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Libertine 02-13-2003 06:20 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PersianKitty


How? Guilt by association? If people aren't told, they don't know. If it doesn't get in the way of whatever job he's doing, why would it matter?

Would you might by a hamburger at McDonalds if you knew someone with a prior conviction had cooked it?

Like you said yourself, many people have something against the porn industry. One thing that follows from that is that we, unfortunately, are all suspects. We can't get away with some of the things mainstream companies can get away with.

Now, imagine the person committing a sex crime again. Not unlikely, since 90% of sex offenders will do it again.
That could well get media coverage, especially when it si discovered the person has been working in porn. Would you like to be one of the companies involved in the following media scandal?
You *will* be suspected of being a cp person by many people for the rest of your life, you *will* receive death threats and the like and you *will* have major problems keeping your company alive.

Similar things have happened before, and it is not unlikely for them to happen again.

SR 02-13-2003 06:24 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by TDavid
I am pretty sure I know who Danielle is talking about because this guy posted a lot on a certain amateur specific (hint, hint) board and was active in other adult webmaster resource online communities, as well as even writing some articles for adult ezines.

He was accused and convicted of having sex with an underage model (I think the model was 14?). The reason I know all this is because the guy was a call-in to my radio show WAY before anybody knew this (I didn't know either at the time) and I found this out later when many other webmasters did that the whole time he was out in the adult webmaster community pimping his "I fuck my blowup dolls" site he had this allegation and then conviction pending all along and somebody found out about the charge and exposed him.

He also posted about all this himself, admitting this, on a certain amateur specific board out there, so it is public knowledge from his own mouth. So go do some searching through a certain adult amateur board for past threads and you'll find all you need to know about this individual from his own mouth (assuming they haven't locked or removed the thread, that is).

I'm also pretty sure that he also stated that when he got out 6 months later he would have a probation that required him NOT to be anywhere near the adult business, so if he comes and starts posting you can bet that if someone tips off his probation officer he'll be back in the slammer to do some more time.

So if this is the same guy Danielle is talking about this issue is pretty much moot. He'll be violating his probation to post on adult webmaster boards!

And if this is the same guy you are talking about, Danielle, this isn't really a big secret for anybody who has been around for awhile (happened only a year or so ago), but if it is someone else, then you certainly aren't slandering him/her by being a little more forthcoming with what has already been posted.

I believe I heard about that story.
I thought the girl was 16.
From what Daniella was posting I thought it was about a kid from 10 or so.
A friend of me had a gf from 16 years old while he was 21.
Doesn't make him a child rapist.
Having sex is different from raping.

Brujah 02-13-2003 06:25 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PersianKitty
So I guess you do a full background check on everyone you write a check to, who sends you a check, who emails you, who you email, etc.
No, I don't. I can certainly state that I had no idea whatsoever if at any point it comes to being accused of working with someone who is a convicted child rapist though.

I prefaced each remark with "I don't want to.." not that "I don't". Further, I still emphasize that I think we have every right to know who we're doing business with. Don't even bring it up if you aren't going to follow-through.

We're already in a business that is somewhat risky from a legal standpoint as it is, without worrying about who we might be linked to as well. It may not matter to you, which is completely your prerogative but it obviously does matter to others and it's pretty shitty in my opinion to mention it in the first place but then not tell us about it.

Danny_C 02-13-2003 06:26 AM

I think, particularly in our industry, we have to be careful who we deal with. There are prosecutors just waiting on us to fuck up, and child porn is their favorite angle. If someone is a child rapist, we need to know it, and that person needs to be isolated and distanced from the community.

Libertine 02-13-2003 06:28 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SR


I believe I heard about that story.
I thought the girl was 16.
From what Daniella was posting I thought it was about a kid from 10 or so.
A friend of me had a gf from 16 years old while he was 21.
Doesn't make him a child rapist.
Having sex is different from raping.

