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  • Taboo
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    • Jul 2004
    • 3700

    #51
    DAAAYYYYYUUUMMMMN!!!!!!!!!

    51 already?

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    • DarkJedi
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      • Feb 2001
      • 28301

      #52
      Simple: there are no ******s where I live.

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      • Kimmykim
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        • Jun 2001
        • 16015

        #53
        Originally posted by Irish Pimp
        your walking by someone who objectifies a woman that you
        care about and love, or she might just be your companion
        for the evening. your reaction in the situation is important.
        its important that you do not further objectify her. reacting
        based on your insecurities, versus acting with respect for her,
        is objecting her once again. she is not an object that belongs
        to you. ask her how she feels about the situation, how
        she wanted to react, and what role she wants you to play.

        that is respecting her, because making it about you, is turning
        her into a possession instead of a partner.
        You've got a lucky girlfriend.

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        • SykkBoy2
          Jesus loves bacon
          • Feb 2001
          • 19969

          #54
          doesn't bother me at all
          I'm not insecure enough to make it a problem...

          was he "DAYYUM" because she's ugly or because she's hot? and why does anyone OWE you respect? respect is something that is earned...and hardly something to seek out from strangers....
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          • galleryseek
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            • Mar 2002
            • 8234

            #55
            Originally posted by SykkBoy2
            doesn't bother me at all
            I'm not insecure enough to make it a problem...

            was he "DAYYUM" because she's ugly or because she's hot? and why does anyone OWE you respect? respect is something that is earned...and hardly something to seek out from strangers....
            oh man horrible logic.

            1. it has nothing to do with insecurity.

            2. it is common sense, common knowledge, that you don't make blatant PASSES at a woman who has a GUY WITH HER. decent people respect others by not doing obviously rude, immature, annoying SHIT like that.

            if you can't see that, you have issues - and in my particular situation it was because she's attractive.

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            • Taboo
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              • Jul 2004
              • 3700

              #56
              this thread has some of the funniest responses...

              SHANK HIM
              STAB HIM
              PUNCH HIM
              SHOOT HIM
              etc...

              LOL. and the one about taking the time to ask your girl what she thinks about it. LOL.

              people... relax. the person making cat calls is a moron. laugh it off.

              the only time to start worrying is when he makes a catcall and shouts out her name.

              and yes that happened to me. took a girlfriend clubbing, then went to play pool/breakfast afterwards and as soon as we walked thru the door two pool tables full of drunk guys (10+) starting yelling out her name. chanting it... (well, actually her stage name. LOL) she was horrified so we left right away. That's what happens when you date or live with a dancer...

              ...funniest part is she asked me why I didn't defend her "honor"... I was like "WTF? Do you think I'm going to grab some cues and beat them up? Who am I, Jackie Chan?"

              .

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              • Taboo
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                • Jul 2004
                • 3700

                #57
                Originally posted by SykkBoy2

                was he "DAYYUM" because she's ugly or because she's hot?
                good point!

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                • SexyScribe
                  Confirmed User
                  • Oct 2003
                  • 211

                  #58
                  Originally posted by Irish Pimp
                  your walking by someone who objectifies a woman that you
                  care about and love, or she might just be your companion
                  for the evening. your reaction in the situation is important.
                  its important that you do not further objectify her. reacting
                  based on your insecurities, versus acting with respect for her,
                  is objecting her once again. she is not an object that belongs
                  to you. ask her how she feels about the situation, how
                  she wanted to react, and what role she wants you to play.

                  that is respecting her, because making it about you, is turning
                  her into a possession instead of a partner.

                  well said!


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                  • Martin
                    "Assassins"
                    • Dec 2001
                    • 17274

                    #59
                    Fuck that. Crack his head open and sasy hey baby I'd kill for you.. Her panites will get wet for sure. :P

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                    • galleryseek
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                      • Mar 2002
                      • 8234

                      #60
                      Originally posted by Taboo
                      this thread has some of the funniest responses...

                      SHANK HIM
                      STAB HIM
                      PUNCH HIM
                      SHOOT HIM
                      etc...

                      LOL. and the one about taking the time to ask your girl what she thinks about it. LOL.

                      people... relax. the person making cat calls is a moron. laugh it off.

                      the only time to start worrying is when he makes a catcall and shouts out her name.

                      and yes that happened to me. took a girlfriend clubbing, then went to play pool/breakfast afterwards and as soon as we walked thru the door two pool tables full of drunk guys (10+) starting yelling out her name. chanting it... (well, actually her stage name. LOL) she was horrified so we left right away. That's what happens when you date or live with a dancer...

