10-05-2003, 04:22 AM

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Originally posted by punkworld
I think the "ridiculous" level for gay guys is a lot higher than it is for straight guys. Gay guys get laid a lot easier, so it is only natural if they have a lot more sexual partners.

So the natural assumption is that I am gay?

EvilToyBoy · 10-05-2003, 04:23 AM

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Originally posted by punkworld
That's simply not true. Guys are considered sluts as well, believe me.

Absolutely agree, but they are more often than not lauded for it, not denounced as girls generally are.

Equality is a state of mind.

Libertine · 10-05-2003, 04:25 AM

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Originally posted by EvilToyBoy

So the natural assumption is that I am gay?

Ehm... YES??
Your site says "Keeping gay money in the community". That's a pretty strong indication, don't you think?

EvilToyBoy · 10-05-2003, 04:31 AM

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Originally posted by punkworld
Ehm... YES?? Your site says "Keeping gay money in the community". That's a pretty strong indication, don't you think?

Fair enough point, but doesn't preclude me from being Bi does it?

Ross · 10-05-2003, 04:31 AM

Libertine · 10-05-2003, 04:32 AM

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Originally posted by EvilToyBoy

Fair enough point, but doesn't preclude me from being Bi does it?

But in that case, my earlier point would be twice as valid

EvilToyBoy · 10-05-2003, 04:34 AM

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Originally posted by punkworld
I think the "ridiculous" level for gay guys is a lot higher than it is for straight guys. Gay guys get laid a lot easier, so it is only natural if they have a lot more sexual partners.

Another spin on this is that IMHO one of the key reasons gay guys get laid a lot easier is they are happy with their own sexuality and aren't bothered by things like Heterophobia.

EvilToyBoy · 10-05-2003, 04:35 AM

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Originally posted by punkworld
But in that case, my earlier point would be twice as valid

touche!!!!

JDog · 10-05-2003, 04:35 AM

When you start itchin!

jDoG

JDog · 10-05-2003, 04:37 AM

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Originally posted by punkworld

Ho? That would start at like 400 or something.
However, I wouldn't marry a girl who wasn't either a virgin or very close (3 people tops).

What number are you on tho?

jDoG

Libertine · 10-05-2003, 04:45 AM

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Originally posted by EvilToyBoy

Another spin on this is that IMHO one of the key reasons gay guys get laid a lot easier is they are happy with their own sexuality and aren't bothered by things like Heterophobia.

I think it's more about guys being easier than women. I mean, I'm not gay, and I don't go to gay bars, and still guys hit on me quite regularly... more so than women even. I even had a male model (fashion model) fall in love with me once LOL

kmanrox · 10-05-2003, 04:47 AM

i'm well over 500, and only appx 25-35% of them were whores.... and i feel i still have ALOT of work to get up to par with the standards... i'm 27... and obviously slackin in my pimpskillz

Libertine · 10-05-2003, 04:47 AM

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Originally posted by JDog

What number are you on tho?

jDoG

Lost count. Let's just say I was a legend in high school.

EvilToyBoy · 10-05-2003, 04:51 AM

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Originally posted by punkworld
I think it's more about guys being easier than women. I mean, I'm not gay, and I don't go to gay bars, and still guys hit on me quite regularly... more so than women even. I even had a male model (fashion model) fall in love with me once LOL

Quite true on guys being easier. Even if gay it is still true that most men can have sex without the level of emotional attachment of most women, but it is also true that because gay guys are generally more comfortable with sexuality issues (generally!!), so there is less fear of rejection, therefore, they are more willing to ask!!!

No-matter what, where, when and how, the best pick-up line in the world is still, "Hi, my name is...."

Adulter · 10-05-2003, 04:58 AM

EvilToyBoy · 10-05-2003, 05:14 AM

4 ???

blazin · 10-05-2003, 08:25 AM

My lady would crush my nutsack if she even remotely smelt something fishing

In a previous relationship I lost count of how many girls I boned. But I only ever had 4-5 affairs on the side (ie more than one fuck).

It justs get to be a headache with all these woman demanding your time. I ended up dumping all 3 of them in the end.

doober · 10-05-2003, 08:41 AM

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Originally posted by Ross
2...

you must be in love lol

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 10-05-2003, 08:49 AM

remember guys..women are ALL evil sluts and will lie to you about this....these are facts straight from the GFY boards (it must be true!!)

if you ask her how many guys she has been with and she says two..that means 200..how will you ever know if she is telling the truth

Herb Kornfield · 10-05-2003, 08:53 AM

There is no limit to the number because the real numbers people have and the ones they tell you arent the same.

Just hit em all, one day you will be a nasty old man or nasty old woman sitting in a chair in a nursing home with apple sauce running down your face and pissing yourself as the orderlies that work there sit your wheelchair bound ass in front of infomercails for 23 hours a day.

Hit all that can you can regardless of what they plowed or been plowed by.

No one wants to hire you for a job with no experience. Same concept.

Paul Markham · 10-05-2003, 08:54 AM

Never bothered to count and never asked.

Who cares?

Maybe those who are worried they will not "measure up", a problem I never had.

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 10-05-2003, 09:02 AM

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Originally posted by charly
Never bothered to count and never asked.

Who cares?

Maybe those who are worried they will not "measure up"

brand0n · 10-05-2003, 09:04 AM

thats really up to the person.. what is ok for me, is just childs play to alot of people.

sexeducation · 10-05-2003, 09:08 AM

Interesting thread ...

