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  • SilentKnight
    Megan Fox's fluffer
    • Oct 2005
    • 24818
    #1

    Married couples that met online - how long?

    This Aug. my wife and I will have been married 15 years.

    We met 18 years ago over a local BBS (pre-internet).

    Any other 'online' couples with longevity?
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    • SilentKnight
      Megan Fox's fluffer
      • Oct 2005
      • 24818
      #2
      One nighters and a ham sammich afterwards?

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        • tony286
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          • Aug 2002
          • 57021
          #3
          14 yrs oct , met on sugars place the site had free personals.

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            • shake
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              • Jul 2003
              • 4663
              #4
              Found my wife 14 years ago online, almost married 10 years and we're happy
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                • epitome
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                  • Jun 2009
                  • 12156
                  #5
                  Not married because we can't, but going on six years. Facebook.

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                    • HandballJim
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                      • Sep 2008
                      • 4024
                      #6
                      Met my wife over 9 years ago from Match.com, she was from Japan but studying in NY.
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                            • sperbonzo
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                              • May 2003
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                                • BlackCrayon
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                                  • Jun 2003
                                  • 19634
                                  #9
                                  seems online relationships have better longevity these days.
                                  you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                                    • mineistaken
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                                      • Apr 2007
                                      • 29656
                                      #10
                                      Originally posted by BlackCrayon
                                      seems online relationships have better longevity these days.
                                      Not sure if "how you met" has much to do with longevity of marriage. Does it matter if you met "the right person" at the book store, or at a car wash, or on the internet?

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                                        • purecane
                                          Annakin Skywalker
                                          • Jan 2013
                                          • 1324
                                          #11
                                          met on myspace in 2007, started dating in 2008, married august 2011....pretty good so far.
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                                            • loreen
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                                              • May 2004
                                              • 12558
                                              #12
                                              12 years, met on IRC
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                                                • candyflip
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                                                  • Jul 2002
                                                  • 43069
                                                  #13
                                                  Met on Myspace 8 years ago. Never got married. Had three kids. Still together.

                                                  I have friends who've gotten together, engaged, married and then divorced in that short time.

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                                                    • Alice22
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                                                      • Nov 2003
                                                      • 907
                                                      #14
                                                      Almost 13 years ago.
                                                      We had some short icq chat, and than i gave him my phone number.
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                                                        • Mr Pheer
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                                                          • Dec 2002
                                                          • 22083
                                                          #15
                                                          Five years with my girl, but not married. Met on Yahoo.

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                                                            • MichaelP
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                                                              • Aug 2003
                                                              • 7124
                                                              #16
                                                              Patty and I are still going strong after 13 years. Met on a local Match.Com kind of sitel

                                                              As one said, it's the Who, not the How or Where

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                                                                • 2MuchMark
                                                                  Mark of 2Much.net
                                                                  • Aug 2004
                                                                  • 50969
                                                                  #17
                                                                  Originally posted by SilentKnight
                                                                  This Aug. my wife and I will have been married 15 years.

                                                                  We met 18 years ago over a local BBS (pre-internet).

                                                                  Any other 'online' couples with longevity?

                                                                  I met mine (common law), Tracy, via one of the first "adult" BBS's that I ran over 26 years ago ("Datamate" in Montreal, first on a couple of TRS-80's, then on a PC clone). We've been together ever since.

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                                                                    • SilentKnight
                                                                      Megan Fox's fluffer
                                                                      • Oct 2005
                                                                      • 24818
                                                                      #18
                                                                      Originally posted by MarkPrince
                                                                      I met mine (common law), Tracy, via one of the first "adult" BBS's that I ran over 26 years ago ("Datamate" in Montreal, first on a couple of TRS-80's, then on a PC clone). We've been together ever since.
                                                                      Impressive - that's ground floor of the online scene.

                                                                      Congrats on 26 years. These days, that's a remarkable achievement.

                                                                      Originally posted by mineistaken
                                                                      Not sure if "how you met" has much to do with longevity of marriage. Does it matter if you met "the right person" at the book store, or at a car wash, or on the internet?
                                                                      Naw, it doesn't matter. It was simply how my wife and I met - hence the thread topic.

                                                                      Looking back, it was interesting from the perspective that her and I got to know one another through BBS message exchanges for several months before meeting IRL. And when we finally met one night in a local nightclub...it was as if we'd known each other a very long time. We clicked right away as friends - neither of us were really looking for a relationship. It just evolved over time.

                                                                      And three years later we finally married.

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                                                                        • Katie-LifeSelector
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                                                                          • Jan 2013
                                                                          • 147
                                                                          #19
                                                                          It seems these days that I should be waiting for Prince Charming to arrive on an app. on a white tablet rather then a white horse. :/ Where did the ' normal' way to meet people go?