This is about fucking a consenting 16 year old?

LOL

That is not child abuse. Hell, my own girlfriend is 16 (I'm 21).

bhutocracy 02-13-2003 06:29 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by TDavid
I am pretty sure I know who Danielle is talking about because this guy posted a lot on a certain amateur specific (hint, hint) board and was active in other adult webmaster resource online communities, as well as even writing some articles for adult ezines.

He was accused and convicted of having sex with an underage model (I think the model was 14?). The reason I know all this is because the guy was a call-in to my radio show WAY before anybody knew this (I didn't know either at the time) and I found this out later when many other webmasters did that the whole time he was out in the adult webmaster community pimping his "I fuck my blowup dolls" site he had this allegation and then conviction pending all along and somebody found out about the charge and exposed him.

He also posted about all this himself, admitting this, on a certain amateur specific board out there, so it is public knowledge from his own mouth. So go do some searching through a certain adult amateur board for past threads and you'll find all you need to know about this individual from his own mouth (assuming they haven't locked or removed the thread, that is).

I'm also pretty sure that he also stated that when he got out 6 months later he would have a probation that required him NOT to be anywhere near the adult business, so if he comes and starts posting you can bet that if someone tips off his probation officer he'll be back in the slammer to do some more time.

So if this is the same guy Danielle is talking about this issue is pretty much moot. He'll be violating his probation to post on adult webmaster boards!

And if this is the same guy you are talking about, Danielle, this isn't really a big secret for anybody who has been around for awhile (happened only a year or so ago), but if it is someone else, then you certainly aren't slandering him/her by being a little more forthcoming with what has already been posted.


if you've got something to say, fucking say it.
don't type out a wad of shit for ten minutes just to let everyone know you're "in the know".

Brujah 02-13-2003 06:30 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bhutocracy
if you've got something to say, fucking say it.
don't type out a wad of shit for ten minutes just to let everyone know you're "in the know".

A-FUCKING-MEN!

Groove 02-13-2003 06:31 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PersianKitty
His sex crime was a crime against a child/children. If he's working in the child porn industry I dont think he'd be in these forums for very long. If he's working in the adult porn industry, well.. that's not what his crime was. If he'd had sex with an adult, he wouldn't of gone to jail.
I accept the logic of your argument, but this guy was apparently convicted for a sexual act that seriously crossed the line, so I don't think that bodes well for how he might conduct himself in the porn industry. Furthermore, the porn industry could easily be rendered illegal overnight if we antagonise enough people. A convicted child rapist working in online porn is just the kind of thing that could turn a modest anti-porn movement into a massive one and then we're all fucked (pun intended)!

PersianKitty 02-13-2003 06:31 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by punkworld


Like you said yourself, many people have something against the porn industry. One thing that follows from that is that we, unfortunately, are all suspects. We can't get away with some of the things mainstream companies can get away with.

Now, imagine the person committing a sex crime again. Not unlikely, since 90% of sex offenders will do it again.
That could well get media coverage, especially when it si discovered the person has been working in porn. Would you like to be one of the companies involved in the following media scandal?
You *will* be suspected of being a cp person by many people for the rest of your life, you *will* receive death threats and the like and you *will* have major problems keeping your company alive.

Similar things have happened before, and it is not unlikely for them to happen again.

I already receive death threats....but....

you could say the same thing about any person convicted of any thing who's working in any industry. What about a convicted drug dealer who's out and working in the adult industry who gets busted again. Think people won't say "Well of course, it's the adult industry for ya and he was likely in cahoots with the people he worked with." What about the convicted thief, embezzler, bad check writer, etc etc. Any negative move anyone of us makes gets tossed on the group as a whole. There's no way to know who has what in their past. The businesses that reguire full background checks, do them. So far I haven't heard that the adult industry is one of them.

