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  • Fappeddotcom
    Confirmed User
    • Apr 2003
    • 175

    #1

    Hate asking for charity

    and I don't expect any of you to help but I'm in a serious bind and don't have any other place to turn.

    I won't bore you with the details...that, and I honestly don't want to recount what's happened so I'll try to summarize.

    Lost both parents to cancer..most recently, my father in April. No life insurance or savings. Been working odd jobs and trying to start a web-business for the past year or so..with little success. I have just lost my regular job, which paid just above minimum wage, and don't have a dime to my name. (actually, that's not true, I have $0.25 as hard as that is to believe, on my bank checking statement). I'm behind on the water and electricity bill this month and my rent is already $275 behind from the previous two months..my landlord has been understanding but is growing impatient (which I fully understand). I have no other family (except a younger brother that I take care of) to turn to. My two dogs are healthy, however, and so are myself and my brother..I am thankful for that.

    I've survived before and I'll survive this time but things are just looking really bleak right now. Before you ask, I am out looking for work and I have cut my bills down to the bare essentials (Internet will be cut off at the end of this month unless I find a job before then).

    If you flame me for this, that's your choice and I can't say that I would blame you. Like I said, I don't expect anyone to help out a stranger but on the off chance that you have a few dollars in your paypal account to send to someone in dire need, I thought I had to take that chance.

    my paypal addy is [email protected]
    I would appreciate any loose change or even well wishes and words of encouragement. I <b>will</b> pay you back when I get on my feet. Thank you..I'll hopefully see all of you during better times.
    How you doin'?
  • AaronM
    GFY Royality ;)
    • Oct 2001
    • 46923

    #2
    Spacedog?

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    • lil2rich4u2
      ICQ: 175171926
      • Oct 2002
      • 11046

      #3
      Originally posted by AaronM
      Spacedog?
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      • AaronM
        GFY Royality ;)
        • Oct 2001
        • 46923

        #4
        Originally posted by lil2rich4u2


        Spacedog?

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        • lil2rich4u2
          ICQ: 175171926
          • Oct 2002
          • 11046

          #5
          Originally posted by AaronM


          Spacedog?
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          • xxweekxx
            Confirmed User
            • Oct 2002
            • 6780

            #6
            guys come on send him some $
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            • xxweekxx
              Confirmed User
              • Oct 2002
              • 6780

              #7
              You have sent cash! An email has been sent to the recipient


              I sent ya $50. i hope you are not bullshitting with the cancer stuff.

              Good luck
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              • Sly_RJ
                Live Hard - Die Hard
                • Feb 2002
                • 17042

                #8
                I have some pretty basic work I could have you do. How about that?
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                • Fappeddotcom
                  Confirmed User
                  • Apr 2003
                  • 175

                  #9
                  xxweekxx,
                  I can't thank you enough. I wish I were bsing about losing both of my parents to cancer, that would mean that they were still here, but I am not. You didn't have to help out a stranger...I am, and always will be very grateful that you did.

                  You don't know what this means to me after these past few months. It's very hard to swallow one's pride and ask people for help ... I am honestly tearing up right now...thank you so very much for helping me out.
                  How you doin'?

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                  • Tala
                    Fucked if I know
                    • Dec 2002
                    • 23368

                    #10
                    If I had it to send, I'd help you out. Hope things start looking better for you soon.

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                    • Fappeddotcom
                      Confirmed User
                      • Apr 2003
                      • 175

                      #11
                      Sly_RJ,
                      Absolutely. e-mail me and let me know what it is...I'm on it. Thank you very much.
                      How you doin'?

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                      • Va2k
                        I’m still alive barley.
                        • Oct 2001
                        • 10060

                        #12
                        Hey man I know how ya feel good luck wish there was something I could do but im in one hell of a bind myself right now. maybe list the shit you can do like html, galleries, design etc... good luck

                        TOM

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                        • theking
                          Nice Kitty
                          • Sep 2002
                          • 21053

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Sly_RJ
                          I have some pretty basic work I could have you do. How about that?
                          Are you employed by anyone now?
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                          • xxweekxx
                            Confirmed User
                            • Oct 2002
                            • 6780

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Fappeddotcom
                            xxweekxx,
                            I can't thank you enough. I wish I were bsing about losing both of my parents to cancer, that would mean that they were still here, but I am not. You didn't have to help out a stranger...I am, and always will be very grateful that you did.

                            You don't know what this means to me after these past few months. It's very hard to swallow one's pride and ask people for help ... I am honestly tearing up right now...thank you so very much for helping me out.

