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Kane you are just "too nice", a "nice guy", and some people need you to be a "BAD BOY", otherwise they will just treat you as their slave... Like this Woman did. She thinks she's a Boss and you are her slave.
That kind of people really exists in this world and you need to show them who is the Boss here, otherwise they will just piss and walk over you, you can't allow that kind of idiots to do that. Just man up, dude and show them who is the Man here. There is no other way. Just my two cents. |
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You are a very nice guy. Call me if you find any more wallets. Probably mine. ;)
I would consider starting a facebook page and post the story and her business name and promote it locally...see what turns up. With any luck she will learn some kind of lesson in bankruptcy court. |
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Please send me her number in a PM. |
Wild story.
She'll pull that shit with the wrong person one day... |
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I try to turn the other cheek as much as possible these days. But in that situation, I would have made sure I know where she lives...and maybe about 3 months from now, I'd pour a bucket of white house paint all over her car.
She's probably an asshole to so many people, she won't have any idea which of her victims perpetrated this beautiful act of karmic justice. But I know what you mean about crossing paths with assholes. In the last couple of years, I've had encounters with some real shitstains. I wonder how the people who know them get through a day without wanting to kill them. |
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I nailed one recently, but that was fluke because I never come up with the perfect retort on the spot. |
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Call her and ask her what her deal was, then order 12 large pizzas to her house
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So what was the name of her company again ? :D
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Just learn the lesson and don't do too many extra steps to help someone(if not asked). She might sue you(it is the USA!). So next time give it to bank manager and forget about it. "The road to hell is paved with good intentions" - never heard before? So that was his lesson. I learned my long time ago...few times. Don't let some rude bitch ruin your day. Forget about it. Her karma will find her. |
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I've never met someone that jaded that didn't have SERIOUSLY horrible issues of their own. I would probably feel more sorry for a person like that than be angry. |
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I don't think so... That would be FAR worse than a bit of egg on your face. Lead by example or you are part of the problem. |
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Walking around life expecting good in exchange for your good deeds is your problem, not the worlds. |
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What an arrogance, is beyond me. "Nice guys finish last" Total scum! |
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And I mentioned idiom above "road to hell is paved with good intentions" - why do you think this idiom exists? I didn't make it up. It is ancient. In my language we have similar "all good intentions should be punished" |
I forgot to mentioned Good Samaritan law. Not this case, but has some connections: people use to sue other people for saving their lives. Only in America:)
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I remember one time leaving a smart phone in the gym, when they were new and expensive and a guy called me saying it was at his office. I felt really weird about it and the fact that he took it. His logic was that the employees of the gym were largely douchebags and the phone was expensive, so he kept it for me. I remember agreeing with him and being grateful that he did that but at the same time, I remember being really uncomfortable with the fact that he had my property in his possession and couldn't help feeling agitated about it, though i understood it even in the moment to be irrational. I would guess the woman was more anxious and uncomfortable and didn't know how to deal with it than being an asshole.
That said, I (and tell my girlfriend regularly) start with the base assumption that everyone is an asshole. It sounds harsh, but even more harsh is constantly trying to reconcile the fact that you expected people to act the right way or do the right thing with the fact that they almost never do. The downside is zero. The upside is that when people act human, polite, considerate, helpful, courteous and so on, its a pleasant surprise that gives you hope. :) |
No rational person would say that after someone went out of their way to return lost property. She is clearly mentally unstable and while that may lead to "success" in whatever business she was running, it doesn't translate into her life.
She is a sad bitter woman with deep self loathing. She was angry at YOU because you did something she know that she would not have done yet she knows that it is the right thing to do. She lashed out at you because what she would have done is taken the money (and perhaps the wallet as well) and never contacted the rightful owner. Sad empty pathetic woman indeed and is incapable of enjoying life. She will die alone and bitter never even experiencing the joys that life has to offer. |
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Ridiculous that society had reached the point where this sort of law had to be created just to protect people who help others. |
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Expecting gratitude for doing a good deed for somebody is understandable, and also terribly naive.
You're projecting your own feelings towards the person you did the good deed for (I if was them I'd be SO THANKFUL) and yet you have no idea what their background is. Maybe they feel guilty/shamed because now they feel obligated towards you, or they were beaten as children and made to thank their abuser for it. Fact is, you don't know. This is why you either do good expecting nothing in return except the knowledge that YOU KNOW you did the right thing, or do nothing at all. |
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YOU did the right thing, just because this bitch could not see or appreciate this, stay the course and do not allow her to sway what your gut told you. We have become a society that is afraid make the right decision based on past conflict from OUR choices, even if we feel that the direction our thinking was 100% correct? This is happening in so many different situations and the results are fucking staggering at this sort of backwards thinking. Fuck this bitch, do not trust someone else to do the right thing, and hopefully you will have the end result that should have been right. I too, do the right thing everyday, and do find it harder and harder everyday, but believe we have to...... |
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Sure, you could have grabbed her by the hair, stomped on her face yelling "MAYBE THIS WILL TEACH YOU TO BE A LITTLE GRATEFUL NEXT TIME" while you burned her wallet. But would have it solved her personality issue? Not likely, because people that are that selfish and clueless can rarely be shown the error or their ways. Okay maybe if you had a week, a blow-torch and some pliers you could educate her a bit. Maybe. So continue to do the right thing simply because it feels right to you. |
Review her business on YELP and include this story about the owner. Guarantee she will see it eventually.
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I totally forgot to tell you about my wife's story. Late evening after college classes she found 100$ on parking lot. She went back and reported in to the office or security(I don't remember). She refused to leave the money, she left her cell phone number and asked office to call her if someone claim it. I believe they put some text on pin board and when someone claimed 100$ ...they gave her phone # to this person.
Wife asked office to call her, not to give her phone to that person. The problem was that the guy failed to give bills denominations and location(wife didn't tell the office if that was one single 100$ or any combination). And this moron was calling and texting her, harassed her trying to get 100$. Said he will contact police if he wouldn't get his 100$. Left her alone after she said one more call or text and she will call police. Donated money to local school. You can do good things the way you believe is right (and some people will say you did it right way). Just be prepared to deal with rude bitch or scummer. Or worse. Don't get surprised. |
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