It sucks being a "chubby chaser"

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  • digitaldivas
    ..I Heart Cannibal Corpse
    • Sep 2007
    • 4328

    #1

    It sucks being a "chubby chaser"

    Due to ravaged self esteems and self loathing, it's usually harder to connect with these women. Harder than skinny or athletic women, actually, imho.

    And I blurt stupid shit out sometimes when I'm nervous, like
    "i'm going to go home and masturbate and think about you"
    or
    "i love voluptuous women because they sweat more and oh, btw, i have a foot fetish

    ...I would think that these tawdry little comments would at least endear me to them in some way, or...
    ...
  • L-Pink
    working on my tan
    • Mar 2005
    • 39151

    #2
    Try inviting them to all-you-can-eat restaurants. Works every time ....... I hear.

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    • digitaldivas
      ..I Heart Cannibal Corpse
      • Sep 2007
      • 4328

      #3
      lol, L. I just feel really comfortable with that body type, but it's hard. Throw in adult industry for my job and they go a runnin'
      ...

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      • BIGTYMER
        Junior Achiever
        • Nov 2004
        • 17066

        #4
        Sweat more? Yuck...

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        • digitaldivas
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          • Sep 2007
          • 4328

          #5
          I know Bigtymer, ... i know. blah
          ...

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          • DaddyHalbucks
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            • Feb 2004
            • 18975

            #6
            Boner Money

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            • Spunky
              I need a beer
              • Jun 2002
              • 133986

              #7
              They should be grateful somebody talks to them

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              • martinsc
                Too lazy to set a custom title
                • Jun 2005
                • 27047

                #8
                Originally posted by DaddyHalbucks
                Make Money

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                • BIGTYMER
                  Junior Achiever
                  • Nov 2004
                  • 17066

                  #9
                  Originally posted by digitaldivas
                  I know Bigtymer, ... i know. blah
                  It's ok. We all have our own likes. Luckily you don't have a balloon fetish.

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                  • Tofu
                    The Video Specialist
                    • Jul 2003
                    • 5615

                    #10
                    Are you serious? I STAY fucking fat girls, the sexy ones, too. If you have swag, style and charisma, any fat girl is going to roll her panties down for you. If she smells any hint of insecurity or low self esteem on you, the panties are up and she's out of the door (same as any other woman).

                    You may laugh, but I speak the truth. Ask around.
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                    • SomeCreep
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                      • Mar 2003
                      • 26118

                      #11
                      Skinny girls always be hatin' on fat chicks, but it's been my experience, that the voluptuous chubby chicks are the ones who are always taken and the skinny girls are the ones who are always single.

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                      • digitaldivas
                        ..I Heart Cannibal Corpse
                        • Sep 2007
                        • 4328

                        #12
                        Originally posted by SomeCreep
                        Skinny girls always be hatin' on fat chicks, but it's been my experience, that the voluptuous chubby chicks are the ones who are always taken and the skinny girls are the ones who are always single.
                        hmm, never thought about it that way.
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                        • digitaldivas
                          ..I Heart Cannibal Corpse
                          • Sep 2007
                          • 4328

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Tofu_Fleshlight
                          Are you serious? I STAY fucking fat girls, the sexy ones, too. If you have swag, style and charisma, any fat girl is going to roll her panties down for you. If she smells any hint of insecurity or low self esteem on you, the panties are up and she's out of the door (same as any other woman).

                          You may laugh, but I speak the truth. Ask around.
                          <- they modeled this emoticon after me.
                          yeah i like the pretty ones that are just super naturally busty. My sizes i date are 12-18, depending on... there are some ridiculously beautiful voluptuous women out there... sigh
                          Last edited by digitaldivas; 09-29-2011, 11:38 PM.
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                          • digitaldivas
                            ..I Heart Cannibal Corpse
                            • Sep 2007
                            • 4328

                            #14
                            Originally posted by BIGTYMER
                            It's ok. We all have our own likes. Luckily you don't have a balloon fetish.
                            oh man, lol
                            ...

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                            • digitaldivas
                              ..I Heart Cannibal Corpse
                              • Sep 2007
                              • 4328

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Spunky
                              They should be grateful somebody talks to them
                              how you been, spunky?
                              ...

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                              • iamlili
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                                • Sep 2011
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                                #16
                                You like really fat or slightly chubby? To me it's different things fat is ugly, chubby is cute and can be sexy

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                                • Sarah_Jayne
                                  Now with more Jayne
                                  • Dec 2002
                                  • 40077

                                  #17
                                  As a fat girl that knows FAs exist, I will admit that I make somebody work a bit harder to show me they really are into big girls rather than just going for an easy lay. However, I promise that once I believe, I make it worth the effort.

