What would you do if you've found love & she doesn't want you to do Onlyfans anymore?

[drako12]

I've made over north of $1 million in the past 4 years from my OF businesses. I'm in my 20s as well. I started dating a girl and we love each other, but she broke up with me because she couldn't get over that I currently have an OF account (Which makes up a large amount of my income). We've known each other for years and she knew that I do OF and I make a lot of money with it. I don't shoot content with her or other people; I sell sex videos that I've made over the past few years with other creators. I understand why she broke up with me and I get it. I know my dating pool is very limited since I do OF, so finding a girl who doesn't do OF and is cool with me doing Only fans is pretty hard.

I think of this girl as being "the one" and she does too. She told me if I get past the chapter in my life of having an Onlyfans account, then we can be together with the life we both imagined. (Marriage, kids, monogamous)

What would you do in this situation? Would you delete your income providing OF account and build up a non - porn related business to be with her? Or keep doing the OF and making over $250,000+ a year but not be with her? These are my two options. I also will be getting an inheritance ($500,000+) when one of my parents dies but I'd like them to meet my girlfriend / wife before they pass. To not be with the girl I love because of money, when in a few years I'll have a lump sum of money anyways but the possibility of my parents not meeting my possible future wife is what's weighing on me too

[CaptainHowdy]

Never do what a woman tells you, it's a trap.

[INever]

true love is accepting people the way they are.

and i have some busines projects looking for modest investment $$$$s.

[Duced]

We've all thought of that chick as the one in our 20s.

Keep your hustle up, dont ever drop it as it will be difficult to recover after.

Make money. Fuck bitchez. As the saying goes.

[AmeliaG]

You should be with someone who loves you.

Has she explained what aspect of OF upsets her?

Are you saying you'd be upset if your partner made bank on OF?

How old are your parents?

[blackmonsters]

If you quit OF it will only be a matter of time before she dumps you because you are not
making enough money to buy her all the bullshit she wants.

[VikingMan]

Bro the number of girls I have not been able to date due to my involvement in the porn business is very long. It’s mostly meaningless. I say keep making the money and just find someone else. You understand almost all women will cheat? What are the chances this girl won’t cheat on you eventually. Make your money, hide as much as possible, then have a kid with a nice woman and never tell her about the bulk of your money. Then spend your kids early years totally devoted and give your kid all of your time and resources. This is what I did. Trust me this is the ultimate experience life has to offer. If you and the mom can make it work long term then even better.

Love between lovers is bullshit. Love and loyalty to your child is the real deal. Personally I think many men should legally be able to have multiple wives. My point is to make your millions and parlay that into your future. I have a full time job now and it’s not really fun I would rather be retired.

[CurrentlySober]

Originally Posted by drako12

What would you do in this situation?

Instead of me replying 'A great big poo in my pants'... I'm gonna break character and give you some really deep personal advise instead... Buckle up, here it comes...

Listen drako12, I hate to break it to you, but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, drako12, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it, your parents are gonna do it - Break the cycle drako12 - Rise above. Focus on Pornography....

[adultinnovation]

she should love the $


like all real women


so clearly not a real woman...


probably tranny

[mopek1]

Originally Posted by AmeliaG

Has she explained what aspect of OF upsets her?

Are you saying you'd be upset if your partner made bank on OF?

This.

People don't have conversations anymore.

Has she really flushed out all of the reasons and details about what's bothering her, what can be done, how things can be tweaked, where her line is ? If not and she is ready to leave, I would be hesitant about being with someone who could just leave so easily.

[Zuzana Designs]

A million fish in the sea. Do what you love, and find someone who gets excited right alongside you. Life is too short!