                      ...funniest part is she asked me why I didn't defend her "honor"... I was like "WTF? Do you think I'm going to grab some cues and beat them up? Who am I, Jackie Chan?"

                      .
                      lol funny stuff. i'll be expecting a response soon btw.

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                      • Nismo
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                        • May 2002
                        • 4977

                        #61
                        I just say back to them "..And I get to tap this every night"
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                        • DarkJedi
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                          • Feb 2001
                          • 28301

                          #62
                          Everyone who voted for stabbing/cracking heads open etc. are 13 y/o virgins.
                          Or just keyboard warriors.

                          If you wouldn't have gotten your ass beat, you'd get fucked in the ass in prison.

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                          • CrazyNakedChick
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                            • Mar 2002
                            • 1902

                            #63
                            rereading: some of ya'll have some seriously assed up relationships, hahah.
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                            • Pornwolf
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                              • Jan 2002
                              • 22712

                              #64
                              I dunno Galleryseek, I've never gotten it on the disrespectful level but I do know what you are saying. All I can suggest is finding some M1T and doubling your whey intake. ;)
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                              • sweetME
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                                • Nov 2004
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                                #65
                                Confidence is a problem solver. If you know what I mean.


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                                • Martin
                                  "Assassins"
                                  • Dec 2001
                                  • 17274

                                  #66
                                  Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                  Everyone who voted for stabbing/cracking heads open etc. are 13 y/o virgins.
                                  Or just keyboard warriors.

                                  If you wouldn't have gotten your ass beat, you'd get fucked in the ass in prison.
                                  Dude stfu it's just jokes.

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                                  • Meloman
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • Jul 2001
                                    • 1540

                                    #67
                                    I'm only 5'5. My ex is 5'9, mixed and very attractive (stripper).

                                    Black guys totally LOVE her. The cat calls she gets with me can be down right rude simply cause I'm so much shorter.

                                    I've had guys straight up say super loud as they are walking by "Daaaayum girl, you need to drop the short fella".

                                    I just give them a dirty look and keep walking and do basiclaly what Loryn said (grab her ass or just stop and give her a long passionate kiss).

                                    The best is when they come up and actually ask what she's doing with me and she replies "He's got a big dick" or something to simply throw it back at them.

                                    It bugs the shit out of me when that happens...but seriously I would be going to jail DAILY if I actually let it get to me. So I just play it off like no big deal.

                                    In the end I'm the one going home with her and they're just jealous.

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                                    • galleryseek
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                                      • Mar 2002
                                      • 8234

                                      #68
                                      Originally posted by Meloman
                                      I'm only 5'5. My ex is 5'9, mixed and very attractive (stripper).

                                      Black guys totally LOVE her. The cat calls she gets with me can be down right rude simply cause I'm so much shorter.

                                      I've had guys straight up say super loud as they are walking by "Daaaayum girl, you need to drop the short fella".

                                      I just give them a dirty look and keep walking and do basiclaly what Loryn said (grab her ass or just stop and give her a long passionate kiss).

                                      The best is when they come up and actually ask what she's doing with me and she replies "He's got a big dick" or something to simply throw it back at them.

                                      It bugs the shit out of me when that happens...but seriously I would be going to jail DAILY if I actually let it get to me. So I just play it off like no big deal.

                                      In the end I'm the one going home with her and they're just jealous.

                                      LOL. that'd be a bitch. i feel for you.

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                                      • Meloman
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                                        • Jul 2001
                                        • 1540

                                        #69
                                        I've actually found being confident and NOT letting it get to me turns her on more.

                                        Women ALWAYS find confidence attractive so I just play that route instead.

                                        But I'm Sicilian so of course I would "rather" beat there skull

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                                        • Mr Pheer
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                                          • Dec 2002
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                                          #70
                                          Originally posted by sweetME
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                                          • italianninja
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                                            • Feb 2004
                                            • 564

                                            #71
                                            id kick his ass

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                                            • zentz
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                                              • Nov 2003
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                                              #72
                                              i would be happy that my girl is attractive
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                                              • MikeVega
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                                                • Jul 2004
                                                • 12788

                                                #73
                                                Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
                                                If any man walking with me ever reacted like a hoodlum and hit anyone for that, I would wait until we got home and I would knock his ass out and tell him to hit the curb. If you have to hit someone for cat calling your girlfriend then I think you need to think about your relationship with your girlfriend. Maybe you don't trust her as much as you think!!!

