Girls and their blowjob skills

[Brown Bear]

I find that when it comes to sex, the biggest variation in girls is their ability to give a good blowjob. Any girl can lie on her back and spread her legs, and any girl can get on her knees to be fucked doggie style, that doesn't take too much talent. The real judge of a girls skills in the realm of sex is the blowjob. Thats where the girl either proves she's a champion in bed or not.

I've found girls range quite a bit in this category. At low end you'll find girls with no skills who demonstrate their lack of ability by their obvious reluctance to even give a blowjob. They're probably only doing it because you're their boyfriend and they want to please you. They usually try to just lick the cock, and will barely put it in their mouth for a half-hearted effort at sucking it. The whole charade lasts about 1-2 minutes and then she stops. Forget about cumming in their mouth or on their face, they think thats disgusting and will probably puke if you do.

At the high end, you find the porn star blowjob. Every guys fantasy because pornstars do it right (thats probably why they're pornstars). They take your cock in their mouth enthusiastically, sucking hard and deep throating it as much as they can handle. At the same time, they vigorously stroke your cock whilst sucking. When it comes time to cum, they will open wide and beg you to cum in their mouth. They swallow everytime, smile, and then tell you how much they like giving you blowjobs.

So here is my message to all the girls out there. If you want to be better in bed, go rent some porn and take notes on their blowjob techniques. Because the only thing worse than giving a bad blowjob is getting a bad blowjob.

[stanton]

Can you please email that to my girlfriend

Will you write essays for my English class, daddy?

shit, I'll forward that to mine, too - I'm sure she'll love it.

[Kanoealoha]

I didn't have to rent porn...just ask the fucking guy what he likes and do it...same goes for guys, ask your wahine what she likes and do it...then everyone is happy

[AzteK]

Originally posted by Kanoealoha
I didn't have to rent porn...just ask the fucking guy what he likes and do it...same goes for guys, ask your wahine what she likes and do it...then everyone is happy

amen

[Gimmy]

nice essay "A" for the day

[Nina]

I find that I give a blow job based upon a man's oral abilities, perhaps you guys need to practice your skills.

[Brown Bear]

Originally posted by Kanoealoha
I didn't have to rent porn...just ask the fucking guy what he likes and do it...same goes for guys, ask your wahine what she likes and do it...then everyone is happy

There is nothing I hate more in bed than having to tell a girl that she sucks at giving blowjobs and this is how she should do it.

I want a girl who does it right from the begining, training a girl is crap.

[Kanoealoha]

and swallowing while deep throating helps a lot...
makes it easier and you don't choke like a newb

[Kanoealoha]

Originally posted by Brown Bear


There is nothing I hate more in bed than having to tell a girl that she sucks at giving blowjobs and this is how she should do it.

I want a girl who does it right from the begining, training a girl is crap.

who said training her??? each girl should know how to do all the variations of a blow job...you should just tell her which variation you like not all guys are the same

[Brown Bear]

Originally posted by Nina
I find that I give a blow job based upon a man's oral abilities, perhaps you guys need to practice your skills.

Nope, I'm a viking in that department.

[Dugmor]

I think Blow Jobs are over rated !

I do not even enjoy them off camera anymore !

[Nina]

Originally posted by Brown Bear


Nope, I'm a viking in that department.

I had the feeling you were... much thought and planning, almost predicting what the girl wants. I can imagine.

[Kanoealoha]

Originally posted by Nina



I had the feeling you were... much thought and planning, almost predicting what the girl wants. I can imagine.

Exactly

[xxxinnovations]

Check plus

[Paul Markham]

Originally posted by Nina
I find that I give a blow job based upon a man's oral abilities, perhaps you guys need to practice your skills.

Well said Nina.

From what girls tell me, few guys can do it well and many guys have no intenttion of doing unless asked/told. I personally love giving a girl oral sex and an orgasm before we move to the next step.

Funny story.
Way back, I was at an orgy with some industry people and another photographer told me he had just recieved the worse BJ in his life. In fact it was so bad he lost his erection!! I said BS and moved off in the general direction of the lady mentioned.

Only to come back 15 minutes later to agree, she was so bad at it I just went limp. On the other hand there was a model on the scene at the same time called Georgette. She was fantastic, it felt like she was licking your balls while performing deep throat. She did not want to be licked while she was doing it, she said it spoilt her concentration.

