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  • EddyTheDog
    Just Doing My Own Thing
    • Jan 2011
    • 25433

    #1

    Rant I Had A Bit Of A Falling Out With A Friend Earlier, Evidently I am A..

    'People Pleaser' and try too hard...

    Am I?...

    Is it a bad thing?..

    This all because I met her mum and she liked me.....
  • Smack dat
    So Fucking Banned
    • Jul 2016
    • 4613

    #2
    I've noticed that and I think it has been pointed out before so the answer is yes.

    It's not necessarily a bad thing, depends on the circumstances.

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    • Serge Litehead
      Confirmed User
      • Dec 2002
      • 5190

      #3
      too much nice may feel like a fake

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      • apb
        Registered User
        • Sep 2016
        • 15

        #4
        Being a people pleaser can get really annoying for the people you're trying to please. Some people want a "yes man", but not everyone does.

        Personally I think it's better to have the balls to speak your mind, rather than nodding your head to keep people happy.

        Takes all kinds of people to make up a world though
        Life is like sex.
        You can either lie back and let it screw you, or you can get on top and ride the hell out of it.

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        • brassmonkey
          Pay It Forward
          • Sep 2005
          • 77396

          #5
          drama queen!
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          • Smack dat
            So Fucking Banned
            • Jul 2016
            • 4613

            #6
            So your friend didn't expect or want her mom to like you?

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            • EddyTheDog
              Just Doing My Own Thing
              • Jan 2011
              • 25433

              #7
              Originally posted by Smack dat
              So your friend didn't expect or want her mom to like you?
              They don't have a great relationship - Maybe it is her problem and not mine...

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              • Smack dat
                So Fucking Banned
                • Jul 2016
                • 4613

                #8
                Originally posted by EddyTheDog
                They don't have a great relationship - Maybe it is her problem and not mine...
                So she is pissed her mom liked you when she secretly wanted her to hate you because they don't get on..

                Yeah, I think she has issues.

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                • EddyTheDog
                  Just Doing My Own Thing
                  • Jan 2011
                  • 25433

                  #9
                  Originally posted by brassmonkey
                  drama queen!
                  I know - lol - However, I give you a hard time when you piss me off - I do it with lots of others - That's not 'people pleasing'...

                  I can be a bastad when I need to be - Honest.....

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                  • Smack dat
                    So Fucking Banned
                    • Jul 2016
                    • 4613

                    #10
                    Originally posted by EddyTheDog
                    I know - lol - However, I give you a hard time when you piss me off - I do it with lots of others - That's not 'people pleasing'...

                    I can be a little bitch when I need to be - Honest.....
                    Fixed it for you..

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                    • SpeedoDave
                      Confirmed User
                      • Sep 2003
                      • 354

                      #11
                      Eddy you Dog.

                      My favourite was when this chick in Denver bad mouthed me to a bunch of my mates, I concede maybe I am a dick. But opening weekend of the ski season she wanted to crash at my place in the mountains.

                      If I'm such a cunt why would you want to stay at my house?

                      Then I followed up with, Sarah... a person can be fat, a person can be mean. But you should be both.

                      She didn't bother me again.

                      Dave
                      I feel old since I started SpeedoFetish.com back in 2001.

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                      • beerptrol
                        Confirmed Asshole
                        • Feb 2003
                        • 12722

                        #12
                        Her problem. Like you said, they don't have a great relationship and she was expecting you to see how bad her mom is and side with the friend. This would have reaffirmed to the friend that her mom was the bad person and at fault
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                        • CaptainHowdy
                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                          • Dec 2004
                          • 94727

                          #13
                          You can be whatever you want to be ...

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                          • ContentPimp
                            Confirmed User
                            • Nov 2008
                            • 3184

                            #14
                            Originally posted by CaptainHowdy
                            You can be whatever you want to be ...
                            Yup! Without thinking what kind shit other people would think
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                            • nico-t
                              emperor of my world
                              • Aug 2004
                              • 29903

                              #15
                              "a falling out because the chicks mom likes you"

                              Jesus dude. You're gay, if you want to you can live your life without the erratic, whining, illogical female species.

                              I don't have a choice, i have to interact with the species to have sex. You can completely avoid females and still have sex... that, my friend, is a luxury position

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                              • NatalieK
                                Natalie K
                                • Apr 2010
                                • 20106

                                #16
                                Originally posted by Smack dat
                                I've noticed that and I think it has been pointed out before so the answer is yes.

                                It's not necessarily a bad thing, depends on the circumstances.
                                nothing wrong with wanting to stay positive, pleasing people's a good thing.

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                                • incredibleworkethic
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Sep 2009
                                  • 2302

                                  #17
                                  People please = hard on you

                                  I think it makes it harder to live when you go about it that way.

                                  I have been called the same, but you know what I want people to get along. I give them a chance before saying fuck it.

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