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Originally posted by BVF
It's amazing how folks like joinrightnow.com can come in here with a video of them fishhooking a bitch and making her swallow their sperm and all I see are :thumbsup 's . What's the difference between them and Dirty DS? Do you REALLY think that the others don't feel the same about women as Dirty DS does? They would NOT be successful if they didn't feel the same way about women...
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I'm sure alot of men feel the same way about women, but I find it a bit offensive that you say they wouldn't be successful if they didn't feel the same way about women.
#1 I am a woman. I have high respect for myself and for other women in the industry, both those behind the scenes and those in front of the camera, who honestly deserve ALOT of fucking respect for having the guts to do the kinds of things they do for the camera, anyway.
#2 I create tours that sell like crazy time and time again, and some of them are the "humiliation" types of sites. One thing you have to realize is that some women *like* to be humiliated in the bounds of the bedroom, but most of those women do NOT appreciate being called whores outside the studio or the confines of sexual activity. My tours sell, but as I said, I have the utmost respect for these women.
Just because a woman takes her clothes off for money does not make her a whore. Even the girls who actually perform sexual acts for the camera are not whores unless they do it when the camera is not rolling. Taking money for sex while being filmed is not considered prostitution, it's considered acting.
Besides, even if the U.S. federal courts decided to make it prostitution, it's still her business if she wants to do it and she deserves respect for it. Just like I show complete respect for the waitresses as Waffle House. They do a damned hard job and if they're doing it well then they deserve respect.
If I ever decided to go in front of a camera, the first time the photographer called me anything dirty, I'd put my clothes on and be out of there in a heartbeat. If I found a photographer who showed me courtesy and respect and treated me well, I'd give him 100% of my best work. I choose to stay behind the cameras, so to speak, but it doesn't mean I can't understand and respect those who work hard in front of them.
And it certainly doesn't mean that I feel the need to look at the very girls who give me the material that earns my income as whores. Without them I would be NOTHING, and so would you, Mister Dirty. :Graucho
BTW, BVF, most of this post was directed at Dirty, not at you. I just chose to quote your post to point out that you don't have to feel disrespect towards women to be successful in designing humiliation fantasy sites. :)