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Old 02-07-2003, 02:46 PM   #1
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Monogamy vs multiple partners

I'm kinda curious as to what the thoughts of pornographers on this subject are. One would expect more liberal views than are encountered among the general public, but speaking for myself, since starting working porn I have gone from multiple partners at all times to complete monogamy. For some reason, sex with as many women as possible has become less attractive than before I started doing this work.

Any thoughts?
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Old 02-07-2003, 02:51 PM   #2
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stats from socieology studies 10 years ago when I was in colllege say that the average man has slept with 9 women in his lifetime and the average women has slept with 3 men. I think they are both lying as the numbers should be the same...........
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Old 02-07-2003, 03:02 PM   #3
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stats from socieology studies 10 years ago when I was in colllege say that the average man has slept with 9 women in his lifetime and the average women has slept with 3 men. I think they are both lying as the numbers should be the same...........
That's from a survey, and it just shows what men vs women say when asked about it
It'll be around 7 most likely
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Old 02-07-2003, 03:05 PM   #4
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Me and maching are 100% monogamous
The whole casual sex, mulitple partenrs isn't for us.

But to each his own.
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Old 02-07-2003, 03:07 PM   #5
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im surprised to see you feel like that. Personally i have gone the complete opposite, now that its been a while working in porn, i just cant get enjoyment out of "sex" with one partner.

Now i need "fucking" and there must always be multiple woment in my life.

Currently i have about 5 i can "call" on anytime, and id say i make my rounds twice a week.

As far as my stats, lol ... i havent counted (honestly) but id say about 25-35 different women.

Im only 25 now so i think that will change as i get older.

However most of the women i see, have had less than 10 partners in their lifetime (or so they tell)
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Old 02-07-2003, 03:30 PM   #6
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Old 02-07-2003, 03:33 PM   #7
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Always tell girls this number: 6.
Even if the number is closer to 6666666
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Old 02-07-2003, 03:44 PM   #8
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I've been polyamorous for years, long before I ever got into porn.

If you want to know what I mean by poly, google for polyamory or responsible nonmonogamy. I'm not talking about swinging, or cheating. When I say responsible, I mean that everyone in my cirlce of lovers is expected to stay honest, be careful about safer sex with casual fucks, and be responsible about telling other partners that they are seeing me and anyone else they may be involved with.

At the moment I have three partners: one committed male partner, whom I am legally married to; a committed female partner, whom I will be having a commitment ceremony with; and a casual "fuck-buddy" female partner.
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Old 02-07-2003, 03:45 PM   #9
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stats from socieology studies 10 years ago when I was in colllege say that the average man has slept with 9 women in his lifetime and the average women has slept with 3 men. I think they are both lying as the numbers should be the same...........
Depends on whether they mean the median average, mean average, or mode average.
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Old 02-07-2003, 03:51 PM   #10
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Me and maching are 100% monogamous
The whole casual sex, mulitple partenrs isn't for us.

But to each his own.
or so he tells you...........
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Old 02-07-2003, 03:53 PM   #11
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I've been polyamorous for years, long before I ever got into porn.

If you want to know what I mean by poly, google for polyamory or responsible nonmonogamy. I'm not talking about swinging, or cheating. When I say responsible, I mean that everyone in my cirlce of lovers is expected to stay honest, be careful about safer sex with casual fucks, and be responsible about telling other partners that they are seeing me and anyone else they may be involved with.

At the moment I have three partners: one committed male partner, whom I am legally married to; a committed female partner, whom I will be having a commitment ceremony with; and a casual "fuck-buddy" female partner.
In other words, you have a harem? Kewl
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Old 02-07-2003, 04:29 PM   #12
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or so he tells you...........
So he shows me
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Old 02-07-2003, 04:30 PM   #13
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So he shows me

men can act very different when prying eyes arn't on them...........
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Old 02-07-2003, 06:15 PM   #14
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I need to get myself a harem...

Fuck, I should just move into a bigger place, put some models on staff to work for me... be selective, shoot them all, shoot with some, and make some killer sites.

Then, of course, film the entire process and package it as a kick ass reality show.

"The Harem," this summer on Fox.
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Old 02-07-2003, 06:41 PM   #15
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In theory, I am poly-fi. What that means to me is that I would have sex with more than one person, but only within a committed relationship between all parties. Makes it a little harder to achieve, obviously.
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Old 02-07-2003, 06:47 PM   #16
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In theory, I am poly-fi. What that means to me is that I would have sex with more than one person, but only within a committed relationship between all parties. Makes it a little harder to achieve, obviously.
So in other words, you'd like to have a harem?
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Old 02-07-2003, 06:47 PM   #17
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My last relationship was open with extensive swinging.
My current relationship is monogomous. And sometimes it's tough...I feel like I intentionally turn town my libido sometimes.
I'm not sure if the monogomy is more difficult due to being in this industry.

Of course, I also used to masturbate on webcam alot more, too.
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We have been swinging for four years and we found it keeps our relationship fresh. Also it made us communicate at a much higher level, which is a must in a swinging life style.
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Old 02-07-2003, 08:33 PM   #19
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So in other words, you'd like to have a harem?
Yeah, that's the ideal. Though we intend to share... So not quite a harem, really. I would just rather be in a triad than a couple, given the chance.
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Old 02-08-2003, 02:36 AM   #20
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I have a bi ex--her with girls was cool, she didn't want to be with guys.

Of course, she left me for a girl and now is a lesbian.

A girl I like with guys threatens me more... more intimidating...

Of course, I am a hypocrite.
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