Advice: How To Get Over a Girl?

Agreed. Life is short. I try to make it interesting and fun where i can.

I think people don't stop to think much about how fun a simple interaction can be. I love just being random ... "Hey, this is Jimmy... he is the most interesting guy you'll ever meet. He holds 2 world records. One of them is for being the only person alive with 4 kidneys. Its crazy. That's why he has such great skin. He is super embarrassed about the second, so don't ask, anyway, i have to go talk to my friends for a second, I'll be back"

Start fucking her friends. She'll come back around when they tell her you're a tiger in the sack.

Just remember not to move so fast next time. Some women are scared of commitment until late 20's. Until then they just want a guy to fuck without labels. How you act around her will let her know that she's special; no cheesy card required.

Wrong, people never really change that much. The act will either wear off or be seen for what it is. For short time hook-ups it might work but OP seems to be looking for long term.

Like TheSquealer said,you can make yourself more interesting, but be yourself if you want a long lasting relationship.



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In a nutshell just treat them like you would your little sister. It has been said before that you kind of put them down a little in a fun way like you would do to your little sister. Be a bit of an ass. The hotter they are the better this method works.

Absolutely true, if the person is trying to be something he is not and never will be. I suppose I am talking about being a more idealized version of yourself. It's the same as with TheSquealer James Bond example. You don't actually believe you are James Bond, that would be delusional. LOL But you bring out the best aspects of yourself.

If you want to be more confident there's no trick to it, you just be more confident. Confidence is a feeling, and we, as human beings in control of our own minds, can trigger any feeling we want whenever we want.

So you are being you, just a better, more confident "you". A you at your best, as it were. If you will. :D

Also when you walk into a room say hello right away. Show you are not afraid of her. Most guys just lurk around hot a hot woman and she can feel their eyes on her and she gets creeped out. After you say hello just walk away and talk to someone else. Make her want that attention. This works very well. For people who are famous this just happens because it is part of their life but if you are a regular guy you have to be conscious of it and make it happen.

Here's a Pro Tip for you, just because it's motherfucking Christmas:

Treat celebrities like they are regular people and treat regular people like they are celebrities.

I'm a Ho Ho Ho (so I know).

Cheers!

I've always kept it pretty standard and boring as has been pointed out, but I'm going to try think of a few creative things like this - just not sure I can pull it off, but worth a try.

I'm actually in my early 20s and she recently entered her early 30s, which is around a 7 to 8 year difference in age, this could also be a reason things didn't develop as I think she saw me as more of a kid and not an adult.

I consider myself to be mature, definitely more mature for my age and I'm not looking to play games with a girl. If she's interested then that's great, lets do things and see where it goes.

For this reason I think I prefer slightly older girls, because then hopefully they are more mature, they know what they want and they aren't looking to play games.

I look at girls my age and most are running around wild, getting drunk, partying like crazy - where I'm looking to do those things occasionally, but I would prefer other activities as well, not having that being the main focus.

So yeah, I think I am looking for something more long term, as that will hopefully cost less in emotions, because I see a relationship as an emotional investment.

Usually I throw compliments (If I have the confidence to) and usually I wouldn't dare say anything negative, I would rather avoid it. But I'm going to try this the next time I have an opportunity to put someone down, I just hope I'm able to find an opportunity that is not something extreme.

I basically need to put them down with a soft blow, but with my luck I will probably say something so bad that she will start crying

I like this idea, as it differentiates me - its going to be pressure, but at least I would have made the first move and therefore have made an impression before other guys.

Good one

When you find yourself getting comfortable, realize that personal growth is then stopping ;)

You can do anything you are determined to do and anything worth doing takes practice to be good at.

Nothing says "I'm over you " like a glass of hydrochloric acid in the face.

You are lucky, because you haven't had anything serious with her... That's just a short time feeling, you will be great, just get away from her...

Text a dick pic?

I think a guy usually has one bad break up. The rest are easy. Kind of fun watching a girl thinking she is crushing you, You just smile and say okay.

Nothing says I love you like a 2oz whitman sampler and a computer printed card .