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bogo · 02-09-2003, 06:46 PM

im just curious,how old were you when you tied the not?Im 34 and, im still meeting women and having fun,but i know someday the fun will stop.Did i miss the boat?

Pipecrew · 02-09-2003, 06:48 PM

you need a time machine,

28 is the age

xdcdave · 02-09-2003, 06:49 PM

there is no right age.. you're ready when you're ready.. i know plenty of 60 year old's that are still big pimpin and loving it

but i'm 22, settled down, and happy

just my

laterz,
dave

FATPad · 02-09-2003, 06:50 PM

Eric's Nuts · 02-09-2003, 06:50 PM

NEVER

G Sharp · 02-09-2003, 06:52 PM

I've thought about this for quite a while,too. The answer that I realized was right for me is that --there is NO set age to settle down. You have to set schedules based on your own personal growth and preparedness. Another thing that is true: Rushing into these lifelong responsibilities unprepared will be unfair both to the person to be supported/partner for life and myself. Compassion and selflessness are the keys to becoming a great father and truly understanding/loving/accepting husband/partner.

pink_in_the_middle · 02-09-2003, 06:54 PM

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Originally posted by bogo
im just curious,how old were you when you tied the not?Im 34 and, im still meeting women and having fun,but i know someday the fun will stop.

Why do you think the fun will stop when you get married?
You make your life what you want it to be

Joe Sixpack · 02-09-2003, 06:56 PM

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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle

Why do you think the fun will stop when you get married?

Only a woman would make that statement.

pink_in_the_middle · 02-09-2003, 06:59 PM

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Originally posted by Joe Sixpack

Only a woman would make that statement.

Funny you say that my hubby told me to ask

EscortBiz · 02-09-2003, 07:00 PM

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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle

Why do you think the fun will stop when you get married?
You make your life what you want it to be

LMAO omg, guys never settleits not worth it

pink_in_the_middle · 02-09-2003, 07:02 PM

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Originally posted by EscortBiz

LMAO omg, guys never settleits not worth it

Whats not worth it?

EscortBiz · 02-09-2003, 07:03 PM

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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle

Whats not worth it?

what the headaches and bullshit that comes with being married

Joe Sixpack · 02-09-2003, 07:03 PM

Marriage is for pussy whipped losers.

d0se · 02-09-2003, 07:06 PM

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Originally posted by G Sharp
I've thought about this for quite a while,too. The answer that I realized was right for me is that --there is NO set age to settle down. You have to set schedules based on your own personal growth and preparedness. Another thing that is true: Rushing into these lifelong responsibilities unprepared will be unfair both to the person to be supported/partner for life and myself. Compassion and selflessness are the keys to becoming a great father and truly understanding/loving/accepting husband/partner.

Wise.

quiet · 02-09-2003, 07:12 PM

i'm way too busy to even have a steady girlfriend. in fact, i fucked up my last serious relationship simply due to the fact that i'm extremely driven and ambitious - achieving (business) goals has been number one in my life for so long that i really don't remember any different. damn that's fucked.

Plugger · 02-09-2003, 07:14 PM

I was 23

Danny_C · 02-09-2003, 07:17 PM

I'm perfectly happy as a "settled down" guy at 27... assuming I fit your definition of settled down. I'm married and have a kid, at least.

galleryseek · 02-09-2003, 07:20 PM

i wish i had the mentality that marriage is for pussies. i have way too much of a problem with dating multiple girls cause i know they're off fuckin other guys. and idealy, i want them only fucking ME. but realistically, thats not how it is. so knowing this, i'd get very pissed and treat um like shit and they basically end up hating me while i hate them cause they're dirty whore ass bitch sluts. thank you.

Filter · 02-09-2003, 07:26 PM

well I'm 25 but apparently the time for me was 4 years ago when my daughter dropped by ;) so 21 is as good as any if you get an angel like that

bogo · 02-09-2003, 07:43 PM

what kills me, is that i know more divorced people than "happily Married"

jimmyf · 02-09-2003, 07:51 PM

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Originally posted by Eric's Nuts
NEVER

Now this person knows.

Shit I've been married 3 times, before I was 35 and didn't settle down until I was 40 and single.. Oh I look back and wish the hell I'd never gotten married, been single over 20 years and fucking loved every day of it. I've had more fun than should be legal in my life time.