Evolutionarily wise the female has much more to risk from "sex", and therefore has become more cautious about having it. Pregnancy is a risky affair and then there is the support issues of food & shelter.

Whereas, for guys - the more amorous they were the more likely their genes will survive for generations and little risk.

When HIV first broke out - the promiscous behaviour of homosexual men was "proven" (?). The homosexual man felt there was little risk to their behaviour and we saw "evolutionary" biology catch up.

The lesbian community did not experience HIV transmission rates even close to that of the gay male community. And the pandemic expected in the hetrosexual community did not occur.

Anyways ...
Interesting thread.

Good morning all.

sweet7 · 10-05-2003, 09:25 AM

Is it better to pay a visit to somebody or to be visited?

sexeducation · 10-05-2003, 09:32 AM

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Originally posted by sweet7
Is it better to pay a visit to somebody or to be visited?

To give or receive?
That's like a whole new thread.

To me ...
There is no use giving if the other is not receiving.
There is no use receiving if the other is not giving.
IMO

cronos · 10-05-2003, 11:22 AM

The correct answer to this of course is 14. Goes without saying.

MetaMan · 10-05-2003, 11:24 AM

depends, if u r out fucking hoes without a break in between for a normal realationship its to many.

IntenseCash · 10-05-2003, 11:26 AM

I have been with 3 right now... In this relationship I am in, I dont expect that number to raise anymore.

The girl I dated last year, I was lucky number 13 for her. That was one of the reasons I left her. I saw her a couple weeks ago, she is up to 34 different guys now, and she is pregnate. LOL go figure!

Dax · 10-05-2003, 11:57 AM

oK, from MY experience.. the magical number is anywhere between 6 - 8. I once said i had been with 3 girls and the girl said.. poor baby.. u can't get any... I was like whaaaa??? Then the next girl I told her i had been with 14 she said...ewwww you are a slut!

So I kept on trying making up numbers.... and I found out that the best reactions fall right between 6 and 8. So now that is what I use...;)

But im still avirgin

Holly · 10-05-2003, 12:29 PM

calm- are you as happy today as I am??? That was better than sex. Even if Atlanta would have sucked (which, btw- they kicked ass once again), nothing could have ruined my day yesterday. We dominated the entire time. So, so good.

For your other question- with guys it has to be at least 4 digits, or they're a loser. For girls, 2 or more makes you a whore. I think that's how it works, isn't it?

Holly · 10-05-2003, 12:39 PM

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Originally posted by sexeducation
To give or receive?
That's like a whole new thread.

To me ...
There is no use giving if the other is not receiving.
There is no use receiving if the other is not giving.
IMO

Unfortunately, neither matters for you, cause little kids that you've tied down to your bed don't count. Fuck off kiddie raper.

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grogan · 10-05-2003, 12:42 PM

here's some real numbers.

no more than 6 for a girl, no more than 60 for a guy. guy needs more time to fuck around, girl needs to keep her snatch fresh for me.

Furious_Female · 10-05-2003, 12:44 PM

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Originally posted by Herb Kornfield
No one wants to hire you for a job with no experience. Same concept.

No that's not true... I wouldn't date or touch a guy who has been with more than 6 or 7 different chicks. Mainly because a good indication of future behavior, is past behavior and I definitely don't want a slutty guy in my future

Society does make it more acceptable for a guy to sleep around, than for a woman who is automatically considered a whore. But trust me, there are women out there, I for one, who think men are whores too and we look down on them, same way all you guys look down on women who you think are sluts!

BlackCrayon · 10-05-2003, 12:46 PM

i try and not worry about numbers much myself. the only concern really is STD's and the fact that the more people a person is with, the more likely they are to cheat on you.

Holly · 10-05-2003, 01:11 PM

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Originally posted by grogan
here's some real numbers.

no more than 6 for a girl, no more than 60 for a guy. guy needs more time to fuck around, girl needs to keep her snatch fresh for me.

Wow, I've only slept with 2 guys, Grogan, so I think that means I still have a shot with you!! I don't even care if you want to bang more than 60 chix. I won't hold it against you.

Are you ready for tonight???

I got too excited about the Tigers trampling Tennessee yesterday to fully devote the time that was needed to create a shrine to Chipper, here on the board.

7:30 est/6:30 my time - winner takes all!!!!

lexr · 10-05-2003, 06:42 PM

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Originally posted by calm
Guys? Girls? What's the cutoff point? At what point does it just become disgusting/comical?

No limit. It's like money.. anyone who says you can have too much money doesn't actually have any!

Of course, if I wanted to be politically correct the answer would probably be 2. But then I'd be a hypocrite.

George Bush Jr. · 10-05-2003, 08:18 PM

Some people have more sex than others so thats hard to say , but i would say as a general rule of thumb . " never have more than twice what your current partner has "

Really when it boils down to it , for a guy it doesnt matter.

There can be good things and bad things.

HEARTBREAKER · 10-05-2003, 08:41 PM

starting 2 onwards

calm · 10-05-2003, 08:46 PM

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Originally posted by Holly
calm- are you as happy today as I am??? That was better than sex. Even if Atlanta would have sucked (which, btw- they kicked ass once again), nothing could have ruined my day yesterday. We dominated the entire time. So, so good.

Hell yeah! I got a live update ever 10 minutes in the form of a cell phone call that was always in this form: "WAR DAMN EAGLE!! [insert play here] ALRIGHT BACK TO THE GAME, WE'RE KICKING ASS"

beemk · 10-05-2003, 08:46 PM

whenever a girl asks me i always give her a sarcastic remark like 300 then say just kidding, then i change the subject.

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