From what has been detailed on this board this guy did less than a year's time. I don't think your standard child molestor gets only a year's time. If it was sex with a 14 year old (now someone says 16 year old), I'm fairly certain there are some areas where that is a lesser crime. Not downplaying the act itself, but when I read the initial post, I envisioned someone who'd done several years in jail and just came out and began working in this industry...not someone who'd been in the industry, did a year's time, and is back.


btw.. in my area just a few days ago there was a 37 year old man arrested for molesting a 2 month old baby girl. He was the mother's fiance. Of all things.. the guy's father is the head of the state department of corrections.

Jakke PNG 02-13-2003 06:32 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SR

A friend of me had a gf from 16 years old while he was 21.
Doesn't make him a child rapist.
Having sex is different from raping.

Just gonna give some input on that.
I've had a 16 year old GF when I was 21.
Now I'm 23 and my gf is 19. (the same girl).
The chick is way more mature than I am, and I'm not (I was not) breaking any laws in finland. Just thought I'd point that out now.
A 16 year old isn't really a child imho. It is illegal to take pics of a girl until she's 18, but I can fuck 'em when they're 16. Fun times.
IF fucking a 16 year old is a crime in your country/state, then you shouldn't obviously do that. It would be plain stupid. If this guy did infact have sex with a willing 16 year old girl, it's not really that horrible. If the guy is well over 30 it's a bit odd, but not HORRIBLE.

If this was about raping a 16 year old, then it really doesn't matter how old the girl was... a rape is a rape. Also, if this was about a younger girl <15, then the guy should be outed. :2 cents:


..why make these sort of threads, if you're not about to give the guy out.. especially on GFY. don't tease.

TDavid 02-13-2003 06:32 AM

bhutocracy - if you are too lazy to do a little bit of research when I gave you an obvious fucking trail of very specific information, then don't get on my case! lol :321GFY

lEricPl 02-13-2003 06:36 AM

Thats one thing I don't get...

When I was younger, I knew plenty of smart 15, 16 year old girls fucking older guys. They were not being taken advantage of! They wanted it!

When I was 14 I lost my virginity to a 19 year old girl and when I was 15 I fucked a 24 year old girl.

When my twin brother was 15 he was bangin a 33 year old teacher!

Was I taken advantage of?

Was my brother being taken advantage of?

FUCK NO! We were hitten it! :)

Rape is a LOT different that consenting sex.

I personally would not bang a girl unless she was 18 or older though. (I'm 23 now by the way)

bhutocracy 02-13-2003 06:40 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by TDavid
bhutocracy - if you are too lazy to do a little bit of research when I gave you an obvious fucking trail of very specific information, then don't get on my case! lol :321GFY
:) it came out a lot more aggressive than it sounded..

even so. we're not in the wild goose chasing business here, if you've got something to contribute to the thread and if it's so little research and so easy, instead of giving us ten minutes of clues why not just cut to the chase?
screw a trail of breadcrumbs.. post a fucking link.
prick tease.

:)

Libertine 02-13-2003 06:40 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PersianKitty


I already receive death threats....but....

you could say the same thing about any person convicted of any thing who's working in any industry. What about a convicted drug dealer who's out and working in the adult industry who gets busted again. Think people won't say "Well of course, it's the adult industry for ya and he was likely in cahoots with the people he worked with." What about the convicted thief, embezzler, bad check writer, etc etc. Any negative move anyone of us makes gets tossed on the group as a whole. There's no way to know who has what in their past. The businesses that reguire full background checks, do them. So far I haven't heard that the adult industry is one of them.

From what has been detailed on this board this guy did less than a year's time. I don't think your standard child molestor gets only a year's time. If it was sex with a 14 year old (now someone says 16 year old), I'm fairly certain there are some areas where that is a lesser crime. Not downplaying the act itself, but when I read the initial post, I envisioned someone who'd done several years in jail and just came out and began working in this industry...not someone who'd been in the industry, did a year's time, and is back.