                            no problem bro i was in a big mess too till i started doing good. I'll keep your paypal on my list and i have a deal that is supposed to work out very well for me. if it does i'll send you more $$$

                            Good luck
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                            • Fappeddotcom
                              Confirmed User
                              • Apr 2003
                              • 175

                              #15
                              Tala,
                              Thank you for the well-wishes. It means just as much to me right now.

                              va2k,
                              I can do some design work..I know a bit of HTML and have done web marketing. Thank you as well for the well-wishes. I sincerely appreciate it.
                              How you doin'?

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                              • xxweekxx
                                Confirmed User
                                • Oct 2002
                                • 6780

                                #16
                                Originally posted by Fappeddotcom
                                xxweekxx,
                                I can't thank you enough. I wish I were bsing about losing both of my parents to cancer, that would mean that they were still here, but I am not. You didn't have to help out a stranger...I am, and always will be very grateful that you did.

                                You don't know what this means to me after these past few months. It's very hard to swallow one's pride and ask people for help ... I am honestly tearing up right now...thank you so very much for helping me out.

                                also for all you stingy muthafuckers.. i know $50 doesnt mean crap to most of you here but you dont know what it means for someone else.. Why dont you guys send him some little $$.

                                There are a lot of big players here who make $50 in a few seconds so why not help the fella out... You never know..
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                                • Fappeddotcom
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Apr 2003
                                  • 175

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by xxweekxx



                                  no problem bro i was in a big mess too till i started doing good. I'll keep your paypal on my list and i have a deal that is supposed to work out very well for me. if it does i'll send you more $$$

                                  Good luck
                                  You've already been very kind..I couldn't accept anything else... This has honestly given me hope for the first time in a long time. Thank you doesn't seem like enough. I am a man of my word, and I promise that every cent that is sent to me will be repaid once I get back on my feet.
                                  How you doin'?

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                                  • Sly_RJ
                                    Live Hard - Die Hard
                                    • Feb 2002
                                    • 17042

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by theking


                                    Are you employed by anyone now?
                                    "Employed" is such a tricky word. But yes, I do sales for Phat Servers and still run my own side projects.

                                    Why do you ask?
                                    Last edited by Sly_RJ; 08-11-2003, 12:19 PM.
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                                    • sextoyking
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Dec 2001
                                      • 6034

                                      #19
                                      Hi Fappeddotcom,

                                      Sorry to hear about the loss of your parents.

                                      I have sent you a paypal, I hope it helps some. I will talk with the team and see if mabey there is some side work for you to do until you get employed full time with some company.

                                      thanks

                                      Todd
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                                      • xxweekxx
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Oct 2002
                                        • 6780

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by sextoyking
                                        Hi Fappeddotcom,

                                        Sorry to hear about the loss of your parents.

                                        I have sent you a paypal, I hope it helps some. I will talk with the team and see if mabey there is some side work for you to do until you get employed full time with some company.

                                        thanks

                                        Todd



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                                        • GeXus
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • May 2003
                                          • 3320

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by xxweekxx
                                          You have sent cash! An email has been sent to the recipient


                                          I sent ya $50. i hope you are not bullshitting with the cancer stuff.

                                          Good luck


                                          Can you say "Ive been scammed"

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                                          • Sly_RJ
                                            Live Hard - Die Hard
                                            • Feb 2002
                                            • 17042

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by GeXus




                                            Can you say "Ive been scammed"
                                            Maybe. Maybe not.

                                            Sometimes $50 is worth the chance of turning someone's life around.
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                                            • Fappeddotcom
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • Apr 2003
                                              • 175

                                              #23
                                              Todd,
                                              Thank you so much for your generosity. I've honestly never experienced anything like this before..the kindness of strangers. You are all amazing people and I will never forget your kindness.

                                              I also would like to thank those of you who have offered me some side-jobs. I will absolutely take them and you can count on my best effort in doing them. Thank you all once again.
                                              How you doin'?

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                                              • xxweekxx
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • Oct 2002
                                                • 6780

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by GeXus




                                                Can you say "Ive been scammed"

                                                idiot
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                                                • xxweekxx
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                                                  • Oct 2002
                                                  • 6780

                                                  #25
                                                  for fucking once GFY does something good
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                                                  • AssFairy
                                                    Confirmed User
                                                    • Jun 2003
                                                    • 674

                                                    #26
                                                    It is good to see somebody being given a helping hand in their time of need I'll send you some traffic to your TGP I hope that helps a little
                                                    I sale lube

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                                                    • GeXus
                                                      Confirmed User
                                                      • May 2003
                                                      • 3320

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by xxweekxx



                                                      idiot
                                                      Um no. You realize that the $50 will be going towards a couple bottles of Jack daniells right?

