Originally posted by Abyss_Vee
Should I KILL My Dad or Break Up With My BLACK GF?
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Damn... Would you divorce with your wife, or dump your girlfriend if your dad asked it to do so ? I know I wouldn't, don't think parents have anything to say about what you feel for someone else or something else...doesn't matter...how many of you, would have quit the industry if your dad asked you to do it ??
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i have alot of respect for my dad, i know he wouldnt make me divorce my wife or break up with a girl if there was no reason. But i also understand why maxdaname's dad doesnt want him to be with the black chick, im armenian too and we are very family oriented, alot of gatherings and concerts and whatnot, maxdaname's dad is thinking of him, so he doesnt have to keep himself back from enjoying those things cause his gf or wife doesnt want to go cause she feels out of place..Originally posted by Oncle_BennyDamn... Would you divorce with your wife, or dump your girlfriend if your dad asked it to do so ? I know I wouldn't, don't think parents have anything to say about what you feel for someone else or something else...doesn't matter...how many of you, would have quit the industry if your dad asked you to do it ??
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I don't underestimate GFY at all. The surfer to webmaster ratio is insane over the past couple of years. Asking for advice on your love life here is like asking Oprah about weight loss.Originally posted by maxdanameI've knowned her for a couple of years, we've only been going out for 5 months.
I asked a couple people, but can you really ask relationship tips to a 20 year old? You underestimate GFY, they're a lot of smart people in here. (You can't really run a business well if you're a dummy, right?)
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Do what makes you happy. You're the only person that can make the choice. My guess is that your father will, given time, come to accept the situation, especially if you love the girl. My son does things that I don't always agree with, but when he gets older, he's going to have to make his own mistakes or find his own happiness, especially in love. I can only hope I like the girls he brings home (especially if it's serious) but unless the girl is some kind of dope addict or other really serious loser, I'd keep my mouth shut and stay close to my son, whether I liked her or not.
And I wouldn't be so shortsighted and foolish as to pick skin color for the reason I didn't like her.Comment
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I'm Italian and for the most part the Sicilian heritage has been most apparent with the 'family-oriented' laws and what not. When I was a kid, I'd hear my dad laugh at them (the Sicilian side - he was from Central Italy and way more worldly) at the sound of racism. He'd remind them that their 'people' were made up of Arabs, Greeks and Africans - judging any other race would be like judging their forefathers.
If two people want to be together, whatever their color or religion, if they love eachother, they will respect and honor the other's beliefs and 'family traditions'. I doubt people marry blindly these days - simply because when you marry someone you are, to a certain extent, marrying their family.
I know of someone who listened to his 'mother' who didn't want him to marry a French-Canadian girl (caucasian) and he didn't, he married into the 'culture' she wanted and within 2 years, he was having an affair with the French-Canadian again and he ended up leaving the wife to get with his girlfriend.
Forbidden fruit seems much sweeter. If you don't forbid it and let nature take its course, you realize that the outcome may not be what you were fearing and making such a big stink for in the first place. If things work out the way you 'didn't want it to work out' - well, then be a bigger person and respect the person as the one your loved one loves. If they are willing to be part of the family, why all the hate?Comment
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wtf the fuck are you talking about? Marrying the family....Screw the family, they will either stand by you or not. If not, fuck em'.Originally posted by TopBucksTrixxxiaI'm Italian and for the most part the Sicilian heritage has been most apparent with the 'family-oriented' laws and what not. When I was a kid, I'd hear my dad laugh at them (the Sicilian side - he was from Central Italy and way more worldly) at the sound of racism. He'd remind them that their 'people' were made up of Arabs, Greeks and Africans - judging any other race would be like judging their forefathers.
If two people want to be together, whatever their color or religion, if they love eachother, they will respect and honor the other's beliefs and 'family traditions'. I doubt people marry blindly these days - simply because when you marry someone you are, to a certain extent, marrying their family.
