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  • jack-exploitedbabysitters
    Confirmed User
    • Mar 2012
    • 176

    #1

    does being in love effect your money?

    Does being in love effect your money, for example u won't do certain sites or business ventures because u think u wife or significant other won't approve and spending too much time with them. It's funny to me all the guys i personally know who are doing well are single, guys in relationships are struggling due to them spending too much time with their loved one and not working. Their are 24 hours in the day and u are spending 6 hours with ur girlfriend the single guy has a advantage over u.
  • _Richard_
    Too lazy to set a custom title
    • Oct 2006
    • 30991

    #2
    id say that would be a personal choice/dilemma: don't let your dick run your life lol

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    • xNetworx
      So Fucking What
      • Jan 2004
      • 14445

      #3
      Its simply a matter of time management skills. You can be single and spend 6 hours a day playing video games and jerking off. Tons of successful people are married.

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      • TheSquealer
        Mayor of Thneedville
        • Oct 2004
        • 26179

        #4
        Typically, the more content you are as a person, the less driven you are and the less money you are likely to make.
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        • keysync
          Living the Dream
          • Sep 2011
          • 2375

          #5
          I would say in my case. Yes being married effects the decisions I make.
          As long as I keep things relatively reasonable she doesn't give two fucks what I do.
          However opening a swing club is something I would like to do. There was one in a nearby city and it was always busy as hell but the owners had a fall out and it closed.

          I would like an 8 ball and a hooker for my birthday too! But I'm pretty sure the wife wouldn't approve of either...
          Damn good thing I love her..


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          • JockoHomo
            "LIKE I GIVE A SHIT"
            • Jun 2013
            • 1523

            #6
            Hookers cost money...dating costs money...dating hookers costs even more money!

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            • ilnjscb
              Confirmed User
              • Jun 2009
              • 8973

              #7
              .... Affect .....

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              • _Richard_
                Too lazy to set a custom title
                • Oct 2006
                • 30991

                #8
                Originally posted by ilnjscb
                .... Affect .....

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                • Si
                  Such Fun!
                  • Feb 2008
                  • 13900

                  #9
                  MGTOW - look that up.

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                  • Si
                    Such Fun!
                    • Feb 2008
                    • 13900

                    #10
                    Originally posted by _Richard_
                    Thought that was wrong did you? In a fred where da the op didnt even use you rather than u?

                    Funny how you attack things based on your views rather than the content isn't it?

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                    • Si
                      Such Fun!
                      • Feb 2008
                      • 13900

                      #11
                      Originally posted by TheSquealer
                      Typically, the more content you are as a person, the less driven you are and the less money you are likely to make.
                      This is a good point.

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                      • beerptrol
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                        • Feb 2003
                        • 12722

                        #12
                        Yep, I love my money and bitches come and go!
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                        • scubadiver626
                          Confirmed User
                          • Oct 2006
                          • 1034

                          #13
                          If your the head cheese, a good woman is the neck. If she's frugal, helps save for retirement and you're a team... You'll go far!
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                          • MrMaxwell
                            Too lazy to set a custom title
                            • Jul 2005
                            • 10057

                            #14
                            Loving family and a woman or two caused me to be poor financially, but not in the usual ways. I just got distracted by all of their shit and ran myself into the ground. I never let the women take or spend my money but I let family have a lot of it. Huge mistake. When a woman is with me, if she told me not to do something, that is just ridiculous. A woman telling me what to do flies in my airspace about as well as a lead toilet flies over the grand canyon there.

                            To make it you cannot have distractions. Period. That is the major lesson I have learned. I'll never let any of them get in the way of me making mine ever again. Ever. Period. Anyone who's worth my time wouldn't even want to.

                            I will end up making a lot of money again now that I understand this and FUCK love. The more I did for them and the more loyal I was, the worse ways they found to betray me. Wonderful angels, at first, then BLAM.

                            So for now suck my dick and make a sandwich and if you want to say or do anything troublesome shut the fuck up and get the fuck out first. It's like that, because it has to be.

