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letitbe

01-31-2011 02:31 PM

Do My Own Thing

Counting the amount of drinks you have may be his way of reinforcing the idea he should not drink. I say go on and ignore it, if he is a good friend. If you are uncomfortable, then don't include your friend in events where there may be social drinking.

D Ghost

01-31-2011 02:33 PM

He's projecting his issues on to you. I drink around my friend who's been sober 8 years, and I've known him for 10. He's never mentioned how many drinks I've had, and doesn't look at my drinks like that.

Holly Lez!

01-31-2011 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Mutt (Post 17881402)

if you're drinking beer in front of him do the Homer Simpson 'mmmmm.........beeeeeeer' on him and lick the foam off your upper lip orgasmically

if you're drinking hard liquor make your gulp very exaggerated then let out a deep breath and say 'ahhhhhhh ....... that's the good stuff'

Wow that is quite the ass on Destiny Moody:thumbsup

The Heron

01-31-2011 03:17 PM

Fuck him, he's a quitter!

RycEric

01-31-2011 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Yo Adrian (Post 17881061)

Think it's okay or a douchy thing to do?

He's been sober for over 11 years and says it's cool.. but he's always looking at my drinks and keeps track of how much I've had. Kind of a buzz kill.

Why should he care if you kill yourself :1orglaugh

u-Bob

01-31-2011 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by datatank (Post 17881094)

He has been sober 11 years. Its not your fucking problem

there you go.

RycEric

01-31-2011 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by OldJeff (Post 17881645)

15 years here, and even better for me has been the number of people at different shows I have attended telling me how fucked up I was the night before. I don't even bother to tell them that they were the fucked up one :)

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:thumbsup

thickcash_amo

01-31-2011 04:11 PM

I am sure he can handle being around people that drink. In 11 years I am pretty sure he didn't get sober by living under a rock. I wouldn't suggest getting smashed and then trying to offer him a drink, but I am pretty sure he isn't "craving" to drink with you if you have one or two.

baddog

01-31-2011 04:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by datatank (Post 17881094)

He has been sober 11 years. Its not your fucking problem
Drink if you want to drink

Bingo. I have friends that are recovering alcoholics and none would dream of imposing their illness/weakness upon others.

WarChild

01-31-2011 04:51 PM

Kick him to the curb for being a quitter. Nobody likes a quitter.

GT-Omar

01-31-2011 05:04 PM

Society as a whole isn't going to stop it's behavior. Why should you.

Now if he tells you its uncomfortable for him to be around you when you are drinking, or that he doesn't like it. I agree don't, but if he hasn't said anything, don't stop your behavior either.

He's going to be confronted with this issue everyday for the rest of his sobriety. What you do or don't (aside from actually spiking is drink) do is peanuts in the grand scheme of things. At the end of the day he's in controls if he decides to drink or not, or to be around certain influences or not. 2 cents

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