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                                                                            • baddog
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                                                                              • Apr 2001
                                                                              • 107089
                                                                              #20
                                                                              Met goodgirl here on GFY in 2001.

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                                                                                • SilentKnight
                                                                                  Megan Fox's fluffer
                                                                                  • Oct 2005
                                                                                  • 24818
                                                                                  #21
                                                                                  Originally posted by Katie-LifeSelector
                                                                                  It seems these days that I should be waiting for Prince Charming to arrive on an app. on a white tablet rather then a white horse. :/ Where did the ' normal' way to meet people go?
                                                                                  I think waiting to meet Prince Charming on a white horse became obsolete as we progressed from medieval times.

                                                                                  Times change...people evolve. Technology gives us new opportunities and different options.

                                                                                  Doesn't mean the old 'normal' ways are completely gone, though. Just...diversified.

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                                                                                    • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                      Now with more Jayne
                                                                                      • Dec 2002
                                                                                      • 40077
                                                                                      #22
                                                                                      If he was still alive, it would be 17 years this year. We made it to 8.

                                                                                      I guess I sort of met my current boyfriend online but briefly and years before I accidentally met him for real at an event. Not like the intense online courtship of my husband.

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                                                                                        • Matyko
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                                                                                          • Aug 2005
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                                                                                          #23
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                                                                                            • SilentKnight
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                                                                                              • Oct 2005
                                                                                              • 24818
                                                                                              #24
                                                                                              I can't imagine meeting someone on the web these days, though. I mean...back in the 'old' days...BBSing was mostly local. Most everyone lived in proximity to one another - making it much easier (and less costly) to meet up.

                                                                                              And maybe it's just me...but BBS people weren't quite as fake as a lot of people on the 'net. Sure, we had a few trolls and fake personnas - but they didn't seem as prevalent. We hosted a few BBS get-togethers back in the day...and with only a few exceptions, most everyone seemed the same IRL as their online personna.

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                                                                                                • MiLo
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                                                                                                  • May 2002
                                                                                                  • 2970
                                                                                                  #25
                                                                                                  I met a really weird chick on IRC that was WAY into Pearl Jam. Zero years.
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                                                                                                    • BlackCrayon
                                                                                                      Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                                      • Jun 2003
                                                                                                      • 19634
                                                                                                      #26
                                                                                                      Originally posted by Katie-LifeSelector
                                                                                                      It seems these days that I should be waiting for Prince Charming to arrive on an app. on a white tablet rather then a white horse. :/ Where did the ' normal' way to meet people go?
                                                                                                      the thing about online is you are no longer stuck having to choose from the people who happen to live around you. you can choose from people across the globe. i think this in part is what can give online relationships longevity.
                                                                                                      you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                                                                                                        • mineistaken
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                                                                                                          • Apr 2007
                                                                                                          • 29656
                                                                                                          #27
                                                                                                          Originally posted by Katie-LifeSelector
                                                                                                          Where did the ' normal' way to meet people go?
                                                                                                          Hmm, nowhere, they are all (or at least 99% of them) still there. Which "normal" way are you missing?

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                                                                                                            • kane
                                                                                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                                              • Aug 2001
                                                                                                              • 20684
                                                                                                              #28
                                                                                                              A friend of mine who is getting divorced met the current soon to be ex online. They talked a lot then then he came out here (they were from different states) and saw each other a couple of times before he finally moved out here full time.

                                                                                                              They got married and it lasted about 4 years.

                                                                                                              The problem was, well, he is a user. When she met him he had no job and told her it was just because he was recently laid off. She paid for him to come see her. Then he moved out here and they got married. It took him almost 2 years to get a job that he then quit after 6 months for some reason. He then tried to convince her that he should just be a house dad. The problem is they don't have any kids together and her 3 from a previous relationship are all grown. The youngest is 16. So by house dad he really means he should be able to stay home and play xbox all day.

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                                                                                                                • epitome
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                                                                                                                  • Jun 2009
                                                                                                                  • 12156
                                                                                                                  #29
                                                                                                                  Remember when meeting people online was considered so taboo and everyone warned you to be careful?

                                                                                                                  My oh my how things have changed.

                                                                                                                  The people I care most about, outside of family, all came about because of my online activity. Either directly or indirectly (like the friends of friends that I met online who became my own friends).

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                                                                                                                    • 2013
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                                                                                                                      • Dec 2012
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                                                                                                                      #30
                                                                                                                      Just met my new wife yesterday.


