Farang

so I registered on tinder again, and it's not as simple as just filling the signup form in my case since I've been 'banned for life with no possibility of appeal' from the platform. but I did get in, as I do, and guess what? shadowbanned straight away.

so I verify my profile(turns out their lifetime bans do expire after all - 18 months in prison and they forget all about you). so fully verified boosted platinum account and still shadowbanned. msgd support twice - no reply so far.

why would they do that to a person who's dumb enough to waste thousands of $ per month on boosts and superlikes because he likes to be liked? idiots like myself are the ones who make their business model so successful.

i wish tinder was not the only game in town when it comes to online dating, they're such cunts

Huggles

Become a regular at a pub.

I've been working on 3 guides for people to develop their social circles and get dates easily. Before I had my kid, I had a lineup of the hottest girlfriends and I achieved this by having a cool apartment to hang out and throw parties at, I was a regular at local pubs, and my Facebook was always showing me out with people having a good time.

It was basically a pussy magnet. I got so much pussy I wrote a book about it in 2013 so I could get OUT of the cycle of having a new girlfriend every month.

Still got to get some stuff sold so I have money to eat, but when these books are done, which should be soon, there is basically a guide written out for how dudes like you can abandon the SHIT apps, they are TRUE shit, abandon the apps and learn to make friends in your local town and in a few months or weeks you too can be drowning in choices of women to date.

Women are incredibly easy to attract for me... money? Not so much, haha!

Dating apps are a cancer. They completely destroy people's social skills and reduce attraction to a split second of swipe instinct. Why do they shadow ban people like you? Probably because you had a couple complaints for things you said on Tinder.

During COVID, I broke up with my baby momma and had to go back to dating. I used Tinder since everything was closed, and I as a 42 year old dude banged 3 chicks in 1 week all in their 20's on the first date*, and I had tons of matches, something like 30+ matches in a week, but then I started saying I wasn't going to take the "vaccine" and I was completely shadowbanned and did not get a match for the next month. I deleted the app and made up with the baby momma a few weeks later.

*date = meet at coffee shop, be funny, keep her laughing and talking about herself, don't talk much about yourself, look for cues like when she twirls her hair and other indicators that she's attracted to you, like if she turns her body to face you, that type of stuff. Let her talk about herself, tell her she's super interesting and mention you're making Argentinian BBQ that night and ask her if she'd like a steak dinner, all 3 said yes, they came back to my place for a delicious meal, then make out, then fuck, then they drive home and all it cost me was gas money and a $15 steak!

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Farang

in order to speak to a girl, I need to get drunk. once I'm drunk I start looking for coke. and one could hope I wouldn't find it, but I always do... fast forward three days later: I'm wired all paranoid smoking crack with some strange people in a sketchy neighborhood. nah, not doing that anymore.

stupid, I know. it's just the way it is with me

so yeah, I'll stick to the shitty app and hopefully avoid having my life go off the rails, thank you very much

Huggles

This is why you need to socialize.

You need to learn how to talk to everyone from 5 year olds to 85 year olds.

Once you learn how to talk to anyone, women will flow into your life as naturally as the sun rises in the morning. You will find women and make connections everywhere you go.

Because I can talk to anyone, I was able to work with disabled seniors and get praised for how much they enjoyed my company, to the point where I could've got a bus and made 1000's every weekend because there were lots of seniors on Vancouver Island who needed respite work paid for by their families. Most people who work with disabled seniors are basically anti-social babysitters who don't know and don't care to listen to what seniors have to say. Alas, then I refused the "vaccine", but that's a whole other tale.

Having had a kid myself, I learned how to deal with infants and toddlers, and now kids, I totally get kids and it is easy to figure out why they are having a tantrum or whatever issues. It is a very real skill to be able to deal with human beings of every age and persuasion. I can fit in at freakshows, in cracktown, with your grandma for tea, and with soulless ballers. Just not in a 9-5 job, haha.

Learning how to talk to everyone, from the dirt poor crackheads, to wealthy and snobby people, is an invaluable gift. I can buy coke easy from a street dealer in a 3rd world country or Canada, as street sense is something I've learned from my time in the gutter, and talking to the rich, multi-millionaires is something I learned while being a bohemian hipster socializing with people much richer than myself, but because I was making 10k USD a month and could throw great parties and knew how to act, they accepted me as well.

