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  • ilovecfnm
    Confirmed User
    • May 2015
    • 112

    #1

    2017 - Find a new career - Porn is dead as we know it.

    im sitting here and dont know what to do, i have been doing this adult stuff for the past 12 years and this is what I know to do. It could not come in a worst time, since I have a daughter that is 1 yo and I have to take care of a mother(mom of my daughter) that cant take care of herself. She is fuckin squeezing everything out of me...

    I really need to find a new career and do some other stuff in my life, im really tired of this adult shit... I want to do something so my daughter could be proud of me;( the hard part is that im in a foreign country and cant work here, only online. Luckily I did save for the bad times, lets hope something good will happen soon or everything will fall apart.

    Hope everyone could figure out what they will do if porn really stops selling. Good luck all, we are all humans after all and everyone should have the basic needs to survive.
  • ContentBay
    Confirmed User
    • Jun 2015
    • 398

    #2
    Getting out of porn - on a porn site,
    like a drunk getting on the wagon at a bar
    Kind of funny, but I hope u get what u're looking for man - seriously, good luck
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    • j3rkules
      VIP
      • Jul 2013
      • 22111

      #3
      Then try your luck in the mainstream.

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      • money biz
        Confirmed User
        • Jan 2003
        • 1016

        #4
        Originally posted by ilovecfnm
        im sitting here and dont know what to do, i have been doing this adult stuff for the past 12 years and this is what I know to do. It could not come in a worst time, since I have a daughter that is 1 yo and I have to take care of a mother(mom of my daughter) that cant take care of herself. She is fuckin squeezing everything out of me...

        I really need to find a new career and do some other stuff in my life, im really tired of this adult shit... I want to do something so my daughter could be proud of me;( the hard part is that im in a foreign country and cant work here, only online. Luckily I did save for the bad times, lets hope something good will happen soon or everything will fall apart.

        Hope everyone could figure out what they will do if porn really stops selling. Good luck all, we are all humans after all and everyone should have the basic needs to survive.



        Try Diet and Gambling niches both have big pps's.

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        • onwebcam
          Fake Nick 1.0
          • Oct 2005
          • 27689

          #5
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          • CaptainHowdy
            Too lazy to set a custom title
            • Dec 2004
            • 94727

            #6
            Porn will never die ...

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            • ilovecfnm
              Confirmed User
              • May 2015
              • 112

              #7
              Originally posted by onwebcam
              What country do you live in?
              im Canadian but been living in SE Asia for 10 years.

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              • BigFurry
                Confirmed User
                • Nov 2003
                • 1574

                #8
                You could get a remote job at one of the porn companies.

                You probably have many of the skills they need, and you would be cheaper than the locals.

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                • yuu.design
                  Too lazy to set a custom title
                  • Mar 2006
                  • 25924

                  #9
                  Is not about porn, i have some friends that works online in mainstream and happen the same with them. I think is not about the porn, porn still sell, and sell a lot
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                  • Spunky
                    I need a beer
                    • Jun 2002
                    • 133986

                    #10
                    Go to college and get some training. a trade maybe?

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                    • Evil Chris
                      OG
                      • Dec 2001
                      • 13248

                      #11
                      This is a career?


                      It PAYZE to post on GFY

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                      • Adnium_Ivana
                        Confirmed User
                        • Jun 2016
                        • 1094

                        #12
                        Like others have suggested, mainstream. Or, why don't you try utilizing the skills I'm sure you've acquired in adult to: build websites, SEO, SEM or try your hand at online consulting/remote marketing?

                        You could do Media Buying for a major advertiser or marketing agency in SE Asia as there's plenty of them there.

                        Also, if you can learn how to code (try Udemy, Coursera, Code academy, Khan Academy - all free) and you can make really good $$$ as you can charge per hour. good luck

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                        • RachelBlackG
                          Elysium
                          • Feb 2011
                          • 1037

                          #13
                          Freelancing seems like an option. Good luck!