Well, first of all, if it's about having sex with a consenting 14/16 year old, I do not consider this person a child abuser. Over here, that's not even illegal - even more, when I met my gf she was 14, now she is 16.



However, the problem I see is not one of legal nature, nor of ethical nature. The problem is the current witchhunt for "child abusers". Doing business with a drug dealer, thief or whatever might hurt your reputation. Being linked to a child abuser while being in the adult industry will destroy your reputation, quite likely not only online but offline as well. The media love stuff like this, and are quite happy to destroy a pornographer's life. That goes further than what I consider an "acceptable risk". So, people possibly doing business with this person simply have the right to know it, and then decide for themselves what they will do.

AOLGuy 02-13-2003 06:41 AM

Odd how when some facts come out, this is no longer such a disgusting thread...

Christ, and here I thought we were getting all serious.

If someone is doing something illegal, they are digging their own grave.

If they spread pics that are illegal, well, there are means of checking against it when purchasing content...

If this person wants to get into some shit, they will do so if they get back into this biz.

What they did was questionable, and they got caught.

Apparently, many here think that it isn't that terrible of a thing to begin with.

Personally, I stand by my earlier post.

Groove 02-13-2003 06:42 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Danielle
If you knew that a poster on a board was a convicted sex offender.... I'm talking about someone convicted of raping a child......
Daniellle, you said "raping a child" if you're talking about a guy having consentual sex with a 16 year old (ie young woman) -- GO FUCK YOURSELF! If you are indeed indeed talking about someone who has raped a child give us the evidence!

Brujah 02-13-2003 06:42 AM

A lot of speculation going on it sounds like, but didn't Daniell say it was a "child rapist" we're talking about ?

PersianKitty 02-13-2003 06:45 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Brujah
A lot of speculation going on it sounds like, but didn't Daniell say it was a "child rapist" we're talking about ?
Don't know of any legal system that would let a child rapist out after less than a year.

lEricPl 02-13-2003 06:49 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Brujah
A lot of speculation going on it sounds like, but didn't Daniell say it was a "child rapist" we're talking about ?
That's the thing....

People love to call sex with a consenting 16 year old girl "Statutory Rape".

If they are younger than age of consent? they are a child right?

So they are a "Child Rapist".

OneHungLo 02-13-2003 06:50 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by TDavid
bhutocracy - if you are too lazy to do a little bit of research when I gave you an obvious fucking trail of very specific information, then don't get on my case! lol :321GFY
I do recall reading this story about a guy who was having sex on some cam site with a girl that turned out to be 14 or 16, supposedly she gave a fake ID...i believe i read it on YNOT. Is that about right TDavid?

TDavid 02-13-2003 06:51 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bhutocracy


:) it came out a lot more aggressive than it sounded..

even so. we're not in the wild goose chasing business here, if you've got something to contribute to the thread and if it's so little research and so easy, instead of giving us ten minutes of clues why not just cut to the chase?
screw a trail of breadcrumbs.. post a fucking link.
prick tease.

:)

Alright, I'll post what took about 10 seconds to find with your favorite SE lol

I clearly said I wasn't sure if this was the same person, so my original post was sort of a question. I am also not sure if it is acceptable on this board to post links to other adult webmaster boards, so if it isn't ok well, then a mod will have to remove the link to the following threads:

The discussion
http://chat.amateurmasters.com/publi...View.cgi?T=358

The article on YNOTMasters:
http://www.ynotmasters.com/news/ynew...702/page3.html

Now if it isn't the guy Danielle is talking about in this thread, don't blame me. It's just a guess because the timing is about right for this guy getting out of prison.

Carrie 02-13-2003 06:53 AM

Oh jesus christ, people. Go over to Amateur Masters and view the drama for yourself. I thought it had blown up two full weeks ago - it was pretty nasty. Seems like it's come back around again, though.