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                                  • PR_Glen
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                                    • Oct 2006
                                    • 9058

                                    #18
                                    voluptuous means sexy or sensual... it doesn't mean chubby or fat...
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                                    • Sarah_Jayne
                                      Now with more Jayne
                                      • Dec 2002
                                      • 40077

                                      #19
                                      Wether chubby or fat means sexy or sensual is totally down to the individual who is judging. Yay for diversity.

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                                      • spazlabz
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Jul 2003
                                        • 6548

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Sarah_Fleshlight
                                        As a fat girl that knows FAs exist, I will admit that I make somebody work a bit harder to show me they really are into big girls rather than just going for an easy lay. However, I promise that once I believe, I make it worth the effort.
                                        I've loved plus size girls my entire life and find that the ones who have the same attitude as you are incredibly fun to be around. Not just sexually, they generally have really good personalities and I enjoy spending time with them.

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                                        • Sarah_Jayne
                                          Now with more Jayne
                                          • Dec 2002
                                          • 40077

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by spazlabz
                                          I've loved plus size girls my entire life and find that the ones who have the same attitude as you are incredibly fun to be around. Not just sexually, they generally have really good personalities and I enjoy spending time with them.
                                          Honey, you have never made a secret of liking big girls. We have known each other online for ages and you have always flown that flag. I hope we get to meet sometime.

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                                          • PR_Glen
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                                            • Oct 2006
                                            • 9058

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by Sarah_Fleshlight
                                            Wether chubby or fat means sexy or sensual is totally down to the individual who is judging. Yay for diversity.
                                            Chubby or fat means exactly that, whether it is voluptuous or not is up to the persons opinion. The word itself has zero connotation of the the terms fat or chubby, it only means sexy or sensual, people use it wrong all the time. Yay for english.
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                                            • Tofu
                                              The Video Specialist
                                              • Jul 2003
                                              • 5615

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by spazlabz
                                              I've loved plus size girls my entire life and find that the ones who have the same attitude as you are incredibly fun to be around. Not just sexually, they generally have really good personalities and I enjoy spending time with them.
                                              I totally agree with this! Fat girls are fun to kick it with, especially at big girl functions.
                                              I love surrounding myself with beautiful fat women. They make good friends (most of them, anyway..).
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                                              • Sarah_Jayne
                                                Now with more Jayne
                                                • Dec 2002
                                                • 40077

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by PR_Glen
                                                Chubby or fat means exactly that, whether it is voluptuous or not is up to the persons opinion. The word itself has zero connotation of the the terms fat or chubby, it only means sexy or sensual, people use it wrong all the time. Yay for english.
                                                I am not arguing against your point. Using words correctly is an important thing. I just also think that even when used in the sense you are saying is correct, it *can* still apply.

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                                                • alias
                                                  aliasx
                                                  • Apr 2001
                                                  • 19010

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by PR_Glen
                                                  Chubby or fat means exactly that, whether it is voluptuous or not is up to the persons opinion. The word itself has zero connotation of the the terms fat or chubby, it only means sexy or sensual, people use it wrong all the time. Yay for english.
                                                  This^.

                                                  vo·lup·tu·ous   [vuh-luhp-choo-uhs]
                                                  adjective
                                                  1.
                                                  full of, characterized by, or ministering to indulgence in luxury, pleasure, and sensuous enjoyment: a voluptuous life.
                                                  2.
                                                  derived from gratification of the senses: voluptuous pleasure.
                                                  3.
                                                  directed toward or concerned with sensuous enjoyment or sensual pleasure: voluptuous desires.
                                                  4.
                                                  sensuously pleasing or delightful: voluptuous beauty.
                                                  Origin:
                                                  1325?75; Middle English < Latin voluptuōsus, equivalent to volupt ( ās ) pleasure + -ōsus -ous; -u- probably by association with sumptuōsus sumptuous
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                                                  • alias
                                                    aliasx
                                                    • Apr 2001
                                                    • 19010

                                                    #26
                                                    Fat chicks tried to steal the word, not gonna happen.
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                                                    • candyflip
                                                      Carpe Visio
                                                      • Jul 2002
                                                      • 43069

                                                      #27
                                                      As a lover of big girls I just thought I'd plant myself here for a bit.

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                                                      • raymor
                                                        Confirmed User
                                                        • Oct 2002
                                                        • 3745

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by digitaldivas
                                                        Due to ravaged self esteems and self loathing, it's usually harder to connect with these women. Harder than skinny or athletic women, actually, imho.

