Shap: "Solidarity is nice in theory but this industry has proven time and time again it can not stand together. The best advice I can give you is to do what is best for you with both your short term and long term goals in mind."
"I try to make a habit of bouncing my eyes up to the face of a beautiful woman, and often repeat “not mine” in my head or even verbally. She’s not mine. God has her set aside. She’s not mine. She’s His little girl, and she needs me to fight for her by keeping my eyes where they should be."
Shocking when your own mother puts you off women for life
You should start by hiding all of your butt plugs.
hmmm... Actually hes the only one of my boys who would go out shopping and lunch with me. of course I had to buy him lots of stuff to hang out with me...
BTW i found out about this from MY mother who stalks my kids facebooks pages and discovered he changed his status... to "in a relationship with matthew".
I dont do facebook... my relatives might find me lol....
no. we've supected it for awhile. Just weird he came out. He's living away from home now. his dad won't be thrilled... but he cant say much now if he's on his own.
And yes he's a very good looking kid. He's my son.
Sorry for the good-looking part I know that makes u feel inferrior and thus u must lash out at us. would it make u feel better if I told u just farted and it smelled bad???
What do you say or not say. Im not homophobic. I just dont know what to say.
Sabby
I would say exactly that. I have tons of gay friends and i have diescussed this several times. The worst thing to do is ignore it. You don't go to pickup joints or strip clubs with a straight kid and you won't be expected to do it with your gay son but let him know that you are ok with it.
If I had a son and he told me he was gay I would totally support him and still love him every bit as much................
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....as long as he always tried to cover up the real "him" by living a lie his entire life in a sham marriage, having children with her, and only engaging in gay sex with young college age escorts while away on business trips.
BTW i found out about this from MY mother who stalks my kids facebooks pages and discovered he changed his status... to "in a relationship with matthew".
I dont do facebook... my relatives might find me lol....
Sabby
Poor guy. My brother told my mother. In the end I think it was easier that way but boy was I pissed off for a few years.
BTW you sure its just not a bromance? My boyfriends brother is 17 and is no doubt straight as an arrow but him and his friends do some stupid shit on Facebook for the reaction.
BTW i found out about this from MY mother who stalks my kids facebooks pages and discovered he changed his status... to "in a relationship with matthew".
I dont do facebook... my relatives might find me lol....
Sabby
That doesn't mean he's gay, he could just be pissing around with his friend.
ask him if he likes chocolate star fish and see what he says...
Tell him you still love him the same as if he were straight, and you will support him. Just make sure you don't act weird around him now otherwise he will be uncomfortable.
I am sure being in this industry you schooled him about STD's already.
It could be a prank if its on FB, even my 17 year old niece says she is married to her best friend but has a boyfriend.
hmmm... Actually hes the only one of my boys who would go out shopping and lunch with me. of course I had to buy him lots of stuff to hang out with me...
Sabby
That's terrible. I will hang out with you for free. ;)
Sorry for the good-looking part I know that makes u feel inferrior and thus u must lash out at us. would it make u feel better if I told u just farted and it smelled bad???
Start by telling him you love him and that will never change. Then stand by him throughout life and prove those words to be true. It may very well be a powerful shock and a incredibly emotional period for you. However, remember that he has had this within him for likely a long time. He has had to come to terms with it enough to tell you. That is courage that needs to be acknowledged.
I hope that your son as the most amazing of lives and that he reaps the inner joy that comes with being true to himself from such a young age.
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