                                                                                                                      Her name is Sarah she just turned 18 she is from Russia , She is coming to visit me this week from Russia , I think she might be the one for me, she offered free blow jobs and i can fuck her hot teen hole for a few days. I think I might just marry this one, and fuck my life over after divorce. I can't wait , everyone from gfy is invited to my wedding, I Love yyou Sarah

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                                                                                                                        • 2013
                                                                                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                          • Dec 2012
                                                                                                                          • 4390
                                                                                                                          #31
                                                                                                                          Originally posted by Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                                                          If he was still alive, it would be 17 years this year. We made it to 8.

                                                                                                                          I guess I sort of met my current boyfriend online but briefly and years before I accidentally met him for real at an event. Not like the intense online courtship of my husband.
                                                                                                                          what happened ?

                                                                                                                          so sorry

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                                                                                                                            • mineistaken
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                                                                                                                              • Apr 2007
                                                                                                                              • 29656
                                                                                                                              #32
                                                                                                                              Originally posted by kane
                                                                                                                              A friend of mine who is getting divorced met the current soon to be ex online. They talked a lot then then he came out here (they were from different states) and saw each other a couple of times before he finally moved out here full time.

                                                                                                                              They got married and it lasted about 4 years.

                                                                                                                              The problem was, well, he is a user. When she met him he had no job and told her it was just because he was recently laid off. She paid for him to come see her. Then he moved out here and they got married. It took him almost 2 years to get a job that he then quit after 6 months for some reason. He then tried to convince her that he should just be a house dad. The problem is they don't have any kids together and her 3 from a previous relationship are all grown. The youngest is 16. So by house dad he really means he should be able to stay home and play xbox all day.
                                                                                                                              What a loser. I am curious how does one become such, I mean a man TRYING to "be a house dad" and living out of woman's pocket...

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                                                                                                                                • SilentKnight
                                                                                                                                  Megan Fox's fluffer
                                                                                                                                  • Oct 2005
                                                                                                                                  • 24818
                                                                                                                                  #33
                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by kane
                                                                                                                                  A friend of mine who is getting divorced met the current soon to be ex online. They talked a lot then then he came out here (they were from different states) and saw each other a couple of times before he finally moved out here full time.

                                                                                                                                  They got married and it lasted about 4 years.

                                                                                                                                  The problem was, well, he is a user. When she met him he had no job and told her it was just because he was recently laid off. She paid for him to come see her. Then he moved out here and they got married. It took him almost 2 years to get a job that he then quit after 6 months for some reason. He then tried to convince her that he should just be a house dad. The problem is they don't have any kids together and her 3 from a previous relationship are all grown. The youngest is 16. So by house dad he really means he should be able to stay home and play xbox all day.
                                                                                                                                  I'd read "recently laid off" - and see red flags...especially if the loser didn't even have enough money put together to travel to see her.

                                                                                                                                  Too bad it took her so long to see him for the deadbeat he is.

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                                                                                                                                    • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                                                                      Now with more Jayne
                                                                                                                                      • Dec 2002
                                                                                                                                      • 40077
                                                                                                                                      #34
                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by pornopete
                                                                                                                                      You mean there were really woman on IRC!?
                                                                                                                                      There were a couple of us around. I met mine on IRC too.

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                                                                                                                                        • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                                                                          Now with more Jayne
                                                                                                                                          • Dec 2002
                                                                                                                                          • 40077
                                                                                                                                          #35
                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by epitome
                                                                                                                                          Remember when meeting people online was considered so taboo and everyone warned you to be careful?

                                                                                                                                          My oh my how things have changed.

                                                                                                                                          The people I care most about, outside of family, all came about because of my online activity. Either directly or indirectly (like the friends of friends that I met online who became my own friends).
                                                                                                                                          My best friend at the time, tried to call a family meeting of MY family because she was so worried I would be axe murdered.

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                                                                                                                                            • Aric
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                                                                                                                                              • Sep 2002
                                                                                                                                              • 1209
                                                                                                                                              #36
                                                                                                                                              Met my wife on IRC.

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                                                                                                                                                • SilentKnight
                                                                                                                                                  Megan Fox's fluffer
                                                                                                                                                  • Oct 2005
                                                                                                                                                  • 24818
                                                                                                                                                  #37
                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by 2013
                                                                                                                                                  Just met my new wife yesterday.


                                                                                                                                                  Her name is Sarah she just turned 18 she is from Russia , She is coming to visit me this week from Russia , I think she might be the one for me, she offered free blow jobs and i can fuck her hot teen hole for a few days. I think I might just marry this one, and fuck my life over after divorce. I can't wait , everyone from gfy is invited to my wedding, I Love yyou Sarah
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                                                                                                                                                    • 2013
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                                                                                                                                                      • Dec 2012
                                                                                                                                                      • 4390
                                                                                                                                                      #38
                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by SilentKnight
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                                                                                                                                                        • epitome
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                                                                                                                                                          • Jun 2009
                                                                                                                                                          • 12156
                                                                                                                                                          #39
                                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                                                                                          My best friend at the time, tried to call a family meeting of MY family because she was so worried I would be axe murdered.