                                                I want to be with an adult who is a gentlemen with class. Turning around and saying something funny and/or acknowledging his cat call with a smile, then kissing me or grabbing my ass and winking at him, or anything like that, would be funny and would make the situation light. Also he would turn it around and gain control of the situation and come out on top. Mentally telling someone to fuck off without saying the words fuck off, and having a smile as you do it, is classy and funny. Nine times out of ten the dumbass that makes cat calls at a girl who is with her man has a child mentality, so they usually don't get the fact that they have been told to fuck off until after the guy and girl have left. Then they really feel stupid and immature. Much deeper effect that way!!!

                                                I agree ...he would have to say a lot more then "DAAAYYYYYUUUMMMMN!" ... I would most likely do something along the line of .... that's right lucky me ... if he said something vulgar them i my have to knock some out ...


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                                                • beemk
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                                                  • Jan 2002
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                                                  #74
                                                  Originally posted by Taboo
                                                  "Sorry man, I'm not into that... I like girls..."
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                                                  • wargames
                                                    Kliris
                                                    • May 2003
                                                    • 10423

                                                    #75
                                                    Originally posted by Taboo
                                                    usually my girlfriend gives them the finger... or I tell them:

                                                    "Sorry man, I'm not into that... I like girls..."

                                                    and then we walk away.

                                                    This would be a very effective reaction.
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                                                    • maddox
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                                                      • Jan 2004
                                                      • 648

                                                      #76
                                                      I would most likely said fuck you to the guy, because I dont like such a rude and inappropriate behaviour

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                                                      • mrthumbs
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                                                        • Apr 2002
                                                        • 11702

                                                        #77
                                                        im scared she will notice it and run off with him

                                                        im a very insecure person.

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                                                        • Kevsh
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                                                          • Dec 2004
                                                          • 8619

                                                          #78
                                                          When i was in Istanbul last year with my gf it was ridiculous - she stood out because a) she's beautiful (I'm not bragging, she's the one that's beautiful!) and b) in Turkey they are still very Muslim-like in their culture. Most women don't walk around in anything close to revealing clothes - and you don't see many women walking the street, period.

                                                          The attention got too much: Guys would stop and start talking to each other in Turkish sizing her up, walking up to her, etc. etc. I literally could not leave her side for 10 seconds. Seriously.

                                                          If I had confronted every one of them I would have spent the trip in a Turkish prison (Midnight Express anyone?). In a foreign country like that, it was smartest to just walk away and ignore (after a dirty, don't-fuck-with-me look).

                                                          Here at home, it's a different story. I'd make sure he knows he can't disrespect me like that ... Toronto jails are like country clubs anyhow

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                                                          • buddyjuf

                                                            #79
                                                            turn around and smile...

                                                            "thank you, but what are you? 12?" ;)

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                                                            • Stamen
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                                                              • Aug 2004
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                                                              #80
                                                              That happens alot with me and my girlfriend, I don't say anything, occasionally I'll grin, but as soon as we are out of earshot I'll start laughing. My girlfriend is fairly oblivious to that shit and half the time she doesn't even realize what happened. When she does figure it out, I just let her handle herself, because she has a sharp wit about that stuff, plus she knows that if it's ever getting out of hand she just needs to give me the sign and I'll find an excuse to get her out of it.

                                                              But people who would throw down for something like that.... I dunno, maybe you should take life less seriously.
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                                                              • IwantU Bryan
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                                                                • Jan 2005
                                                                • 1764

                                                                #81
                                                                Personally, I would just grab my girl and give har a big ass kiss infront of the guy, just so he can see what he will never have
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                                                                • Jerms
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                                                                  • May 2004
                                                                  • 110

                                                                  #82
                                                                  Originally posted by Pornwolf
                                                                  What's wrong with you guys? Everytime that happens to me I just look at them with a sly smirk like, "Yep, this is my chick. She's a bad motherfucker and I know it. Life sucks for you doesn't it."

                                                                  I love it. That's a perk of dating hot women. Enjoy it. If you had an ugly women, which some of you do, you get an opposite reaction like grimaces on other people's faces and stuff. What do you do then?

                                                                  I couldn't agree with you more. That's the way I have always seen it too.

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                                                                  • Jayo
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                                                                    • Jan 2005
                                                                    • 854

                                                                    #83
                                                                    Originally posted by galleryseek
                                                                    who turns around and loudly says "DAAAYYYYYUUUMMMMN!" very noticably as you just walk past them?

                                                                    Does it (or would it) make you angry? or would it not bother you in the slightest and/or make you feel proud?



                                                                    Personally, I can't fucking stand that shit - keep your fucking comments to yourself.
                                                                    Haha, that shit makes me laugh cuz those dudes aint got no game. The only thing they can say is "dayumm" and they cant do more than that. No game whatsoever
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                                                                    • jonesy
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                                                                      • Jan 2003
                                                                      • 6688

                                                                      #84
                                                                      RESPECT - some people dont pratice it and need to have in re-installed by a foot up the ass.
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                                                                      • moneybiz
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                                                                        • Sep 2004
                                                                        • 1391

                                                                        #85
                                                                        who cares, lifes a party. You are the one fucking here every nite not them.

