you are a gay homosexual !

No, I'm not fat nor ugly, just very anti-social.

respect mah authoritah!

You're a stupid retard!

That's a lot worse :2 cents:

my kind of girl... we can be shunned together.. http://twash.com/temp/kiss.gif

You think Im a shemale? Do you want to call me over the phone and talk to me so I can prove im a girl? I've talked to some other people from GFY over the phone and they can reassure you that im female.

it's just nice to know who we're talking to, and what level of flirtation we should aim for :1orglaugh

seriously though, I feel your pain. Your home is your sanctuary and it's damn aggravating to have someone violate it like they have some right to it.

you have to get this shit straight with your roommate right NOW or move out.

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I am just mad because they are making me feel uncomfortable in my own place! They better not have touched ANY of my food outside, Im going to check everything outside and if they ate ANY of my food I am going to get pissed. And they better have not said any shit about me when I went back in, imagine that, kicking it at someones house and not showing them any freakin' respect.

It's 2:30 am now, and they are STILL outside! I feel like a prisoner in my own home :(

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Im gonna have to bring my refrigerator in my room tomorrow so I dont have to fucken walk past them everytime I wanna get some food. I have to go through all this trouble because of those losers. They are majorly inconveniencing me.

And the worst part is that my roomate is pregnant, and she said her BF might move in with her after 6 months! So then this is going to be a weekly routine. WTF? I am going to be out of here.

And I heard two guys throw up and retch in the backyard already. Losers

why dont you talk to your roommate and tell her that those people make you feel uncomfortable ?

Yes I do. :)

Well, she's outside with them right now, and I dont wanna see either of them. I will have to talk to her tomorrow. I dont even want to tell her they are making me uncomfortable because we might argue or she might say she could bring guests because she pays half. I am just going to tell her to have her bf move in or find someone else to live with because I don't wanna live with her anymore.

Only the ones that were doubting me, not everyone please.
And then only to prove that im female, just to prove a point, not to chat, im not a 900-chat line

Sorry but I dont make a habbit of talking to strange people unless its for a purpose, or if i have something to prove.

im starting to think you have no spine.

just because she pays half the rent doesnt mean 20 people can party outside your place, and it certainly doesnt mean her boyfriend can move in just because she wants him to.

kick her ass out! or tell her how it is! get a freakin spine already!

Room mates fucking suck, you'll be much happier in a small place and you'll be comfortable. Call the cops and act like you're a neighbor, fuck em.

I already told her that Im GOING once her BF moves in, but she told me that AFTER we started looking for a place. And she told me that he has to help her because she has the baby, he needs to take the baby to daycare and stuff like that.

I do doubt you, and I assure you it would be a very unpleasant conversation. :1orglaugh

Why would it be unpleasant?

I'm just messing with ya. What the hell else is there to do at 4am.

if he aint on the lease, she has no valid claim for him moving in. if you say no, she just has to deal with it.
and just because he has to take a baby to daycare doesnt mean he needs to move in.

No, its just me and her on the lease. I don't know what to say about the bf thing, I guess I will have to talk to her later. It IS my fault, I admit, because I had a chance to back out before we moved in, but I didn't, I don't know why. I guess to be totally honest, I kind of don't have a spine sometimes like someone said earlier, I can be passive sometimes, but deep down inside I am VERY angry and irritable and probably not the easiest person to get along with either.

But then, one thing I forgot to mention, her bf helped me move some of my heavy furniture and stuff from my old place to my new one, so do I still have a right to be mad about him brining people over? Because I feel like I kind of cant because I owe him something but I am FUMING inside and it shows. I know they can tell that I'm angry outside and i dont want things to get even worse with more tension.

There is your problem right there. If you are anti-social why would you get a roommate?

Because I dont mind dealing with her, I didn't know she was going to bring 20 guys over. Living with her was cool, up until tonight.

And I hear them talking about falling asleep or something? I hope they dont crash here overnight? Damn.

you dont owe him shit. but if you wanna handle this nicely then tomorrow sit her and her boyfriend down and talk to them.
make them very aware that the situation that happened tonight will not happen again. you and her are roommates and there has to be an understanding between you about what is allowed and what isnt allowed. a few friends coming over to hang out every once and a while i can understand....but being a hangout for her boyfriends friends is not cool.
you really have to layeth the smackdown or it will just get worse.

if they are still there you are well within your rights to go out there and tell everyone to go home. if they dont go call the cops.

however, if you lay down rules...they have to apply to you as well....otherwise you are asking for trouble.

dont let people walk all over you.


and just for the record.....i assume you are an adult webmaster....so what exactly is a perverted sound?

Hey calm down girl!
If it starts happing every day then get pissed I'm sure you can handle one day a week?

your going to allow them all to crash at your apartment?
damn girl, you really need to get a spine.
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do what all the other anti social people do... goto the pawn shop and get a gun... :BangBang:

I can't :( I don't know why but I just can't go outside and tell them that. And if its only 1 or 2 nights a wee, is that acceptable, or no? It's not a daily thing, because they all go to work, so its more like a weekend thing i guess.

And im not sure if they are really are going to sleep on the couch, perhaps someone got too drunk and they told him to sleep it off or something. They are still playing cards and drinking.
:(

so you dont want to do anything about it.
you just want us to feel sorry for you ?

damn girl....how old are you?

what is acceptable is totally up to YOU!

no more than three guests at any given time....that's up to YOU!

no guests allowed at the house after midnight....that's up to YOU!

only guest allowed at the house is a boyfriend...that's up to YOU!

LAYETH THE SMACKDOWN!

Im gonna talk to her tomorrow when theres no one around, I cant talk to her will all those people there. I feel weird talking about it period, let alone if there's people there. I don't think now is the right place.

Im going to be 25 in May :(

But how can I say that its all up to ME, when we BOTH pay rent and we BOTH are gonna be on the LEASE. I feel like she could turn around and say the same thing to me:

Unlimited amount of guests

I pay rent too so my BF can live here...

etc. etc

then you need to acquaint yourself with the law.

Pardon? Is there a law about roommates I should be aware of?

you need some dick..too much lonely anger

phogirl69, I've had some bad experiences with roommates also... but don't worry, it will pass. Obviously you can't live like this forever, you will/must find a solution to end this madness in your life. But don't feel so bad, this sorta thing happens everyday to many people! Like I say, it will pass...

dont you watch any of the tv judge shows??

http://www.nationalroommates.com/laws.html
http://public.findlaw.com/real_estat.../articles.html
http://www.nolo.com/lawcenter/ency/c...A2E323ABF31CC5


basically what it comes down to is you need to sit down with your roommate and create some rules. dont back down from what you feel comfortable with. really layeth the smackdown, otherwise leave or tell her to leave.

however, the links above will show that her boyfriend cannot live there just because she wants him to. he would have to be added to the lease. just because she pays half the rent doesnt mean she can add another roommate to the apartment.