What you need to do is broaden your social horizons, learn about people, take a job you normally wouldn't take, get out of your comfort zone. Travel. Interact with people. Hang out places that are strange or foreign to you. I did photography and videography for a bunch of theatre lesbians for like an entire fall season at one point, went on like 40 ghost hunts with a bunch of nerds, and was an extra and production assistant on numerous music videos. I did so much random shit with random people, and that's how you learn to be a social butterfly.

I might be dirt poor living in a shack at the side of a highway, but put me in nearly any social situation and I'll be one of the most socially fluid people in the room, because I know what to talk about and what not to talk about, how to approach people and how to make friends! My current predicament is mostly because when it comes to COVID and the "vaccine", I can't keep my mouth fucking shut. Canada is an extremely conformist place, and for someone like me who is gregarious and chatty, it is very hard to fit into a corporate workplace environment where everyone is expected to be a professional little cog.

If you and I lived near each other, I would go hang out with you in your local pub / bar, and you could watch me interact with people while sitting at the bar. Prefer a box or rectangle-shaped bar, so you can sit across from people with the bartender as the buffer. A few weeks of going to the same bar every day or every other day for 2-3 drinks and a happy hour appetizer and you'll have made friends, guaranteed, and once you've made a couple friends, it just snowballs from there. The bar staff themselves can become your friends if you're okay with being friends with poor people. (many people see that as below them.) The bar staff themselves are socially fluid and they know their customers, they frequently hook people up with dates and friendship. The mother of my kid, who is a stunningly beautiful woman from a pretty amazing family, I met her through her brother who was a regular at The Blarneystone in the Gastown neighbourhood of Vancouver.



Funny how the Blarneystone is associated with the gift of gab and that's the name of the pub I used to attend, but the truth is, you need to level up your charisma with everyone to become truly socially fluid and attractive. There are so many more tips and tricks I have to make people like you in-person, and repetition creates trust and affinity.

Once you have some decent clothes, the confidence to have the gift of gab, and you have a few friends at a pub (or a few pubs or other locations like gyms or whatever) you build trust in a community. When the bartender treats you like a pal and other customers smile when you walk in, the strangers at the bar are immediately hit on the lizard brain level that people like you, and it makes them instantly curious as to who this person is that just walked in.

Even though I have basically $0 to my name and I'm nearly out of food until my next affiliate payment on the 8th-9th, my physical-world social skills are impeccable and I can teach you to become a pussy magnet, even if you're ugly as sin and smell like fish farts.

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fuzebox

I like your style

Farang

thanks for all the advice, Huggles. damn, you must have a lot time on your hands 😁

tell me, what kind of video editing work can you do? you know those sketchy fb ads that peddle gambling offers to unsuspecting souls? could you, say, take a video clip and embed it scaled into another video, add some flashy text - this sort of stuff(i’d provide all the clips and text)?

Huggles

Time is all I have!

Currently I have no money, so I'm working on building porn compilations and emailing programs to see if I can work with them. Basically stuck inside my house 24 hours a day since I can't even afford basic transportation, the gym, or going to the pub. There is no opportunity in the "real world" in Canada, at all. Wish I could convert my high level social skills into an income but I'm banned everywhere online but the porn business and there's no place someone like me fits into the corporate world.

Yeah I can do pretty much anything video related you want, my Veed.io membership ran out though so I have to wait until the 8th-9th of this month to renew it for $40 USD, which is like fucking nearly $70 Canadian now.

I use an old registered copy of Vegas Video to make porn compilations, but it doesn't have the easy-to-use features and super smooth workflow Veed.io has that I need to make advanced edits. This Christmas my membership renewed (I thought I had cancelled it.) and I had to beg them for a refund so I could afford to get my kid some Robux for Christmas!

Do you have any sample videos of what you want me to make?

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Farang

do you use telegram?

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Huggles

I'll sign up again, got to walk to the gas station for a cold pop first, I think I have enough dimes and nickels

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Farang

hahahahahah

todservices

Tinder is a scam
they made $2 billion in 2023 though
crazy money
yet this is still a scam

Farang

no no, it works - landed me in prison for 18 months

CurrentlySober

Could be worse... There's a site online that I've logged into nearly everyday, and posted my sexual preference, for over 20 fucking years...

Yet I've not even got a single date out of it...

FML...

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Killswitch

Keep trying, I'm sure you'll find your shit match.

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Farang

joined bumble and started getting matches straight away, so there’s something

but but! the userbase is much smaller than tinders i bet, and no shirtless pics allowed(so no six pack). not the saaame 👹

Huggles

Get off the apps dude. Learn to socialize. Apps are for geeks.

