Ok.here is my take on things.
first, the sites welivetogether.com is not banned.If you check
www.cumfiesta.com you will see the same thing.But looking at the serps , its quite obviously not banned.
What is happening here is that all nasty home page sites are exactly the same so that page more than likely is penalised.As for the related searches below, this is a feature they had a while back , that it looks like they have brought back for more testing.