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To me it sounds pretty simple.
She seems like the kind of girl who prefers to be in a relationship and not just a casual thing. You made it pretty clear to her twice that you were not that guy. She moved on. She still has feelings for you, but doesn't trust you and likely thinks you are not relationship material. You have two options as far as I am concerned. 1. Tell her exactly how you feel and that you want to be in a committed relationship with just her. The odds are even if she gives you a change this will eventually end badly anyway, but if she is serious about giving you a shot this might be what she needs to hear. 2. Move on. Sometimes you meet people that you are attracted to, but it doesn't work out. It is life. It sometimes sucks, but that is how it goes. Just my 2cents |
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Hey mate, if you're unsure to the point that you can't perform in bed, maybe it's time to let her go, find someone else. Don't waste your time with just one chick who you've met in a subway. move forward, YOLO !
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i think you should wait.. she will come back looking for you.. just make sure, you don't blow it this time..
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I know you guys would love that, but I can't. I completely understand where she's coming from. We each brought different expectations to the table, and although we seem to have wanted the same things I was in no rush to jump into a commitment after two dates, and each time was after she just broke up with some other bloke. It was seriously awkward being the rebound guy twice in a row. It was a recurring thought throughout the first & second date, which ultimately lead to a downward spiral of negative thoughts, constant self blame, and huge loss of confidence. Instead of relaxing and enjoying our time, I was constantly thinking about being in competition with these other guys and basically just ended up freezing. My head has been spinning since we first went out. This has been the most dizzying experience I've had in a long time. The last time I was able to think with a clear head feels like forever ago. |
Right now she's moaning and screaming for god while some dude has his morning wood balls deep in the hungry ass you didn't want to fuck. He's going to pull it out, stick it in her mouth to clean then pump a Peter North sized load all over her face before he farts and goes back to sleep for a half hour while she staggers to the kitchen and makes him waffles for breakfast in bed.
But hey, I'm sure she's thinking of you right now too ??. . |
I only read your first post. I don't know how young you are but my advice is to let it go. Good relationships just tend to naturally flow without all the problems. Bad ones usually have problems like this right from the start and they usually stay no matter how hard you try. Find someone where it all just mostly clicks into place right from the start. You'll save yourself lots of hassle and possibly a divorce or two!
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Piece of advice grasshopper:
If you cant fuck her silly the 1st night to where she's sore for a day or so, you lost your chance. If you go back after night 3 : You are the 3rd guy that's fucked her that week. Find another girl. No one will impressed you took a ride on the village bicycle. |
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I learned this the hard way. I spent 7 years in a bad relationship which should have been aborted in the first week! Constant problems and issues, neither of us knew what we wanted or who we were. Constantly fighting in order to make it work. Square peg in a round hole (bad analogy there, my apologies!) That was when I was young and didn't know any better. Your 2002 join date suggests you're probably at least around 30 so I bet deep down you know it too. If not you'll probably know it soon. Good luck. |
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So, 2nd date/time you fucked her, you were in a jealous rage, and she's the flaky one? W t f ....
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Where did you paste this from? TLDR http://9buz.com/upload/9e8ee9011fbda...45c75ca2ac.jpg |
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hahaah this is awesome. |
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waiittt... so you only banged the girl once, on the first date, and on the second she asked you to fuck her up the ass, and you said... no. cause you didn't wanna get shit on your dick, and you were in a jealous rage? on your second date. she asked you to put it up her ass. :1orglaugh id say no real loss :1orglaugh #firstworldproblemz |
sounds like a skank. Dont fall for her bullshit.
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Nope.678
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You should definitely marry that one, no regrets down the road, no way.
It should be all roses at the start ffs! Long term relationship success comes down to how you resolve disagreements/problems. Move on! |
Have you tried adultfriendfinder?
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This has worked great with dating. I walk away from bullshit and drama. After you've walked away from a dozen relationships "quickly once there is bullshit or drama, the one you are currently dating quickly pick up on this - you get once chance and that's it. Most chicks were gone in a month or two; Anyone who lasted past that was drama free for the most part. My wife and I have been together for twenty years, and we've had one fight: July 2nd, 2006. I won the fight at the time, but years later she was in fact proven right. My kid is the same way - drama free. |
I know how you feel but I can boil it down to this RUN!
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post link to her Facebook please
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ask a few of your friend's to happy hour this week.
it'll pass in time |
I didnt read what you wrote. Because if you have to write this much shit on a msg board about a girl. Youre wasting your time with her., and with us.
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A chick who needs to be in a relationship that badly and constantly was probably faking her personality with you the first time, when she seemed great. Drop that drama like a hot potato.
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flee! |
I'm so glad that I just like to tie women up and fap over them. Fuck relationships.
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I'll interject here to say thankyou to Seth Manson and L-pink for making this thread far less painful than it started out being.
Thank you. |
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