You said yourself you can't even talk to women without drinking. Gain the social skills you need and you won't even think about attracting women and they will come to you.

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Farang

I am a geek... wanna sell me your tinder account?

Pad

ok no homo post a selfie i almost guarantee i'm better looking than you are

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Huggles

Haven't used Tinder since 2021 when I banged 3 women in a week, easy peasy. Just felt gross after because it is just such a lame way of communicating and when you don't have to work at something, it's just got no value. Like shooting fish in a barrel.

Bro... why don't you go to your local pub? What's wrong with you? Can't you socialize?

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Huggles

For men, looks are about... I'd say like 10% in getting women in person. I've known several UGLY dudes that had good style, wit, and charm that could pull hot chicks.

Personally, I think using apps are for geeky guys with 0 game, but, I'm guessing looks are probably 90% of the app game. People decide if you're attractive in like 2-3 seconds on an app, but in person, there is SO much more sensory input, body language, situation, etc etc that factors into attractiveness.

My look before I had my kid... this combined with where I lived and the decor of my apartment... I was a pussy magnet beyond anything I had ever dreamt of!

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Pad

must be our jawlines



gl incels

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Pad

wait can we pull chicks on GFY bro? i'm talking full on porn skanks

i've been afk from here for 20 years mostly but there used to be hoes on hoes

where the hoes @

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VideoPad from NCH is pretty smooth and has all the basic editing tools. It's a freeware for the basic version. I think the professional version is still is under $200 for a one time payment.

Huggles

That's the only pic you're going to post?

When I have money again I'll let you be my wingman, teach you some tricks.

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Huggles

I might be dead broke temporarily, but I'm waaaaaay too classy and picky for 99% of women out there.

POST-COVID, I would never touch a vaccinated woman, so that further narrows it down.

My ultimate match would be an unvaccinated, independent, wealthy woman who would want to have kids and co-parent but not actually be together full time. After owning a hamster for 6 months, I see myself as basically a giant hamster in a human body. I like my smaller world, my wheel(computer), my food, and my solitude.

Marriage in the modern sense seems so suffocating and I've only really witnessed guys get destroyed by marriage. As men age, it seems like marriage makes more sense when you're like 50-60+ years old, because then it is more about the companionship than society's bullshit rules of what a "relationship" should be about.

Brad Pitt, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Trump... all of the most rich and successful men couldn't make marriage work because women themselves are toxic as fuck. Women are for sex, babies, status and not much else until you're older. It seems like men and women can have better synergy when we're OLD, because when you're young, there is too much life to be lived to be tied down to someone else's bullshit and rules.

Like, as soon as a woman ties bossing me around, I tell her she's a cunt and to go fuck herself. Settra does not serve! At the same time, I put zero limits on any woman I am with. She is free to do anything she wants, as long as my kid is healthy, safe, and happy.

I need to be free!

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Huggles

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbi...on-richer.html

Imagine getting married!

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2MuchMark

For once, I agree with Huggles. Forget Tinder and other apps. Become a regular at your favorite pub, learn (again) how to socialize in person.

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Huggles

Thanks Mark, the apps are complete and utter poison.

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Speigelau

You should make a site where you tell lonely guys how to pick up chicks and what signals to look for. Maybe call it Yes Signals and use pictures of hot chicks looking for dates where you upsell the user on how to pick them up.

Huggles

I already registered a domain like a week ago to use with the notes I've written over the years since my 1st book 10+ years ago...

moderndatinghelp.com

Have a placeholder site up for now. I'd like to actually try and convince people that the way we've been taught how to "date" is actually the most poisonous shit to male-female relationships, like no wonder the birth rates continue to plummet and people escape into porn, romance novels, and even going trans to become the woman they could never get themselves.

But the last week or so, I've been focused on building porn compilation samples to show program owners, so I can get a few more programs / sites to promote, so I can afford to feed myself because I'm down to my last $2 in the bank, my fridge is completely empty, and I have 4-5 days until my next affiliate payment. While women have always just flowed to me like a river to the ocean, money, however, does not, haha! I'm 100% out of money.

I have two broken cars to sell and some other stuff to liquidate, but I'm banned on the best used shit platform, Facebook marketplace, until January 12th because I had to comment on a post about some tranny winning a female sporting event that it was a man in a woman costume winning the 1st place and I got a 30 day ban December 12th... hahaha!!!