[James King]

I recently enjoyed my first tranny blowjob and I have to say that it was much better than any woman. I picked up a tranny street walker, very feminine, prettier than most girls, and submissive. We drove to a secluded parking lot and I paid and unzipped my jeans. First she gave it a little lick with no condom and it sprung right to attention. She proceeded to put the condom on with her mouth and suck my cock right down to the base. I've never been sucked so deep and so hard as she sucked me, and her lips and tongue were so soft and skillful. I reached down the back of her pants as she did it and stuck my finger a little way up her asshole, and reached round and just stroked the cock a little, which was semi erect. Unlike other whores I've used, she moaned enthusiastically as I fingered her hole, and didn't pull away. If I had more money on me I would have fucked her.

[Kanoealoha]

Originally posted by charly
She did not want to be licked while she was doing it, she said it spoilt her concentration.

thats why i hate 69...no CONCENTRATION!

[Nina]

Originally posted by charly
Well said Nina.

From what girls tell me, few guys can do it well and many guys have no intenttion of doing unless asked/told. I personally love giving a girl oral sex and an orgasm before we move to the next step.

Funny story.
Way back, I was at an orgy with some industry people and another photographer told me he had just recieved the worse BJ in his life. In fact it was so bad he lost his erection!! I said BS and moved off in the general direction of the lady mentioned.

Only to come back 15 minutes later to agree, she was so bad at it I just went limp. On the other hand there was a model on the scene at the same time called Georgette. She was fantastic, it felt like she was licking your balls while performing deep throat. She did not want to be licked while she was doing it, she said it spoilt her concentration.

I can appreciate that. While I find 69 to be a lot of fun... I enjoy more the focus of just giving a bj or just being eaten out.

(wow, I'm feeling extra dirty tonight)

[Pipecrew]

Originally posted by Brown Bear

she sucks at giving blowjobs and this is how she should do it.

You suck a whole lotta dick dont you?

[Sarah_Jayne]

tongue work, I love it. I don't know how the women who just bob up and down can do it. I need to let my tongue dance around, swirl around in circles, make wipe sweeps of the shaft and head..whatever the guy (or the gal if I am with a woman) reacts the most to. Listen to their moans and sighs and you will be shown the way.

[Brown Bear]

An ex GF of mine said the same thing, she said she couldn't concentrate on what she was doing if we were doing 69.

[skazzel]

Originally posted by sarah_webinc
... I need to let my tongue dance around, swirl around in circles, make wipe sweeps of the shaft and head..whatever the guy (or the gal if I am with a woman) reacts the most to. Listen to their moans and sighs and you will be shown the way.

Wow...

[TheWatcher]

If your girlfriend sucks at giving head... Send them to the nearest Gay friend...


Usually that fixes the problem.

[Brown Bear]

Originally posted by Kanoealoha


who said training her??? each girl should know how to do all the variations of a blow job...you should just tell her which variation you like not all guys are the same

Here is my thinking, the default blowjob technique should always be the pornstar way of giving a BJ. Now if for some reason a guy wants a feeble lame ass BJ of some sort then fine, but that shouldn't be how a girl starts off giving a guy a BJ for the first time.

[Kimmykim]

Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man --- its funny as hell but there are some secrets in there ;)

[playa]

the BJ for lot of girls these days are taboo

[Brown Bear]

Originally posted by playa
the BJ for lot of girls these days are taboo

These days?

I don't think there has ever been a time in history when sex has been more acceptable than it is now.

[playa]

Originally posted by Brown Bear


These days?

I don't think there has ever been a time in history when sex has been more acceptable than it is now.

normal sex is one thing,, giving a guy head is something else

[QualityMpegs]

Don't ya love when girls get pissed off when you give them any tips? They act like you are insulting them. One of my ex'es did that shit...She had nooo idea what she was doing.

[Kimmykim]

Originally posted by playa


normal sex is one thing,, giving a guy head is something else

What girls are you hanging around with?

[Brown Bear]

Originally posted by Kimmykim


What girls are you hanging around with?

Thats what I'm wondering...he's gotta meet some better girls.

Blowjobs are standard sex act. I actually think there are more girls out there that will give a BJ than have sex since there are girls who are virgins but they still give BJs.

[galleryseek]

you said it perfectly. all the girls i've been with, have been real good at head, except my current girlfriend. (damn). kinda sucks. shes too damn innocent though.

[Kimmykim]

Originally posted by Brown Bear


Thats what I'm wondering...he's gotta meet some better girls.

Blowjobs are standard sex act. I actually think there are more girls out there that will give a BJ than have sex since there are girls who are virgins but they still give BJs.