The person I believe Danielle is talking about is Tjay, who is out of prison now and is posting as Outcast. Fake IDs *seem* to be involved; a content shoot *seems* to be involved. The entire story is severely fucked up and the only people who know the truth are Tjay and the girl he had sex with.

There's always three sides to every story - so hold your opinion on the person or what's happened until you find out for *yourself* as much information as you can (and realize that you still won't know the full truth). There's plenty of it out there, btw - when this all went down before Tjay went to prison it was a *very* hot topic and discussed from just about every possible angle. You just have to do the research (Search buttons are useful for this).

12clicks 02-13-2003 06:57 AM

Let's see, if the guy did time, he's guilty of something. If you're doing business with him now that he's out, what are the odds that you won't get more attention from law enforcement?

Also, if its the guy Tdavid is talking about, I kinda remember the story too. Some lifetime loser in his late 30s was doing porn shoots with an underage girl. If that's your crime, go to jail. period.

If you're really interested, do some research. You'll be shocked at all the support he got from members of said amateur network.

lEricPl 02-13-2003 06:59 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by 12clicks
Let's see, if the guy did time, he's guilty of something. If you're doing business with him now that he's out, what are the odds that you won't get more attention from law enforcement?

Also, if its the guy Tdavid is talking about, I kinda remember the story too. Some lifetime loser in his late 30s was doing porn shoots with an underage girl. If that's your crime, go to jail. period.

If you're really interested, do some research. You'll be shocked at all the support he got from members of said amateur network.


Lifetime Loser?

Quote:

So now here I am, I have been in the industry since 95, have never been in trouble because I don't skirt the law, and I follow the rules. I am a veteran of two wars. I worked for IBM for 4 years. I have a college education. I'm a nice guy, I don?t hurt anybody and I don?t make a habit of braking laws...BUT because this girl lied to my employers and I had sex with her, I am now a criminal, and I'm going out of town for the next 12 months.

Take a read..

http://www.ynotmasters.com/news/ynew...702/page3.html

bhutocracy 02-13-2003 07:01 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by TDavid


Alright, I'll post what took about 10 seconds to find with your favorite SE lol

I clearly said I wasn't sure if this was the same person, so my original post was sort of a question. I am also not sure if it is acceptable on this board to post links to other adult webmaster boards, so if it isn't ok well, then a mod will have to remove the link to the following threads:

The discussion
http://chat.amateurmasters.com/publi...View.cgi?T=358

The article on YNOTMasters:
http://www.ynotmasters.com/news/ynew...702/page3.html

Now if it isn't the guy Danielle is talking about in this thread, don't blame me. It's just a guess because the timing is about right for this guy getting out of prison.

thank you.

SquarePants 02-13-2003 07:04 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PersianKitty




btw.. in my area just a few days ago there was a 37 year old man arrested for molesting a 2 month old baby girl. He was the mother's fiance. Of all things.. the guy's father is the head of the state department of corrections.

That should be sweet justice :)

TDavid 02-13-2003 07:08 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bhutocracy


thank you.

hehe, your welcome. The story is way fucked up like Carrie said above (Hi Carrie!).

Luciferr 02-13-2003 07:09 AM

As long as serius adult webmasters rejects all kind of kiddie-stuff and as long as all serius adult webmasters immediately reports ALL kind of kiddiestuff to the right authorities I really donīt think there is a problem here ...

Iīve been in that world - not as an abuser - but as a boyfriend to a poor bastard who has been abused in all sorts thinkeble ways ..

Kiddieporn, abuse of minors, rape or what the fuck people call it is the most disgusting, mean, hummiliating and damaging crime you possible can commit to a kid .. People whould say : "no, he could have killed the kid after abusing it." .. Well .. Trust me .. A lot of kids and a lot of grown whom has been abused as kids would WISH heīve killed them ..

My girlfriend couldnīt stand it any longer in the age of 26 .. You know .. A lot of pills and then go to sleep ..