Every single day you see so many posts like this on Reddit, men are most lost and confused about life than ever before. Guys like Andrew Taint have capitalized on it, big time, in nefarious ways. I'd like to be able to help dudes figure out their shit so they can attract women in life like I can!

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvic...f_being_a_man/

The thing is... if I want anyone to even pay attention to what I'm talking about, I need to somehow produce videos that talk about these issues with narration and a hook. AI video and AI voiceovers can be used for this. I've been searching all over for information on how to gain subs and viewers for this type of content and, my personal experience is that SHORTS are very popular on YouTube and, of course, TikTok. Vine was so popular...

Good information here:

https://x.com/vidIQ/status/1875542393610457155

For example, none of the long format videos I posted got much traffic, but my under shorter videos got much, much more views:

15 seconds, :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6tM-QoKFgmY

2:10ish minutes:
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/e74bMMZfP8w

:42 seconds:
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/jtRAX0nnpuU

Gotta wait until my next affiliate payment on the 8th-9th or so until I can afford Luma AI subscription again...

Now if I could make shorts like this, maybe less than 30 seconds, with that narrator voice and some AI showing guys getting shut down and being alone swiping, and then hit the user with like 10-15 seconds of "is your love life dead? Finding modern dating hard? We have the key to unlock the solution to your dating issues" or something like that. But I think I have to target particular issues men face, like ghosting, what to say after a 1st date, how to approach women, and how to just be social WITHOUT acting desperate.

Like one thing that works SO WELL in picking up women in public... is when you're in a big group, you talk and flirt with the ugliest, fattest chick there, because then the hottest chicks will be like, "WTF why is he having fun talking to HER over ME" and then they will engage YOU... it really works!

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Hi Huggles,

Why not create the site as a blog, or at least with a series of articles? You could always shoot the videos yourself, upload them to youtube and embed them on your site. Make sure its formatted for proper SEO, and then sell ad space? With a text-rich site you should get picked up by google really quickly.

I'm no expert in this area but I would say if you can earn revenue from the ads alone, keep it that way. Try not to up-sell to members only content. If I were reading your stuff and saw that I had to pay to subscribe to learn more, or get classess etc, I would close the site and never return. On the otherhand if it had good advice I'd bookmark it and return often.

For AI stuff, why would you need it?

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Huggles

Well, I've done plenty of searching on Google and, for example:

https://www.google.com/search?q=How+...sted+by+a+girl

How can I ever compete with any of these huge sites with big ranks? Like my shit would be on page 30, if that. Also, who even reads? Video content seems king these days, especially if you can get other YouTubers or Tiktokers to engage. I haven't really dove into TikTok dating advice yet, I might go down that rabbit hole tonight exploring TikTok's dating hashtags and influencers and see what are the hot topics. The whole "ick" thing was massively popular last I checked! Still need to figure out how I am going to get money to afford dinner tonight without having to stand on the side of the highway with a "0 food need help" cardboard sign. Yes, I know, totally pathetic, but it is what it is.

But shorts on YouTube, TikTok, maybe a subreddit if Reddit doesn't figure out who I am. (I'm on a list the admins have and as soon as they figure out I use Reddit, my accounts are perma-banned.)

Doomerism and Tate-ism are the things I find that people engage with the most.

https://x.com/datepsych/status/1875258627369718220

It is such a hot topic and videos, by far, get the most engagement. I feel like writing articles for a blog would be the least likely to find an audience while some sort of interviews, AI scenario videos with voice overs, or react videos where I discuss how people are feeling about modern dating might work.

https://x.com/mamasathome_/status/1868417190363640126

I've been researching this for awhile, and there are big dating accounts like:

https://x.com/guideforlovers

and they sell courses here:

https://guideforlovers.gumroad.com/l/submissionguide

But something about this seems so inauthentic and scammy, I can't put my finger on it, maybe because there isn't a "face" behind this and it seems like it is all just designed to take people's money and regurgitate "redpill" stuff wrapped under a different mask. The tweets all seem designed to sell courses and not offer organic advice. Again, I could be wrong and this could just be what great copy looks like and I don't see it for what it is.



^^^^ Ewwww. The idea that women lose value after 28 is such a gross take. Women can be even more valuable AND attractive in their 30's with life experience than they are as doe-eyed 20 year olds with zero life experience. So much of modern dating shits on women who aren't in their prime of their youth and shits on men who aren't 6+ feet tall millionaires.