Dead on Brown Bear... I never met a girl that got pregnant giving someone a blowjob either ;)

[Cash]

The worst part of a BJ is when she constantly touches your penis with her teeth
But there are also abilities for a female to show in normal sex, especially when she's on top. Plus some other, as imagination for the foreplay, the seductive way of whispering, teasing, etc.
If you have a girlfriend just giving a pornstar+ type BJ every time, without the other erotic ingredients, you'll look for someone else anyway for a LT relationship.
Damn, if she's not perfect she's not good enough

[strobi]

Mail send: [email protected] I told Brown Bear send it....

[TDF]

head loves me

[Slick]

Originally posted by Brown Bear
I find that when it comes to sex, the biggest variation in girls is their ability to give a good blowjob. Any girl can lie on her back and spread her legs, and any girl can get on her knees to be fucked doggie style, that doesn't take too much talent. The real judge of a girls skills in the realm of sex is the blowjob. Thats where the girl either proves she's a champion in bed or not.

Although, I agree with your point there, I'm sure that it does take a lot of skill to give a blowjob, my wife is great at it, she never gives me any teeth and she can even deepthroat just fine

HOWEVER, when it comes to sex skills, some women do possess fuck skills. My wife isn't an ordinary "just lay there fuck", she really has a lot of fuck skills One example is when she gets on top of me and ride me, she knows how to do it, when she bucks her ass, she does it in an angle that rubs me the rite way, which makes me go crazy. I know that I've blown my load many times like that

I guess that I'm just a lucky man to have a multi-sexually talented wife, perhaps that's why I married her, he he he.

[fnet]

Originally posted by Brown Bear

These days?

I don't think there has ever been a time in history when sex has been more acceptable than it is now.

Even though you were responding to some clueless shite- I gotta say, sex is always culturally banned in some places and mad crazy in other places.

But moreover, there was a time in history when sensuality was studied in infinitessimal detail. We are soooo fucking far from that.

For example, the kama sutra [thread of pleasure] is a popularized piece of crap which some people think contains a lot of ancient sexual wisdom... but in the scope of the tantra [the loom] it's granny's little recipe book. there are hundreds of these books- some have been translated, you can find a dozen or so of the translations online. we don't have anything even remotely close to this kind of sophistication in ANY of today's cultures. people who say they're doing tantric sex... yeah whatever. you'll never be a black belt.

[Red]

BrownBear,
One doesn't need to take lessons from a porn star, just from someone who knows what they're doing. So just for you I'm going to post my lesson on How to Make Love to a Cock.



Lets face it, men love blowjobs. And a woman who knows how to give a good one can make a man her sex slave forever. Don't get me wrong, a man will be happy any time he gets his cock sucked, but it takes technique and creativity to cause him to buy you a dozen roses afterwards.

I should preface this by saying that all the technique in the world will do you no good if you don't really enjoy what your doing. So you either have to love your man, or love sucking cock, or put yourself on a mission to make this man never forget you if he lives to be 200.

Pay attention, I'm about to help you enter the sexual hall of fame.

The first thing you need to do is let your man know that this is just for him. He need not do anything but enjoy it. Sit him down and slowly strip off your clothes. Stand far enough away that he can look, but not touch. Not just yet. Walk over to him, stand him up, and slowly remove his shirt, kissing the exposed skin as you do. Kiss his shoulders, his neck, and work your way down his chest. Run your tongue over his nipples, if he likes that. (Not all men do). Then let your kisses trail down his stomach, getting on your knees as you do this.

Run your hands up his thighs, and over the bulge in his pants as you reach to undo his zipper. Just before unzipping him, lean in and gently scrape your teeth against his cock, which by now, should be begging to be released. Undo his pants, slide them down his legs, and remove them, making sure you keep your hands in contact with his skin as you do.

If he's wearing boxers, slide your hands up inside the legs, and run your fingers through his pubes, don't touch his cock yet. Moving your hands up to the waistband, pull the boxers off from the inside.

If he's wearing briefs, trace the outline of his cock with your fingers, or nails if you've got them, before you take them off.

If he's not wearing any underwear, well...proceed on to the next paragraph.

He is now standing in front of you, with his hard, beautiful cock staring you in the face. Caress his entire pelvic region. His thighs, his balls, his pubes, and while you're doing this, think about the pleasure that cock has given you, or is going to give you, and begin making love to it.

Start your kisses at his thighs. Moist open-mouthed kisses that include a little tongue action. Alternate from one leg to the other as you slowly move up. As you get to his balls, exhale gently so he can feel the warmth of your breath, as you lovingly run your tongue over them. Softly take one into your mouth as your tongue continues to play. Try humming while you do this, he'll love the vibrations. Gently cupping his balls in your hands run your tongue over both of them, licking, kissing, and gently sucking. Men love having their balls played with and a lot of women don't pay enough attention to them.