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                          • brassmonkey
                            Pay It Forward
                            • Sep 2005
                            • 77396

                            #14
                            quit because it is not easy anymore? don't let the door hit ya...
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                            • Barry-xlovecam
                              It's 42
                              • Jun 2010
                              • 18083

                              #15
                              I guess I should say try selling webcams ...

                              There are a lot of reasons why business is tough -- but it always has been tough.
                              There are easy money days that come and go.

                              Thirty-eight years ago my sales manager said to me for every low point there is a corresponding high point. I kept going ... wasn't that easy.

                              Expand your opportunities and figure out what you are good at.

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                              • rowan
                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                • Mar 2002
                                • 17393

                                #16
                                I thought this was going to be a thread about Trump.

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                                • mineistaken
                                  See signature :)
                                  • Apr 2007
                                  • 29656

                                  #17
                                  Stop being a migrant and go back home.

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                                  • Colmike9
                                    (>^_^)b
                                    • Dec 2011
                                    • 7230

                                    #18
                                    Being an adult affiliate is the same as being a salesman. Find out what's selling and sell it, or work on basic marketing techniques?

                                    Porn isn't dead, it's just a lot more of it and other people found out that it makes money, too, so there's more content available and a lot more people to compete with..
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                                    • Bladewire
                                      StraightBro
                                      • Aug 2003
                                      • 56228

                                      #19
                                      What I'm about to say is totally serious, no joke.

                                      Migrate back to the States and settle in South Dakota who's unemployment is 2.7% and who is so desperate to fill $26-$40 an hour jobs that they are importing workers from overseas.

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                                      This will give you time to assimilate back to U.S. culture & a stable high paying job in a low cost of living state & focus on your future out of adult.

                                      After 5 years of living overseas and not setting foot back in the States I know how daunting coming back home is, everything from renewing your passport at the enbassy to getting pets & stuff home to securing a residence. Are you ready to make the jump?


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                                      • TheDynasty
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                                        • Apr 2016
                                        • 5882

                                        #20
                                        Enjoy hard labor for the rest of your life!
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                                        • BlackCrayon
                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                          • Jun 2003
                                          • 19634

                                          #21
                                          funny, i thought it was dead in 2004 and moved on to other areas online.
                                          you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                                          • bns666
                                            Confirmed Fetishist
                                            • Mar 2005
                                            • 11554

                                            #22
                                            good luck man
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                                            • C H R I S
                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                              • Nov 2005
                                              • 10842

                                              #23
                                              Reinvent yourself and never give up.
                                              C H R I S
                                              Retired Porn Veteran

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                                              • wehateporn
                                                Promoting Debate on GFY
                                                • Apr 2007
                                                • 27176

                                                #24

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                                                • JesseQuinn
                                                  feeding the wolves
                                                  • Aug 2012
                                                  • 6620

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by ilovecfnm
                                                  im sitting here and dont know what to do, i have been doing this adult stuff for the past 12 years and this is what I know to do. It could not come in a worst time, since I have a daughter that is 1 yo and I have to take care of a mother(mom of my daughter) that cant take care of herself. She is fuckin squeezing everything out of me...

                                                  I really need to find a new career and do some other stuff in my life, im really tired of this adult shit... I want to do something so my daughter could be proud of me;( the hard part is that im in a foreign country and cant work here, only online. Luckily I did save for the bad times, lets hope something good will happen soon or everything will fall apart.

                                                  Hope everyone could figure out what they will do if porn really stops selling. Good luck all, we are all humans after all and everyone should have the basic needs to survive.
                                                  whatever path you choose props for recognizing you need a change. I look at it this way, life is really fucking short and we all only get one go-around. It's a waste to spend 8/10/12 hours a day doing things you don't enjoy, that you're not proud of.

