just ask her ...

... if she says no you won't have to worry about leaving her a good tip anymore.

Chuck E. Cheese :thumbsup

$10 in tokens and a pizza pie ... you're getting off MUCH better than a night at a club .... underage chicks rule !!! (esp. the ones who put out !!) :Graucho

Fuck that noise !!!

I'm sorry but that has got to be the most FUKKED UP advice I have ever heard !! :eek7

If it takes $50 to get this girl's attention, you don't WANT her!! :feels-hot
If she truely likes you, like you think she does, you don't have to BUY her attention ... also, if you begin that way with her, she is going to expect more as you get to know her ...

AVOID GOLD DIGGERS !!! If you got bling to burn, as crude as this sounds - go rent a girlfriend ... there is ALOT less hassles, you don't have to call her 3 times a day to tell her you are thinking about her in order to keep her happy, and you are GUARANTEED that your gonna get some that night ...

If this girl digs you, and you dig her too, there is no need to try overly hard to "impress" her ... just be yourself !!
If she has taken a fancy to you, it is because of the way you are .... why fuck dat up by tryin to be something you aren't ?? :(

Tell her you and one of your buddies were s'possed to go to _________ (basketball game or someplace you can admit to going with a buddy, without coming from the village ...), but your buddy backed out, so you thought you would go out on a limb, and ask her if she might like to go with you ??? :Graucho

Hell ... at least if she does not hold her own in conversation, you have the game to keep you entertained, and you can always go for nachos at halftime and RUN LIKE HELL !!!

Anyways ... I think my advice (if you read thru the BS) is alot more sound than some fuggn $50 tip bulshit, pretending that you are Donald Trump, when your much closer to Donald Duck .... that lame shit don't work AT ALL !!

I only hope that she doesn't speak english

25 and scared to ask a waitress out...... :1orglaugh

If you all know it so good, then why you hangin around here 24/7 dude. Get a life.

:2 cents:

If you don't know, she probably doesn't really like you.

exactly.

look half way decent , show some confidence, and just ask her out.

Applebee's has terrible fucking food. You are a tool.

Now that I think of it, I think there was a levi's commercial a while back with this guy who likes his waitress in a coffeeshop. He drinks like 7 cups of coffee before he has the courage to ask her out and finally says to her "would you like to go get a coffee with me sometime?"

You remind me of that guy. Hilarious. :1orglaugh

Use this line:

"Can you please tell me which days you are not washing your hair or are due to have a headache as I would like you to take me out for a meal!"

That one usually works...

Awesome advice HM, that stuff is right on point.

She just wants a better tip so she flirts with you. All wait staff does this. I used to manage a restaurant several years ago and the whole wait staff used to share tips on how to get better tips and that was the number one method. She doesn't like you and probably is making fun of you in the back of the restaurant about what a drooling idiot you are. Plus Applebees sucks and she probably makes fun of you for going in there and eating all the time just to get all worked up over her. So grow some balls and ask her out already so you can find out the truth. Oh and why you ask dating advice here I'm not sure. This is the home of the most socially backwards ass people available. Most of the turds here most likely have never seen real tits they didn't pay for. So it's kind of like asking a blind person to teach you to drive.

have a little faith in yourself... i think i would do the trick with the 50, only that i would use a 100 :thumbsup

I like this one the best so far.

Writing notes on napkins or leaving cards rarely works, it's more of a cop-out than anything. It puts the ball in her court, and I'm sure that in many girls minds they think "why didn't he just talk to me?"... now the pressure is on them. No good.


How about, when your party is getting up to leave, go find her in the restaurant and say the following (quickly).... "Scuze me (her name)? I know a hot girl like you probably has a boyfriend, but I have to ask you anyway..... wanna go to a (movie/thebeach/barbecue/monstertruckrally/rollerblading/whatever) this weekend with me?"

It's complimentary, it gives her an easy out that won't be too uncomfortable, and more importantly... it's worked before.

Just ask her. Jesus. It's not rocket science.

it is quite possible that she does like you..it is all even more likely that she is that nie to every table she has so she can amximize her tips.

Never date waitresses or bartenders, not too far off from strippers and...

Ok this is not to hard..after she takes your order wait a few mins then get up from your seat as if you have to go to the restroom, walk over to her like you forgot to order somthing and JUST ASK HER OUT. This way you are not around your friends and nobody needs to know what happened. This has worked for me in the past, and she says no just have couple more drinks that will kill the pain. Now get out there and take her!!!!! It's all you man what do you have to lose...I know you know the answer. Now just like my dad told me once there are a ton of fish in the sea and it is your job to catch as many as you can!!!!! GOOD LUCK:2 cents:

just ask her when she is talking to you...when she mentions something she likes...you go..hey we should check that out sometime...girls give away hints like that every five seconds..you just got to be listening

best luck to you, I hope you'll post some pics here in a few weeks...



BTW, have anyone tried the trick with $100 with your phone number on it ? :Graucho

?? pay her to date?

don't know about where to take her but.. preferably not her diner :thumbsup

also, I was 17 when I first met my bf who was 25... we're still together.. age is irrelevant

Best advice I have heard yet. Assertiveness, with just a dash of cockyness. Works every time.

All u have to do is find out what she's interested in -- then recommend some kind of event that relates to both of your interests... Then just say "hey i heard about this event blah blah at such a time and place" -- if she shows up then ur lucky, if not -- forget about her...

Just forget about talking to her at work -- girls are amazing liars and it's their job to be as convincing and as real as possible... also think about this dude -- your uncle is a "celebrity" at this place and probably spends a lot of money there -- so OF COURSE she is going to be EXTRA nice to you... shit so just fucking clear it out of your head any signals that she is giving u -- that's her fucking job -- it's all in your head until you meet her outside of work...

AHAHA good one.

*taking notes*

Me thinks the answer is probably yes.

"Eat your pussy ma'am?"

See how that one works, and let me know what you find out.

You should ask her,

"Is there a rule against waitresses asking patrons out? I was just trying to figure it out because I've been flirting with you you and wondered if you haven't asked me out because it's against the rules or if you just don't want to."

That way she has an easy painless way out for both of you whether she wants to go out with you or not AND the ball is in her court.

If she doesn't ask you out or ask where you want to take her, then drop it and never bring it up again.

...what's up with her ?