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                                                      • Fappeddotcom
                                                        Confirmed User
                                                        • Apr 2003
                                                        • 175

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by GeXus




                                                        Can you say "Ive been scammed"
                                                        GeXus,
                                                        I understand your cynicism, I just hope that you don't have to go through a tough time in your life..but if you do, I hope myself or some of these fine people who have helped me are there to give you hope that things will get better. Take care.
                                                        How you doin'?

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                                                        • galleryseek
                                                          Confirmed User
                                                          • Mar 2002
                                                          • 8234

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by GeXus


                                                          Um no. You realize that the $50 will be going towards a couple bottles of Jack daniells right?
                                                          lol, although that would probably be true in a lot of cases, there are actually a few people who don't resort to drinking when they're in tight situations.

                                                          and its no reason not to contribute.

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                                                          • xxweekxx
                                                            Confirmed User
                                                            • Oct 2002
                                                            • 6780

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by GeXus


                                                            Um no. You realize that the $50 will be going towards a couple bottles of Jack daniells right?

                                                            no it wont. and even if it does, so what? i feel happy i helped someone out. you never know. maybe my $50 stopped him from doing something stupid....


                                                            If you wont help him out thats fine, i have no problem helping out someone in need any day.. thats how i was brought up.
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                                                            • xxweekxx
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                                                              • Oct 2002
                                                              • 6780

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by galleryseek



                                                              and its no reason not to contribute.

                                                              yup..
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                                                              • GeXus
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                                                                • May 2003
                                                                • 3320

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by Fappeddotcom


                                                                GeXus,
                                                                I understand your cynicism, I just hope that you don't have to go through a tough time in your life..but if you do, I hope myself or some of these fine people who have helped me are there to give you hope that things will get better. Take care.
                                                                Dude come on give me a break.. If its true then well i hope things work out for you.. but lets be realistic here..

                                                                1. Why are you posting on a porn webmaster board looking for handouts? Do you not have any local friends you could borrow from?

                                                                2. Why did you loose your minimum wage job?

                                                                3. Why dont you get off you ass in front of the computer, which doesnt seem to be making you much money and get a J-O-B!
                                                                and dont say you cant find one. Work at Mcdonalds, anywhere, Just get a fucking job that can make you at least enough money to survive.. and stop asking for handouts!

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                                                                • xxweekxx
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • Oct 2002
                                                                  • 6780

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by GeXus


                                                                  Dude come on give me a break.. If its true then well i hope things work out for you.. but lets be realistic here..

                                                                  1. Why are you posting on a porn webmaster board looking for handouts? Do you not have any local friends you could borrow from?

                                                                  2. Why did you loose your minimum wage job?

                                                                  3. Why dont you get off you ass in front of the computer, which doesnt seem to be making you much money and get a J-O-B!
                                                                  and dont say you cant find one. Work at Mcdonalds, anywhere, Just get a fucking job that can make you at least enough money to survive.. and stop asking for handouts!

                                                                  dude leave him the fuck alone.. you dont know everything..


                                                                  Here's what i beleive. if you won't help someone out, then dont spoil his chances of other people helping him out..

                                                                  Thats a very very fucked up thing to do
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                                                                  • galleryseek
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                                                                    • Mar 2002
                                                                    • 8234

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by GeXus


                                                                    Dude come on give me a break.. If its true then well i hope things work out for you.. but lets be realistic here..

                                                                    1. Why are you posting on a porn webmaster board looking for handouts?

                                                                    every bit helps, and oppurtunities arise. i know a few people here who got their initial funding from asking GFY for handouts, and now are makin nice $. so its not all that stupid if you think about it.

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                                                                    • ldinternet
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                                                                      • Apr 2001
                                                                      • 8245

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by xxweekxx
                                                                      for fucking once GFY does something good
                                                                      and by this time next week, we'll have made up for it. :D

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                                                                      • GeXus
                                                                        Confirmed User
                                                                        • May 2003
                                                                        • 3320

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by xxweekxx



                                                                        dude leave him the fuck alone.. you dont know everything..


                                                                        Here's what i beleive. if you won't help someone out, then dont spoil his chances of other people helping him out..

                                                                        Thats a very very fucked up thing to do
                                                                        Oh my god, You are an idiot.

                                                                        Do you realize why beggers beg? Its because people give them money. If people didnt give them money, what would happen? Would they shrivel up and die? no. They would be forced to get a job, work, make money.. and be better off. Its people like you who support people who ask for handouts that make this world worse. Sometimes people just need a little kick in the ass and soem motivation to get out there and get a job and earn a living.. like everyone else.

