Thank-you all so much for all the support surrounding the un-expected death of Pat Friday night. I got the news she had hours to live and got here 1.5 hours before she passed and held her until she died.
She went in for pneumonia 30 days ago turned out to be cancer that spread to the lungs from the pancreas. The diagnosis of cancer was not known until 24 hours before she passed, we do not know if she even knew.
She loved so many of you, and many of you are the old timers...she came to the shows with me and developed many great friends she considered family.
I would have come forth sooner but I was a mess, and had many legal issues to deal with. It seems when there is a death all the assholes come out and only care about those things that have cash value. The estate was already "robbed" before I could get legal control but at least I got control over the remains.
Yes, she had life insurance, I took it out on her many years ago and she kept the policy up. Problem is, she changed the beneficiary who would not assign the policy to the funeral home and I was made to pay the bill. What can you do. So it has been a roller coaster of crap the last few days.
So just wanted to let you know, and today is my first day back at work.
God love you all for getting me thru this and sharing memories of how Pat touched your life. We had 16 years together, and may she rest in peace now.
She went in for pneumonia 30 days ago turned out to be cancer that spread to the lungs from the pancreas. The diagnosis of cancer was not known until 24 hours before she passed, we do not know if she even knew.
She loved so many of you, and many of you are the old timers...she came to the shows with me and developed many great friends she considered family.
I would have come forth sooner but I was a mess, and had many legal issues to deal with. It seems when there is a death all the assholes come out and only care about those things that have cash value. The estate was already "robbed" before I could get legal control but at least I got control over the remains.
Yes, she had life insurance, I took it out on her many years ago and she kept the policy up. Problem is, she changed the beneficiary who would not assign the policy to the funeral home and I was made to pay the bill. What can you do. So it has been a roller coaster of crap the last few days.
So just wanted to let you know, and today is my first day back at work.
God love you all for getting me thru this and sharing memories of how Pat touched your life. We had 16 years together, and may she rest in peace now.
LIZZIE 
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