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  • lakerslive
    Confirmed User
    • Aug 2012
    • 929

    #1

    U take your friends out to dinner

    Not 1 thank u was given.. would that bother u? they just say "aight, laters" or is it just me?
  • 2MuchMark
    Mark of 2Much.net
    • Aug 2004
    • 50977

    #2
    Originally posted by lakerslive
    Not 1 thank u was given.. would that bother u? they just say "aight, laters" or is it just me?
    I know someone like that. Saying "Thank you" for the meal or drink is an alien concept to him.

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    • Sly
      Let's do some business!
      • Sep 2004
      • 31376

      #3
      Real friends don't buy friends something and expect something else in return. Thanks or not.

      If they are casual friends, thanks are in order.
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      • The Porn Nerd
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        #4
        Originally posted by Sly
        Real friends don't buy friends something and expect something else in return. Thanks or not.

        If they are casual friends, thanks are in order.
        True, but even if a good friend bought me dinner I would still say Thank You.

        I was raised well I guess. LOL

        But to take a few people out to dinner and not a single person says thanks? Fuck those idiots, never again is what I would say. Hope you wrote the dinner off as a biz expense at least.
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        • lakerslive
          Confirmed User
          • Aug 2012
          • 929

          #5
          yeah..i cant believe its bothering even until now..lol

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          • lakerslive
            Confirmed User
            • Aug 2012
            • 929

            #6
            should i text these assholes and say "thanks for coming"?

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            • lakerslive
              Confirmed User
              • Aug 2012
              • 929

              #7
              just did..i texted one of em and said "remind so and so to say thanks whenever someone take em out or buys em a drink"

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              • SekobA
                Too lazy to set a custom title
                • Oct 2008
                • 12173

                #8
                If you pay for them very offten they sure are used to it so its normal do not thank you

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                • lakerslive
                  Confirmed User
                  • Aug 2012
                  • 929

                  #9
                  i dont pay for the them often

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                  • ErectMedia
                    Confirmed Chicago Pimp
                    • Aug 2004
                    • 7100

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Sly
                    Real friends don't buy friends something and expect something else in return. Thanks or not.

                    If they are casual friends, thanks are in order.
                    Even if a real friend don't think it's too much trouble for someone to say a quick thanks, not like you're asking them to swallow your balls for the meal.

                    Add Sly to your "Don't take out to dinner rude list" and save da heartache later.

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                    • lakerslive
                      Confirmed User
                      • Aug 2012
                      • 929

                      #11
                      so, a REALLY good friend of yours buys you a drink at the bar, u just drink it and leave?

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                      • dyna mo
                        just a fucking jerk
                        • Dec 2008
                        • 68184

                        #12
                        forgive but never forget. don't let ingrates get you down.

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                          #13



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                          • jimmycooper
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                            • May 2010
                            • 4016

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Sly
                            Real friends don't buy friends something and expect something else in return. Thanks or not.

                            If they are casual friends, thanks are in order.
                            Do you actually have any friends?

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                            • Spunky
                              I need a beer
                              • Jun 2002
                              • 133986

                              #15
                              It's just common manners to thank somebody.I wouldn't do it again

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                              • Sly
                                Let's do some business!
                                • Sep 2004
                                • 31376

                                #16
                                Originally posted by lakerslive
                                so, a REALLY good friend of yours buys you a drink at the bar, u just drink it and leave?
                                I buy the next time. It's a trade.
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                                • Sly
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                                  • Sep 2004
                                  • 31376

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by jimmycooper
                                  Do you actually have any friends?
                                  I buy drinks and dinners regularly. Never expect a thank you. Don't care if I get one. I buy because I want to treat them.
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                                  • lakerslive
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                                    • Aug 2012
                                    • 929

                                    #18
                                    so, someone just paid for your hospital bill of 1 million dollars. U just get up and leave. lol

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                                    • BlackCrayon
                                      Too lazy to set a custom title
                                      • Jun 2003
                                      • 19634

                                      #19
                                      personally i wouldn't want a friend to buy me dinner or whatever. i pay my own way and expect others to do the same.
                                      you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                                      • lakerslive
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Aug 2012
                                        • 929

                                        #20
                                        so, someone just donated their kidney to you. Fuck em, just another regular day, get up and leave

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                                        • lakerslive
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                                          • Aug 2012
                                          • 929

                                          #21
                                          just shows u the kind of subhumans on this forum

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                                          • Sly
                                            Let's do some business!
                                            • Sep 2004
                                            • 31376

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by lakerslive
                                            so, someone just paid for your hospital bill of 1 million dollars. U just get up and leave. lol
                                            Is that what you did?

