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  • KaliC
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    • Jan 2005
    • 617

    #1

    Anyone date a bar tender?

    I'm not sure if I am supposed to visit her to keep her company, or give her space so she doesn't think I am checking up on her.
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  • porno jew
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    • Nov 2006
    • 10166

    #2
    don't sit there all day. stalkerish and annoying.

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    • L-Pink
      working on my tan
      • Mar 2005
      • 39151

      #3
      You shouldn't interrupt her at work where she is getting hit-on by 75% of the customers.

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      • papill0n
        Unregistered Abuser
        • Oct 2007
        • 15547

        #4
        depends if shes giving you free drinks or not

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        • mikesouth
          Confirmed User
          • Jun 2003
          • 6334

          #5
          As a bar owner....let her do her fucking job.

          you hanging around fucks with her tips too....do you want her hanging around all day at your job?
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          • baryl
            Confirmed User
            • Aug 2011
            • 1086

            #6
            I did and never went to her work. Good part was being her test subject at home for trying out drink recipes

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            • Socks
              Confirmed User
              • May 2002
              • 8475

              #7
              Naw dem bar tenders will fuck you up!

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              • bronco67
                Too lazy to set a custom title
                • Dec 2006
                • 29032

                #8
                are you sure you're dating her? You should probably check to see if she knows who you are.

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                • Chosen
                  • Aug 2001
                  • 63151

                  #9
                  I didn't

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                  • facialfreak
                    Confirmed User
                    • Feb 2005
                    • 3018

                    #10
                    Yep .... been there and done that.

                    DO NOT just happen to be "in the neighborhood" and drop in .. that makes you look like you don't trust her and are checking up on her.

                    If you are the jealous type, then I suggest you find a girl who does not work in a bar.

                    I only went to "keep her company" if and when she called me and asked me to come by ... if it was a really slow/dead night.

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                      • Nov 2003
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                      #11
                      Originally posted by L-Pink
                      You shouldn't interrupt her at work where she is getting hit-on by 75% of the customers.

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                      • DBS.US
                        Geo Cities
                        • Aug 2003
                        • 11843

                        #12
                        She can tell her work mates: Yes, that's my boyfriend. He has nothing going on in his life besides me, so it allows him plenty of time to hang out and watch me work.
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                        • DK
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                          • Nov 2001
                          • 1273

                          #13
                          Go and order a bunch of drinks and shots, ring up a huge bill and don't tip her, hit on her co workers and random women in the bar and start a fight.

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                          • KaliC
                            Sexy Beast
                            • Jan 2005
                            • 617

                            #14
                            Originally posted by DK
                            Go and order a bunch of drinks and shots, ring up a huge bill and don't tip her, hit on her co workers and random women in the bar and start a fight.

                            Women love bad boys
                            Your awesome.

                            Yeah it was dead so I think the company was good for her. And I take care of her way more then any pigly extra dollar tips for her flirting.

                            Still feels weird, like I don't trust her. Fuck who knows, her friend said she likes it when I hang out, she feels safe.

                            I barely talk to her, I wait for her to talk to me usually. So far no bad vibes.

                            But I think we all know ladies can flip on a dime for no reason.
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                              #15
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                              • porno jew
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                                • Nov 2006
                                • 10166

                                #16
                                ha you are like every jealous creep bf that spends their whole day at their woman's place of work.

                                don't worry she will end up getting fired because you are there all day distracting her and drinking for free or you will get too jealous and end up fighting with her or one of the regulars. or you will make her quit because you can't handle the guys hitting on her all day. it will be over soon.

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                                • suesheboy
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                                  • Nov 2002
                                  • 5211

                                  #17
                                  Would never date a bartender, stripper or porn star.

                                  Couldn't pay me enough to deal with that kind of grief.
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                                  • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
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                                    • Jul 2004
                                    • 38323

                                    #18


                                    In the spirit of the day...

                                    How do you know that a female bartender is pissed off at you?

                                    There's a string hanging out of your Bloody Mary.

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                                    • beemk
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                                      • Jan 2002
                                      • 20829

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by KaliC
                                      Your awesome.