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                                                                        • AssFairy
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                                                                          • Jun 2003
                                                                          • 674

                                                                          #37
                                                                          GeXus don't you have some sites to run ?
                                                                          I sale lube

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                                                                          • GeXus
                                                                            Confirmed User
                                                                            • May 2003
                                                                            • 3320

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by AssFairy
                                                                            GeXus don't you have some sites to run ?

                                                                            No my sites run themselves, other than my weekly updates

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                                                                            • Honeyslut
                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                              • Jan 2001
                                                                              • 6436

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by GeXus




                                                                              Can you say "Ive been scammed"
                                                                              Shit happens all the time. My aunt has had a rare cancer in her neck and treatment for he last year. My gramps ( her father died in June ) and my hub found out a few weeks ago that he may have a pituitary tumor. We are waiting for mri on the 6th..

                                                                              Give the guy a break...
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                                                                              • GeXus
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                                                                                • May 2003
                                                                                • 3320

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by Honeyslut


                                                                                Shit happens all the time. My aunt has had a rare cancer in her neck and treatment for he last year. My gramps ( her father died in June ) and my hub found out a few weeks ago that he may have a pituitary tumor. We are waiting for mri on the 6th..

                                                                                Give the guy a break...
                                                                                Im sorry to hear that.. really I am, I hope things work out for you.


                                                                                Will you be needing a handout?

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                                                                                • Fappeddotcom
                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                  • Apr 2003
                                                                                  • 175

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  GeXus,
                                                                                  I wish it weren't true.

                                                                                  I fully intend to pay each cent back that I receive. I am a prideful person that wasn't brought up to ask for charity but things have a way of messing up in your life. I have a couple of friends and they do not have the ability to help me out with a small loan but they help me out just by being there and I am extremely grateful for knowing them. The small company that I worked for went out of business without much of any notice. I have spent the morning filling out applications in my small town with places like Hardees and Burger King and gas stations.

                                                                                  You have no idea how hard this was to post and I hope you never will.
                                                                                  How you doin'?

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                                                                                  • Tala
                                                                                    Fucked if I know
                                                                                    • Dec 2002
                                                                                    • 23368

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by GeXus



                                                                                    No my sites run themselves, other than my weekly updates
                                                                                    So go update something.

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                                                                                    • Fappeddotcom
                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                      • Apr 2003
                                                                                      • 175

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by Honeyslut


                                                                                      Shit happens all the time. My aunt has had a rare cancer in her neck and treatment for he last year. My gramps ( her father died in June ) and my hub found out a few weeks ago that he may have a pituitary tumor. We are waiting for mri on the 6th..

                                                                                      Give the guy a break...
                                                                                      I am very sorry to hear this, Honeyslut. You all will be in my thoughts.
                                                                                      How you doin'?

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                                                                                      • Sly_RJ
                                                                                        Live Hard - Die Hard
                                                                                        • Feb 2002
                                                                                        • 17042

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by GeXus


                                                                                        Im sorry to hear that.. really I am, I hope things work out for you.


                                                                                        Will you be needing a handout?
                                                                                        You've obviously never been in a serious bind, have you?

                                                                                        There's a difference between giving handouts and lending a helping hand in times of need. Without the help of GFY members, I'm sure this guy will make it just fine. But if someone wants to help out, back the fuck off already. Comparing a webmaster to a homeless vagrant? Yeh, right.
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                                                                                        • AssFairy
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                                                                                          • Jun 2003
                                                                                          • 674

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by Tala
                                                                                          So go update something.




                                                                                          GeXus
                                                                                          I sale lube

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                                                                                          • galleryseek
                                                                                            Confirmed User
                                                                                            • Mar 2002
                                                                                            • 8234

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            gexus has been owned.

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                                                                                            • GeXus
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                                                                                              • May 2003
                                                                                              • 3320

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              i love you guys

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                                                                                              • Honeyslut
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                                                                                                • Jan 2001
                                                                                                • 6436

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by GeXus


                                                                                                Im sorry to hear that.. really I am, I hope things work out for you.


                                                                                                Will you be needing a handout?
                                                                                                Nope, just pointing out that things do happen...


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                                                                                                • Honeyslut
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                                                                                                  • Jan 2001
                                                                                                  • 6436

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by Fappeddotcom


                                                                                                  I am very sorry to hear this, Honeyslut. You all will be in my thoughts.
                                                                                                  Thank you. I am sorry about your situations too..

                                                                                                  I have a suggestion..

                                                                                                  Start a thread seeing if anyone is hiring reviews for tgp sites...
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                                                                                                  • Horny Dude
                                                                                                    Earn enough to buy coffee
                                                                                                    • May 2002
                                                                                                    • 4913

                                                                                                    #50


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