PerfectionGirls · 02-09-2003, 07:53 PM

I'm about ready now... I'm a month away from 40.

jimmyf · 02-09-2003, 07:59 PM

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Originally posted by quiet
i'm way too busy to even have a steady girlfriend. in fact, i fucked up my last serious relationship simply due to the fact that i'm extremely driven and ambitious - achieving (business) goals has been number one in my life for so long that i really don't remember any different. damn that's fucked.

Get ahold of yourself

that's NOT fucked, and don't go jumping into a bunch of trouble. Women I love'm, big 1's, little 1's, all kinds, just when they get 2 serious my white get's some gone. Now it took me many many years 2 get to this point with women and many many relationships.

Brown Bear · 02-09-2003, 08:03 PM

Any guy that either gets married or has a kid before age 30 is missing out on a lot of fun.

ThunderBalls · 02-09-2003, 08:07 PM

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Originally posted by galleryseek
i wish i had the mentality that marriage is for pussies. i have way too much of a problem with dating multiple girls cause i know they're off fuckin other guys. and idealy, i want them only fucking ME. but realistically, thats not how it is. so knowing this, i'd get very pissed and treat um like shit and they basically end up hating me while i hate them cause they're dirty whore ass bitch sluts. thank you.

Damn, I think you hit it on the mark.

Brown Bear · 02-09-2003, 08:11 PM

hmmm...me thinks www.dirtywhoreassbitchsluts.com might be a good domain name.

sandz · 02-09-2003, 08:16 PM

I was going out with this girl last year for around 10 months and SHE asked me to marry her.. was very surprising considering she was only 17, I was 19 and really hadn't even contemplated the idea until then.. needless to say when my answer was no, a few weeks later we broke up and that was that.

A sidenote.. she's now screwing different guys week after week I hear from her friends, so kinda glad I got out of it when I did

Wilbo · 02-09-2003, 09:03 PM

I was 40 when I got married ( 42 now ), I shoulda waited another 40

kenny · 02-09-2003, 09:10 PM

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Originally posted by bogo
what kills me, is that i know more divorced people than "happily Married"

Isn't that the truth. I estimate 8 out of 10 married people dont stay married or wish they haven't. Then some women get married just to take everything two years later.

wethoney · 02-09-2003, 09:30 PM

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Originally posted by Joe Sixpack
Marriage is for pussy whipped losers.

Sounds like something a teenager would say..

wethoney · 02-09-2003, 09:31 PM

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Originally posted by Brown Bear
Any guy that either gets married or has a kid before age 30 is missing out on a lot of fun.

What are talking about man.. you just need a wife that lets you swing

candyflip · 02-09-2003, 09:34 PM

My girl keeps telling me that the best time to settle down is right now.

escorpio · 02-09-2003, 09:41 PM

I'm going to settle down around 75. Into the fucking ground.

escorpio · 02-09-2003, 09:43 PM

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Originally posted by wethoney

Sounds like something a teenager would say..

A correct teenager.

Peaches · 02-09-2003, 10:09 PM

I told my son (who's 19) not to even THINK about it until he's at least in his 30's. Then, and only then if he thinks it's the right one. But I hope he's realized that through the years, he's found "the right one" enough times to know he's clueless as to what he really wants, lol!

I'm glad I had him early, because now I can have my private time, but I wish I had waited to get married. You do NOT know what you want or even who you are for such a long time. I'm in my 40's and I STILL don't know what I want

To settle down just to settle down is one of the most common and biggest mistakes I see people of ANY age make.

It's not a bad thing to be alone.

Snake Doctor · 02-09-2003, 10:23 PM

By settle down I assume you mean get married??

I don't think I'm going to get married, I'm just going to find a woman I can't stand and give her my house

tawm · 02-09-2003, 10:37 PM

i agree on a lot of things with you guys.

i'm 20 now... lots of friends of mine (same age) already have the same partner for years and years and are living together... damn, i just don't understand them - aren't you supposed to enjoy your freedom and explore life's possibilities when you're 20?!?! i just cannot make them understand they are throwing away a huge part of their life... man, they haven't even have had a few party-years -- like i'm doing right now, just uncomplicated party and doing whatever i want (+ some study

) whole week long... i think a person needs a couple of those years to find out what he wants in life.

the friends i'm talking about had their first or second girlfriend/boyfriend when they were 17, left highschool at 18, worked their ass out in college for 2 years and now live together with their 3-year-relationship, as if they're both 40 already... damn, i bet in 10 years they'll be regretting their ass out...