                                      Yeah it was dead so I think the company was good for her. And I take care of her way more then any pigly extra dollar tips for her flirting.

                                      Still feels weird, like I don't trust her. Fuck who knows, her friend said she likes it when I hang out, she feels safe.

                                      I barely talk to her, I wait for her to talk to me usually. So far no bad vibes.

                                      But I think we all know ladies can flip on a dime for no reason.
                                      You sound more like a insecure stalker than a boyfriend.
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                                      • bigluv
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                                        • Jul 2008
                                        • 850

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by beemk
                                        You sound more like a insecure stalker than a boyfriend.
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                                        • chaze
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Aug 2002
                                          • 9774

                                          #21
                                          At the end of the night you should always be there is she is working alone. If she is worried about you not letting her flirt then she is not the right girl for you. Her job is to make drinks and be friendly maybe even flirt a little, but it's not to let guys think they will have sex with her later if they tip enough.
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                                          • Rothstein
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                                            • Jan 2012
                                            • 682

                                            #22
                                            For every 10 customers that come in she will or has fucked 1 of them.

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                                            • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
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                                              • Jul 2004
                                              • 38323

                                              #23
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                                              • BlackCrayon
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                                                • Jun 2003
                                                • 19634

                                                #24
                                                chicks who work at bars are typically sluts. don't get emotinally involved. just try to get her to do whatever dirty perverted things you crave and don't sweat it when you find out how many guys she went home with after closing.
                                                you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

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                                                • garce
                                                  Confirmed User
                                                  • Oct 2001
                                                  • 7103

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by mikesouth
                                                  As a bar owner....let her do her fucking job.

                                                  you hanging around fucks with her tips too....do you want her hanging around all day at your job?
                                                  Har har... Over the last 30 plus years I've learned (ok, it took about a week...) that bartenders are lonelier and less self-confidant than most strippers.

                                                  After spending over twenty years on the road: Bartenders are target #1. Waitresses were target #2. Strippers were last ditch, but always available. Funny how easy things work out when your employer slaps all his contract employees into a single block of rooms.

                                                  If you think your bartender is not an emotional train wreck who'll crawl into the arms of any man she can call "daddy":

                                                  1) You lucked out (doubt it).
                                                  2) You're blind.
                                                  3) You want to hit it yourself but you can't because she's getting paid by you.
                                                  4) She's your wife.

                                                  Bartenders tend to be more emotionally fucked up than the Meth whores they scrape off the streets of Vancouver.

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                                                  • Fap
                                                    Just Du It
                                                    • Feb 2004
                                                    • 12094

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by DK
                                                    Go and order a bunch of drinks and shots, ring up a huge bill and don't tip her, hit on her co workers and random women in the bar and start a fight.

                                                    Women love bad boys
                                                    what he said.

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                                                    • garce
                                                      Confirmed User
                                                      • Oct 2001
                                                      • 7103

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by mikesouth
                                                      As a bar owner....let her do her fucking job.

                                                      you hanging around fucks with her tips too....do you want her hanging around all day at your job?
                                                      I apologize for doing this again:

                                                      Her job is to keep creeps like this guy AT THE BAR. Flirt with him, be pleasant, get him to buy drinks.

                                                      If some guy thinks that a bartender is sweet on him, its only because she flashed a smile and sold him another drink.

                                                      Odds are a HUGE chunk of your customers think that your bartender wants them to fuck her. Its her JOB to create that impression. Smile. Wink. Serve drinks. Listen. Nod. Smile. Serve drinks.

                                                      She doesn't lose tips by having guys hanging out at the bar all day. SHE MAKES TIPS by having guys hand around the bar all day.

                                                      You think your bartender should tell anyone who is a little creepy to fuck off? That's what the cops are for. They make people fuck off. Your bartender is there to be a flirtatious little minx, and make you money from the selling of alcoholic beverages.

                                                      If you dump on this guy, you don't deserve to own a bar. Your bartender is a pseudo-whore out to make you money; for you and her. She might not fuck or suck cock, but you are still pimping here out.

                                                      Sexy bitch behind the bar. Regular customer base. Cash. If things get creepy, call the cops.

