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unfortunately You are right.there is family planning in our country and many family want only one child..but I won't drown my child even if a female. you know everyone could feed many children if you have enough money to pay the local government in this country.

Secure the domain of your kids name.

women are so much more efficient. my wife can change the nastiest diapers and have my son clean as can be with 2 wipes.... when i am preparing for a poopy diaper i get at least 7 or 8 wipes ready :1orglaugh my wife gives me a hard time, but i feel it necessary to make sure we both come out of the situation smelling our best :)


another tip... try to ignore all the "advice" your family gives you... every baby is different, and every parent is different. do what feels right and you will be ok

good advice here about not buying too much. we went crazy, and at least 95% of the crap we bought was never used.

you can spend $500 on toys, and your baby will probably be just as happy playing with the boxes the toys came in.. my sons favorite toys are hangers... he could care less about the million real toys laying around the house

wow.I guess I want to buy your toys that no used

Golden words :)

1. Have regular job with constant , regular incomes.
2. The money are important since the mother should stay at home and watch out for the baby.
3. Less sleeping, less sex with the mother, less fun /especially if you get used to night life/
4. Quit smoking is good start. Smell of tobacco and smoke is unpleasant to the baby.It will remember you with that smell anyway. Drinking does not mix with baby sitting. You should be sober all the time, because the mother will need to take a rest - sleep - eat - visiting the bathroom, when there are no other helper. A drunk daddy will be hell of a mess. If baby is sick, you should drive mom and baby to the hospital. That won't happen if daddy is drunk.

5. Spare money as you can aside. Make everything you can to make more money as soon as possible. Get bigger house, with more rooms, water and reach to hospital and kindergarden and/or school near the new place.

6. Find new friends - married guys with children. The single ones will not understand you whatever you do. No more fun, no more sex. You will get grey hair in no time.

7. Try to make the baby sleep in it's own bed/bedroom from start.

8. Wait for the mom to restore her health after birth - at least 2-4 months. Your kid came out of her vagina. Pray the lord the doctors will sew her properly so you can feel her the same way as before birth.

9. The baby is the most important , but don't forget the mother. After work bring present not only to the baby, but to mom as well - flowers, candy - something she like. Babies sleep and wake up in every 2-4 hours. In the mean time a grateful mom can give you a blow job.

10. If you work at home, put your work desk in another room!

P.S. To be a dad is not easy task. It's not just a title just because you made some kids, that's responsibility, presence and you will be always unprepared - never mind how rich or good you are. This is how you get experience.
As far as I know chinese families has strong ties, with respect for the elders and the figure of the father is important and without doubts the major one. You won't be having any problems.

Cheers.
M.

oh yeah.... Take TONS of pictures and video... NOT to show to other people, but to have for yourself. Your child will grow and change so fast, every month it will look and act so differently. Take 100s of pics and Videos, just for yourselves to look at. In a year you will want to look at them as track the amazing changes that happen. When they are a year old you almost won't recognize the pics of them as infants.




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I have two kids now (4 and 5) and my wife is expecting twins now. If you're wanting help or someone to chat with - hit me up. You're doctor should be telling you all this BTW

If I need over 2 wipes and it's a bad poo we have some diaper codes we call out.

1. coc blowout = Change of clothes blowout
2. eb blowout = Emergency bath blowout

50 babies.

first thing, make sure it is yours by having a dna test.

"Find new friends - married guys with children. The single ones will not understand you whatever you do. No more fun, no more sex. You will get grey hair in no time."


sounds like a blast... lol