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07-31-2003, 09:35 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2003
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More I Share, More I Get Hurt
The most pleasant and fun and drama-free relationships I've had with the opposite sex have been the ones where I've shared the least of myself, put the least on the line, and been the most ready to walk away.
The most painful and unpleasant relationships have been the ones where I've shared the most. I've confided my deepest fears and inevitably created a dynamic that made them real. I guess the more you share, the more opportunity you create for conflict and pain. You give the other party more ammunition to hurt you. I was in a relationship where my greatest fear was that the woman would go back to her endowed (meaning he had an endowment from the University of Hard Knocks) ex-boyfriend. We fought constantly about his phone calls to her. Eventually, she went back to him one night (my greatest fear) and that was the end of us. Something about losing my mother at age four has left me with abandonment issues. |
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