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                            • ottopottomouse
                              She is ugly, bad luck.
                              • Jan 2010
                              • 13177

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Si
                              In a fred where da the op didnt even use you rather than u?
                              That's the point where I give up on someone
                              ↑ see post ↑
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                              • SlammedMedia
                                Confirmed User
                                • Apr 2008
                                • 1573

                                #16
                                Mine's more the other way around. I haven't been single, going on 6 years...but when I was my friends and I would party like there was no tomorrow and I'd spend way more money than I do now and work quite a bit less.
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                                • SilentKnight
                                  Megan Fox's fluffer
                                  • Oct 2005
                                  • 24818

                                  #17
                                  In 15 years of marriage my wife and I have never fought or disagreed over money issues.

                                  Not once.

                                  She's an accountant's daughter...and both of us have good, responsible judgement when it comes to spending, saving and investing.

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                                  • slapass
                                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                                    • Nov 2002
                                    • 14625

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by SlammedMedia
                                    Mine's more the other way around. I haven't been single, going on 6 years...but when I was my friends and I would party like there was no tomorrow and I'd spend way more money than I do now and work quite a bit less.
                                    I think this is more the norm. Pussy on tap has its advantages.

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                                    • wehateporn
                                      Promoting Debate on GFY
                                      • Apr 2007
                                      • 27176

                                      #19
                                      Being physically in love has the same effect as being on drugs, so yes

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                                      • mineistaken
                                        See signature :)
                                        • Apr 2007
                                        • 29656

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by jack-exploitedbabysitters
                                        Does being in love effect your money, for example u won't do certain sites or business ventures because u think u wife or significant other won't approve and spending too much time with them. It's funny to me all the guys i personally know who are doing well are single, guys in relationships are struggling due to them spending too much time with their loved one and not working. Their are 24 hours in the day and u are spending 6 hours with ur girlfriend the single guy has a advantage over u.
                                        Of course. Not because of her not approving, but because of having less time for work when you are not single. I think most of the guys are same way, only exceptions can be as productive as they would be being single.

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                                        • mineistaken
                                          See signature :)
                                          • Apr 2007
                                          • 29656

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by wehateporn
                                          Being physically in love has the same effect as being on drugs, so yes
                                          What is that? In love is in love..

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                                          • wehateporn
                                            Promoting Debate on GFY
                                            • Apr 2007
                                            • 27176

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by mineistaken
                                            What is that? In love is in love..
                                            Yes, quite a difference between being emotionally in love and physically in love; physically in love is a trick your body does on you

                                            Full article http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

                                            The Science of Love

                                            - There are three phases to falling in love and different hormones are involved at each stage.
                                            - Events occurring in the brain when we are in love have similarities with mental illness.
                                            - When we are attracted to somebody, it could be because subconsciously we like their genes.
                                            - Smell could be as important as looks when it comes to the fanciability factor. We like the look and smell of people who are most like our parents.
                                            - Science can help determine whether a relationship will last.

                                            Cupid's chemicals

                                            "Flushed cheeks, a racing heart beat and clammy hands are some of the outward signs of being in love. But inside the body there are definite chemical signs that cupid has fired his arrow.

                                            When it comes to love it seems we are at the mercy of our biochemistry. One of the best known researchers in this area is Helen Fisher of Rutgers University in New Jersey. She has proposed that we fall in love in three stages. Each involving a different set of chemicals. "

                                            Continued http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

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                                            • Si
                                              Such Fun!
                                              • Feb 2008
                                              • 13900

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by ottopottomouse
                                              That's the point where I give up on someone
                                              I hope you got my sarcastic spelling, and didn't think I was a moron.

                                              Someone making fun of a person's spelling, while failing to spell properly themselves really pisses me of.

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                                              • Si
                                                Such Fun!
                                                • Feb 2008
                                                • 13900

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by wehateporn
                                                Yes, quite a difference between being emotionally in love and physically in love; physically in love is a trick your body does on you

                                                Full article http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

                                                The Science of Love

                                                - There are three phases to falling in love and different hormones are involved at each stage.
                                                - Events occurring in the brain when we are in love have similarities with mental illness.
                                                - When we are attracted to somebody, it could be because subconsciously we like their genes.
                                                - Smell could be as important as looks when it comes to the fanciability factor. We like the look and smell of people who are most like our parents.
                                                - Science can help determine whether a relationship will last.