                                                        And I blurt stupid shit out sometimes when I'm nervous, like
                                                        "i'm going to go home and masturbate and think about you"
                                                        or
                                                        "i love voluptuous women because they sweat more and oh, btw, i have a foot fetish

                                                        ...I would think that these tawdry little comments would at least endear me to them in some way, or...
                                                        Would you say stupid shit like that to me or any person other than a date? Here's a suggestion from an ugly nerd who nevertheless managed to hook up with a lot of hot women. Attractive women are people. Just talk to them like any other person who is interesting to talk to. If you get mega horny on a date, masturbate two or three times before the date so that you no longer really care. Get used to talking to people by saying something to all the women around you - in line at the grocery store, your waitress, etc. Young women, old women, hot women, ugly women - talk to them all just to get REALLY comfortable talking to women. (Being careful what you say to young women who are underage of course.)
                                                        A joke about a situation or complimenting their jewelry is normally good. A lot of jewelry has a story attached, so asking where they found such an interesting piece is a conversation starter.

                                                        Once you becomed accustomed to such chit chat you won't "blurt out stupid stuff" any more. I'm a really funny looking geek, but I found that even super hot women enjoyed taking to me when I relaxed and just chatted with them much like I would my brother, and LISTENED to what they had to say.

                                                        Once you're at that point, my experience is that people with lower self esteem crave the attention and company. A woman who never really thought she was attractive will do anything to hear you say that she is. Don't get into "fat fetish", "I like black girls" or "tiny tits are hot". Tell them you like THEM - and mean it. (Yeah that means listening to learn what's attractive about them besides their boobs.) You can absolutely connect with anyone in the world if you truly appreciate what's important to them.

                                                        Just the opinion of one ugly nerd former player with a hot young wife.
                                                        Last edited by raymor; 09-30-2011, 05:39 AM.
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                                                        • rogueteens
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                                                          • Jul 2006
                                                          • 8005

                                                          #29
                                                          I suppose that the good thing about being a Chubby Chaser is that you don't have to run so fast?
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                                                          • L-Pink
                                                            working on my tan
                                                            • Mar 2005
                                                            • 39151

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by rogueteens
                                                            I suppose that the good thing about being a Chubby Chaser is that you don't have to run so fast?
                                                            Oh man ...

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                                                            • brassmonkey
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                                                              • Sep 2005
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                                                              #31







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                                                              • pornguy
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                                                                • Mar 2003
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                                                                #32
                                                                Huge difference between Chubby and Fat.
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                                                                • Wizzo
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Whether skinny, chubby, or fat no woman wants to hear about her sweating in any fashion or that your running home to rub one out thinking about them...

                                                                  Sounds like your problem is the approach and not who your approaching...
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                                                                  • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                    Now with more Jayne
                                                                    • Dec 2002
                                                                    • 40077

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by candyflip
                                                                    As a lover of big girls I just thought I'd plant myself here for a bit.
                                                                    I was waiting for you to show up so the party could properly start.

                                                                    Shall we dance?
                                                                    Last edited by Sarah_Jayne; 09-30-2011, 07:39 AM.

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                                                                    • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                      Now with more Jayne
                                                                      • Dec 2002
                                                                      • 40077

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by raymor
                                                                      Attractive women are people.
                                                                      *claps* The line of the thread for me.

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                                                                      • Sophie Delancey
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                                                                        • Jun 2011
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by Wizzo
                                                                        Whether skinny, chubby, or fat no woman wants to hear about her sweating in any fashion or that your running home to rub one out thinking about them...

                                                                        Sounds like your problem is the approach and not who your approaching...
                                                                        Exactly. As someone on the bigger side of average/smaller side of plus size, I would feel like shit if someone talked to me that way. Just treat any woman (any person, really) like a human being. And don't refer to yourself as a chubby chaser or talk about how much you like big women. Most women don't want to be fetishized. Show that you like her body by just enjoying it and by giving the occasional generic "You look so great in that dress." kind of compliment. No need to go into rolls or big thighs or sweat or whatever, because it is more likely to make her seize up than put her in the mood.
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                                                                        • candyflip
                                                                          Carpe Visio
                                                                          • Jul 2002
                                                                          • 43069

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by Sarah_Fleshlight
                                                                          I was waiting for you to show up so the party could properly start.

                                                                          Shall we dance?
                                                                          Do you even have to ask?

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                                                                          • CaptainHowdy
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                                                                            • Dec 2004
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            I like my women women ...

