Married couples that met online - how long?

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  • MichaelP
    Registered User
    • Aug 2003
    • 7124

    #16
    Patty and I are still going strong after 13 years. Met on a local Match.Com kind of sitel

    As one said, it's the Who, not the How or Where

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    • 2MuchMark
      Too lazy to set a custom title
      • Aug 2004
      • 50964

      #17
      Originally posted by SilentKnight
      This Aug. my wife and I will have been married 15 years.

      We met 18 years ago over a local BBS (pre-internet).

      Any other 'online' couples with longevity?

      I met mine (common law), Tracy, via one of the first "adult" BBS's that I ran over 26 years ago ("Datamate" in Montreal, first on a couple of TRS-80's, then on a PC clone). We've been together ever since.

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      • SilentKnight
        Megan Fox's fluffer
        • Oct 2005
        • 24818

        #18
        Originally posted by MarkPrince
        I met mine (common law), Tracy, via one of the first "adult" BBS's that I ran over 26 years ago ("Datamate" in Montreal, first on a couple of TRS-80's, then on a PC clone). We've been together ever since.
        Impressive - that's ground floor of the online scene.

        Congrats on 26 years. These days, that's a remarkable achievement.

        Originally posted by mineistaken
        Not sure if "how you met" has much to do with longevity of marriage. Does it matter if you met "the right person" at the book store, or at a car wash, or on the internet?
        Naw, it doesn't matter. It was simply how my wife and I met - hence the thread topic.

        Looking back, it was interesting from the perspective that her and I got to know one another through BBS message exchanges for several months before meeting IRL. And when we finally met one night in a local nightclub...it was as if we'd known each other a very long time. We clicked right away as friends - neither of us were really looking for a relationship. It just evolved over time.

        And three years later we finally married.

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        • Katie-LifeSelector
          Confirmed User
          • Jan 2013
          • 147

          #19
          It seems these days that I should be waiting for Prince Charming to arrive on an app. on a white tablet rather then a white horse. :/ Where did the ' normal' way to meet people go?

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          • baddog
            So Fucking Banned
            • Apr 2001
            • 107089

            #20
            Met goodgirl here on GFY in 2001.

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            • SilentKnight
              Megan Fox's fluffer
              • Oct 2005
              • 24818

              #21
              Originally posted by Katie-LifeSelector
              It seems these days that I should be waiting for Prince Charming to arrive on an app. on a white tablet rather then a white horse. :/ Where did the ' normal' way to meet people go?
              I think waiting to meet Prince Charming on a white horse became obsolete as we progressed from medieval times.

              Times change...people evolve. Technology gives us new opportunities and different options.

              Doesn't mean the old 'normal' ways are completely gone, though. Just...diversified.

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              • Sarah_Jayne
                Now with more Jayne
                • Dec 2002
                • 40077

                #22
                If he was still alive, it would be 17 years this year. We made it to 8.

                I guess I sort of met my current boyfriend online but briefly and years before I accidentally met him for real at an event. Not like the intense online courtship of my husband.

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                • Matyko
                  PsyHead
                  • Aug 2005
                  • 8681

                  #23
                  One of my best friends found her wife on orkut. The guy is hungarian, chick is brazilian, guy went to Sao Paolo after 6m of chat+phone, they got married, moved to Hanoi, Vietnam because of the work of the guy. Spent there 2 years than they came back to Hungary. The are not divorced but separated, raising the kid together but the chick fucks other guys. It seems to work somehow.
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                  • SilentKnight
                    Megan Fox's fluffer
                    • Oct 2005
                    • 24818

                    #24
                    I can't imagine meeting someone on the web these days, though. I mean...back in the 'old' days...BBSing was mostly local. Most everyone lived in proximity to one another - making it much easier (and less costly) to meet up.

                    And maybe it's just me...but BBS people weren't quite as fake as a lot of people on the 'net. Sure, we had a few trolls and fake personnas - but they didn't seem as prevalent. We hosted a few BBS get-togethers back in the day...and with only a few exceptions, most everyone seemed the same IRL as their online personna.

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                    • MiLo
                      Confirmed User
                      • May 2002
                      • 2970

                      #25
                      I met a really weird chick on IRC that was WAY into Pearl Jam. Zero years.
                      ICQ: 9203112

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                      • BlackCrayon
                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                        • Jun 2003
                        • 19634

                        #26
                        Originally posted by Katie-LifeSelector
                        It seems these days that I should be waiting for Prince Charming to arrive on an app. on a white tablet rather then a white horse. :/ Where did the ' normal' way to meet people go?
                        the thing about online is you are no longer stuck having to choose from the people who happen to live around you. you can choose from people across the globe. i think this in part is what can give online relationships longevity.
                        you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                        • mineistaken
                          See signature :)
                          • Apr 2007
                          • 29656

                          #27
                          Originally posted by Katie-LifeSelector
                          Where did the ' normal' way to meet people go?
                          Hmm, nowhere, they are all (or at least 99% of them) still there. Which "normal" way are you missing?

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                          • kane
                            Too lazy to set a custom title
                            • Aug 2001
                            • 20684

                            #28
                            A friend of mine who is getting divorced met the current soon to be ex online. They talked a lot then then he came out here (they were from different states) and saw each other a couple of times before he finally moved out here full time.

                            They got married and it lasted about 4 years.

                            The problem was, well, he is a user. When she met him he had no job and told her it was just because he was recently laid off. She paid for him to come see her. Then he moved out here and they got married. It took him almost 2 years to get a job that he then quit after 6 months for some reason. He then tried to convince her that he should just be a house dad. The problem is they don't have any kids together and her 3 from a previous relationship are all grown. The youngest is 16. So by house dad he really means he should be able to stay home and play xbox all day.

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                            • epitome
                              So Fucking Lame
                              • Jun 2009
                              • 12156

                              #29
                              Remember when meeting people online was considered so taboo and everyone warned you to be careful?

                              My oh my how things have changed.

                              The people I care most about, outside of family, all came about because of my online activity. Either directly or indirectly (like the friends of friends that I met online who became my own friends).

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                              • 2013
                                So Fucking Banned
                                • Dec 2012
                                • 4390

                                #30
                                Just met my new wife yesterday.


                                Her name is Sarah she just turned 18 she is from Russia , She is coming to visit me this week from Russia , I think she might be the one for me, she offered free blow jobs and i can fuck her hot teen hole for a few days. I think I might just marry this one, and fuck my life over after divorce. I can't wait , everyone from gfy is invited to my wedding, I Love yyou Sarah

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