If this is all a bullshit I say we get a group together to break this guy's legs. :disgust

Here are a few things to consider:

1) he's done this before and got called out on it quickly because his story was equally weak and flawed

2) he's begged for money before with equally weak and stupid stories

3) he's ALWAYS got a sad story to tell. he likes to let people know he's in a wheelchair and shoots for maximum pity and plays on peoples sympathies (a defining characteristic of a sociopath)

4) as soon as he was questioned on this story, he deleted the gofundme campaign. strange right? a vague, unspecific campaign to ease a dying persons final days and he suddenly deletes it and grabs the money and basically takes a 48 hr break

5) he is offered 1000.00 to provide proof of this person's existence and that she has stage 4 whatever

6) proving this is very simple. bear in mind that the volume of medical paperwork would be huge at this point, there would be a wide range of prescription meds, specific to that type of cancer, pain etc. All it takes is verification of ANY paperwork, tests, meds and so on.

7) some digging suggests this person is not being forthright about being in a relationship, much less a relationship with dying woman

8) cornered, he himself says he will post incontrovertible proof of his stories accuracy.... in which case, i would be quite happy to paypal him 250.00.

9) he goes MIA

10) his "proof" is essentially two linked facebook accounts, where his "mother" makes a vague post about "my sons girlfriends cancer" - a post which was made AFTER the fact. AFTER he said he'd provide proof

11) he then, for obvious reasons attempts to pre-empt the obvious challenges by also staring "this is the ONLY proof i will give" as he has no bills, no medical records, no tests, no pics of a helpless woman getting chemo or laying in a hospital bed or whatever.

12) now, after his little bit of ill conceived theater and stealing 400+ USD - he is, as would be expected acting indignant and offended as if he is the true victim.... and saying he can't really offer proof because his imagined girlfriend won;t let him post docs with info blurred, pics of meds etc with identifying info removed.

Maybe Yngwie is being conned here. Maybe this is some Nigerian GF scam? Yngwie have you met your GF in real life / face to face? Srs question.

Sorry, but that wouldn't make up the 11 years ago being single while now claiming 15 years they were together. Perhaps he was abducted by aliens and has missing time which can't be explained, much like the fact he has no pictures with her..

Yngwie was a massive/active poster/webmaster back in the days, I refuse to think made a scam, I will think it's legit

and this is why he continues to do this over and over..because he just keeps rambling on with the poor me's when ever he's questioned on anything and people get tired of arguing, then he creates doubt in a few people's minds. Just like he has done to you and now you empower him to continue on and there will be yet a next time..

Ask yourself, have you ever met him? Would you believe this kind of story from a total stranger? If no, then why would you give benefit of doubt just because someone has posted on a message board for many years (doing this same thing several times now)

i have a lot of family in Sudbury. Nice city when it doesn't smell like sulfur.

When I read threads like this begging for money based on a family member with cancer, it naturally tugs at the heartstrings of nearly everyone. I recently loss my boss (and good friend) to cancer...a man I greatly respected and admired for over a decade.

My wife has severe rhumatoid arthritis that she takes incredibly expensive medication for (infusion treatments, cortisone injections, methotraxate, plaquinil...and a littany of other drugs that knock out her immune system and leave her vulnerable to infections. We're fortunate she has a great benefit package through her employer...but we still have to absorb a lot of deductible expense on the meds. Each infusion treatment is $2600 - and it would take 5 minutes to snap photos of her meds...hell, even a photo of her in the chair at the clinic getting the infusion.

Through all this pain - she still works a 40hr. week. But we've never gone to strangers on the internet and begged for money. And even if we found ourselves in that position...we'd certainly provide a ton of proof of her condition...the costs involved, etc. Her night table beside the bed looks like a pharmaceutical shelf.

Yngwie - you are blasting people on here that were willing to generously donate to your situation for no other reason than you've failed to provide a shred of proof of the authenticity of this. You have no one to blame but yourself. You can't blame people for being inherently suspicious of this whole thing - given the large number of scammers we've seen over the years on GFY. You yourself have been around long enough to have seen this same scenario before. People's suspicions are well-founded and have merit.

I urge you to do the right thing - provide proof - or I will personally be in contact with authorities in Sudbury and provide them with information gathered thus far. Fake cancer scams really piss me off on a personal level (as someone said above - they touch a nerve).

I really hope I (and the rest of us are wrong)...but it's not looking that way.

It took a while to read the entire thread from the beginning.

Yngwie, you have $1000 + $100 + $250 waiting at your disposal and that is a very big amount in itself. Plus more members who are willing to help you.

Sticking to your stand is not going to help you anyway. Just my honest suggestion and advice.

All the best!

Generally in Canada, when you are diagnosed with a serious type of Cancer, you will get a visit from a hospital social worker in the first day or two of treatment. The social worker will explain how to get gov't money while you are getting treatments and even help you fill out the necessary forms. You dont have to apply for it, but it's available if you need it...

if you are telling the truth fuck god he not helping :2 cents::2 cents:

@Yngwie
Your "GF" ... a member of this Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/297581282557/members/, dident seem sick, when I asked the members about her Health.
They have never heard of you either...


go figure

I've been talking more with my gf and she wants to know exactly you want as proof? The ONLY thing that's available is a recorded audio file (recorded by me) that I can show that was taken in December at her 1st consultation with Dr. Carlson at the cancer center, but like before this will be PMd to sonofsam... This is the best I can do.

this group is her cousin's.. she doesn't post there or even know anyone there besides her cousin. And of course they never heard of me..

