Hey girl, I don't know the WHOLE situation here... but from reading your posts I've got to say I can relate with a bunch of what you are going through.
The most important thing, as BVF said (which I never usually agree with much that he says on here) is that if they want out, they want out. He might not have a clear reason so he's grasping at reasons whether it be stress, the neighbors, being hassled with the fence, you nagging, etc.
If it's true long lasting love, those things would not be the reasons. Those things are a part of life and it's how you deal with them.
I just hope you can keep your integrity intact enough to stand your ground and do what YOU want to do. If you want to give up your sites cuz the hassles that have come with it are too much, then go ahead. But don't do it because it stresses him out. There's always going to be stress in life but in different ways. If it's not this, it will be something else. When you've exhausted all your avenues, YOU will be the one who is alone with nothing.
At least keep your horses for crying out loud. People hurt people. Animals don't.
If you ever want to talk seriously, hit me up anytime.
Don't fool yourself into believing that if you just gave up this or did that different, he'll be happy and you will live a life of smiley companionship. It won't happen. Fuck your neighbors. In 5 years, they'll be a memory. Your husband? I dunno what you're going to do but ask yourself if he's strong and reasonable enough to take on anything that comes your way. You've obviously been there for him but he needs to be there for you.
Brain tumor or not, you need to make sure YOU will be ok long term. Don't give up what you do UNTIL you have something else lined up. You never know how things will turn out.
Honey, I wish I had the available $$ to purchase this stuff at the moment. I wish you all the very best.
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Hey girl, I don't know the WHOLE situation here... but from reading your posts I've got to say I can relate with a bunch of what you are going through.
The most important thing, as BVF said (which I never usually agree with much that he says on here) is that if they want out, they want out. He might not have a clear reason so he's grasping at reasons whether it be stress, the neighbors, being hassled with the fence, you nagging, etc.
If it's true long lasting love, those things would not be the reasons. Those things are a part of life and it's how you deal with them.
I just hope you can keep your integrity intact enough to stand your ground and do what YOU want to do. If you want to give up your sites cuz the hassles that have come with it are too much, then go ahead. But don't do it because it stresses him out. There's always going to be stress in life but in different ways. If it's not this, it will be something else. When you've exhausted all your avenues, YOU will be the one who is alone with nothing.
At least keep your horses for crying out loud. People hurt people. Animals don't.
If you ever want to talk seriously, hit me up anytime.
Don't fool yourself into believing that if you just gave up this or did that different, he'll be happy and you will live a life of smiley companionship. It won't happen. Fuck your neighbors. In 5 years, they'll be a memory. Your husband? I dunno what you're going to do but ask yourself if he's strong and reasonable enough to take on anything that comes your way. You've obviously been there for him but he needs to be there for you.
Brain tumor or not, you need to make sure YOU will be ok long term. Don't give up what you do UNTIL you have something else lined up. You never know how things will turn out.
Sorry, rant over.
OH thank you so much. I really appreciate hearing from someone else who has been in a similar situation
I started the porn biz and horse biz without even discussing his opinion in the matter. I really did get over my head with the horses and I do need to sell atleast 3 of them for now. I have had too much bad luck with them..
He's stressing on money cause I never really worked the sites enough to make much. I just can't sit on the computer 16 hours a day.
I really need to get another career and learn to support myself without worrying about the neighbor lying to the feds about me
My husband is stressing out due to my horse business , our property and the harrassment of our two psycho neighbors. I due believe alot of it is his brain tumor but we won't know til he has his appt in a few months..He said he wants a divorce but will work things out since I offered sell my horse and porn business to help relieve his stress in life...
Since another sponsor posted my full name and that I bought content on the internet,we are now being harrassed even more by the psychos. These two women are pretty dense about the internet and would never comphrend that is business is legal by law.
I already had to take a retail job in October to get away from one of the neighbor's constant harassment at the fence...
Well, I am going to try to save the marriage. The irony is I am married to a man who will probably never make love to me again .
Please refrain from the nasty comments. This thread is not for attention or drama and quite frankly if I have to take a loss and just close up, I don't care...
I hope you get through all this hon, be strong and work out things with the hubby. Don't worry about these comments from stupid people. There are plenty of freaks out there.
I am working on them but he is not getting them for a few weeks until he comes back home and gives me his decision..
LOL
Well...I can't start on mine. As usual...even though it is law to have all 1099's mailed out by 31 January...I have not received 3 of them at this point.
When you're running down my country hoss...you're walking on the fighting side of me!
Well...I can't start on mine. As usual...even though it is law to have all 1099's mailed out by 31 January...I have not received 3 of them at this point.
I am in no hurry to give my hub about 6k cause I run a few businesses as tax write off for him
CAT scan showed no signs of a tumor. I have a partially collasped lung and heavy scaring in the same lung...so I cannot breathe as well anymore. Nothing can be done about it...so it is something I have to live with. When I was injured in '91 during the 1st Gulf War...the same lung was damaged...so I guess I am paying the residual...as I age. My back of course is...and always will be...a pain...to say the least. How is your back doing?
When you're running down my country hoss...you're walking on the fighting side of me!
CAT scan showed no signs of a tumor. I have a partially collasped lung and heavy scaring in the same lung...so I cannot breathe as well anymore. Nothing can be done about it...so it is something I have to live with. When I was injured in '91 during the 1st Gulf War...the same lung was damaged...so I guess I am paying the residual...as I age. My back of course is...and always will be...a pain...to say the least. How is your back doing?
My damage is in my neck..It's getting stiffer. I am thinking a cat scan since my aunt I take after died of lymphoma of the neck..
I think I need to get my physical before he dumps me for his music ..
Again, I wish you the best Honey. You've been given some excellent advice. It's time to take YOURSELF into consideration and think with your head, not your heart. If your head and your heart somehow come up with the same answer, then do it.
The "new management" idea is a great one. No need to stop, just let someone else handle the hard parts.
I hope everything works out well for you.
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Again, I wish you the best Honey. You've been given some excellent advice. It's time to take YOURSELF into consideration and think with your head, not your heart. If your head and your heart somehow come up with the same answer, then do it.
The "new management" idea is a great one. No need to stop, just let someone else handle the hard parts.
I hope everything works out well for you.
I can't sleep and I was thinking.. You are so right. .
He would not even pay for a fucking countersuit restraining order against the psycho neighbor but he is paying for 3 weeks at someone's house to live and think it out..
Honestly, I don't want to be in the biz anymore. I have been slacking for way over a year...
To the last few icq requests. I will be around tomorrow evening...
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