                                                                                                                                                          Less than a decade ago it was still considered rather weird to meet people online and do something with them offline.

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                                                                                                                                                            • SilentKnight
                                                                                                                                                              Megan Fox's fluffer
                                                                                                                                                              • Oct 2005
                                                                                                                                                              • 24818
                                                                                                                                                              #40
                                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by epitome


                                                                                                                                                              Less than a decade ago it was still considered rather weird to meet people online and do something with them offline.
                                                                                                                                                              In the fetish niche - that'll never change.

                                                                                                                                                              What we do with people offline in-the-studio will always be considered 'rather weird'.

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                                                                                                                                                                • arock10
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                                                                                                                                                                  • Jan 2006
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                                                                                                                                                                  #41
                                                                                                                                                                  Met my wife on AFF six years ago. We've never met in person but still have daily cybersex
                                                                                                                                                                  Sup

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                                                                                                                                                                    • kane
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                                                                                                                                                                      • Aug 2001
                                                                                                                                                                      • 20684
                                                                                                                                                                      #42
                                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by mineistaken
                                                                                                                                                                      What a loser. I am curious how does one become such, I mean a man TRYING to "be a house dad" and living out of woman's pocket...
                                                                                                                                                                      I get the feeling he is one of those guys who is just lazy and wants others to take care of him. His problem is that he is not good looking enough that he can just talk women into it so instead he has to find other ways.

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                                                                                                                                                                        • kane
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                                                                                                                                                                          • Aug 2001
                                                                                                                                                                          • 20684
                                                                                                                                                                          #43
                                                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by SilentKnight
                                                                                                                                                                          I'd read "recently laid off" - and see red flags...especially if the loser didn't even have enough money put together to travel to see her.

                                                                                                                                                                          Too bad it took her so long to see him for the deadbeat he is.
                                                                                                                                                                          He he set his scam up with her pretty nicely (at least I believe it was a scam). He told her he was a machinist. Then when she suggested he fly out and meet her he told her he would love to, but he just got laid off and is short of cash. She tells him that she understands and offers to buy him the ticket. He promises to pay her back.

                                                                                                                                                                          He comes out and sees her for a week. Things go really well so before he leaves they talk about him coming out permanently. He agrees and tells her once he gets settled he will get a job. She pays for him to move out.

                                                                                                                                                                          Then the excuses came. It took him 2 years, but he finally got a job. It was a good job to with a union, good wages etc. It wasn't long before he started having problems with it. At first he told her it was very physically demanding and he was always worn out from it. Then he supposedly hurt his knees and was out a few months. Eventually he told her he just couldn't do it and quit. That is when he sprung the "house husband" stuff on her. He tried to tell her he would cook her dinner every night, clean, do all the laundry, shop etc. She didn't want any of that. She wanted him to get a job. That started the fighting. Eventually she shut off the X-box live account and took the x-box over to a friends. He was furious and a week later he left.

                                                                                                                                                                          The funny thing was that she ended up paying for his move back to where he was from. He told her flat out he had nowhere to go and no money so if she didn't pay for it he would stay in the house and fight her trying to evict him. She realized then it was going to be cheaper and easier to pay for his move back.

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                                                                                                                                                                            • Katie-LifeSelector
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                                                                                                                                                                              • Jan 2013
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                                                                                                                                                                              #44
                                                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by mineistaken
                                                                                                                                                                              Hmm, nowhere, they are all (or at least 99% of them) still there. Which "normal" way are you missing?
                                                                                                                                                                              You know, just being social, sitting in a bar, or something and people just come up to you and ask if they can buy you a drink - I am missing that 'normal'... I don't see it these days

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                                                                                                                                                                                • mamaliga
                                                                                                                                                                                  la gente está muy loca
                                                                                                                                                                                  • Mar 2011
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                                                                                                                                                                                  #45
                                                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by kane
                                                                                                                                                                                  So by house dad he really means he should be able to stay home and play xbox all day.
                                                                                                                                                                                  this is awesome, he`s not the only one.

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                                                                                                                                                                                    • Katie-LifeSelector
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                                                                                                                                                                                      #46
                                                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by BlackCrayon
                                                                                                                                                                                      the thing about online is you are no longer stuck having to choose from the people who happen to live around you. you can choose from people across the globe. i think this in part is what can give online relationships longevity.
                                                                                                                                                                                      I absolutely agree with that, and I am happy that I get to keep in touch with ppl all over the world - I guess I need to give the online dating another try - get used to it.

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