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Originally Posted by Belinda
It is not a contest to see who can have sex with the most people... we are just allowing each other to be human and we all have sexual needs that maybe the other person can't fill all the way. If someone catches our eye and the other is ok with it then we just let it happen. We don't have to stay even.
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This is a good way to put it.
Here's my opinion on that matter: when I was married I cheated on my ex a few times. Psychology was one of my favorite courses in college so I make a habit of analyzing myself to figure out why I do things I do. I didn't cheat on my ex-wife because I didn't love her. Nor did I want to leave her for anyone else. I just had certain things I felt I needed that she wasn't able to provide.
When Belinda and I got together I was of the opinion that we'd always allow each other to be human. We communicate well. We try not to let pride and ego stand in the way. If there's something she needs I can't provide, hell, I'll help her find it. And vice versa.