As you end "playing ball" take notice of his cock which should be softly grazing your cheek. I love the feel of that. So hard and so smooth. Take his cock in your hand and slowly and softly caress your face with it, from one cheek, across your partially open lips, to the other.

Starting at the base of his shaft, work your way around it with hot, wet kisses. Use your tongue while you're kissing, getting him very wet. Cover every inch of his cock as you work your way up towards the head. Then point the tip of your tongue and go right underneath the head. This is where he is most sensitive. Especially on the underside of his dick. Use your tongue to flick it right under the head.

Keep working on the shaft getting it as wet as possible, sliding your open mouth all over it. Then take your tongue and run circles along the head, using the tip of your tongue to play with the hole. Keep your tongue circling as you gently place your lips over the head and suck it in slowly, taking no more than just the head at first, and just suck on it. Slowly start moving your mouth down, only about 1/4 of the way and slide it back up, keeping the head in your mouth. Slide down again, only farther this time and come back up, again keeping the head completely in your mouth. You never want to lose complete contact. This goes for your hands as well, They should be either holding his cock, or caressing his legs and ass, anywhere you want, as long as you're touching him. Now, look up at him, and keeping your eyes locked with his, slowly slide your mouth down as far as you can go. Chances are he'll break the stare as his eyes close with pleasure.

When you feel him hit the back of your throat, stop and relax. This will give your gag reflex time to adjust. Once you've relaxed your throat, very simply, swallow.
Don't worry, you won't choke. What you will do though, is constrict your throat muscles around the head of his cock. Even if you don't take it any further down, each time you swallow, you'll tighten around him. You'll know you're doing it right as you hear the moans of pleasure and gratitude he'll be emitting.

Now is the time to really start working him. Pick up speed. Slide your mouth up and down his cock faster. If you can't take it all down, then wrapping your hand around the base of his cock, slide it in unison with your mouth. This will give you less to take and still give him complete stimulation.

There are different techniques you can use while felating him. You don't want to just be sliding your mouth up and down. One thing you should try is sucking deeply on the upstroke. This is called "the vacuum" and it does a hell of a number on them. Another is to swirl your tongue around as you're mouth fucking him, this gives him 2 different sensations at once. If you're using your hand while you're sucking, don't just move it up and down, twist it as you're stroking. Not hard, you don't want to twist his cock. But he should be wet enough that your hand should easily slip and slide all around. Same thing with your head. Don't just keep it in one position, tilt it from side to side so he can feel your lips sliding around as you suck him deeply.

If he takes a while to reach orgasm, there will come a point where your mouth will begin to get tired and you may feel lockjaw settling in. Not to worry, there is a trick to resting your mouth and still keeping him stimulated. Take his cock out of your mouth, but keep your lips on it by running them along the side of the shaft. Use your tongue and hands on him. If you have to totally rest your mouth, then keep the motion going with your hands. Use this time to jerk him hard and fast with the head of his cock either aiming at or just touching your lips. After giving your mouth a few minutes of rest, you're ready to get back in action.

The moment of truth...his orgasm. Don't panic. Most men will let you know when they are about to cum. If they don't do it verbally, then pay attention to the signs. You'll begin to feel his cock swell and throb in your mouth. His legs may tense up, and you may hear vocal signs as well. At this point, you have two options. To swallow or not to swallow, that is the question. You will know ahead of time if you want him to cum in your mouth or not, so be prepared for it. I have my own theory on this and not everyone will agree, but if you're not going to swallow, then don't have him cum in your mouth. Nothing kills the mood like you making this awful face and running for something to spit it out into. If you don't want to swallow, then when you feel him getting close, take him out of your mouth and use your hand, letting him cum on you. You may not want it on your face, contrary to men's beliefs and fantasies, not all women are into that, but having him cum on your breasts is also exciting. Men love to see their cum all over you, so make it even more exciting for him by rubbing it over your nipples and into your breasts. If you're not totally opposed to it, take some on your finger and either put it into your mouth or just rub it on your lips. Remember, the more you please him, the more he will want to return the favor.

If you do swallow, you can gently squeeze his balls as he's getting ready to cum, or squeeze his ass, or if he likes it, gently side your finger into his ass. This turns a lot of men on. Suck deeply as he's cuming and don't take your mouth away until you're sure he's done.
I usually keep going until they beg me to stop because they get too sensitive. A real turn on is to keep some of it in your mouth and as he pulls out, let it trickle out. Drives them crazy.

So there you have it, a blowjob to die for. Just remember to make him aware that you need to get as good as you give. And since you've just driven him to ecstasy and beyond, he should have no problem at all with that.


Feel free to send that to your girlfriend.