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                                                                            • BruceM
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                                                                              • Jul 2001
                                                                              • 4084

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by rogueteens
                                                                              I suppose that the good thing about being a Chubby Chaser is that you don't have to run so fast?
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                                                                              • Vendzilla
                                                                                Biker Gnome
                                                                                • Mar 2004
                                                                                • 23200

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Well I've been a slut for many years, I like all women, they all have their gifts. For me it's all about three things, passion, unselfishness and not on any antidepressants. I can work with the rest.
                                                                                Carbon is not the problem, it makes up 0.041% of our atmosphere , 95% of that is from Volcanos and decomposing plants and stuff. So people in the US are responsible for 13% of the carbon in the atmosphere which 95% is not from Humans, like cars and trucks and stuff and they want to spend trillions to fix it while Solar Panel plants are powered by coal plants
                                                                                think about that

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                                                                                • spazlabz
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                                                                                  • Jul 2003
                                                                                  • 6548

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by Sarah_Fleshlight
                                                                                  Honey, you have never made a secret of liking big girls. We have known each other online for ages and you have always flown that flag. I hope we get to meet sometime.
                                                                                  Yup, thats me, never shy about how much I like bigger girls. I am sure we'll meet at a show maybe next year. I've never gone but looking to pop my cherry on. I would love to buy ya a drink and shoot the shit for a few.

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                                                                                  • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                    Now with more Jayne
                                                                                    • Dec 2002
                                                                                    • 40077

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by candyflip
                                                                                    Do you even have to ask?
                                                                                    Well, it is always polite to ask but ...yeah

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                                                                                    • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                      Now with more Jayne
                                                                                      • Dec 2002
                                                                                      • 40077

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by Vendzilla
                                                                                      Well I've been a slut for many years, I like all women, they all have their gifts. For me it's all about three things, passion, unselfishness and not on any antidepressants. I can work with the rest.
                                                                                      Apparently, I am not allowed to fall in love with a man or a woman that isn't on anti-depressants. It just comes with being attracted to the sort of mental type I like. Congrats on finding the gold mine of women that aren't on them.

                                                                                      I hope your GF is enjoying having you back from the road

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                                                                                      • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                        Now with more Jayne
                                                                                        • Dec 2002
                                                                                        • 40077

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by spazlabz
                                                                                        Yup, thats me, never shy about how much I like bigger girls. I am sure we'll meet at a show maybe next year. I've never gone but looking to pop my cherry on. I would love to buy ya a drink and shoot the shit for a few.
                                                                                        Oh, come to one of them early in the year. If you have never been to any shows at all, I would suggest the Phx Forum. It is my favorite show of the year and very relaxed. I call it the porn industry company picnic.

                                                                                        I would certainly be sad if we didn't take time to drink and chat

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                                                                                        • LeRoy
                                                                                          Porn Pusher
                                                                                          • Jul 2007
                                                                                          • 13364

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Chubby girls are nice!

                                                                                          I dig em especially the vivacious galz. You know... the girls that know what they want.

                                                                                          and arent afraid to tell you how to sex em up

                                                                                          Hey is it just me or do chubby girls give the best BJ's?
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                                                                                          • jimmy-3-way
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                                                                                            • Jun 2001
                                                                                            • 3861

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by Sarah_Fleshlight
                                                                                            Oh, come to one of them early in the year. If you have never been to any shows at all, I would suggest the Phx Forum. It is my favorite show of the year and very relaxed. I call it the porn industry company picnic.

                                                                                            I would certainly be sad if we didn't take time to drink and chat


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                                                                                            • jimmy-3-way
                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                              • Jun 2001
                                                                                              • 3861

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by LeRoy
                                                                                              Chubby girls are nice!

                                                                                              I dig em especially the vivacious galz. You know... the girls that know what they want.

                                                                                              and arent afraid to tell you how to sex em up

                                                                                              Hey is it just me or do chubby girls give the best BJ's?
                                                                                              Hard to say, if they lean on you wrong your shit gets numb and they could be gnawing that thing like a corn cob.
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                                                                                              • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                                Now with more Jayne
                                                                                                • Dec 2002
                                                                                                • 40077

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by jimmy-3-way


                                                                                                Awww yeah.

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                                                                                                • epitome
                                                                                                  So Fucking Lame
                                                                                                  • Jun 2009
                                                                                                  • 12156

                                                                                                  #49
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                                                                                                  • Vendzilla
                                                                                                    Biker Gnome
                                                                                                    • Mar 2004
                                                                                                    • 23200

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by Sarah_Fleshlight

                                                                                                    I hope your GF is enjoying having you back from the road
                                                                                                    Yeah, she was going a little nuts me not being there. She said next time she's going with me, LOL
                                                                                                    Carbon is not the problem, it makes up 0.041% of our atmosphere , 95% of that is from Volcanos and decomposing plants and stuff. So people in the US are responsible for 13% of the carbon in the atmosphere which 95% is not from Humans, like cars and trucks and stuff and they want to spend trillions to fix it while Solar Panel plants are powered by coal plants
                                                                                                    think about that

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