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Originally Posted by Elli
of course. You're likely to be attracted to more than one person in this world. You need to make the decision to stick with what you're happy with or pursue the unknown. Of course, running from one person to the next is going to get tiring after a while.
An analogy:
You're happy driving your car. You see a red car the next day, maybe it's sportier. You decide to sell yours and buy that one. You're happy again. Then you see a blue car that's more luxurious. You sell yours and buy that one. You're happy. Then you see the newest concept car. It's SO COOL. You sell yours and buy it. You're happy. But are you happier now than you were with your first car? Or are you just tired and out of money?  |
Great post.
People these days all seem to have the idiotic idea that when you really love someone, you can't get a crush on someone else. So, when they inevitably start having feelings for someone else, they move on, like alcoholics unable to resist the drink in front of them.
No matter what relationship you are in, you will almost certainly fall in love with someone else at one point or another. That doesn't mean your current relationship is a bad one, nor does it mean that you will find "real" happiness with the other person. It just means you're human, and will therefore be attracted to different people during your lifetime. However, being human also gives you the option to resist temporary temptations, and make rational decisions rather than following your animal instincts.