                                            Look, I say thank you. I don't expect it from others. I buy gifts, dinner, drinks, whatever for other people simply because I want to and I want them to have a nice time. If someone buys me a drink, I return the favor the next time. Same with dinner, so on and so forth.

                                            I don't keep score and I don't cry about so and so not thanking me. I certainly don't play passive aggressive and tell another friend to remind so-and-so that they should have said thank you.

                                            It sounds like these are casual friends that you might not see often. They should have said thank you, they did not. Don't cry about it, just don't do it again. Save your money for people that care about you the same as you care for them.
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                                            • dyna mo
                                              just a fucking jerk
                                              • Dec 2008
                                              • 68184

                                              #23
                                              when i do something like this, i make sure i don't have expectations, no strings attached. however, how people move from acquantaince to friend in my life is by their acting respectfully to me and around me, subsequently, my friends say thank you.

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                                              • Sly
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                                                • Sep 2004
                                                • 31376

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by lakerslive
                                                just shows u the kind of subhumans on this forum
                                                First you cry because somebody doesn't say thank you. Now you cry because somebody doesn't agree with you.

                                                You seem to want an award for buying someone dinner. If your money is that precious to you, don't buy someone dinner.
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                                                • lakerslive
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                                                  • Aug 2012
                                                  • 929

                                                  #25
                                                  its equivalent to someone not saying "good bye, i'm leaving" after they just met you.

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                                                  • lakerslive
                                                    Confirmed User
                                                    • Aug 2012
                                                    • 929

                                                    #26
                                                    i dont need an award u idiot. just saying, have manners.

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                                                    • lakerslive
                                                      Confirmed User
                                                      • Aug 2012
                                                      • 929

                                                      #27
                                                      so, heres another example for u moron.

                                                      U just had dinner with friends and family. U just get up from the table and leave and not say "good bye"

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                                                      • Sly
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                                                        • Sep 2004
                                                        • 31376

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by lakerslive
                                                        its equivalent to someone not saying "good bye, i'm leaving" after they just met you.
                                                        I thought it was equivalent to not saying thanks for a kidney?

                                                        So confused. Should I thank you for this new knowledge you are showering me with?
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                                                        • lakerslive
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                                                          • Aug 2012
                                                          • 929

                                                          #29
                                                          so, heres another example for u moron.

                                                          U just had dinner with friends and family. U just get up from the table and leave and not say "good bye"

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                                                          • Sly
                                                            Let's do some business!
                                                            • Sep 2004
                                                            • 31376

                                                            #30
                                                            I'm going to a barbecue tonight. Going to take a few sixpacks.

                                                            Which party should say thank you? And if we both say thank you, does it have the same effect? What if I say thank you for the barbecue and nobody says thank you for the beer, should I report back?
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                                                            • Sly
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                                                              • Sep 2004
                                                              • 31376

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by lakerslive
                                                              so, heres another example for u moron.

                                                              U just had dinner with friends and family. U just get up from the table and leave and not say "good bye"
                                                              Is it okay to say "later" instead of "goodbye?"
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                                                              • TheSquealer
                                                                Mayor of Thneedville
                                                                • Oct 2004
                                                                • 26174

                                                                #32
                                                                Sounds like someone is realizing he has no friends
                                                                .
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                                                                • lakerslive
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • Aug 2012
                                                                  • 929

                                                                  #33
                                                                  sly is obviously stupid

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                                                                  • Sly
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                                                                    • Sep 2004
                                                                    • 31376

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by lakerslive
                                                                    sly is obviously stupid
                                                                    I thought I was a moron?
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                                                                    • TheSquealer
                                                                      Mayor of Thneedville
                                                                      • Oct 2004
                                                                      • 26174

                                                                      #35
                                                                      At least Sly has friends.
                                                                      .
                                                                      Yes, fewer illegal immigrants working equates to more job opportunities for American citizens.

                                                                      Rochard

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                                                                      • dyna mo
                                                                        just a fucking jerk
                                                                        • Dec 2008
                                                                        • 68184

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by lakerslive
                                                                        Not 1 thank u was given.. would that bother u? they just say "aight, laters" or is it just me?
                                                                        next time, don't ask a question at gfy, since you can't take the answers.