I don't want to be reselling The Red Pill type content, none of my shit aligns with that as I don't practice it in real life. My own "dating brand" is something different, and I feel like it could actually really help people. Now to distill all of my experiences, thoughts, and theories into something palpable... I have been thinking of a new term to use to describe it, like a "synergyship" or something.

Modern dating is such a mess of shallow hookups and toxic societal expectations that it’s no wonder so many people feel lost. My take? fuck how we've been programmed into accepting "situationships" and the forced, outdated mold of traditional relationships that boomerism pushes through Hallmark movie deception. What I’m about is something I'd like to call synergyships. These aren’t about control or rules; they’re about mutual respect, shared goals, and genuinely wanting to see each other happy and thriving.

Dating isn’t a game of manipulation or trying to make someone fit your ideal, that's The Red Pill. It’s about asking the real questions in life:

Can we build something meaningful together, something that produces happy, healthy kids and a solid co-parenting partnership? That’s the end goal, right? A family that works and can adapt to whatever happens. This means being a good role model for your kids and finding a partner who’s got the same vision. Attraction fades, but imprinted values are carved in stone.

In a "synergyship" there’s no leash. You’re not her boss, and she’s not yours. Settra does not serve! Instead, there’s this natural flow where you both drift toward each other because you want to. Not because society told you to, or because you’ve boxed yourselves into some rigid relationship label. So many of these "dating influencers" and "alpha dads" and shit in the "manosphere" do everything for the appearances of those trad roles. The whole "trad wife" and "cottagecore" type shit aligns itself with these outdated ideals.

Good example of someone burned by their traditional ideals:
https://x.com/Iberianamerica/status/1875316066156736960

But to even get to a higher level of enlightenment, the base camp starts with radical self-acceptance. Know who you are, flaws and all, and totally own it. People don’t change unless they want to, so people need to stop chasing the fantasy of “fixing” someone. The best relationships are about two people being their authentic selves, warts and all, aligned in purpose and vision. That’s how you break free of the societal BS and build something real, a connection that lasts because it’s based on mutual respect and shared purpose.

That’s synergy. That’s the vibe.

But how do I SELL the vibe that has worked so well for me?

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Killswitch

fucking christ even as an ugly ogre looking mother fucker who needs dating apps to trick women into liking me for my personality before getting disappointed by the millimeter defeater, I'm going to have to agree with Huggles on getting off the fucking apps.

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I remember that one hehe

Huggles

Farang is an incel

I am a moneycel



I need to find out how I can help dudes find the relationships and dates they want, so I can get paid!

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Major (Tom)

I never tried a dating app. Twitter was good back in the day.

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2MuchMark

I somehow missed this earlier....

Lol.. .Jesus Christ.....

Just be yourself. Write honest stories, opinions, advice, etc. Make sure your content is unique, and you will find your audience. You should also consider reaching out to TheLegacy for tips and pointers on how to structure the text for lots of love from Google...

And if you make videos, look for ways to make them informative and entertaining. Take your audience seriously and they will take you seriously.

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shimmy2

you should be dating anywhere in miami, costa rica, or anywhere in canada. youre not the problem

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Huggles

Yeah but so much of the coke is poisoned in Canada, people drop dead from fentanyl cross-contamination all the time.

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Killswitch

Bro seriously ate the onion and thinks vaccine was cooties or something.

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it´s all about the money

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Huggles

For us unvaccinated, the idea of kissing a vaccinated woman is just wrong. They are polluted. I get the ick! I don't even like being around the vaccinated as friends, hence why my friend group is only unvaccinated people.

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Killswitch

You realize if you were born between 1980 and 2000, the probability of you being vaccinated many times over is SUPER HIGH.

i'lL TaKe mY ChAnCeS WiTh gEtTiNg tHe vIrUs

My brother in christ, do you know how vaccines work?

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Can we please unban Tube Ace so he can post in this thread and battle it out with Huggles on who is better looking and can pick up women better?

Huggles

He wins!!! He wins!!!

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Huggles

Buddy I am never taking the COVID "vaccine"

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2MuchMark

I'm a bit of a clean freak and believe in extra-strength condoms... If I met a chick who proudly exclaimed that she hadn't had her shots, I'd worry she had cock-eating cesspool in her pants and would say farrrr away.

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WTF ?!?!?!

I am completely, completely opposite of you. And proud. Have you or your kids ever had polio? No? Good. Now do you know why? I'll give you 3 guesses...

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