and quiet, your story ressembles mine 200%... i'm having relationships all the time but they never last longer than a few months, because:
- i don't want a 'solid' relationship, i think i don't even can do it right now... the girl gets on my nerves when i see her too often... problem is that most of the time the girl wants to be around/hug/talk to me 24/7 and gets angry when i say 2 nights per week is the max for me.
- achieving business goals and study have always been number one and i don't see that change... my business simply does more to me than my girl - ok, i don't tell my girl that in these words but i know it's the truth... you can call me whatever you want but the more time i spend working on my business, the more i get hooked by it... the more time i spend on my girl the more i get annoyed by it...

angelsofporn · 02-09-2003, 10:42 PM

Every relationship i've ever had has been ruined by the fact that business and goals have always come before them. I'm married now and it's still that way for the most part. I am a 24 hour a day workaholic..they love having the cash but dont like the hours it takes to be VERY successful

MetaMan · 02-09-2003, 11:20 PM

never!
womens goal once they hit over 20 is to trap any guy they can, stay away from the traps and stick to the hoes!

Voodoo · 02-09-2003, 11:25 PM

Settle down when you're done having fun.

Lev · 02-09-2003, 11:27 PM

I think the time when you get tired of the one night stands

JimmyReject · 02-10-2003, 12:02 AM

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Originally posted by Lev
I think the time when you get tired of the one night stands

Not possible.

escorpio · 02-10-2003, 12:43 AM

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Originally posted by MetaMan
never!
womens goal once they hit over 20 is to trap any guy they can, stay away from the traps and stick to the hoes!

That's right! Whores RULE! Escorpio LOVES honest women!

KRL · 02-10-2003, 12:52 AM

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Originally posted by EscortBiz

what the headaches and bullshit that comes with being married

Escort you are soooooooo right on that!

headaches and bullshit. settling down is a major trap. The only good thing, and I do mean the only good thing, is creating your children. I've settled down twice and trust me, it is not going to be like you think its going to be.

If you decide to settle down I suggest investing in a good body armor suit, you're going to need it.

KRL · 02-10-2003, 12:54 AM

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Originally posted by angelsofporn
Every relationship i've ever had has been ruined by the fact that business and goals have always come before them. I'm married now and it's still that way for the most part. I am a 24 hour a day workaholic..they love having the cash but dont like the hours it takes to be VERY successful

This is also totally true. Women want everything, but don't like when a guy works hard at their biz. Now I agree, men make biz their 2nd wives, and the women can't handle the biz (wife) getting so much attention which is understandable.

AOLGuy · 02-10-2003, 06:15 PM

I need to decide when enough is enough and just give in for the long haul.

That sucks though, to view it as surrender...

Maybe when you meet the right person, there is no question...

But so far, it always ends...

Cheshire · 02-10-2003, 06:28 PM

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Originally posted by escorpio
I'm going to settle down around 75. Into the fucking ground.

I agree ~ but 75 is WAY too young.

Scootermuze · 02-10-2003, 07:50 PM

It's normally time to settle down when you find the person that you want to spend your life with.. and are willing to make certain sacrafices for that person..

Never go looking for someone to settle down with simply because you think it's time to settle.. You'll start seeing things in a person that aren't really there just to satisfy your need to think she's the 'right one'..

If you're ok with life and havin fun the way things are.. I wouldn't worry about it..
Actually, you're probably doin it the right way.. and one day, she'll happen.. and you'll know..

Rochard · 02-10-2003, 07:54 PM

60 years old - And not a moment sooner.

Okay, I'm 34. I got married some three or four years ago; I've been with my wife for ten years now. I wouldn't change a thing. We have a great life, and a wonderful two year old daughter.

Life is good.

When it's time you'll know.

haggard · 02-10-2003, 08:11 PM

you settle down and your life and very existence will cease to exist. i don't know why people like it and do it but it's the damn truth.

'you want the truth? you can't handle the truth!'

02-09-2003, 06:46 PM	#1
bogo Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 1,982	whats a good age for a guy to settle down? im just curious,how old were you when you tied the not?Im 34 and, im still meeting women and having fun,but i know someday the fun will stop.Did i miss the boat? Last edited by bogo; 02-09-2003 at 07:01 PM..