                                                Cupid's chemicals

                                                "Flushed cheeks, a racing heart beat and clammy hands are some of the outward signs of being in love. But inside the body there are definite chemical signs that cupid has fired his arrow.

                                                When it comes to love it seems we are at the mercy of our biochemistry. One of the best known researchers in this area is Helen Fisher of Rutgers University in New Jersey. She has proposed that we fall in love in three stages. Each involving a different set of chemicals. "

                                                Continued http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/
                                                BBC is just a bunch of propaganda, come on now! Don't trust them, then you post this shit? Fuck sake!

                                                It's like people who say; "I'm so heartbroken, I lost the love of my life", no you're not, your heart has no emotion, it pumps blood round your body, it's your pathetic brain screwing you up, you pathetic shitpot.

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                                                • fuzebox
                                                  making it rain
                                                  • Oct 2003
                                                  • 22353

                                                  #25
                                                  I personally believe it's easier to crank out a lot of good work without those outside factors affecting you. Takes a lot of mental discipline to juggle work and life.

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                                                  • faxxaff
                                                    Confirmed User
                                                    • Dec 2002
                                                    • 2134

                                                    #26
                                                    It all depends on the person you are in love with. I have always been way more productive at work when I had a girlfriend. At least for the first couple of months or years because I did want to spend quality time with her. Of course she had her own money, so it made life cheaper for me. When girlfriends become drama queens it changes, totally. Then it's more productive to send her away.
                                                    Last edited by faxxaff; 11-03-2013, 01:32 AM.
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                                                    • kane
                                                      Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                      • Aug 2001
                                                      • 20684

                                                      #27
                                                      Can it. Sure.

                                                      For me meeting a new girl can cost me money. I want to take her out, show her a good time etc. Also I spend time with her, but normally don't take that time out of work I would take it out of other things. For example, instead of watching TV or a movie or playing a video game I would hang out with her.

                                                      As for a long term affect on my business, no. I would never be involved long term with someone who had a problem with what I do. I am up front with women and tell them very early on how I make money. If they have an issue with it, I understand, but I also understand that it is not going to work out for us and move on.

                                                      I've been with the current GF for about a year and a half now and things are great. She actually thinks making porn sites is funny. I am starting to branch into mainstream and she even asked me if that sells as well as boobs.

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                                                      • Zeiss
                                                        Confirmed User
                                                        • May 2012
                                                        • 5189

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by jack-exploitedbabysitters
                                                        Does being in love effect your money
                                                        Short answer: No
                                                        Long answer: No. Why will it?


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                                                        • BlackCrayon
                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                          • Jun 2003
                                                          • 19634

                                                          #29
                                                          it all depends, chasing various pussies can take up a lot of time whereas having a long term girlfriend eliminates that and could allow you to focus more on work rather than partying all night and recovering all day.
                                                          you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                                                          • ilnjscb
                                                            Confirmed User
                                                            • Jun 2009
                                                            • 8973

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by Si
                                                            I hope you got my sarcastic spelling, and didn't think I was a moron.

                                                            Someone making fun of a person's spelling, while failing to spell properly themselves really pisses me of.
                                                            Where did this take place?

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                                                            • Barefootsies
                                                              Choice is an Illusion
                                                              • Feb 2005
                                                              • 42635

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by jack-exploitedbabysitters
                                                              does being in love effect your money?
                                                              Nope. As long as you're upfront about it all it will help you find the right partner who understands, then it's not a problem.

                                                              I would say this however, do not talk about it all of the time and throw it up in their face if you want the relationship to last. Even the most understanding and secure woman will become jealous at some point.

                                                              Good luck.
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                                                              • Markul
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                                                                • Dec 2007
                                                                • 12403

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by SlammedMedia
                                                                Mine's more the other way around. I haven't been single, going on 6 years...but when I was my friends and I would party like there was no tomorrow and I'd spend way more money than I do now and work quite a bit less.
                                                                This and spend time chasing pussy. I guess I need girl around to keep me in line haha
                                                                But.... I pulled out...

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