                                                  if I were you I'd stop thinking about options in binary 'adult'/'mainstream' terms though. why not think about what you enjoy, your skill sets, your priorities and let the ideas come to you? pre-sorting them into two arbitrary categories serves only to knee-cap your creativity and imagination. which you need, esp living abroad

                                                  as far as the 'daughter being proud of you' concern, speaking as one if it helps, it probably won't be a big deal to her either way if you live a life that teaches her kindness, strength, compassion, generosity, accountability, imagination, ethics and reason. you can do that (or lack that) in any field, including adult

                                                  wish ya good luck
                                                  throwing molotav cocktails at the precinct

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                                                  • CAHEK
                                                    C.C.C.P.
                                                    • Aug 2003
                                                    • 7413

                                                    #26
                                                    there is no money in porn
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                                                    • MiamiBoyz
                                                      fgfdftre6
                                                      • Oct 2012
                                                      • 6690

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by Spunky
                                                      Go to college and get some training. a trade maybe?
                                                      Does sucking cock at the local truck stop count as a trade?

                                                      Hey $10 bucks is $10 bucks and it adds up after a whole night!

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                                                      • Markul
                                                        Likes Pie
                                                        • Dec 2007
                                                        • 12403

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by BlackCrayon
                                                        funny, i thought it was dead in 2004 and moved on to other areas online.
                                                        Yet 12 years later.. Here you are :D
                                                        But.... I pulled out...

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                                                        • altmman
                                                          Confirmed User
                                                          • Jan 2015
                                                          • 468

                                                          #29
                                                          Read a book and learn an easy skill.
                                                          Like even just Wordpress development or SEO or Twitter promotion, then start a little side hustle consulting for people.
                                                          Start small and as time goes by you'll get better at it and get bigger clients.

                                                          Now you got a mainstream "cover" so when people say what do you do, well you own an agency. And by the time your daughter graduates from high school you'll have an amazing business you can hand off to her.

                                                          I know of a few people who make megabucks just doing Pinterest consulting for businesses, so it doesnt really matter what you pick as long as you start somewhere and keep forward.

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                                                          • candyflip
                                                            Carpe Visio
                                                            • Jul 2002
                                                            • 43069

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by ContentBay
                                                            Getting out of porn - on a porn site,
                                                            like a drunk getting on the wagon at a bar
                                                            Kind of funny, but I hope u get what u're looking for man - seriously, good luck
                                                            I post here regularly and have pretty much no adult presence at this point.

                                                            I've gone in to shooting commercials, music videos, shorts and feature films.

                                                            I'd shoot some porn if someone wanted to. We have a Red Scarlet. a BlackMagic Ursa and a few Sony cameras and studio ready to go.

                                                            Spend you some brain.
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                                                            • Tjeezers
                                                              Webmaster
                                                              • Mar 2007
                                                              • 16602

                                                              #31
                                                              Porn is not dead and probably will continue to sell far after we are dust in the wind, that being said, there is plenty of hope for you. It sounds to me that you got caught up in a family life now and priorities are shifting, perfectly normal. Sad to read she is squeezing all your creativity out of you, if it feels like this I can understand that porn is the blame of the life you have now. But its not a reason to throw away your knowledge, you sound like a person who knows some stuff and this is a great value for your future.

                                                              Post a " Hire me " thread, and explain to the industry who you are. Someone will pick it up and continue with you and help you to grow more. I have good hopes for you!

                                                              Good luck!

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                                                              • yuu.design
                                                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                • Mar 2006
                                                                • 25924

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by Tjeezers_Brokerbabe
                                                                Porn is not dead and probably will continue to sell far after we are dust in the wind, that being said, there is plenty of hope for you. It sounds to me that you got caught up in a family life now and priorities are shifting, perfectly normal. Sad to read she is squeezing all your creativity out of you, if it feels like this I can understand that porn is the blame of the life you have now. But its not a reason to throw away your knowledge, you sound like a person who knows some stuff and this is a great value for your future.

                                                                Post a " Hire me " thread, and explain to the industry who you are. Someone will pick it up and continue with you and help you to grow more. I have good hopes for you!

                                                                Good luck!
                                                                thats the best i have rad today
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                                                                • ilovecfnm
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • May 2015
                                                                  • 112

                                                                  #33
                                                                  thx guys, just woke up here, its 6m here in bangkok.,read all the replies and will probably read them 10 times again and take notes. i have to say that you guys on gfy are awesome, thats why i like it here, I agree on many things that have been said.