People who has been convicted or who has been involved in ANY kind of kiddieporn has NOTHING to do here and has NOTHING to do in this business AT all !

They should be in prison, and they should stay there untill the rot !

So .. My point is .. Report it. EVERYTIME .. Publish their names, adresses, photos etc. etc. Make their lives a living hell. Excactley as they made the kids lives a living hell ..

Sorry .. Just my opinion .. And I know iīm not the right one because Iīve been too close to it ..

But ..

May they all rot in hell .. Slowly !

Yours
Luciferr

Brujah 02-13-2003 07:10 AM

Ok so guy has sex with 14 year old girl on cam for his porn site. Goes to jail.

Do you want to buy some content from him ?

StacyCat 02-13-2003 07:13 AM

1) I dont think its the responsibility of the board admins to ban the guy. Thats kinda hard for me to say, becuase it might be the right thing to do.

this should be something self regulated. If its a problem with his probation, then there are enough people pissed at him to turn him in. If he just wants to post advice, he can do whatever he wants. But, he has to realize simply by being there, he is tarnishing the image of porn.

****
I also think a point we are missing is that he hired this 14 year old prostitute for the purpose of having sex with her on a webcam. So, he was guilty of creating child pornography. For this reason, and this reason alone, I think that he shouldnt be doing any form of adult entertainment.
****

There are lots of sides to this story, and I still think we havent heard all of it.

lEricPl 02-13-2003 07:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Brujah
Ok so guy has sex with 14 year old girl on cam for his porn site. Goes to jail.

Do you want to buy some content from him ?


Well, I would stay away from the Teen content for sure.


:thumbsup

bhutocracy 02-13-2003 07:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by TDavid


hehe, your welcome. The story is way fucked up like Carrie said above (Hi Carrie!).

:) yeah.. not good.. I don't imagine him making many friends after that article.

12clicks 02-13-2003 07:17 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by lEricPl

Lifetime loser?

yeah.

Quote:

Originally posted by lEricPl



Take a read..

http://www.ynotmasters.com/news/ynew...702/page3.html

I suggest you read the court documents instead of the defendants excuses on a chat board.

lEricPl 02-13-2003 07:19 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by 12clicks


I suggest you read the court documents instead of the defendants excuses on a chat board.


If you read the entire article, they spoke to the District Attorney and turns out he was lying.

Read the article.


Quote:

And so, as it turns out, TJay was lying the entire time.

lEricPl 02-13-2003 07:26 AM

Seems to me the guy just fucked up and then lied on the boards.

I don't think he is a Lifetime Loser though.

I just think he fucked up.

12clicks 02-13-2003 07:29 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by lEricPl
If you read the entire article, they spoke to the District Attorney and turns out he was lying.

Read the article.

yet you defend him against me. odd.

Quote:

Originally posted by lEricPl
Seems to me the guy just fucked up and then lied on the boards.

I don't think he is a Lifetime Loser though.

I just think he fucked up.

No son, it seems he's a convicted felon. Run along and do business with him if you'd like. I prefer to do my business with business people not assclowns fucking underage girls. But hey, that's just me.

lEricPl 02-13-2003 07:37 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by 12clicks


No son, it seems he's a convicted felon. Run along and do business with him if you'd like. I prefer to do my business with business people not assclowns fucking underage girls. But hey, that's just me.



That "Son" thing sounds so endearing. :thumbsup

If I actually had any 'real' business in the adult market, I would choose not to do business with him for the same reason you stated above.

Brujah 02-19-2003 04:53 AM

So was this guy and his young girlfriend the "child rapist" ?

Warden 03-05-2003 05:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Fletch XXX


?

Dude, they have computers in prisons for inmates now.

havent you seen the Pen pal email criminal database sites?

plenty of criminals online.

=)

Fletch,
I ran across this thread just now doing a search so sorry for the delayed response but, prisoners DO NOT have access to the internet from inside prison. I can assure you that.


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