                                                      I can go on for hours. Seems like you got a boner for your bartender and a wife at home.
                                                      Last edited by garce; 04-01-2012, 03:08 PM.

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                                                      • VladS
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                                                        • Jun 2008
                                                        • 1459

                                                        #28
                                                        Don't associate yourself with the job, any job, let her have the space.
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                                                        • Spunky
                                                          I need a beer
                                                          • Jun 2002
                                                          • 133986

                                                          #29
                                                          I did once,it lasted for about a month.she was too much of a party girl

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                                                          • mikesouth
                                                            Confirmed User
                                                            • Jun 2003
                                                            • 6334

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by garce
                                                            I apologize for doing this again:

                                                            Her job is to keep creeps like this guy AT THE BAR. Flirt with him, be pleasant, get him to buy drinks.

                                                            If some guy thinks that a bartender is sweet on him, its only because she flashed a smile and sold him another drink.

                                                            Odds are a HUGE chunk of your customers think that your bartender wants them to fuck her. Its her JOB to create that impression. Smile. Wink. Serve drinks. Listen. Nod. Smile. Serve drinks.

                                                            She doesn't lose tips by having guys hanging out at the bar all day. SHE MAKES TIPS by having guys hand around the bar all day.

                                                            You think your bartender should tell anyone who is a little creepy to fuck off? That's what the cops are for. They make people fuck off. Your bartender is there to be a flirtatious little minx, and make you money from the selling of alcoholic beverages.

                                                            If you dump on this guy, you don't deserve to own a bar. Your bartender is a pseudo-whore out to make you money; for you and her. She might not fuck or suck cock, but you are still pimping here out.

                                                            Sexy bitch behind the bar. Regular customer base. Cash. If things get creepy, call the cops.

                                                            I can go on for hours. Seems like you got a boner for your bartender and a wife at home.
                                                            never owned a bar have you?
                                                            Mike South

                                                            It's No wonder I took up drugs and alcohol, it's the only way I could dumb myself down enough to cope with the morons in this biz.

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                                                            • kane
                                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                              • Aug 2001
                                                              • 20684

                                                              #31
                                                              I never have, but a friend of mine did. It didn't last too long because she was very good looking and got hit on a lot at work. She was a cool chick and knew how to brush it off. I doubt she ever cheated on him, but he got consumed with it and wasn't able to handle it.

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                                                              • WiredGuy
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                                                                • Aug 2002
                                                                • 34512

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by KaliC
                                                                I barely talk to her, I wait for her to talk to me usually.
                                                                That sounds to me like she doesn't want you to be there...
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                                                                • LeRoy
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                                                                  • Jul 2007
                                                                  • 13364

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Done a couple but you know... timing is a bitch.

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                                                                  • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
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                                                                    • Jul 2004
                                                                    • 38323

                                                                    #34


                                                                    There are some cute budtenders at a few of the cannabis collectives that I frequent.

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                                                                    • MattPIVO
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                                                                      • Feb 2012
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Just don't be that guy at the end of the bar who walks up to every guy that hits on his GF drunk as all hell telling them not to hit on her.


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                                                                      • Phoenix
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                                                                        • Nov 2002
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        you only rent a bartender
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                                                                        • stephane76
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                                                                          • Aug 2004
                                                                          • 3892

                                                                          #37
                                                                          I have dated a couple bartenders
                                                                          Don't stop by her work unless she offers...
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                                                                          • LeRoy
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                                                                            • Jul 2007
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude


                                                                            There are some cute budtenders at a few of the cannabis collectives that I frequent.

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                                                                            • MarkDeus
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                                                                              • Oct 2011
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              she probably fucks the busboy in secret. Leave dat shit
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                                                                              • Zoxxa
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                                                                                #40
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                                                                                • Rochard
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                                                                                  • Dec 2001
                                                                                  • 75733

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  I was a bar tender, I wank off three times daily. Does that count?
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                                                                                  • travs
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                                                                                    • Jul 2003
                                                                                    • 1631

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    don't look at the bartenders straight in the eyes...they've got good jedi mind tricks

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