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                                                                  • Google Expert
                                                                    Webmaster
                                                                    • Jun 2004
                                                                    • 14294

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by ilovecfnm
                                                                    im Canadian but been living in SE Asia for 10 years.
                                                                    So you got married to a ladyboi and now have to support all her family?

                                                                    What were you thinking? Get the fuck out of there while you still can.

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                                                                    • The Porn Nerd
                                                                      Living The Dream
                                                                      • Jun 2009
                                                                      • 19786

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by Tjeezers_Brokerbabe
                                                                      Porn is not dead and probably will continue to sell far after we are dust in the wind, that being said, there is plenty of hope for you. It sounds to me that you got caught up in a family life now and priorities are shifting, perfectly normal. Sad to read she is squeezing all your creativity out of you, if it feels like this I can understand that porn is the blame of the life you have now. But its not a reason to throw away your knowledge, you sound like a person who knows some stuff and this is a great value for your future.

                                                                      Post a " Hire me " thread, and explain to the industry who you are. Someone will pick it up and continue with you and help you to grow more. I have good hopes for you!

                                                                      Good luck!
                                                                      Good advice from a good man!

                                                                      I often think of getting out. But not until I significantly increase my earnings. Besides, I would just be doing pretty much the same thing but selling shoes instead of porn. (Not really, but 'mainstream' is all about selling something.)

                                                                      Your kid never needs to know what you do. Will she be looking over your shoulder or have access to your computer? Keep the office LOCKED and if she ever asks just say you do computer stuff. Boring computer stuff.

                                                                      Daddy!!!!!!!! LOL Good luck man!!
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                                                                      • ilovecfnm
                                                                        Confirmed User
                                                                        • May 2015
                                                                        • 112

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by Google Expert
                                                                        So you got married to a ladyboi and now have to support all her family?

                                                                        What were you thinking? Get the fuck out of there while you still can.
                                                                        haha, funny man;) actually mom of my daughter is Filipina minus the dick, just taking a little break from Philippines, that place drives me nuts sometimes, so its good to get away.

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                                                                        • Tasty1
                                                                          Bla bla blaa
                                                                          • Jan 2005
                                                                          • 9529

                                                                          #37
                                                                          If you want inspiration and meet some people from GFY

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                                                                          I would certainly go there if i was in bangok.
                                                                          I am too far away

                                                                          everything is fake

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                                                                          • Look Chang
                                                                            Voyeur
                                                                            • Sep 2010
                                                                            • 18255

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Once in awhile there is a helpful thread in GFY

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                                                                            • Paul Markham
                                                                              Too old to care
                                                                              • Jun 2001
                                                                              • 52942

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by C H R I S
                                                                              Reinvent yourself and never give up.



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                                                                              • Relic
                                                                                So Fucking Banned
                                                                                • Aug 2002
                                                                                • 10300

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Compound interest op.

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                                                                                • Speigelau
                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                  • Jul 2007
                                                                                  • 3032

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Saw the thread title and figured it had to be Paul Markham, surprised it isn't.

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                                                                                  • ilovecfnm
                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                    • May 2015
                                                                                    • 112

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by Evil Chris
                                                                                    This is a career?
                                                                                    you could say that;) I have been doing this for the past 10 years and made a living from it, I had a good life doing this mostly in SE Asia, I lived in Indonesia for 5 + years and was married there unfortunately my wife died from cancer in 2012, I lived in South Africa 1 year in 2005, lived in Thailand for 3 years from 2012 and now live in Philippines for the past 15 months and have a beautiful daughter... All of this paid from porn;) My biggest sponsor was nastydollars and a whitelabel cam site that I still have but now its not getting much sign ups and ND is very bad for me now;(

                                                                                    I used to make 7000 a month with them. I need to re invent myself, I will take some advice that I read on here, it will be very helpful;) If you guys need any tips about traveling in SE Asia, you know who to ask;) and NO I dont like ladyboys.

