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LadyMischief 10-04-2003 03:36 PM
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Originally posted by ytcracker
LM - thanks a lot for the advice - ill give it a shot.

i do see a lot of craving attention from her and i try to give it to her whenever possible, sometimes i think she thinks its not enough. fact is, i dont have ALL that time to devote to her and my daughter and i wish i did.

PK good philosophy for sure as well.

i dont want to abandon all hope just yet i dig challenges and weathering storms and what not, it simply is true however that if it hurts too much to love it aint worth it.

good words from all thanks.

http://www.ytcracker.com/images/joleneandbaby.jpg

a more candid shot not at her best - you probably met her at internext if u saw me
You're welcome. If you guys had been together a long time and your problems were really long standing my advice might be different.. but this is more of an adaptation thing than anything else. Comprimise is the key. Communication and love will do the rest :)

Chris 10-04-2003 04:43 PM
Hey bro

that is some fucked up shit. you told us last night you and the wife where having some beef ... in that thread it was brought up that you two are young and you two dont get to do the things you should be doing. You are to busy raising a family. Someone said why dont you two go out alone. Do what you guys havnt been able to do in awhile. Get the grandparents to watch the kid for a night or two. Take her out. I am sure she would love it and it would give you two some time just to be with each other. Im sure right now she will just tell you to fuck off but DONT give up ... think about your family. Dont end this ugly ...

footsex 10-04-2003 04:55 PM
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Originally posted by Furious_Female


:1orglaugh

Actually I'm not saying that couples shouldn't have their own personal freedoms and do things on their own or with friends. Couples shouldn't be together every single second. What I was saying is, I don't think bars and clubs are a healthy outlet for "fun" when you are married. Everyone has to agree, people only go to bars/clubs to get wasted and/or laid... very very few actually go just to dance or for music. You can say naa I just go to chill with my friends... Ok... how much conversation is being heard and understood when you're smashed off your ass or someone else is and it's so loud you can't even hear yourself. I just personally think it's the wrong atmosphere for a married person to be in, because it's something for single people and/or people looking to get laid. Maybe at a small town bar, there's casual drinks and a bunch of dudes hanging out... but most bars/clubs are wall to wall meat markets. If you want to get wasted, you can do that just about anywhere... why does it have to be where you are pressed up against people in every direction? That might be acceptable to SOME people, but not to everyone... It's not the same thing as golfing with buddies or shopping with girlfriends. That's my opinion on it.

I may be insecure or have other convictions about things... but I am just more "old fashioned" than most modern relationships. If you talk to couples who have been married for 20, 30, 40 or more years and are happy... chances are, they won't say it's that way because my wife or my husband went to bars/clubs once in awhile.

you are a walking disaster:glugglug :glugglug

12clicks 10-04-2003 05:19 PM
Not flaming you but as an elder statesmen of this kiddie board let me say YOU have a lot of growing up to do.
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Originally posted by ytcracker
im sick of my wife being immature and ungrateful - taking everything for granted
what exactly is she ungrateful about and taking for granted?
please don't chirp about providing for her etc. etc. unless you don't take her raising your daughter for granted as well.

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Originally posted by ytcracker
shes sick of my long hours and unwillingness to be ruled
if you're working long hours, perhaps you need to be ruled. what is it you're doing with all these long hours?

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Originally posted by ytcracker
my friends 21st birthday was last night so i went out with them - agreed that once the wife called i would bounce, which i did.

she was pissed i was at a bar, which is retarded because where the fuck else would i be. yelled at me in front of everyone, acting hard.
if you "bounced" when she called, how did she have the opportunity to yell at you in front of everyone? she have to come get you or did you bring your drunk friends home with you? bad either way.

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Originally posted by ytcracker
anyway straw that broke the camels back - shes not traditionally materialistic or anything and fairly low maintenence but she gives me absolutely no credit where credit is due - that shit is tiring.
can you tell us what you've done that merits credit?

Furious_Female 10-04-2003 05:24 PM
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Originally posted by footsex



you are a walking disaster:glugglug :glugglug
Why's that? Because I say what a lot of women think... Not everyone views a marriage the same way. If you are ok with your spouse going to bars or clubs without you, good for you. Doesn't mean it's wrong that someone else doesn't like it :)

Sharky 10-04-2003 05:25 PM
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Originally posted by BVF


don't listen to this man because he obviously hasn't been in the situation...I'm in it RIGHT NOW!! I have custody of my kids and they are upstairs as we speak...the "loviing" mom is on supervised visitation....

I speak from recent experience in this very particular issue...the rest of these people don't....
Obviously your situation is different. Your girl beat your ass.

SomeCreep 10-04-2003 05:44 PM
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Originally posted by ytcracker
marital differences are a bitch

sucks i have a kid too garbage

pray the divorce doesnt rape me
wtf, divorce? Women are lame, always drama with them.

chronic avenger 10-04-2003 05:47 PM
:mad: man I feel you. baby's momma drama is the worst... give it a while hopefully you can work som' thin' out for the kid at least

TheFLY 10-04-2003 06:01 PM
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Originally posted by Furious_Female


Not to sound like a bitch, but I think that's the problem with a lot of new marriages today. People still want to do things that single people do. If I had a husband, I'd never put up with him going to bars/clubs. It's just wrong... regardless of whose birthday it is... that's putting yourself in temptation's path. No matter how innocent or harmless it might be... it's just not healthy for a marriage.

It's great to work and provide for your family, but being responsible and attentive goes a lot further than just how hard you bust your ass or how many things you can buy. Just because you set aside some free time just for family, doesn't mean it makes up for the lost time working or doing other things.

My parents didn't have a great marriage but I can only imagine how much worse it would have been if one of them were still going to bars/clubs. I know I wouldn't have liked to see mommy or daddy hanging out in a bar a few nights a week, it's traumatizing and creates insecurities. That's something you have to give up all together if you are ready for marriage. Unless of course, you do it together and that's what you are both happy with. But if one of the people in the marriage, doesn't like it... it's always going to be a problem.

I just don't think partying, without your spouse is good at any time. Having time away from each other is healthy, doing your own hobbies etc... but bars, clubs, parties etc.. That's for single people. People might disagree and that's fine... what works for one person/couple, doesn't always work for the next and if one person in a relationship doesn't like it, it will never work.

Flame away... that's just my opinion.
:2 cents:
I know for a fact this is good advice.

TheFLY 10-04-2003 06:21 PM
This is my best advice... Forget GFY... you need A+ advice... go find some smart old people... old people are SMART... Not only do they have all that experience, but they've listened to other people's stories, and stories of stories and they've had time to reflect on what is really important in life... You/your wife might see things in a completely new perspective...



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TheFLY 10-04-2003 06:46 PM
I'm only 28, but in the last year my life has changed A LOT... and I'm single -- I have all day long to think about life LOL... A few months before my birthday I had this realization -- and it sounds simple, but when it really hits you -- it hits you hard... You start to see that "maturity" changes so fast -- it is not something you can reach when you're an "adult" -- learning is a curve that takes you up up up and you really don't know what's in store for you -- you got to keep reaching for...

The 1 real truth -- it's hard enough for 1 person to reach for it -- now you got 3!


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