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02-09-2003, 07:12 PM	#15
quiet we'll miss you our friend. RIP Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Fernie, BC Posts: 25,115	i'm way too busy to even have a steady girlfriend. in fact, i fucked up my last serious relationship simply due to the fact that i'm extremely driven and ambitious - achieving (business) goals has been number one in my life for so long that i really don't remember any different. damn that's fucked. __________________ we'll miss you our friend. RIP

02-09-2003, 07:26 PM	#19
Filter Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 457	well I'm 25 but apparently the time for me was 4 years ago when my daughter dropped by ;) so 21 is as good as any if you get an angel like that __________________ Get your site reviewed at pornliving.com

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PerfectionGirls Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: MI Posts: 4,484	I'm about ready now... I'm a month away from 40. __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60.

02-09-2003, 06:48 PM	#2
Pipecrew Master of Gfy.com Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 14,887	you need a time machine, 28 is the age

02-09-2003, 06:49 PM	#3
xdcdave Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: North East Posts: 1,911	there is no right age.. you're ready when you're ready.. i know plenty of 60 year old's that are still big pimpin and loving it but i'm 22, settled down, and happy just my laterz, dave

02-09-2003, 06:50 PM	#5
Eric's Nuts Registered User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Compton Posts: 207	NEVER

02-09-2003, 06:52 PM	#6
G Sharp So Fucking Banned Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,343	I've thought about this for quite a while,too. The answer that I realized was right for me is that --there is NO set age to settle down. You have to set schedules based on your own personal growth and preparedness. Another thing that is true: Rushing into these lifelong responsibilities unprepared will be unfair both to the person to be supported/partner for life and myself. Compassion and selflessness are the keys to becoming a great father and truly understanding/loving/accepting husband/partner.

02-09-2003, 07:03 PM	#13
Joe Sixpack So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Australia Posts: 3,793	Marriage is for pussy whipped losers.

02-09-2003, 07:14 PM	#16
Plugger Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: North Coast Posts: 592	I was 23

02-09-2003, 07:17 PM	#17
Danny_C Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Philadelphia, PA Posts: 2,160	I'm perfectly happy as a "settled down" guy at 27... assuming I fit your definition of settled down. I'm married and have a kid, at least.

02-09-2003, 07:20 PM	#18
galleryseek Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 8,234	i wish i had the mentality that marriage is for pussies. i have way too much of a problem with dating multiple girls cause i know they're off fuckin other guys. and idealy, i want them only fucking ME. but realistically, thats not how it is. so knowing this, i'd get very pissed and treat um like shit and they basically end up hating me while i hate them cause they're dirty whore ass bitch sluts. thank you.

02-09-2003, 07:43 PM	#20
bogo Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 1,982	what kills me, is that i know more divorced people than "happily Married"

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02-09-2003, 08:16 PM	#27
sandz Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Australia Posts: 100	I was going out with this girl last year for around 10 months and SHE asked me to marry her.. was very surprising considering she was only 17, I was 19 and really hadn't even contemplated the idea until then.. needless to say when my answer was no, a few weeks later we broke up and that was that. A sidenote.. she's now screwing different guys week after week I hear from her friends, so kinda glad I got out of it when I did __________________ ICQ: 333951773 <I>Come talk to me and see what JuicyBucks can do for you</I> <a href="http://www.juicybucks.com"><img src="http://snatchden.juicyhoes.com/bj_230x33_01.gif" border=0></a>

02-09-2003, 09:03 PM	#28
Wilbo Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Baltimore Posts: 2,082	I was 40 when I got married ( 42 now ), I shoulda waited another 40

02-09-2003, 09:34 PM	#32
candyflip Carpe Visio Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: New York Posts: 43,064	My girl keeps telling me that the best time to settle down is right now. __________________ Spend you some brain. Email Me

02-09-2003, 09:41 PM	#33
escorpio I love to racism, bro! Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: USA! USA! USA! Posts: 23,197	I'm going to settle down around 75. Into the fucking ground. __________________ Unvaxxed, still alive.

02-09-2003, 10:09 PM	#35
Peaches Old broad Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Away Posts: 13,933	I told my son (who's 19) not to even THINK about it until he's at least in his 30's. Then, and only then if he thinks it's the right one. But I hope he's realized that through the years, he's found "the right one" enough times to know he's clueless as to what he really wants, lol! I'm glad I had him early, because now I can have my private time, but I wish I had waited to get married. You do NOT know what you want or even who you are for such a long time. I'm in my 40's and I STILL don't know what I want To settle down just to settle down is one of the most common and biggest mistakes I see people of ANY age make. It's not a bad thing to be alone.