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                                                                                    • ilovecfnm
                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                      • May 2015
                                                                                      • 112

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by The Porn Nerd
                                                                                      Good advice from a good man!

                                                                                      I often think of getting out. But not until I significantly increase my earnings. Besides, I would just be doing pretty much the same thing but selling shoes instead of porn. (Not really, but 'mainstream' is all about selling something.)

                                                                                      Your kid never needs to know what you do. Will she be looking over your shoulder or have access to your computer? Keep the office LOCKED and if she ever asks just say you do computer stuff. Boring computer stuff.

                                                                                      Daddy!!!!!!!! LOL Good luck man!!
                                                                                      Thx Nerdy;)

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                                                                                      • ilovecfnm
                                                                                        Confirmed User
                                                                                        • May 2015
                                                                                        • 112

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by Tjeezers_Brokerbabe
                                                                                        Porn is not dead and probably will continue to sell far after we are dust in the wind, that being said, there is plenty of hope for you. It sounds to me that you got caught up in a family life now and priorities are shifting, perfectly normal. Sad to read she is squeezing all your creativity out of you, if it feels like this I can understand that porn is the blame of the life you have now. But its not a reason to throw away your knowledge, you sound like a person who knows some stuff and this is a great value for your future.

                                                                                        Post a " Hire me " thread, and explain to the industry who you are. Someone will pick it up and continue with you and help you to grow more. I have good hopes for you!

                                                                                        Good luck!
                                                                                        Thx man, good advice;)

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                                                                                        • MaDalton
                                                                                          I am Amazing Content!
                                                                                          • Feb 2004
                                                                                          • 39861

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by wehateporn
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                                                                                          • LeMeLiN
                                                                                            Confirmed User
                                                                                            • Nov 2016
                                                                                            • 159

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Porn is dying?? People will always look for porn and as long as you have traffic you will be able to make money from ads.

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                                                                                            • ilovecfnm
                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                              • May 2015
                                                                                              • 112

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by JesseQuinn
                                                                                              whatever path you choose props for recognizing you need a change. I look at it this way, life is really fucking short and we all only get one go-around. It's a waste to spend 8/10/12 hours a day doing things you don't enjoy, that you're not proud of.

                                                                                              if I were you I'd stop thinking about options in binary 'adult'/'mainstream' terms though. why not think about what you enjoy, your skill sets, your priorities and let the ideas come to you? pre-sorting them into two arbitrary categories serves only to knee-cap your creativity and imagination. which you need, esp living abroad

                                                                                              as far as the 'daughter being proud of you' concern, speaking as one if it helps, it probably won't be a big deal to her either way if you live a life that teaches her kindness, strength, compassion, generosity, accountability, imagination, ethics and reason. you can do that (or lack that) in any field, including adult

                                                                                              wish ya good luck
                                                                                              Thx Jesse, your message is well appreciated;)

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                                                                                              • ilovecfnm
                                                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                                                • May 2015
                                                                                                • 112

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by Adnium_Ivana
                                                                                                Like others have suggested, mainstream. Or, why don't you try utilizing the skills I'm sure you've acquired in adult to: build websites, SEO, SEM or try your hand at online consulting/remote marketing?

                                                                                                You could do Media Buying for a major advertiser or marketing agency in SE Asia as there's plenty of them there.

                                                                                                Also, if you can learn how to code (try Udemy, Coursera, Code academy, Khan Academy - all free) and you can make really good $$$ as you can charge per hour. good luck
                                                                                                Thx Ivana, I will look into what you are suggesting me;)

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                                                                                                • ilovecfnm
                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                  • May 2015
                                                                                                  • 112

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by TheDynasty
                                                                                                  Enjoy hard labor for the rest of your life!
                                                                                                  Im up for that anytime, if I go back to Canada, I would sweat my ass off, I have no problem working hard to make ends meet.

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                                                                                                  • BlackCrayon
                                                                                                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                                    • Jun 2003
                                                                                                    • 19634

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    guys seem to like to move to SE Asia for the women but never let it go past a pump and dump. these chicks are all just looking for a white guy to support them.
                                                                                                    you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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