The only thing a person ever has control over is their own reactions.
I never like when someone keeps going on about how someone "made them" mad, or that "makes me" upset etc. Sure it's common language and all that, but there comes a time when enough is enough. What do you have left to say to someone like that after you've heard it a million times? "Oh well, dont worry about it" blah blah blah. "Mature a bit more and you'll be fine" is not exactly easy to tell people who are adult in age, lol.
You know, theres something to be said for phrases like If you dont have anything good to say, dont say anything at all. Some of us are sick of hearing you complain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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