02-09-2003, 10:23 PM	#36
Snake Doctor I'm Lenny2 Bitch Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: On top of my soapbox Posts: 13,449	By settle down I assume you mean get married?? I don't think I'm going to get married, I'm just going to find a woman I can't stand and give her my house __________________ sig too big

02-09-2003, 10:37 PM	#37
tawm Registered User Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 3	i agree on a lot of things with you guys. i'm 20 now... lots of friends of mine (same age) already have the same partner for years and years and are living together... damn, i just don't understand them - aren't you supposed to enjoy your freedom and explore life's possibilities when you're 20?!?! i just cannot make them understand they are throwing away a huge part of their life... man, they haven't even have had a few party-years -- like i'm doing right now, just uncomplicated party and doing whatever i want (+ some study ) whole week long... i think a person needs a couple of those years to find out what he wants in life. the friends i'm talking about had their first or second girlfriend/boyfriend when they were 17, left highschool at 18, worked their ass out in college for 2 years and now live together with their 3-year-relationship, as if they're both 40 already... damn, i bet in 10 years they'll be regretting their ass out... and quiet, your story ressembles mine 200%... i'm having relationships all the time but they never last longer than a few months, because: - i don't want a 'solid' relationship, i think i don't even can do it right now... the girl gets on my nerves when i see her too often... problem is that most of the time the girl wants to be around/hug/talk to me 24/7 and gets angry when i say 2 nights per week is the max for me. - achieving business goals and study have always been number one and i don't see that change... my business simply does more to me than my girl - ok, i don't tell my girl that in these words but i know it's the truth... you can call me whatever you want but the more time i spend working on my business, the more i get hooked by it... the more time i spend on my girl the more i get annoyed by it... Last edited by tawm; 02-09-2003 at 10:47 PM..

02-09-2003, 10:42 PM	#38
angelsofporn Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: CA Posts: 3,218	Every relationship i've ever had has been ruined by the fact that business and goals have always come before them. I'm married now and it's still that way for the most part. I am a 24 hour a day workaholic..they love having the cash but dont like the hours it takes to be VERY successful

02-09-2003, 11:20 PM	#39
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	never! womens goal once they hit over 20 is to trap any guy they can, stay away from the traps and stick to the hoes!

02-09-2003, 11:25 PM	#40
Voodoo ♥ ♦ ♣ ♠ Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 10,592	Settle down when you're done having fun. __________________ "I'm selflessly supporting the common good, but only coincidentally looking out for No.1."

02-09-2003, 11:27 PM	#41
Lev Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 3,545	I think the time when you get tired of the one night stands

02-10-2003, 06:15 PM	#46
AOLGuy Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Nebraska Posts: 1,261	I need to decide when enough is enough and just give in for the long haul. That sucks though, to view it as surrender... Maybe when you meet the right person, there is no question... But so far, it always ends...

02-10-2003, 07:50 PM	#48
Scootermuze Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 4,513	It's normally time to settle down when you find the person that you want to spend your life with.. and are willing to make certain sacrafices for that person.. Never go looking for someone to settle down with simply because you think it's time to settle.. You'll start seeing things in a person that aren't really there just to satisfy your need to think she's the 'right one'.. If you're ok with life and havin fun the way things are.. I wouldn't worry about it.. Actually, you're probably doin it the right way.. and one day, she'll happen.. and you'll know..

02-10-2003, 07:54 PM	#49
Rochard Jägermeister Test Pilot Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: NORCAL Posts: 74,324	60 years old - And not a moment sooner. Okay, I'm 34. I got married some three or four years ago; I've been with my wife for ten years now. I wouldn't change a thing. We have a great life, and a wonderful two year old daughter. Life is good. When it's time you'll know. __________________ “The choice is no longer between right or left. The choice is between normal and crazy.” - Sarah Huckabee Sanders YNOT MAIL \| THE BEST ADULT MAILING SOLUTION

02-10-2003, 08:11 PM	#50
haggard Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Hawaii Posts: 469	you settle down and your life and very existence will cease to exist. i don't know why people like it and do it but it's the damn truth. 'you want the truth? you can't handle the truth!' __________________ <img src="http://home.hawaii.rr.com/hobble/robman2.jpg"> the bossman cometh...