I know of someone who listened to his 'mother' who didn't want him to marry a French-Canadian girl (caucasian) and he didn't, he married into the 'culture' she wanted and within 2 years, he was having an affair with the French-Canadian again and he ended up leaving the wife to get with his girlfriend.
Forbidden fruit seems much sweeter. If you don't forbid it and let nature take its course, you realize that the outcome may not be what you were fearing and making such a big stink for in the first place. If things work out the way you 'didn't want it to work out' - well, then be a bigger person and respect the person as the one your loved one loves. If they are willing to be part of the family, why all the hate?
and dude....tell your dad to shut the fuck up, b/c he is a dumbass. Is he going to give you pussy?
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This is America we're supposed to be mixing. IMHO it's one of the things that is beautiful about this country.
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It's your life and your decision. We can't advise you smth on this. Do what you feel is right and gud luck!Comment
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if you listen to your dad, you will end up like him.....Originally posted by MickeyGlisten to your dad. One day you will wish you did.Comment
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ARMENIANOriginally posted by Mystery ManThe american race? LOL what the fuck is your dad talking about? Seriously! Americans are one of the most if not the most mixed together community of all people in this world.
And ohh yeah kill you father... he sounds like a racist fuck.Comment
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Originally posted by Veterans DayYa forget your dad then when your bitch dumps your ass, you have lost your dad and your girlfriend. Lose the broad, family is forever
That can work both ways. Family is over rated.Comment
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I agree that family is blood. But I would not want to have bad blood cause of a racist Dad.Originally posted by BradMI agree with Veterans.
While your dad's comments may be ignorant... shit there is a 50%+ divorce rate. Your family is blood, it's forever.
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he said armenianOriginally posted by Mystery ManThe american race? LOL what the fuck is your dad talking about? Seriously! Americans are one of the most if not the most mixed together community of all people in this world.
And ohh yeah kill you father... he sounds like a racist fuck.
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Is your dad the grand dragon or the imperial wizzard of the Ku Klux Klan?Comment
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Originally posted by Soul_Rebelmaxdaname, what's up bro? I haven't seen your father at stormfront for some time now :/
We miss him.
good one !
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It's funny, most of you say that men who would like their people and culture to continue to exist are ignorant and should die. What are they ignorant of exactly? Are they ignorant for not being a member of the Church of Multiculturalism? How so? Are they ignorant of your own opinions any more than you are of theirs? Or perhaps ignorant of "how nice" black people are, as if that was ever an issue in this thread or in these situations in general?
In any case, being ignorant, meaning lacking knowledge to a more severe degree than most others, is a label being thrown all too easily on people who simply have a different opinion. Isn't this in itself ignorance, ignorance of basic argumentation? The calls for lynching could certainly help to further fortify that conclusion. But you be the judge.Last edited by Repetitive Monkey; 02-08-2005, 05:18 PM.Comment
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I'm sort of confused on the whole "I'm only 20" thing. When I was "only 20" I had been living on my own and fully supporting myself for a couple of years at that point, as had most of my friends at that age. I gotta agree with some of the others here and say "Grow the fuck up!" Get your ass out of the house and quit letting Daddy support you, then you can do whatever the fuck you want, whenever you want, with whomever you want! Until then, if you want to continue living under Daddy's roof and off of his dime, you gotta obey his rules.See what's new at
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I love this thread, honestly. A bunch of retards telling his Dad off. Have you ever noticed though, that Hollywood and TV land has had quite a number of times Black people telling their children that they should find a nice Black man to keep things going. Hell, not long ago Dr. Phil did a whole thing on this and not one of the White people in audience cared at all when the Black people on stage said that they didn't think them or their family should date White people because it is disrespecting their culture and so on and so forth. Hell, that is totally accepted.