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                                                                        • lakerslive
                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                          • Aug 2012
                                                                          • 929

                                                                          #37
                                                                          its more like the other way around. How people with no manners dont want to learn manners

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                                                                          • dyna mo
                                                                            just a fucking jerk
                                                                            • Dec 2008
                                                                            • 68184

                                                                            #38
                                                                            thank you for the thread.

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                                                                            • Sly
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                                                                              • Sep 2004
                                                                              • 31376

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by lakerslive
                                                                              its more like the other way around. How people with no manners dont want to learn manners
                                                                              I want to thank you, for calling me stupid, an idiot, and a moron. I would hate for you to think I have bad manners and not thank you for your wonderful comments.
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                                                                              • lakerslive
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                                                                                • Aug 2012
                                                                                • 929

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by Sly
                                                                                I want to thank you, for calling me stupid, an idiot, and a moron. I would hate for you to think I have bad manners and not thank you for your wonderful comments.
                                                                                you're not welcome

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                                                                                • TheSquealer
                                                                                  Mayor of Thneedville
                                                                                  • Oct 2004
                                                                                  • 26174

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by dyna mo
                                                                                  thank you for the thread.
                                                                                  Did you learn manners? Or that he has no friends?
                                                                                  .
                                                                                  Yes, fewer illegal immigrants working equates to more job opportunities for American citizens.

                                                                                  Rochard

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                                                                                  • Sly
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                                                                                    • Sep 2004
                                                                                    • 31376

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by lakerslive
                                                                                    you're not welcome
                                                                                    That's not very polite.

                                                                                    I take back my thank you.

                                                                                    I'm not even going to say goodbye!
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                                                                                    • lakerslive
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                                                                                      • Aug 2012
                                                                                      • 929

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      ive certainly learned some people have no manners

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                                                                                      • Sly
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                                                                                        • 31376

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Did you at least supersize their meal? If not, that's poor manners on your part.
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                                                                                        • The Porn Nerd
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Actually text your 'friends' with this:

                                                                                          "Hey you owe me $22.50 for dinner last night' (or whatever the cost was). When they text you back with 'wtf?' go: 'Well, I only pay for dinner for my grateful friends. Since you didn't say 'thank you' I assume we were splitting the bill. Sorry, my bad.'

                                                                                          That should send a clear message for next time. LOL

                                                                                          (And PS: You can't really complain about people with bad manners when you call Sly an idiot and moron, now can you? Just sayin'.)
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                                                                                          • lakerslive
                                                                                            Confirmed User
                                                                                            • Aug 2012
                                                                                            • 929

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by Sly
                                                                                            That's not very polite.

                                                                                            I take back my thank you.

                                                                                            I'm not even going to say goodbye!
                                                                                            "i don't expect any thank Us or good byes from anyone"

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                                                                                            • Sly
                                                                                              Let's do some business!
                                                                                              • Sep 2004
                                                                                              • 31376

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by lakerslive
                                                                                              "i don't expect any thank Us or good byes from anyone"
                                                                                              That was before I read this thread and learned proper manners.
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                                                                                              • MetaMan
                                                                                                I AM WEB 2.0
                                                                                                • Jan 2003
                                                                                                • 28682

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by lakerslive
                                                                                                Not 1 thank u was given.. would that bother u? they just say "aight, laters" or is it just me?
                                                                                                They dont thank you because they dont respect you. Youre that one loser friend where people expect you to pay or else you wouldnt be there in the first place.

                                                                                                To me its a wash. Did you tell them "thank you for allowing me to take time off from my miserable little life". Probably not. So stop whining.

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                                                                                                • lakerslive
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                                                                                                  • Aug 2012
                                                                                                  • 929

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  lakerslive 1
                                                                                                  sly 0

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                                                                                                  • lakerslive
                                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                                    • Aug 2012
                                                                                                    • 929

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by MetaMan
                                                                                                    They dont thank you because they dont respect you. Youre that one loser friend where people expect you to pay or else you wouldnt be there in the first place.

                                                                                                    To me its a wash. Did you tell them "thank you for allowing me to take time off from my miserable little life". Probably not. So stop whining.
                                                                                                    just saying its better to have manners than not have any. That's all im trying to defend here

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