How about you start with a Picture of You and your GF (for 15 years) together ... not exactly hard to produce
If she have had cancer (in stage 4) for this long. It's not hard to spot

Why dont you tell your girlfriend that if she doesnt offer up some serious proof soon you might be stuck in prison while she is left to die alone. Im sure she'd offer up something more substantial in that case. Theres already been at least one other Canadian who said they were going to report this.

Sorry to say, but I will not end up in prison. Sonofsam has a pm with the audio file (recorded with my cell) taken during the consultation at the cancer center.

Once again, no pics of meds, no paperwork and no direct evidence that he has a "girlfriend "

You should be in prison. You have committed the most vile form of fraud possible.... and it's not your first time.

How hard is it to tell your "GF":

These asshats on a forum I visits, wants to give us $1000,-
All we need to do is take a Picture together, and prove you are sick

How about that sweetheart? that would pay the foodbill for a month?

No offense, but an audio file proves nothing. Sorry.

And I find it hard to believe that you still refuse to take a photo of you both together, yet you magically now have a recording of the actual doctor.

Yeah, sure. You're scum dude.

fraud? Fuck you! I'm protecting my gf by NOT putting her personal info up here. None of this is made up and I don't give a shit what you think. All of this is REAL! Believe it or not I don't care.

And it's not my 1st time? I have NEVER done this shit!

He is sure not working very hard to collect 1500.00 but then again, anything he does to "prove it" is just going to end up being evidence against him in a criminal case.... further proving his intention to willfully further a fraudulent deception for his personal financial benefit.

you can't even post pics of prescribed cancer meds to "protect your girlfriend"?

You can't because you are lying

It was "urgent" when people were expected to blindly believe you. Now it's not urgent when it comes time to collect 1500.00 by simply verifying your story is true. Why is that? Because you are lying and you've been busted. End of story

This is me when I got Breast Cancer /sarcasm

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Seriously, it would take me less than a hour to find a recording I could pass on as my own, including editing the names in the audiofile

@SonOFSam
Check the fileinfo of the file. Most keep the original timecode, so you can see when it was edited/recorded

As I have mentioned already, My girl has cancer at the moment. I could easily find something that would prove this. I could post a photo of us together just a week ago. We have been together for a little more than a year and none of this would be difficult to do.

You dancing around providing any sort of proof is fucking retarded and about as transparent as can be.

This should be DEAD SIMPLE for you to prove and considering how desperate you seemed to be in the first post, there should be nothing stopping you.

asking for shit here needs to be banned

Blah blah fucking blah! go on and about a stupid fucking picture like that makes a difference and YES I recorded it with the docs permission for my gf so she had all info given easily accessible. Who gives a shit if I don't post pics of her and I.. big fucking deal.

the audio file proves nothing? Oh yes, I'm sure I fabricated this you you fucking idiot. it's not a few minutes long with no useful info.. it's 40+ minutes long and has plenty of info. Don't want to believe me? Go ahead, get the law involved and then we'll see who the real fucking idiot(s) is/are.

As pointed out above, it took someone all of 2 minutes to find a recorded consultation online.

Either way, if you're legit you suck and if you are indeed trying to pull a fast one...you suck at that too.

Never done what? Begged for money on GFY or scammed money from GFY?

https://gfy.com/fucking-around-and-pr...=yngwie+nephew

don't worry, after all of this I won't bother coming back here. But I won't be going into hiding just because many of you think I'm a liar, a scammer, someone who is fraudulent or whatever because NONE of this is a lie so I have ZERO worries.

I'll hazard a guess that no identifying info is present in the "audio file" being that would be a violation of privacy laws with respect to medical records. But yeah, you're clearly not the idiot. LOL.

Maybe I should offer you $100 to admit you are full of shit, and then we can end it all :)

Yes, it's called sociopathic behavior.. It's what people do when they possess no conscience based emotions such as guilt, shame, embarrassment, remorse and so on. Kinda like pulling a scam like this.

Then, like I said, whichever version is true...you suck either way. :1orglaugh

oh so now my nephew's stroke was fake?? Go fuck yourself! Tell that to my sister's husband and he will crush your fucking skull. Hell, my sister would kill you.. I dare ya to msg them on fb (I can give ya their names) and we'll see how you come out of that you fucking moron!

I don't care if I suck.. I'm in no fucking mood!

Message: don't attempt to verify the other scam because you'll die.. Makes sense. Sounds like a desperate statement to me from someone who is now understanding the need to be genuinely concerned.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

So since this is the first time you've done this and you've already begged for money prior, is this the first time you've scammed the board then?

Post their names and I will certainly ask them. We'll see how much of the money they got from you too. Maybe I'll ask them about this while I'm at it.

Post their names, I'll be more than happy to check in with them.

You'll die. He was clear. So ask a better question of his family members like "is this guy capable of lying about a fake girlfriend with cancer and soliciting donations". I bet that answer will be amusing.

Right?

Please...send me their names Yngwie. You said you would, so do it.