Now we have a situation where White American's are indeed on their way towards minority status within the nation they built (even in traditional homelands in Europe this is the case) but when Whitey dare says that their children should attempt to find someone closer to their own culture to keep it going a bunch of sheep (like those on GFY) shout, bitch and moan. If you like the girl a lot I guess there is nothing you can do, but at the same time there is nothing at all wrong with your father is saying as it is a perfectly valid opinion no matter if you are Black or White.Comment
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Well if family is forever then he can keep dating the girl, no?Originally posted by Veterans DayYa forget your dad then when your bitch dumps your ass, you have lost your dad and your girlfriend. Lose the broad, family is foreverComment
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you are one stupid mother fucker. You actually took the time to write out that racist shit. Hit the road Jack and dont come back no more, no more no more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Originally posted by Odin88I love this thread, honestly. A bunch of retards telling his Dad off. Have you ever noticed though, that Hollywood and TV land has had quite a number of times Black people telling their children that they should find a nice Black man to keep things going. Hell, not long ago Dr. Phil did a whole thing on this and not one of the White people in audience cared at all when the Black people on stage said that they didn't think them or their family should date White people because it is disrespecting their culture and so on and so forth. Hell, that is totally accepted.
Now we have a situation where White American's are indeed on their way towards minority status within the nation they built (even in traditional homelands in Europe this is the case) but when Whitey dare says that their children should attempt to find someone closer to their own culture to keep it going a bunch of sheep (like those on GFY) shout, bitch and moan. If you like the girl a lot I guess there is nothing you can do, but at the same time there is nothing at all wrong with your father is saying as it is a perfectly valid opinion no matter if you are Black or White.Last edited by Undisputed1; 02-08-2005, 06:28 PM.Comment
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Yeah, I am almost 20 and I been on my own for 2 yrs now....Originally posted by MissyI'm sort of confused on the whole "I'm only 20" thing. When I was "only 20" I had been living on my own and fully supporting myself for a couple of years at that point, as had most of my friends at that age. I gotta agree with some of the others here and say "Grow the fuck up!" Get your ass out of the house and quit letting Daddy support you, then you can do whatever the fuck you want, whenever you want, with whomever you want! Until then, if you want to continue living under Daddy's roof and off of his dime, you gotta obey his rules.
Get out the house man, seriouslyComment
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But if you had the financial statability... Time to live on your own, and ignore your daddy.Comment
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If you can't argue for your wild claims, and only throw insults, then you are worthless to this or any discussion. And I think that some of your peers in opinion would agree with this.Originally posted by Undisputed1you are one stupid mother fucker. You actually took the time to write out that racist shit. Hit the road Jack and dont come back no more, no more no more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Comment
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btw, it took me all of 2 minutes to write. I guess it takes a bit longer for simpletons to string a few words together though.Originally posted by Undisputed1you are one stupid mother fucker. You actually took the time to write out that racist shit. Hit the road Jack and dont come back no more, no more no more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Comment
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Armenian people have been raped by negros many times in the past. There is no clean blood there. The reason your father had black hair and brown eyes is because his ancestors were nigggers. That's all.
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then you are a smart racist fuck? I C......Originally posted by Odin88btw, it took me all of 2 minutes to write. I guess it takes a bit longer for simpletons to string a few words together though.Comment
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racist: get your heads out your asses, and put what you usually have in it....a hard cock.Last edited by Undisputed1; 02-08-2005, 07:06 PM.Comment
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You aren't being a very imaginative troll. :food-smilOriginally posted by Undisputed1racist: get your heads out your asses, and put what you usually have in it....a hard cock.Comment
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I wouldnt waste my time any further than I am nowOriginally posted by Repetitive MonkeyYou aren't being a very imaginative troll. :food-smil
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Run chicken, run !!!Originally posted by Odin88Now we have a situation where White American's are indeed on their way towards minority status within the nation they built ....
If you drop your black and white glasses, you should be able to see what this thread is about. It's not about race, it's about you standing up for yourself. If this guy drops his girl beacuse of what his father thinks, he's going to grow up to a spineless cocksmoker.Comment
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Go back to Armenia and find a nice, hairy, thickly set local girl.
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She may be a cousin. Even better.Originally posted by Kapitan Ivanov IIGo back to Armenia and find a nice, hairy, thickly set local girl.
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