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                                                                        • Anthony
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                                                                          • Feb 2001
                                                                          • 9653

                                                                          #86
                                                                          I'd say, "werd, you like that ass, I tap tha shit outta it every night".

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                                                                          • galleryseek
                                                                            Confirmed User
                                                                            • Mar 2002
                                                                            • 8234

                                                                            #87
                                                                            Originally posted by Anthony
                                                                            I'd say, "werd, you like that ass, I tap tha shit outta it every night".
                                                                            i sure hope you're black and not some whitey talking like that.

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                                                                            • Doctor Hung
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                                                                              • Jan 2005
                                                                              • 211

                                                                              #88
                                                                              Originally posted by galleryseek
                                                                              who turns around and loudly says "DAAAYYYYYUUUMMMMN!" very noticably as you just walk past them?

                                                                              Does it (or would it) make you angry? or would it not bother you in the slightest and/or make you feel proud?



                                                                              Personally, I can't fucking stand that shit - keep your fucking comments to yourself.
                                                                              I would give him the thumgs up then put my hand on my girls ass as i walk away or say, lovely is'nt she and keep walking with hands on ass. I always do those two and the girl usually loves it. Dont say anything because it just shows that you are just as ignorant as the fuck who opened his mouth

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                                                                              • sweetME
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                                                                                • Nov 2004
                                                                                • 3162

                                                                                #89
                                                                                Originally posted by Anthony
                                                                                I'd say, "werd, you like that ass, I tap tha shit outta it every night".


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                                                                                • Doctor Hung
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                                                                                  • Jan 2005
                                                                                  • 211

                                                                                  #90
                                                                                  Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                                                                  Simple: there are no ******s where I live.
                                                                                  there probally is no girls to.

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                                                                                  • evanmorgan
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                                                                                    • Aug 2004
                                                                                    • 2490

                                                                                    #91
                                                                                    Originally posted by Harmon
                                                                                    I would stop and turn around and stare the fucker down. If he stopped I'd say YOU GOT HEAT BITCH? If he approached me I'd smash my fist so far through to the back of his fuckin head, he would be tasting the cheese from under my finger nails for a month


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                                                                                    • OzMan
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                                                                                      • Sep 2003
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                                                                                      #92
                                                                                      Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
                                                                                      If any man walking with me ever reacted like a hoodlum and hit anyone for that, I would wait until we got home and I would knock his ass out and tell him to hit the curb. If you have to hit someone for cat calling your girlfriend then I think you need to think about your relationship with your girlfriend. Maybe you don't trust her as much as you think!!!

                                                                                      I want to be with an adult who is a gentlemen with class. Turning around and saying something funny and/or acknowledging his cat call with a smile, then kissing me or grabbing my ass and winking at him, or anything like that, would be funny and would make the situation light. Also he would turn it around and gain control of the situation and come out on top. Mentally telling someone to fuck off without saying the words fuck off, and having a smile as you do it, is classy and funny. Nine times out of ten the dumbass that makes cat calls at a girl who is with her man has a child mentality, so they usually don't get the fact that they have been told to fuck off until after the guy and girl have left. Then they really feel stupid and immature. Much deeper effect that way!!!
                                                                                      Very well said but for me it's very hard to do.

                                                                                      It has happened three or four times to me. Since I am 6'5" and ~ 240lbs I have to assume the person is drunk and/or stupid and try to let it pass.

                                                                                      The thing that stops me reacting violently is the thought of ending up in jail and not being able to take care of my family.

                                                                                      One of my Brazillian friends was at an outdoor cafe in Brazil and a drunk guy at the table next to him began calling out to a couple walking by that he wanted to fuck the girl etc etc. The guy just smiled and they walked on.

                                                                                      Fifteen minutes later the guy came back by himself and according to my friend had a machete and put a two foot wide slash in the guys stomach and walked off. The guy bled to death on the sidewalk.

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                                                                                      • robfantasy
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                                                                                        • Jun 2002
                                                                                        • 6445

                                                                                        #93
                                                                                        I SAY......... YAAAAA MUTHERFUCKER IM THE ONE HITTIN THAT ASS BITCHHHHHHHHHHHHH !!! WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT THE FUCK YOU LOOKIN AT BiTCH!
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                                                                                        • Screaming
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                                                                                          • Feb 2004
                                                                                          • 18972

                                                                                          #94
                                                                                          well at that point two options but i would choose just ignoring

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